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TSwaters
post Jan 21 2014, 03:32 PM, updated 8y ago

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Hi all,

My wife and I have been TTC for about 4 years. No luck. Early last year we went to TMC, tried IUI 3 times, all failed. Dr. Menon then recommended IVF. However, he left TMC at the end of 2013, so we're in a dilemma about where to go next.

I'm looking at SunFert, Metro IVF, Alpha and Sime Darby Subang (old SJMC).

Anyone have any info on any one of the above hospitals and their success rates.

Thanking you in advance!

Rgds,
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post Jan 25 2014, 01:21 AM

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andy low at glen e kl, have a quite high success rate, but the price is a bit expensive
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post Jan 25 2014, 08:38 AM

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You need to take care of your diet, both of you.
Eat more vegetable, less meat.

Sleep enough, drink less coffee.

You and your wife health must be good first.
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QUOTE(waters @ Jan 21 2014, 04:32 PM)
Hi all,

My wife and I have been TTC for about 4 years. No luck. Early last year we went to TMC, tried IUI 3 times, all failed. Dr. Menon then recommended IVF. However, he left TMC at the end of 2013, so we're in a dilemma about where to go next.

I'm looking at SunFert, Metro IVF, Alpha and Sime Darby Subang (old SJMC).

Anyone have any info on any one of the above hospitals and their success rates.

Thanking you in advance!

Rgds,
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best ivf doctor in TMC is Dr. Surinder..
he alone is responsible of 50% revenue of TMC IVf centre..

however .. with that reputation , it gets busy when u r trying to see him smile.gif


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QUOTE(waters @ Jan 21 2014, 03:32 PM)
Hi all,

My wife and I have been TTC for about 4 years. No luck. Early last year we went to TMC, tried IUI 3 times, all failed. Dr. Menon then recommended IVF. However, he left TMC at the end of 2013, so we're in a dilemma about where to go next.

I'm looking at SunFert, Metro IVF, Alpha and Sime Darby Subang (old SJMC).

Anyone have any info on any one of the above hospitals and their success rates.

Thanking you in advance!

Rgds,
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Hi sorry just saw your post..and I just dropped into the section looking for some tips and saw your thread

You could try Dato' Dr Prashant Nadkarni of KL fertility (In collaboration with Monash IVF). Me and my wife were successful under his care..

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post Feb 10 2014, 05:25 PM

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yup. my recommendation also goes to dato dr prashant of Kl fertility.

http://www.klfertility.com/dato-dr-prashant-nadkarni/

though he comes at a steep price.
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post Feb 11 2014, 07:10 AM

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Wow! Thanks for all the help people. We'll be starting our journey soon. Now trying to keep our spirits up, staying positive before we embark.

I'll keep you all updated.

Thanks again!
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post Feb 11 2014, 11:46 PM

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So u decided which to go?

And is it normally ivf process comes with twins? Is there gender selection through ivf?..
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post Feb 14 2014, 08:06 AM

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TTC is a stressful period. Both u n ur spouse need to Chillax n always think positive.

All the best to you.
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post Feb 19 2014, 02:37 PM

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Hi you can consider Sunfert, Dr Wong. My Husband & I started seeing Dr Wong on Nov 2011 and we are gifted a pair of twins on Sept 2012. smile.gif

QUOTE(waters @ Jan 21 2014, 03:32 PM)
Hi all,

My wife and I have been TTC for about 4 years. No luck. Early last year we went to TMC, tried IUI 3 times, all failed. Dr. Menon then recommended IVF. However, he left TMC at the end of 2013, so we're in a dilemma about where to go next.

I'm looking at SunFert, Metro IVF, Alpha and Sime Darby Subang (old SJMC).

Anyone have any info on any one of the above hospitals and their success rates.

Thanking you in advance!

Rgds,
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post Feb 21 2014, 03:33 PM

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Just sharing some experience, my wife and I did went for 2 rounds of IVF procedure, and still doing it now...
Round 1 : IVF at Sunfert under Dr Wong. Unsuccessful even with 3 Grade A embryos. Still have one frozen embryo there but wife decides not to go back there until we seek second opinion.
Round 2 : Now under Dr Helena Lim at KL Fertility and Dr Yuan at Xi Fertility (they work together). Dr Helena is very nice, and knows that there are much more than just blocked tubes in my wife's case, and together with Dr Yuan, prep my wife and me before even starting the IVF, ensuring the best chances of success (Dr Helena always say, "You must do your "homework" before starting IVF ya...") nod.gif . It took us 3 months to prep for it... and we are starting the IVF injections whenever my wife's second day arrives (anytime now).

Good luck in your journey TS. You can ping me if you want to know more about the whole process.

This post has been edited by Nitrous: Feb 21 2014, 03:35 PM
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Hi u can go for metro ivf as it is much more convenient for working couple as it open at night from 6 pm to 9 pm on mon to fri except Thursday . Dr tee and nurses are very friendly .
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Feb 21 2014, 03:33 PM)
Just sharing some experience, my wife and I did went for 2 rounds of IVF procedure, and still doing it now...
Round 1 : IVF at Sunfert under Dr Wong. Unsuccessful even with 3 Grade A embryos. Still have one frozen embryo there but wife decides not to go back there until we seek second opinion.
Round 2 : Now under Dr Helena Lim at KL Fertility and Dr Yuan at Xi Fertility (they work together). Dr Helena is very nice, and knows that there are much more than just blocked tubes in my wife's case, and together with Dr Yuan, prep my wife and me before even starting the IVF, ensuring the best chances of success (Dr Helena always say, "You must do your "homework" before starting IVF ya...")  nod.gif . It took us 3 months to prep for it... and we are starting the IVF injections whenever my wife's second day arrives (anytime now).

Good luck in your journey TS. You can ping me if you want to know more about the whole process.
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Dr helena is very nice gynae. I succeeded conceived and delivered healthy baby girl under her guidance.
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post Mar 24 2014, 02:05 PM

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QUOTE(duhdude @ Mar 23 2014, 05:30 PM)
Dr helena is very nice gynae. I succeeded conceived and delivered healthy baby girl under her guidance.
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Err... you successfully conceived and delivered? But your ID shows that you are a dude.... biggrin.gif

Anyway, just a FYI that our fresh cycle ET (embryo transplant) was not successful at KL Fertility this round, results came back negative. Guess we will try again, since we have 5 embryos frozen at KL Fertility.
Got 3 more chances to get it right, so hopefully it will turn out better next round. However, with that said, the overall experience at KL Fertility was excellent, Dr Helena is very attentive and caring to my wife, so my wife is happy to continue her frozen cycle at KL Fertility when the time has come...
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Mar 24 2014, 02:05 PM)
Err... you successfully conceived and delivered? But your ID shows that you are a dude....  biggrin.gif

Anyway, just a FYI that our fresh cycle ET (embryo transplant) was not successful at KL Fertility this round, results came back negative. Guess we will try again, since we have 5 embryos frozen at KL Fertility.
Got 3 more chances to get it right, so hopefully it will turn out better next round. However, with that said, the overall experience at KL Fertility was excellent, Dr Helena is very attentive and caring to my wife, so my wife is happy to continue her frozen cycle at KL Fertility when the time has come...
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I used my husband account. So sorry to heard this bad news. My first round also failed, I succeed at second time (FET). FET sucess rate better than fresh because is natural cycle, no hormone injection etc. Dr Helena is my gynae till delivered because she is such lovely and caring gynae although her charge is not cheap.
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Hi.. I am married and trying, struggling to conceive for the past 7 years. Now i am crossing 38 years. Have tried many options abroad, but could not get success. i am planning to move to india for the treatment since the treatment is good and also the success rates are high and most importantly the rates are also minimal compared to us, uk and other countries. so, one of my friends is in Chennai, a place in india. looking for the best centre for ivf in chennai. friends pls give me the best suggestions.
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post Mar 28 2014, 02:15 PM

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QUOTE(abcde90 @ Feb 14 2014, 08:06 AM)
TTC is a stressful period. Both u n ur spouse need to Chillax n always think positive.

All the best to you.
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QUOTE(lhj_131 @ Feb 19 2014, 02:37 PM)
Hi you can consider Sunfert, Dr Wong. My Husband & I started seeing Dr Wong on Nov 2011 and we are gifted a pair of twins on Sept 2012.  smile.gif
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Feb 21 2014, 03:33 PM)
Just sharing some experience, my wife and I did went for 2 rounds of IVF procedure, and still doing it now...
Round 1 : IVF at Sunfert under Dr Wong. Unsuccessful even with 3 Grade A embryos. Still have one frozen embryo there but wife decides not to go back there until we seek second opinion.
Round 2 : Now under Dr Helena Lim at KL Fertility and Dr Yuan at Xi Fertility (they work together). Dr Helena is very nice, and knows that there are much more than just blocked tubes in my wife's case, and together with Dr Yuan, prep my wife and me before even starting the IVF, ensuring the best chances of success (Dr Helena always say, "You must do your "homework" before starting IVF ya...")  nod.gif . It took us 3 months to prep for it... and we are starting the IVF injections whenever my wife's second day arrives (anytime now).

Good luck in your journey TS. You can ping me if you want to know more about the whole process.
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QUOTE(Angie123 @ Mar 22 2014, 12:59 AM)
Hi u can go for metro ivf as it is much more convenient for working couple as it open at night from 6 pm to 9 pm on mon to fri except Thursday . Dr tee and nurses are very friendly .
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QUOTE(IReallyNeed Answers @ Mar 27 2014, 12:33 PM)
Glen Eagle and klfertility is good.

but dont expect it to be affordable.
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Hi all,

Thank you for the replies. Appreciate every single one.

After a few months of thinking, preparing...I think my wife and I are finally ready. We are most likely going to go with Alpha Fertility Centre at Kota Damansara. We felt extremely comfortable with Dr. Leong and we feel that this is the right choice for us. If all goes well, our appointment to start would be mid-April.

Nonetheless, all options mentioned here are excellent choices and I feel anyone TTC should explore all avenues given.

This is going to be our first IVF, I'm 36 and my wife is 31. The doctors were very confident with our chances as the problem is with me cry.gif , not my wife. She checked out A-OK. However, we are more tapered with our expectations and keeping in mind this is going to cost a fair bit of money, approx 18-22k, I'm cautiously hopeful.

I'll probably be PM'ing some of you over the next few weeks before we start, if we have any questions, if you don't mind.

Some general questions, (Sorry if it sounds too direct, just that I need some info)

1. How old was your better half when doing your first IVF?
2. How much did it cost you?
3. How did you manage the emotional roller-coaster during the month?
4. Did you inform your immediate families of your decision? How were their responses? - I've spoken to some of my family members earlier on, they were unable to accept the fact that we couldn't conceive naturally, their answers were "Just take a holiday", "Need to reduce your stress", "It only takes one", "don't worry, it'll happen". But now they seem to be coming along very slowly. Took awhile and a lot of heated conversations, though.
5. (Sorry if this question is painful) -> If you were not successful on your first try, did the doctor try to explain why?

Thanks again and good luck to all of you on your journey!!!



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post Mar 29 2014, 10:54 PM

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QUOTE(waters @ Mar 28 2014, 02:15 PM)
Hi all,

Thank you for the replies. Appreciate every single one.

After a few months of thinking, preparing...I think my wife and I are finally ready. We are most likely going to go with Alpha Fertility Centre at Kota Damansara. We felt extremely comfortable with Dr. Leong and we feel that this is the right choice for us. If all goes well, our appointment to start would be mid-April.

Nonetheless, all options mentioned here are excellent choices and I feel anyone TTC should explore all avenues given.

This is going to be our first IVF, I'm 36 and my wife is 31. The doctors were very confident with our chances as the problem is with me  cry.gif , not my wife. She checked out A-OK. However, we are more tapered with our expectations and keeping in mind this is going to cost a fair bit of money, approx 18-22k, I'm cautiously hopeful.

I'll probably be PM'ing some of you over the next few weeks before we start, if we have any questions, if you don't mind.

Some general questions, (Sorry if it sounds too direct, just that I need some info)

1. How old was your better half when doing your first IVF?
2. How much did it cost you?
3. How did you manage the emotional roller-coaster during the month?
4. Did you inform your immediate families of your decision? How were their responses? - I've spoken to some of my family members earlier on, they were unable to accept the fact that we couldn't conceive naturally, their answers were "Just take a holiday", "Need to reduce your stress", "It only takes one", "don't worry, it'll happen". But now they seem to be coming along very slowly. Took awhile and a lot of heated conversations, though.
5. (Sorry if this question is painful) -> If you were not successful on your first try, did the doctor try to explain why?

Thanks again and good luck to all of you on your journey!!!
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1. First IVF, I was 35 and she was 34. Just a FYI, the reason why we went for IVF was because wife had both her fallopian tubes blocked, hence no other method besides IVF to get pregnant. But as noted earlier, we have gone through 2 failed rounds, hence we are thinking there are more than meets the eye (literally).
2. Round 1 : Sunfert around 30k-ish, including freezing of remaining embryo and a day-care surgery to remove some polyps.
Round 2 : KL Fertility and Xi TCM Fertility Center (they work together, one Western medicine and one Chinese medicine), 25k-ish and adding up, excluding upcoming FET (Frozen Embryo Transfer) to transfer the remaining frozen embryo at a later date.
Total to date (more to come) : 55k with some spare change to pump petrol and parking, so be prepared...
3. So far my wife has been good throughout the IVF process. Not all women gets hot flashes. She did shed a tear though, when the pregnancy test results came about... so be strong, and encourage her. Speak to those who have gone through the experience, that would help a lot sometimes...
4. No. A few reason to keep it a secret :
4.1 They do not understand the process and what is going on, and will probably insult you for going through that process ("Why do u spend do much on it? Just go for a break la! Don't work so hard." or "SEE! Told you to marry the other women")
4.2 Without realizing themselves, they are actually a burden and a source of stress to your wife during the process. You and your wife needs a quiet time to go through this peacefully, not yapping or nitpicking aunts and mothers... Imagine if the IVF process fails, you'd need to answer to them too, in which the answer probably be "I don't know".
4.3 Further repercussion later on when the baby is born. I know coz I have cousins conceived via IVF, and they nicknamed her the "million-dollar baby". That is something that your kid had to go through unfortunately if they were to know.
5. Don't expect any answers from them. With 2 failed rounds, both doctors are unable to fully diagnose why it has failed (refer to 4.2 as well), although KL Fertility was better managing our expectations by helping us analyze where they think has gone wrong (and next steps to overcome them). There are still powers-to-be which controls human's destiny, and it does not come from the doctor's room or the operating table.

Good luck in your journey.. and all the best to both of you
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post Mar 30 2014, 09:51 AM

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For couples who are still trying to conceive Keep ur chin up.

And may all of you be blessed with beautiful and healthy babies.


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post Mar 31 2014, 09:57 AM

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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Mar 24 2014, 03:05 PM)
Err... you successfully conceived and delivered? But your ID shows that you are a dude....  biggrin.gif

Anyway, just a FYI that our fresh cycle ET (embryo transplant) was not successful at KL Fertility this round, results came back negative. Guess we will try again, since we have 5 embryos frozen at KL Fertility.
Got 3 more chances to get it right, so hopefully it will turn out better next round. However, with that said, the overall experience at KL Fertility was excellent, Dr Helena is very attentive and caring to my wife, so my wife is happy to continue her frozen cycle at KL Fertility when the time has come...
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Hi, me and my husband planning to do our IVF with Dr Helena also. I also hope she can really help us on this. My problem is my two fallopian is block too. So seem alot of people here are said Dr Helena is good. So i hope i really choose a correct doctor n fertility center then. Any idea how to prepare our self before proceed to IVF?

Now i really worried my 1st ivf will fail as financial are tied after this. Good to hear that some of you are success in IVF. Happy to hear that.

Thanks
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post Mar 31 2014, 10:01 AM

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QUOTE(duhdude @ Mar 26 2014, 06:50 PM)
I used my husband account. So sorry to heard this bad news. My first round also failed, I succeed at second time (FET). FET sucess rate better than fresh because is natural cycle, no hormone injection etc. Dr Helena is my gynae till delivered because she is such lovely and caring gynae although her charge is not cheap.
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Hi, any idea how much the cost for IVF at KL Fertility under Dr Helena? I afraid can't get a good quality. If you got an extra good egg frozen atleast the 2nd time IVF wont cost you about 15k right?

Thanks
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post Mar 31 2014, 12:14 PM

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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Mar 31 2014, 09:57 AM)
Hi, me and my husband planning to do our IVF with Dr Helena also. I also hope she can really help us on this. My problem is my two fallopian is block too. So seem alot of people here are said Dr Helena is good. So i hope i really choose a correct doctor n fertility center then. Any idea how to prepare our self before proceed to IVF?

Now i really worried my 1st ivf will fail as financial are tied after this. Good to hear that some of you are success in IVF. Happy to hear that.

Thanks
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Hope I can help, since me and my wife have been through it twice now. Based on our experience of years of survey (started looking since 2012) and 2 failed rounds, Dr Helena is our best choice so far (our personal opinion only). One main criteria is that Dr Helena can speak Chinese to my wife, as she is not comfortable with English. She is also very very caring, and being a woman herself, understands the predicaments that we are going through. However, with that said, your "mileage" may vary since the queue to her clinic is not short by any measure.
One tip, Dr Helena always say, having a successful pregnancy in IVF is like having an exam, if you are not prepared, you are bound to fail, which I do have to agree wholeheartedly with her. Do your homework, prepare you and your wife's own physical and mental health first (healthy, all immunization is done, folic acid, Vitamin D + Calcium sufficient, thalassemia tested, no STD or hepatitis, reduce caffeine intake etc etc), and ensure that a full diagnosis is done first before jumping into the IVF procedure (blocked tubes, hyperactive immune system, uterus lining, sperm issues?). If Dr Helena wants to do further tests, please do follow her advise.
Just a tip which many do not know, KL Fertility have occasional IVF preparation/information talk, this is a good place to get more info and have a short talk with the embryologist and doctors, and have a short tour of the facilities. It is a great place to start, and can put your mind at ease on what to prepare for the IVF. Call them up to see if you can get into one of them... there might be a surprise waiting for you guys there brows.gif

QUOTE(megane5439 @ Mar 31 2014, 10:01 AM)
Hi, any idea how much the cost for IVF at KL Fertility under Dr Helena? I afraid can't get a good quality. If you got an extra good egg frozen atleast the 2nd time IVF wont cost you about 15k right?

Thanks
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For IVF, it is about RM15k but it has increased since (cashier have a notice about cost increase recently in March 2014). Note that the RM15K is only until first fresh transfer of embryos, anything besides that require more $$. For example, if you have extra embryos to be frozen (very likely you will have extra, you are not going to throw away those embryos right?), it will cost more $$ (I think about 2K per year) to freeze them. RM15k also does not cover any diagnosis or tests that needs to be done prior to starting IVF (but covers consultations during the IVF process). It also does not cover additional supplements that your wife or you need to take to boost egg/sperm production if required. Lastly, any deviation from the standard IVF procedure also require $$, for example:
1) ICSI step cost additional $$
2) laser assisted hatching too (if required)
3) Uterine scratching process
4) Baby aspirin
5) Folic Acid
6) dan lain-lain... smile.gif
Sad to say, if you only have RM15K to do IVF, it may not be sufficient to carry on the whole process.

However, extra embryos which were frozen can be re-thawed at a later date, and also will be cheaper to put back, about RM3-4k per round, and this continues until you use up all the frozen embryos. Then the whole process starts over again.

You mean good quality eggs or embryos? Usually embryos that are medium to good quality are frozen, as low grade ones will not survive the freezing and thawing. If you are worried about the eggs quality, and if you are going to KL fertility, I suggest to pay a visit to next door Xi Fertility TCM center, they are Chinese herbalist and acupuncturist specializing on fertility. Dr Helena can only western-styled medicine and advise on supplements to improve the egg quality, but Xi Fertility uses Chinese medicine to "re-tune" back the body to produce better quality eggs. My wife went to both, to get the best of both worlds. Your file can be moved between KL Fertility and Xi Fertility, thus Dr Yuan (from Xi Fertility, she is a certified gynae, but practicing Chinese medicine) can assess what are the improvements required (based on ultrasound imaging and Dr Helena's notes) and act upon them from Chinese medicine perspective. Go google on acupuncture/TCM with IVF process, you can learn more on them.

Good luck to all!
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Their package is 17k up to blood test to confirm pregnancy. Storage fee is another cost. I spend almost 25k to conceived. This included pre ivf package kind testing and consulation, ivf fresh cycle 17k, embryo storage fee and frozen embryo transfer 3.5k

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QUOTE(duhdude @ Mar 31 2014, 07:32 PM)
Their package is 17k up to blood test to confirm pregnancy. Storage fee is another cost. I spend almost 25k to conceived. This included pre ivf package kind testing and consulation, ivf fresh cycle 17k, embryo storage fee and frozen embryo transfer 3.5k
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Hi, 17k is normal package? 25k so much? 25k to spent is for 1st time?
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Agreed with Nitrous on the reasons not to share with others. No one will understand what IVF is until they go through it themselves (not that I wish it upon on anyone else)

I am currently undergoing my 1st IVF procedure now with Dr. Wong from SMC.
Quite anxious & excited that my ET will be carry out in 2 days time. And to find out the result in 2 weeks time.

The IVF will cost approximately RM15,500 (inclusive of all injections plus supplement to support the procedure). Storage of FE is free for the 1st 3 month and will cost RM1k for a year. FET will cost RM4.8k

I don't include any blood test/health screening cost as it is paid for by the company & part of my annual checkup.
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Agreed to Shleesy and nitrous. One of colleague who believe natural conceive and she is lucky to has own baby based on her planning, advise me not to do ivf because baby would not feel warm and love from daddy and mommy. She even said those hormone injection may cause cancer to mother, why we still wanna to try out. I was so angry, No one will pour hard earn money and roller coaster emotion if can conceive naturally. Just another point to add: be prepare at least rm25k before start do ivf. Reason is not everyone success in first ivf. I already prepared 2 trial before I start ivf process. I feel sad when I failed for first round but I proceed second round after rest one period cycle.

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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Apr 1 2014, 11:01 AM)
Hi, 17k is normal package? 25k so much? 25k to spent is for 1st time?
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I do 2 time, first is ivf second round is fet. Ivf package is 17k, frozen embryo cost 1.8k and frozen embryo transfer cost 3.5k and consultation/blood test prior start ivf. If you have extra embryo to freeze, you just need to pay storage fee and embryo transfer fee for next trial. I pray so hard wish to have good quality and extra embryo to freeze so I no need to spend another 17k.

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QUOTE(shleesy @ Apr 1 2014, 05:49 PM)
Agreed with Nitrous on the reasons not to share with others. No one will understand what IVF is until they go through it themselves (not that I wish it upon on anyone else)

I am currently undergoing my 1st IVF procedure now with Dr. Wong from SMC.
Quite anxious & excited that my ET will be carry out in 2 days time. And to find out the result in 2 weeks time.

The IVF will cost approximately RM15,500 (inclusive of all injections plus supplement to support the procedure). Storage of FE is free for the 1st 3 month and will cost RM1k for a year. FET will cost RM4.8k

I don't include any blood test/health screening cost as it is paid for by the company & part of my annual checkup.
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SMC cost is cheaper than kl fertility. The bad thing is dr Wong too busy and always long waiting time. My friend suceess to conceived for her first ivf under dr Wong.
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QUOTE(duhdude @ Apr 1 2014, 10:18 PM)
I do 2 time, first is ivf second round is fet. Ivf package is 17k, frozen embryo cost 1.8k and frozen embryo transfer cost 3.5k and consultation/blood test prior start ivf. If you have extra embryo to freeze, you just need to pay storage fee and embryo transfer fee for next trial. I pray so hard wish to have good quality and extra embryo to freeze so I no need to spend another 17k.
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Hi, yes agree with you. Wish you good luck and wish to hear good news from you soon. cheers. Keep us posted how your IVF. Hmm...me planning to do it on June. Let my chinese doctor check and see if i still not ready yet maybe will postpone it to July or August.


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QUOTE(duhdude @ Apr 1 2014, 10:23 PM)
SMC cost is cheaper than kl fertility. The bad thing is dr Wong too busy and always long waiting time. My friend suceess to conceived for her first ivf under dr Wong.
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Hi, i heard Dr Tee Metro is good. But his schedule also quite pack so abit difficult to make appointment. Yes, agree KL Fertility is expensive but hope Dr Helena is good.
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Mar 29 2014, 10:54 PM)
1. First IVF, I was 35 and she was 34. Just a FYI, the reason why we went for IVF was because wife had both her fallopian tubes blocked, hence no other method besides IVF to get pregnant. But as noted earlier, we have gone through 2 failed rounds, hence we are thinking there are more than meets the eye (literally).
2. Round 1 : Sunfert around 30k-ish, including freezing of remaining embryo and a day-care surgery to remove some polyps.
Round 2 : KL Fertility and Xi TCM Fertility Center (they work together, one Western medicine and one Chinese medicine), 25k-ish and adding up, excluding upcoming FET (Frozen Embryo Transfer) to transfer the remaining frozen embryo at a later date.
Total to date (more to come) : 55k with some spare change to pump petrol and parking, so be prepared...
3. So far my wife has been good throughout the IVF process. Not all women gets hot flashes. She did shed a tear though, when the pregnancy test results came about... so be strong, and encourage her. Speak to those who have gone through the experience, that would help a lot sometimes...
4. No. A few reason to keep it a secret :
4.1 They do not understand the process and what is going on, and will probably insult you for going through that process ("Why do u spend do much on it? Just go for a break la! Don't work so hard." or "SEE! Told you to marry the other women")
4.2 Without realizing themselves, they are actually a burden and a source of stress to your wife during the process. You and your wife needs a quiet time to go through this peacefully, not yapping or nitpicking aunts and mothers... Imagine if the IVF process fails, you'd need to answer to them too, in which the answer probably be "I don't know".
4.3 Further repercussion later on when the baby is born. I know coz I have cousins conceived via IVF, and they nicknamed her the "million-dollar baby". That is something that your kid had to go through unfortunately if they were to know.
5. Don't expect any answers from them. With 2 failed rounds, both doctors are unable to fully diagnose why it has failed (refer to 4.2 as well), although KL Fertility was better managing our expectations by helping us analyze where they think has gone wrong (and next steps to overcome them). There are still powers-to-be which controls human's destiny, and it does not come from the doctor's room or the operating table.

Good luck in your journey.. and all the best to both of you
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For couples who are still trying to conceive Keep ur chin up.

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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Mar 31 2014, 09:57 AM)
Hi, me and my husband planning to do our IVF with Dr Helena also. I also hope she can really help us on this. My problem is my two fallopian is block too. So seem alot of people here are said Dr Helena is good. So i hope i really choose a correct doctor n fertility center then. Any idea how to prepare our self before proceed to IVF?

Now i really worried my 1st ivf will fail as financial are tied after this. Good to hear that some of you are success in IVF. Happy to hear that.

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Thank you all for your kind words.

Megane5439,
My wife and I have only met 2 doctors, Dr. Menon and Dr. Leong (Alpha Fertility). Both are excellent, however Dr. Menon does not do IVF anymore. I can't say for anyone else, but I'm sure all of them are exceptional in their fields! Go with any doctor whom you feel comfortable asking questions to.

If you are thinking of doing IVF, usually the hospitals would have IVF counselling, ask anything there. No holds barred! Mentally, I guess you would need to be prepared to do more than 1 round of IVF. Always hope for the best, though. You will start having sleepless nights thinking about "will it work?", "what if it doesn't?", "It's going to be very expensive", "how do we keep our spirits up?". I know, currently going through that.

Meditation, prayer, being around friends and even focusing your energy on your work or any other activities does help, albeit temporarily. Just remember, once it works, looking back 1 or 2 years, it would all be worth it.

Stay positive and happy always!

Nitrous,

Thank you for your advice, it couldn't be truer! Families can be really toxic at times, I can totally relate. My wife shed a tear when we read that your IVF cycles didn't work, we wish you all the luck in the world for the next.
We'll be starting our first cycle on the 15th, so we're nervous, hopeful and scared.

We'll update more once we start.



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QUOTE(waters @ Apr 4 2014, 04:15 PM)
Thank you all for your kind words.

Megane5439,
My wife and I have only met 2 doctors, Dr. Menon and Dr. Leong (Alpha Fertility). Both are excellent, however Dr. Menon does not do IVF anymore. I can't say for anyone else, but I'm sure all of them are exceptional in their fields! Go with any doctor whom you feel comfortable asking questions to.

If you are thinking of doing IVF, usually the hospitals would have IVF counselling, ask anything there. No holds barred! Mentally, I guess you would need to be prepared to do more than 1 round of IVF. Always hope for the best, though. You will start having sleepless nights thinking about "will it work?", "what if it doesn't?", "It's going to be very expensive", "how do we keep our spirits up?". I know, currently going through that.

Meditation, prayer, being around friends  and even focusing your energy on your work or any other activities does help, albeit temporarily. Just remember, once it works, looking back 1 or 2 years, it would all be worth it.

Stay positive and happy always!

Nitrous,

Thank you for your advice, it couldn't be truer! Families can be really toxic at times, I can totally relate. My wife shed a tear when we read that your IVF cycles didn't work, we wish you all the luck in the world for the next.
We'll be starting our first cycle on the 15th, so we're nervous, hopeful and scared.

We'll update more once we start.
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Thanks for the advise and i will get prepare myself 1st for this two month. And if ready i will go do it by June. Yes, i will try to relax.
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The emotional roller coaster ride could break one spirit down, so please be prepared.

I was supposed to have my ET done last week, but it got canceled on the morning because none of the 18 fertilized eggs grow to the ideal cell count. (Ideally 8c)

Am I devastated? Not really. Perhaps it's because I've a very supportive partner & I'll bounce back soon and eventually find the next path.

May those who plan/undergoing IVF have your baby dream realize very soon.
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anyone consulted with raja bomoh? Maybe he can help with his skilled sampan ceremony? LOL....

If still fail...don't give up. Adoption is another alternative that is viable. Just make sure don't buy baby illegally.
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Hi all, what blood test normally doctor will ask to do before heading to IVF journey? Vitamin D i know it a must. How about LH & FSH and other hormonal test? Insulin and etc ... any advised on this for those already go through their IVF.

Thanks
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Apr 9 2014, 09:41 AM)
Hi all, what blood test normally doctor will ask to do before heading to IVF journey? Vitamin D i know it a must. How about LH & FSH and other hormonal test? Insulin and etc ... any advised on this for those already go through their IVF.

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The most recent blood test requested by my doc before the IVF.

Full blood count
Blood group
HIV 1 & 2
Hepatitis B
VDRL (STD)

But then again, your doctor may require more as I've underwent laparoscopy surgery with the same doctor before, so there is no need to test on FSH & LH.
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Apr 9 2014, 09:41 AM)
Hi all, what blood test normally doctor will ask to do before heading to IVF journey? Vitamin D i know it a must. How about LH & FSH and other hormonal test? Insulin and etc ... any advised on this for those already go through their IVF.

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For husband are mainly :
Blood group
HIV 1 & 2
Hepatitis B
VDRL (STD)
as mentioned by shleesy earlier... biggrin.gif

For wife :
Blood group
HIV 1 & 2
Hepatitis B
VDRL (STD)
Vitamin D/folic acid?
Antinuclear antibody & Lupus marker (need to be sent to Australia)
Insulin resistance
LH & FSH (2nd day and prior to transfer)

Think that's about it, will add if I remember them.... there are some costs involved in these tests, which are outside of the bundled price, thus be aware of this...

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Another good doctor for IVF, Dr.Eeson from Pantai Medical. Very caring and understanding doctor. Takes extra effort to ensure all is good.
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Hi all,

If period is not stable is it not suitable to proceed IVF? As my period is some kind of confusing. As we do IVF need to go visit the doctor on day 2 right? The problem is if period not stable we don't know which day is day 2.
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Hi all,

If period is not stable is it not suitable to proceed IVF? As my period is some kind of confusing. As we do IVF need to go visit the doctor on day 2 right? The problem is if period not stable we don't know which day is day 2.
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Unstable as in like you don't know which is Day 1 or Day 2?
Sorry, can't help here as this is out of my knowledge area for IVF, my wife always know when Day 1 is (I always assumed women will know this biggrin.gif something to do with using a different kind of sanitary pads, but that is just the lame old me).
Yes, you would need to go to visit the doc on Day 2, to scan for availability of the eggs for that month (the doc would estimate the no of eggs to be produced). Try to check with the gynae for her advise.
Good Luck in your IVF!

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Hi all,

If period is not stable is it not suitable to proceed IVF? As my period is some kind of confusing. As we do IVF need to go visit the doctor on day 2 right? The problem is if period not stable we don't know which day is day 2.
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For IVF, the rule of thumb is call & make appointment on Day 1 of your period. (Note: Heavy menses, spotting is not consider Day 1 of period.) Nobody expect you to make your appointment 1-month in advance.

The doctor/ nurse will then schedule to see you on Day 2/3.

Anyway, irregular period could be due to PCOS. You will have the option to perform laparoscopic surgery (then try naturally) or proceed to IVF, depending on how serious your condition is.
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Apr 23 2014, 08:56 PM)
Unstable as in like you don't know which is Day 1 or Day 2?
Sorry, can't help here as this is out of my knowledge area for IVF, my wife always know when Day 1 is (I always assumed women will know this biggrin.gif something to do with using a different kind of sanitary pads, but that is just the lame old me).
Yes, you would need to go to visit the doc on Day 2, to scan for availability of the eggs for that month (the doc would estimate the no of eggs to be produced). Try to check with the gynae for her advise.
Good Luck in your IVF!
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Hi, thanks for the advised.
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I have managed to attach under dr.halena previously during my OBGYN posting and i reckon she is very good in what she is doing. She takes her time to explain what is needed and things are taken one step at a time. For those with high risk pregnancy they do work together with FMGC at jaya one, whereby there are three fetal medicine consultants, dr. Raman, dr. Patrick chia, and dr. Yap. They are good in managing high risk cases such as those high maternal age, hypertension diseases in pregnancies and so on. As for dato prashant, we have a nickname for him, he is the god father of fertility. He is the first in malaysia being trained in the UK specifically for fertility.
What I have said above are only my personal view as dr halena and dr raman were my mentors previously and they are highly regarded in their own field of subspecialty.

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QUOTE(Jr.Koh @ Apr 28 2014, 12:53 AM)
I have managed to attach under dr.halena previously during my OBGYN posting and i reckon she is very good in what she is doing. She takes her time to explain what is needed and things are taken one step at a time. For those with high risk pregnancy they do work together with FMGC at jaya one, whereby there are three fetal medicine consultants, dr. Raman, dr. Patrick chia, and dr. Yap. They are good in managing high risk cases such as those high maternal age, hypertension diseases in pregnancies and so on. As for dato prashant, we have a nickname for him, he is the god father of fertility. He is the first in malaysia being trained in the UK specifically for fertility.
What I have said above are only my personal view as dr halena and dr raman were my mentors previously and they are highly regarded in their own field of subspecialty.
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Hi, good to hear that about Dr Helena. I shall see her in 2 month time. Thanks
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Hi, good to hear that about Dr Helena. I shall see her in 2 month time. Thanks
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No issues about that. At the mean time, do prepare yourself by supplementation with folic acid, vitamin D and calcium. Vitamin D is better absorbed in the morning due to low iron meal in our society.

Do visit her website and wish you best of luck in your pregnancy and to mothers out there.

https://drhelenalim.com


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Hi all,

My wife and I have been TTC for about 4 years. No luck. Early last year we went to TMC, tried IUI 3 times, all failed. Dr. Menon then recommended IVF. However, he left TMC at the end of 2013, so we're in a dilemma about where to go next.

I'm looking at SunFert, Metro IVF, Alpha and Sime Darby Subang (old SJMC).

Anyone have any info on any one of the above hospitals and their success rates.

Thanking you in advance!

Rgds,
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Dr Menon left edi? He's good i mean tropicana itself is good for IVF. heard that their IVF success rate is quite high

Try adopting some kids, maybe 2 months old kids. The success rate is 100%
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QUOTE(Jr.Koh @ Apr 28 2014, 06:32 PM)
No issues about that. At the mean time, do prepare yourself by supplementation with folic acid, vitamin D and calcium. Vitamin D is better absorbed in the morning due to low iron meal in our society.

Do visit her website and wish you best of luck in your pregnancy and to mothers out there.

https://drhelenalim.com
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Hi Koh,

I unable to open the link you sent. I was taking some chinese medicine now. As chinese doctor said my body is extremely cold, blood circulation and not enugh QI. so i need to use chinese medicine to solve those problem before heading to IVF. I taking vitamin D n calcium now but i no take folic acid. What folid acid for?

Thanks
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Apr 28 2014, 10:17 PM)
Hi Koh,

I unable to open the link you sent. I was taking some chinese medicine now. As chinese doctor said my body is extremely cold, blood circulation and not enugh QI. so i need to use chinese medicine to solve those problem before heading to IVF. I taking vitamin D n calcium now but i no take folic acid. What folid acid for?

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Dr.Helena is not really fond of chinese medication as far as i remember back then. But anyhow if its just pure herbs and you are not pregnant i see no issues with that. As for folic acid, it is to aid DNA formation in the fetus and to prevent spinal cord defects such as spina bifida and anencephaly. They are known as Neural Tube Defects (NTD). Do look up on it. Thats why supplementation before pregnancy is important.


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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Apr 23 2014, 08:56 PM)
Unstable as in like you don't know which is Day 1 or Day 2?
Sorry, can't help here as this is out of my knowledge area for IVF, my wife always know when Day 1 is (I always assumed women will know this biggrin.gif something to do with using a different kind of sanitary pads, but that is just the lame old me).
Yes, you would need to go to visit the doc on Day 2, to scan for availability of the eggs for that month (the doc would estimate the no of eggs to be produced). Try to check with the gynae for her advise.
Good Luck in your IVF!
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But Dr Helena seen very busy recently. She keep on onleave haha...My appointment keep changing date aiks. Would like to check if we are under IVF is it they should come back if our date for treatment is fall on Sunday?
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jun 16 2014, 01:17 PM)
But Dr Helena seen very busy recently. She keep on onleave haha...My appointment keep changing date aiks. Would like to check if we are under IVF is it they should come back if our date for treatment is fall on Sunday?
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I believe the Lab will be open and the Dr will still come in if it falls on Sun, they do not work on Mon-Sat schedule, but more in-tune of the women's "schedule". Call them up and double check with them, they can explain it further.
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Hi there, I just wanted to share with you a site that could help your wife track her ovulation period for fast conceiving and you can also have the gender you want for your baby. It is just a free site and very helpful, I hope this can help you too. http://www.ovulation-predictor.org/

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Hi, for those who done their IVF under Dr Helena or KL Fertility. Would like to check the whole package what blood test they will include in. I heard normally before the 1st injection they shall done a proper blood before proceed further. Am i right?

How the procedure in KL Fertility, can anyone here shall out?
Thanks and appreciated that.

I going for my 1st IVF for this coming circle. Heart beat quite fast cos is 1st time haha...wondering how to whole procedure. Wish i can get a better result. and also hope that can have more frozen to stall. smile.gif
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jun 30 2014, 11:54 AM)
Hi, for those who done their IVF under Dr Helena or KL Fertility. Would like to check the whole package what blood test they will include in. I heard normally before the 1st injection they shall done a proper blood before proceed further. Am i right?

How the procedure in KL Fertility, can anyone here shall out?
Thanks and appreciated that.

I going for my 1st IVF for this coming circle. Heart beat quite fast cos is 1st time haha...wondering how to whole procedure. Wish i can get a better result. and also hope that can have more frozen to stall. smile.gif
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My wife was under Dato' Prashant and not Halena, so I can only comment on KL Fertility experience.

OK, blood test, they will draw some blood from the wife and test... usually for hormones to ensure the hormones are level. Its located IIANM, level 3 same building. Will have do this quite often and my wife hated it as rrr.had a bad exriance in drwing blood.

Once the blood test is OK, the course commence where you have to take injections for 10 days, same time everyday. I remember during early mornings I had to jab my wife..lol...blur blur..wife face so scared..kekeke...but after a few times you will be fine. There are 2 types of injection..once is synthetic, comes in like a diabetic pen style injector, the other more old school ..have to mix 2 vials and then inject using a small syringe, everyday also. The first one is much easier to work with.

After taking injections..just before the eggs extraction, got 2 extra injections that have to take. Those are rather big syringes..smile.gif. But luckily only 2. The egg extraction is done in same building and its actually quite quick. Will go under anesthetic..and the whole extraction process took like 1 hour. Wife was blur after coming out..so need some time to rest after that. Overall its a half day process. Normally according to Prashant, he takes about 8-10 really good sized eggs. Once extracted and inseminated, you will have 2 choices..either..to implant on 3rd day or wait till next month for the body to heal up. Best is to consult Dr Halena which is best. We tried both and I wont tell you which work. tongue.gif. Additional eggs/embryos can be frozen (additional charges apply). Best is to freeze the better ones, i.e day 5 blastocyst.

After implant, I remember wife had to take some pills ...and insert also. About 10 days later....you will have to go do a urine test. If positive, you do blood test to confirm. If negative......just remember its not the end of the world. Miracles happens in many ways.

Good luck and I am sure you are probably in the best hands in this field. Which reminds me I have to send a thank you not to KL Fertility as my boy is due next 3 weeks.

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I used my husband account. So sorry to heard this bad news. My first round also failed, I succeed at second time (FET). FET sucess rate better than fresh because is natural cycle, no hormone injection etc. Dr Helena is my gynae till delivered because she is such lovely and caring gynae although her charge is not cheap.
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Hi, i oso planning to go through ivf with dr helena on this coming july circle. Is it true normally fresh embryo success rate for IVF is very low compare to frozen embryo? I also hope i got more embryo can freezing atleast we can use in future. Thanks for make me more happy heard that Dr Helena is a very caring doctor. I hope i can success from my fresh embryo if GOD give hehe...One week to go....wish me luck. smile.gif
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QUOTE(gladfly @ Jun 30 2014, 10:10 PM)
My wife was under Dato' Prashant and not Halena, so I can only comment on KL Fertility experience.

OK, blood test, they will draw some blood from the wife and test... usually for hormones to ensure the hormones are level. Its located IIANM, level 3 same building. Will have do this quite often and my wife hated it as rrr.had a bad exriance in drwing blood.

Once the blood test is OK, the course commence where you have to take injections for 10 days, same time everyday. I remember during early mornings I had to jab my wife..lol...blur blur..wife face so scared..kekeke...but after a few times you will be fine. There are 2 types of injection..once is synthetic, comes in like a diabetic pen style injector, the other more old school ..have to mix 2 vials and then inject using a small syringe, everyday also. The first one is much easier to work with.

After taking injections..just before the eggs extraction, got 2 extra injections that have to take. Those are rather big syringes..smile.gif. But luckily only 2. The egg extraction is done in same building and its actually quite quick. Will go under anesthetic..and the whole extraction process took like 1 hour. Wife was blur after coming out..so need some time to rest after that. Overall its a half day process. Normally according to Prashant, he takes about 8-10 really good sized eggs. Once extracted and inseminated, you will have 2 choices..either..to implant on 3rd day or wait till next month for the body to heal up. Best is to consult Dr Halena which is best. We tried both and I wont tell you which work. tongue.gif. Additional eggs/embryos can be frozen (additional charges apply). Best is to freeze the better ones, i.e day 5 blastocyst. 

After implant, I remember wife had to take some pills ...and insert also. About 10 days later....you will have to go do a urine test. If positive, you do blood test to confirm. If negative......just remember its not the end of the world. Miracles happens in many ways.

Good luck and I am sure you are probably in the best hands in this field. Which reminds me I have to send a thank you not to KL Fertility as my boy is due next 3 weeks.
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You success under Dr Prashant if fresh embryo transfer or frozen embryo transfer? I planning to visit Dr Helena next Monday to take some blood test if result come out good i will proceed 1st 4 injection. 1st time abit confuse hehe....
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You success under Dr Prashant if fresh embryo transfer or frozen embryo transfer? I planning to visit Dr Helena next Monday to take some blood test if result come out good i will proceed 1st 4 injection. 1st time abit confuse hehe....
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My wife had 2 cycles. 1st cycles had 8 eggs only 2 were good transferred after 3 days. results negative. Second cycle, had 14 eggs, 6 eggs made it after day 5. ET 2 after 1 month , i.e frozen transfer. result- positive.

Draw you own conclusion le.

caveat- 2nd cycle we had different injections and had TMC supplements. TMC said wife womb was cold so needed supplements.
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QUOTE(gladfly @ Jul 1 2014, 12:40 PM)
My wife had 2 cycles. 1st cycles had 8 eggs only 2 were good transferred after 3 days. results negative. Second cycle, had 14 eggs, 6 eggs made it after day 5. ET 2 after 1 month , i.e frozen transfer. result- positive.

Draw you own conclusion le.

caveat- 2nd cycle we had different injections and had TMC supplements. TMC said wife womb was cold so needed supplements.
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Ok thanks. So u use 2 circle of fresh embryo? Oooh .. for the second circle u stop 1 month then only transfer the frozen one? I heard they said fresh embryo normally success rate is very low right? My womb is cold also but i will try to withdraw the fresh egg and see how. Never try never know. That why sometime financial tied very think twice before proceed.
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Ok thanks. So u use 2 circle of fresh embryo? Oooh .. for the second circle u stop 1 month then only transfer the frozen one? I heard they said fresh embryo normally success rate is very low right? My womb is cold also but i will try to withdraw the fresh egg and see how. Never try never know. That why sometime financial tied very think twice before proceed.
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Yes ..my wife and I did 2 rounds of IVQ.

All I can say is..we asked the question- would freezing method have a better chance. Answer: No direct answer, but both are viable. The plus point of 1 month transfer is that wife has time to recover from the extraction. Maybe mentally better prepared kua more relax and better chance?.

Just to let you know...egg quality and sperm quality also plays a part. Doesn't mean when u extract 10 eggs ..all 10 eggs can be viable for transfer. depends on luck if the eggs mature past 3 days. % days will be best..but I think for fresh transfer 3 days is the time frame.

It is expensive the process..and I wish you all the luck. Before you start ..relax, have a good diet...quit smoke/booze and unhealthy food (coffee also restricted sad.gif). That's what they keep telling us. You will be given folic acid as supplement. Also if your vit D is low, Vit D supplement via drops.
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QUOTE(gladfly @ Jul 1 2014, 06:25 PM)
Yes ..my wife and I did 2 rounds of IVQ.

All I can say is..we asked the question- would freezing method have a better chance. Answer: No direct answer, but both are viable. The plus point of 1 month transfer is that wife has time to recover from the extraction. Maybe mentally better prepared kua more relax and better chance?.

Just to let you know...egg quality and sperm quality also plays a part. Doesn't mean when u extract 10 eggs ..all 10 eggs can be viable for transfer. depends on luck if the eggs mature past 3 days. % days will be best..but I think for fresh transfer 3 days is the time frame. 

It is expensive the process..and I wish you all the luck. Before you start ..relax, have a good diet...quit smoke/booze and unhealthy food (coffee also restricted sad.gif). That's what they keep telling us. You will be given folic acid as supplement. Also if your vit D is low, Vit D supplement via drops.
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Just did my vitamin d and insulin test all normal. That why Dr Helena was asking me if i am get ready can come visit her this circle and start the 1st IVF. On day 2 she need draw a blood test a progesterone and estrodiol blood test. If all ok then we proceed for the injection. actually earlier i also thinking of want to implant the frozen embryo.

Mind to share with me if let said we did and paid for the ivf package but the implantation we want to done it the next circle will it be additional charges beside the 17k ?

Mind to share the IVF journey what KLFC will do during from Day 2 till implantation. Sorry for too much query. tongue.gif

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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 1 2014, 05:32 PM)
Just did my vitamin d and insulin test all normal. That why Dr Helena was asking me if i am get ready can come visit her this circle and start the 1st IVF. On day 2 she need draw a blood test a progesterone and estrodiol blood test. If all ok then we proceed for the injection. actually earlier i also thinking of want to implant the frozen embryo.

Mind to share with me if let said we did and paid for the ivf package but the implantation we want to done it the next circle will it be additional charges beside the 17k ?

Mind to share the IVF journey what KLFC will do during from Day 2 till implantation. Sorry for too much query. tongue.gif

Thanks
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Not an problem..as I was also blur when I did it with my wife. Its good to share such info around. Hope 1 day maybe you can help someone also.

Yes, the package is for 1 cycle only. 1 cycle means all your eggs used up. If you fail that's it. I don't know if extra charges incurred if you try more than 1 time implant. My case .. first cycle we only had 1 implant due to the fact we had 2 good eggs nia. Second cycle, we were successful at the first try. I know the subsequent implant will be charged at about 4k each time for the eggs kept frozen.

There will be a token discount if you decide to try again if 1st cycle fails.(duno if Halena practice it..but Prashant did).

As for experience, I can give a hubby view nia. Initially Wife did say the injections are quite painful. The trick is to make sure the syringe is at 90', straight in lo. There will be some side effect like bloating and so on, so bear with it. Remember to take it at same time lo..the nurses at KLMC is very friendly and able to guide you guys on how to take injections. You will go back to KLMC for checks and see the progress, where they will ultra scan you to see how many eggs are there. Once 14 days over, you will go to downstairs to do the extraction. There will be a room, and hubby is required to donate his sperm also that day....you will be anesthetized. and egg extraction takes about 1 hour nia. After that, rest abit and balik. They will ask you if you want to transfer fresh or later. If later, they will calculate the next fertile date and ask you come back lo.

It actually a quick process as it went by quickly for me. Don't worry too much, you are in great hands...I have great faith in KLFC people. The queue may be abit long, but overall the people there are great. Most importantly, don't worry too much..and don't put too much pressure on yourself. When our 1st cycle failed, my wife was devastated, but like I said and I believe miracles comes in its own way.

Feel free to ask anymore questions ya...







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QUOTE(gladfly @ Jul 1 2014, 06:55 PM)
Not an problem..as I was also blur when I did it with my wife. Its good to share such info around. Hope 1 day maybe you can help someone also.

Yes, the package is for 1 cycle only. 1 cycle means all your eggs used up. If you fail that's it. I don't know if extra charges incurred if you try more than 1 time implant. My case .. first cycle we only had 1 implant due to the fact we had 2 good eggs nia. Second cycle, we were successful at the first try. I know the subsequent implant will be charged at about 4k each time for the eggs kept frozen.

There will be a token discount if you decide to try again if 1st cycle fails.(duno if Halena practice it..but Prashant did).

As for experience, I can give a hubby view nia. Initially Wife did say the injections are quite painful. The trick is to make sure the syringe is at 90', straight in lo. There will be some side effect like bloating and so on, so bear with it. Remember to take it at same time lo..the nurses at KLMC is very friendly and able to guide you guys on how to take injections. You will go back to KLMC for checks and see the progress, where they will ultra scan you to see how many eggs are there. Once 14 days over, you will go to downstairs to do the extraction. There will be a room, and hubby is required to donate his sperm also that day....you will be anesthetized. and egg extraction takes about 1 hour nia. After that, rest abit and balik. They will ask you if you want to transfer fresh or later. If later, they will calculate the next fertile date and ask you come back lo.

It actually a quick process as it went by quickly for me. Don't worry too much, you are in great hands...I have great faith in KLFC people. The queue may be abit long, but overall the people there are great. Most importantly, don't worry too much..and don't put too much pressure on yourself. When our 1st cycle failed, my wife was devastated, but like I said and I believe miracles comes in its own way.

Feel free to ask anymore questions ya...
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Hi, which mean on your second circle you all success is using fresh embryo or frozen embryo? If can success in using fresh embryo is consider very good liao lo ... tongue.gif Normally % on fresh embryo is very low...I heard fresh embryo mostly cannot success due certain reason like hormone medicine effect our body or else is women health problem. I also worry i cannot produce more good egg...if can produce more good egg i got nothing to worry liao..hehe. Cos can keep freezing and come back do after 1 or 2 month.
Yes, i got faith with our 1st try this coming week. Feeling nervous but still ok can handle it thanks. smile.gif

Can i check with you, on your 1st circle failed did Dr Prashant explain to you what is the reason?
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 1 2014, 10:21 PM)
Hi, which mean on your second circle you all success is using fresh embryo or frozen embryo? If can success in using fresh embryo is consider very good liao lo ... tongue.gif Normally % on fresh embryo is very low...I heard fresh embryo mostly cannot success due certain reason like hormone medicine effect our body or else is women health problem. I also worry i cannot produce more good egg...if can produce more good egg i got nothing to worry liao..hehe. Cos can keep freezing and come back do after 1 or 2 month.
Yes, i got faith with our 1st try this coming week. Feeling nervous but still ok can handle it thanks. smile.gif

Can i check with you, on your 1st circle failed did Dr Prashant explain to you what is the reason?
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It is not easy to pinpoint the reason for failure, for my wife and myself, Dr Helena thinks that the eggs transferred did not implant due to very low marker count in bloodtest (this was a fresh ET cycle). We are going for a frozen ET cycle in Aug, but since our eggs are frozen on day 3, we plan to thaw it and let it grow to day 5 blastocyst before transferring. No idea if that will be successful or not, but I guess our age is catching up hence chances are diminishing for us. Remember that there are a lot of factors in getting positive results, not just a frozen cycle transfer, but I am confident Dr Helena will take care of you very well based on our experience.
Good luck!
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[quote=Nitrous,Jul 9 2014, 03:23 PM]
It is not easy to pinpoint the reason for failure, for my wife and myself, Dr Helena thinks that the eggs transferred did not implant due to very low marker count in bloodtest (this was a fresh ET cycle). We are going for a frozen ET cycle in Aug, but since our eggs are frozen on day 3, we plan to thaw it and let it grow to day 5 blastocyst before transferring. No idea if that will be successful or not, but I guess our age is catching up hence chances are diminishing for us. Remember that there are a lot of factors in getting positive results, not just a frozen cycle transfer, but I am confident Dr Helena will take care of you very well based on our experience.
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I will start my injection either this Sat or next Monday. Confusing as my period 1st day is complicated as Dr Helena give me 4 day Gynera pill now period are so stable but i think we manage to get there. So excited hope every go smoothly.

May i know Blastocyst charging extra how much? Any reason why some people need blastocyst? Thanks
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 10 2014, 01:23 PM)
I will start my injection either this Sat or next Monday.  Confusing as my period 1st day is complicated as Dr Helena give me 4 day Gynera pill now period are so stable but i think we manage to get there. So excited hope every go smoothly.

May i know Blastocyst charging extra how much? Any reason why some people need blastocyst? Thanks
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Blastocyst is actually a 5-day old fertilized egg, where the embryo forms a ball and the ball is almost ready for implant (hatching), in which the inner mass will become the foetus. We have had failures (twice) for 3-day old embryos, hence we would like to go for blastocyst transfer instead this round, as the embryos would have grown significantly with that additional 2 days (and hopefully more robust) and is almost ready for implantation.
The drawback, is that a lot of fertilized embryos do not survive past the 3-days mark in the lab and become a blastocyst. At the end of the day, the lab's petri dish is never a match to a women's uterus, and the women's body is vastly superior compared to the lab's test tubes, thus chances of the embryo surviving inside the body is much higher than on a petri dish.
I do not know how much extra would a blastocyst transfer cost, we will know when we start our ET. biggrin.gif As for yourself, my suggestion to you is to listen to Dr Helena, and seek her advise on your ET preference, as each case is different and she will definitely want the best for you.
Hope this helps...
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Jul 10 2014, 06:54 PM)
Blastocyst is actually a 5-day old fertilized egg, where the embryo forms a ball and the ball is almost ready for implant (hatching), in which the inner mass will become the foetus. We have had failures (twice) for 3-day old embryos, hence we would like to go for blastocyst transfer instead this round, as the embryos would have grown significantly with that additional 2 days (and hopefully more robust) and is almost ready for implantation.
The drawback, is that a lot of fertilized embryos do not survive past the 3-days mark in the lab and become a blastocyst. At the end of the day, the lab's petri dish is never a match to a women's uterus, and the women's body is vastly superior compared to the lab's test tubes, thus chances of the embryo surviving inside the body is much higher than on a petri dish.
I do not know how much extra would a blastocyst transfer cost, we will know when we start our ET.  biggrin.gif As for yourself, my suggestion to you is to listen to Dr Helena, and seek her advise on your ET preference, as each case is different and she will definitely want the best for you.
Hope this helps...
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Sure. I will follow what Dr Helena said but this circle my IVF slightly different as normal IVF. She found out i got Corpus Leteum cyst so she give me on Gynera for 4 days then stop for 5 day and return for 1st injection on next Monday. I was surprise how she can know my period on Monday is day 2 or day 3. The problem is the Gynera make my period not stable so still don't know shall i back to take my 1st injection on this Sat or coming Monday. As i know 1st injection should done on my day 2 period. SO this circle i will try to follow what she said. Really hope our ivf can success. If can hope my folicle can grow according to the size atleast we can freezing the extra embryo.

Wish both of us good luck then. Wish to hear good news from you soon. cheers
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Dear all daddy & mummy,

For those who successfully get a baby with ivf please advice.
My wife had ET with 3 embryo 13 days ago. we ask to come back for luteal support every 4 days cost RM320/visit which include

1. Cyclogest pessary: one pessary (400mg), twice daily
2. Crinone vaginal gel: one gel (90mg) daily
3. Utrogestan vaginal capsule: two capsules (100mg), three times daily
4. Pregnyl injection: 5000 iu every four days
5. Proluton injection: one ampous (250mg) every four days

2nd visit with urine & blood test and result is positive
3rd visit also same with positive result.Today we been told to come back every 4 days for the next 12 weeks. Mean RM320 x 21 = RM 6,720

Do we really need this kind of treatment?? after spending about RM16K for the IVF and some more need to go hospital every 4days... This was too tiring and expensive..

Please advice rclxub.gif sweat.gif
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QUOTE(scubamy @ Jul 11 2014, 07:20 PM)
Dear all daddy & mummy,

For those who successfully get a baby with ivf please advice.
My wife had ET with 3 embryo 13 days ago. we ask to come back for luteal support every 4 days cost RM320/visit which include

1. Cyclogest pessary: one pessary (400mg), twice daily
2. Crinone vaginal gel: one gel (90mg) daily
3. Utrogestan vaginal capsule: two capsules (100mg), three times daily
4. Pregnyl injection: 5000 iu every four days
5. Proluton injection: one ampous (250mg) every four days

2nd visit with urine & blood test and result is positive
3rd visit also same with positive result.Today we been told to come back every 4 days for the next 12 weeks. Mean RM320 x 21 = RM 6,720

Do we really need this kind of treatment?? after spending about RM16K for the IVF and some more need to go hospital every 4days... This was too tiring and expensive..

Please advice rclxub.gif  sweat.gif
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Hi, which center you done your IVF treatment? Kl Fertility also? IF can afford try go ahead with the plan but cant afford since ur pregnancy test is positive i think u need more is Progesterone. this is base as what i know.

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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 11 2014, 11:00 PM)
Hi, which center you done your IVF treatment? Kl Fertility also? IF can afford try go ahead with the plan but cant afford since ur pregnancy test is positive i think u need more is Progesterone. this is base as what i know.

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i'm with Metro IVF Dr.Tee. For those for gone tru IVF did you really have this luteal support? Before we sign up the IVF consultant told us after ET we have to come back 3 times for the luteal support but now they told us need to come back for another 12 weeks?! I was like rclxub.gif rclxub.gif maybe because of the roller coaster emotion and tiring to come back every 4 days..
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QUOTE(scubamy @ Jul 12 2014, 12:04 PM)
i'm with Metro IVF Dr.Tee. For those for gone tru IVF did you really have this luteal support? Before we sign up the IVF consultant told us after ET we have to come back 3 times for the luteal support but now they  told us need to come back for another 12 weeks?! I was like  rclxub.gif  rclxub.gif  maybe because of the roller coaster emotion and tiring to come back every  4 days..
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I not sure about this, but Dr Tee is a good doctor i am he got his reason why ask you to come in so many day.

Actually, i just started my 1st injection with 200iu Puregon and 75iu Humog. Feelin nervous but wish my dream come true soon. Can give me advise what injection Dr Tee provided you during ur ivf treatment? You successful using Fresh Embryo Transfer?

Wish u all the best, happy for u.
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QUOTE(scubamy @ Jul 11 2014, 06:20 PM)
Dear all daddy & mummy,

For those who successfully get a baby with ivf please advice.
My wife had ET with 3 embryo 13 days ago. we ask to come back for luteal support every 4 days cost RM320/visit which include

1. Cyclogest pessary: one pessary (400mg), twice daily
2. Crinone vaginal gel: one gel (90mg) daily
3. Utrogestan vaginal capsule: two capsules (100mg), three times daily
4. Pregnyl injection: 5000 iu every four days
5. Proluton injection: one ampous (250mg) every four days

2nd visit with urine & blood test and result is positive
3rd visit also same with positive result.Today we been told to come back every 4 days for the next 12 weeks. Mean RM320 x 21 = RM 6,720

Do we really need this kind of treatment?? after spending about RM16K for the IVF and some more need to go hospital every 4days... This was too tiring and expensive..

Please advice rclxub.gif  sweat.gif
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Hi Scubamy

I'm also one of Dr Tee patients,that's a lot of support med you got there.
I was only prescribed utrogestan pessary 100mgx3 and progynovax2 daily & proluton injections every 4days but still cost me Rm320 each visits.
He will gradually stop the meds during the first trimester.The oral and pessary will stop at 9 weeks and injections may continue until you complete first trimester.mine was completely stopped at 11weeks...
I guess your ultimate goal is to have a baby so a lil sacrifice during these 3mths is bearable right?Better be safe than sorry.

Cheers and good luck.

This post has been edited by michellewcm: Jul 13 2014, 12:12 PM
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QUOTE(michellewcm @ Jul 13 2014, 01:10 PM)
Hi Scubamy

I'm also one of Dr Tee patients,that's a lot of support med you got there.
I was only prescribed utrogestan pessary 100mgx3 and progynovax2 daily & proluton injections every 4days but still cost me Rm320 each visits.
He will gradually stop the meds during the first trimester.The oral and pessary will stop at 9 weeks and injections may continue until you complete first trimester.mine was completely stopped at 11weeks...
I guess your ultimate goal is to have a baby so a lil sacrifice during these 3mths is bearable right?Better be safe than sorry.

Cheers and good luck.
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Good and happy to hear all of you all are success in IVF .. i also wish i can be like you all smile.gif
Congrats both of u ... cheers
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got a close friend to my wife who did this not long ago. if i'm not mistaken they did it Penang coz the cost is cheaper compared to KL. it cost them around 12k-18k if im not mistaken.

the baby is now 8 months old and healthier than ever. will ask them bout the info and will share it here to you guys smile.gif
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QUOTE(biofuel @ Jul 22 2014, 12:43 PM)
got a close friend to my wife who did this not long ago. if i'm not mistaken they did it Penang coz the cost is cheaper compared to KL. it cost them around 12k-18k if im not mistaken.

the baby is now 8 months old and healthier than ever. will ask them bout the info and will share it here to you guys smile.gif
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If i not mistaken the doctor is call Dr Ng in Lam Wah Ee...i heard he quite famous in Penang. Some are pregnant under him on 1st IVF fresh embryo transfer.


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Hi all,

For those who wanted to go for IVF at lower cost, you can go look for Dr. Tham at Ipoh GH. He is a very experience doctor in this field. And the cost is a lot lower than private hospital. If you want more details, you can pm me.
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Hi, I'm considering to do IVF since I have been TTC for 5yrs and I'm now 35yrs old with ovarian endometriosis and blocked left fallopian tube. However, I'm concerned of a bb's health conceived via IVF. Heard that cleft is a common defect in IVF bbs. Is that true? Read plenty of forums on IVF but none mentioned on risks / birth defects associated with IVF, apart from the emotional roller coasters.

Any advice anyone? Thanks!
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QUOTE(bbdustsick @ Jul 28 2014, 02:19 PM)
Hi, I'm considering to do IVF since I have been TTC for 5yrs and I'm now 35yrs old with ovarian endometriosis and blocked left fallopian tube. However, I'm concerned of a bb's health conceived via IVF. Heard that cleft is a common defect in IVF bbs. Is that true? Read plenty of forums on IVF but none mentioned on risks / birth defects associated with IVF, apart from the emotional roller coasters.

Any advice anyone? Thanks!
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Not sure about this. But as i know when come to a couple unable to conceived naturally IVF is the only way to help a couple. If really got so many risky undergo IVF but u see all the center are full of people who going through ivf.

If u decide what u shud do just dun think too much. This is my advice.
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QUOTE(bbdustsick @ Jul 28 2014, 02:19 PM)
Hi, I'm considering to do IVF since I have been TTC for 5yrs and I'm now 35yrs old with ovarian endometriosis and blocked left fallopian tube. However, I'm concerned of a bb's health conceived via IVF. Heard that cleft is a common defect in IVF bbs. Is that true? Read plenty of forums on IVF but none mentioned on risks / birth defects associated with IVF, apart from the emotional roller coasters.

Any advice anyone? Thanks!
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God will show us the way. If ur heart already decided to go through IVF just dun think too much will make u more stress. Hope this help.
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I just failed my fresh IVF cycle. So sad ....
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I just failed my fresh IVF cycle. So sad ....
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I know how u feel, my wife went thru it b4. she was so hurt deep inside but never tell anyone about her feeling including me. Just take care...

Anyway, my wife is going to deliver next week rclxm9.gif How?

You might not believe it or people will say bullshit but somehow it works for me and my wife.

A friend of friend told to eat Durian..musang king. Eat for 1 week then can start to get intimate during the ovulation time.
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QUOTE(wongck @ Aug 6 2014, 10:13 PM)
I know how u feel, my wife went thru it b4. she was so hurt deep inside but never tell anyone about her feeling including me. Just take care...

Anyway, my wife is going to deliver next week  rclxm9.gif  How?

You might not believe it or people will say bullshit but somehow it works for me and my wife.

A friend of friend told to eat Durian..musang king. Eat for 1 week then can start to get intimate during the ovulation time.
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Wow...congrats. You all conceived naturally?
You all done IVF before also? Is it true frozen embryo transfer success rate higher than fresh embryo?
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Wow...congrats. You all conceived naturally?
You all done IVF before also? Is it true frozen embryo transfer success rate higher than fresh embryo?
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Yes conceived naturally...we did try iui and ivf, none of them successful.

Is it true frozen embryo transfer success rate higher than fresh embryo? > Not sure about this, last time doctor told us is grade B for embryo. No success also..
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QUOTE(wongck @ Aug 7 2014, 11:01 AM)
Yes conceived naturally...we did try iui and ivf, none of them successful.

Is it true frozen embryo transfer success rate higher than fresh embryo? > Not sure about this, last time doctor told us is grade B for embryo. No success also..
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My tube is block .. so i think i cannot conceive naturally ... only IVF unless there are miracle haha.
I still scare to try FET. My fresh put in 8 cell grade 2 embryo also failed. I worried now cause i got same grade same cell embryo frozen. Scare the result out the same.
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Aug 7 2014, 11:49 AM)
My tube is block .. so i think i cannot conceive naturally ... only IVF unless there are miracle haha.
I still scare to try FET. My fresh put in 8 cell grade 2 embryo also failed. I worried now cause i got same grade same cell embryo frozen. Scare the result out the same.
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It is the same problem here as well, fresh ET failed twice with us.
For now, go get some rest as you need to clear your body of all the hormonal injections that you taken, go for some holiday and relax. Nourish your body and ensure that your menstrual cycle has return back to normal before you continue the frozen ET cycle.
Our Frozen ET cycle would take place end of this month (after more than 3 months hiatus, doing Chinese traditional medicine + treatment in the mean time), i'll update if there are any further news biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Aug 8 2014, 11:05 AM)
It is the same problem here as well, fresh ET failed twice with us.
For now, go get some rest as you need to clear your body of all the hormonal injections that you taken, go for some holiday and relax. Nourish your body and ensure that your menstrual cycle has return back to normal before you continue the frozen ET cycle.
Our Frozen ET cycle would take place end of this month (after more than 3 months hiatus, doing Chinese traditional medicine + treatment in the mean time), i'll update if there are any further news biggrin.gif
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Yes, good luck. Wish to hear good news from you soon.

Your 1st IVF no frozen egg that why you try two fresh IVF?
I wont try now will do it maybe in October cycle cause i scare to another failure again. I doing under Dr Helena she said will try to do some uterus scratching this round but i still scare of failure again. Leave it to god to decide then.
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Aug 11 2014, 12:00 PM)
Yes, good luck. Wish to hear good news from you soon.

Your 1st IVF no frozen egg that why you try two fresh IVF?
I wont try now will do it maybe in October cycle cause i scare to another failure again. I doing under Dr Helena she said will try to do some uterus scratching this round but i still scare of failure again. Leave it to god to decide then.
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Our first IVF cycle only had 4 viable fertilized embryos, 3 of them were used in the first ET (unsuccessful), leaving only one embryo frozen.
We then moved to KL Fertility under Dr Helena to perform our second IVF cycle, in which 7 viable fertilized embryos were obtained, 2 have been used for the first ET after second IVF cycle (unsuccessful), leaving 5 frozen. Subsequently we had the remaining one frozen from the first IVF cycle transferred over to KL Fertility, making a total of 6 frozen embryos.
We will slowly consume the remaining embryos in our FET cycle, in theory, we should have 3 more FET rounds to complete (if things go well). I guess we all have done our best for now, we can now only leave it to the powers beyond our control to determine the success of those remaining cycles.
All the best to your IVF as well... cheers!

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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Aug 12 2014, 12:49 PM)
Our first IVF cycle only had 4 viable fertilized embryos, 3 of them were used in the first ET (unsuccessful), leaving only one embryo frozen.
We then moved to KL Fertility under Dr Helena to perform our second IVF cycle, in which 7 viable fertilized  embryos were obtained, 2 have been used for the first ET after second IVF cycle (unsuccessful), leaving 5 frozen. Subsequently we had the remaining one frozen from the first IVF cycle transferred over to KL Fertility, making a total of 6 frozen embryos.
We will slowly consume the remaining embryos in our FET cycle, in theory, we should have 3 more FET rounds to complete (if things go well). I guess we all have done our best for now, we can now only leave it to the powers beyond our control to determine the success of those remaining cycles.
All the best to your IVF as well... cheers!
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Me also under Dr Helena, also have balance 6 frozen embryo. I hope i still got 3 time to transfer. Just afraid the frozen embryo cant use on my FET. Although i got a good 8 cell embryo frozen but some good grade embryo doesn't work make me feel so sad.

I will try to relax myself and start the FET soon maybe on Oct or November as September i think is too early as i just failed in end of July.
Wish you good luck. Hope we both have our dream come true one day. Cheer smile.gif
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Hi,

Am lying down next to my baby girl and suddenly have the urge to check out this forum. I used to read this forum when I was ttc and sourcing for advice to go for ivf treatmemnt. I have learned one thing is that whatever we do must listen to our heart and take things at a time and relax. Yes.. It might be easy said then done. But hey I went thru the whole process hence thought of sharing my experience here.
I decided to go for ivf after 3 years of ttc and realized that ttc naturally has became very stressful for both hunky and I. So decided to seek for help. There r so many doc in town serious and mixed reviews too.. So, I just listen to my heart and I actually wrote an email to dr Wong from sunfert. Never thought he would reply but I got his reply middle of the night. That's when I told myself I will go with him. Met him and did the test etc... Problem is on my hub..and I am fully ok. So doc actually asked to try iui if we want to but of course he did explained that chances of doing ivf, icsi will be far more successful. Again... I listen to my heard and told hubby I will go for ivf.

The process was tough with all the japs around. But always remember to relax... I didn't even tell people in workplace that what I was going thru... Only family knew. Hence I was taking it quite easy and i have all the support from my family too...took 2 weeks leave relaxing at home.

I was successfully with twins!! One baby girl and one baby boy!! Both hub n me were thrilled as it was one first attempt!!! I never felt so lucky and was really over the moon... Really thank god for such great gift!!

So I guess what I wanted to share here is don't give up or don't think negatively.. Positive and must be strong to take the challenge that god is testing us.. ,ost importantly listen to what your heart tells u. Which doc u r more comfortable with.. When u r ready to go thru this... Etc. it will really helps.

Hope everyone here who is planning to try or on the journey of ivf will be successful like mine!! Spread my love to everyone as whatever miserable period u r going thru soon will be replaced by bundle of joys and happiness!
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Glad to see so many mummies having gone through success with IVF. I am seeing many friends around me considering IVF too. Many people nowadays are finding it hard to conceive naturally. What a sad thing.
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QUOTE(Sunshine snoopy @ Aug 23 2014, 01:18 PM)
Hi,

Am lying down next to my baby girl and suddenly have the urge to check out this forum. I used to read this forum when I was ttc and sourcing for advice to go for ivf treatmemnt. I have learned one thing is that whatever we do must listen to our heart and take things at a time and relax. Yes.. It might be easy said then done. But hey I went thru the whole process hence thought of sharing my experience here.
I decided to go for ivf after 3 years of ttc and realized that ttc naturally has became very stressful for both hunky and I. So decided to seek for help. There r so many doc in town serious and mixed reviews too.. So, I just listen to my heart and I actually wrote an email to dr Wong from sunfert. Never thought he would reply but I got his reply middle of the night. That's when I told myself I will go with him. Met him and did the test etc... Problem is on my hub..and I am fully ok. So doc actually asked to try iui if we want to but of course he did explained that chances of doing ivf, icsi will be far more successful. Again... I listen to my heard and told hubby I will go for ivf.

The process was tough with all the japs around. But always remember to relax... I didn't even tell people in workplace that what I was going thru... Only family knew. Hence I was taking it quite easy and i have all the support from my family too...took 2 weeks leave relaxing at home.

I was successfully with twins!! One baby girl and one baby boy!! Both hub n me were thrilled as it was one first attempt!!! I never felt so lucky and was really over the moon... Really thank god for such great gift!!

So I guess what I wanted to share here is don't give up or don't think negatively.. Positive and must be strong to take the challenge that god is testing us.. ,ost importantly listen to what your heart tells u. Which doc u r more comfortable with.. When u r ready to go thru this... Etc. it will really helps.

Hope everyone here who is planning to try or on the journey of ivf will be successful like mine!! Spread my love to everyone as whatever miserable period u r going thru soon will be replaced by bundle of joys and happiness!
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CONGRATULATION. Happy to hear that. I'm waiting now hope i got a good news like all momies. Hmmm..smile.gif
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I had 3 failed cycle of IVF.
1st IVF mc at week 6
2nd and 3rd ivf, embryo does not stick. None egg make it to day 5
Is really a stressful experience for me
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I had 3 failed cycle of IVF.
1st IVF mc at week 6
2nd and 3rd ivf, embryo does not stick. None egg make it to day 5
Is really a stressful experience for me
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So sorry to hear that.
Wish you all the best in your next run. Have you tried a different gynae from the one that you had your prior IVF?
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QUOTE(cherrygal @ Sep 4 2014, 01:24 AM)
I had 3 failed cycle of IVF.
1st IVF mc at week 6
2nd and 3rd ivf, embryo does not stick. None egg make it to day 5
Is really a stressful experience for me
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Hi Cherry,

Which fertility centre you going, mind to share? Hmm...you maybe need to look for another opinion from other doctor. Before do further i think you need to go check all your hormone level and to see chinese sinseh to check any problem with your uterus or body. My 1st fresh IVF also embryo cannot stick is a unexplained fertility but if next round FET i might control my hormone level as doctor suspect my LH FSH or estrogen level too high.

I understand your feeling as is happen to me before too....dun give up sure one day we can make it.
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Good Day Everyone..

I am under Dr. Helena care now.

TTC for 15 months, no good news. naturally conceive but miscarriage once back in 2012 (have d&c)..

went to see dr helena and found out that I have PCOS.

My hormone test, insulin, vit d result all normal. Hubby test also normal.

Just came back from dr. helena meeting. she told me that next step is to go for HSG.

Can tell me more about HSG if any of you did before.

Although i have not go thru all the iui or ivf yet. I really hope there is someone to help or advice me. because i am all alone. my hubby is very busy with work and have very minimal time for me. and dont feel like sharing or telling any of my family to protect my future baby (million dollar baby issue).


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QUOTE(Minimose @ Sep 9 2014, 04:50 PM)
Good Day Everyone..

I am under Dr. Helena care now.

TTC for 15 months, no good news. naturally conceive but miscarriage once back in 2012 (have d&c)..

went to see dr helena and found out that I have PCOS.

My hormone test, insulin, vit d result all normal. Hubby test also normal.

Just came back from dr. helena meeting. she told me that next step is to go for HSG.

Can tell me more about HSG if any of you did before.

Although i have not go thru all the iui or ivf yet. I really hope there is someone to help or advice me. because i am all alone. my hubby is very busy with work and have very minimal time for me. and dont feel like sharing or telling any of my family to protect my future baby (million dollar baby issue).
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Hysterosalpingogram is performed to check the patency of your fallopian tube and to visualise if there is any anatomical differences that may impair the transport of fertilised embryo to be implanted onto your endometrium.

A contrast agent will be given from your below and it will light up the radiograph and photos will be taken and analysed later on. It may be a bit uncomfortable, you may ask for some analgesic to be taken before the HSG is performed. Do ask Dr.Helena about it. Hope you do not have any allergy towards anything and your kidneys are working well. All the best for your HSG.

Hope this clears off some of your doubts. This is the easiest explanation i can put in layman terminology.

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QUOTE(Minimose @ Sep 9 2014, 04:50 PM)
Can tell me more about HSG if any of you did before.
My wife did HSG before, as mentioned above, they inject a type of radio-dye into the uterine cavity, and take x-ray of the cavity to see if the dye actually flows into the fallopian tubes and leaks out.
My wife's HSG didn't go well, results were inconclusive and shows that the dye didn't flow anywhere. She also mentioned that the process was uncomfortable (yes there were some pain). Later on, she went for a hysteroscope, the video confirms that her fallopian tubes were indeed blocked by scar tissues and no dye flow through both fallopian tubes.
That conclusion led to the IVF process that we are going through now...
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Just happened to read this forum, i too had tried for quite sometime and finally we managed managed to conceive naturally. Stay positive and dont give up! Wish all of you guys that are ttc to be blessed with many bundles of joy and happiness.
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QUOTE(gladfly @ Jun 30 2014, 09:10 PM)
My wife was under Dato' Prashant and not Halena, so I can only comment on KL Fertility experience.

OK, blood test, they will draw some blood from the wife and test... usually for hormones to ensure the hormones are level. Its located IIANM, level 3 same building. Will have do this quite often and my wife hated it as rrr.had a bad exriance in drwing blood.

Once the blood test is OK, the course commence where you have to take injections for 10 days, same time everyday. I remember during early mornings I had to jab my wife..lol...blur blur..wife face so scared..kekeke...but after a few times you will be fine. There are 2 types of injection..once is synthetic, comes in like a diabetic pen style injector, the other more old school ..have to mix 2 vials and then inject using a small syringe, everyday also. The first one is much easier to work with.

After taking injections..just before the eggs extraction, got 2 extra injections that have to take. Those are rather big syringes..:). But luckily only 2. The egg extraction is done in same building and its actually quite quick. Will go under anesthetic..and the whole extraction process took like 1 hour. Wife was blur after coming out..so need some time to rest after that. Overall its a half day process. Normally according to Prashant, he takes about 8-10 really good sized eggs. Once extracted and inseminated, you will have 2 choices..either..to implant on 3rd day or wait till next month for the body to heal up. Best is to consult Dr Halena which is best. We tried both and I wont tell you which work. :P. Additional eggs/embryos can be frozen (additional charges apply). Best is to freeze the better ones, i.e day 5 blastocyst. 

After implant, I remember wife had to take some pills ...and insert also. About 10 days later....you will have to go do a urine test. If positive, you do blood test to confirm. If negative......just remember its not the end of the world. Miracles happens in many ways.

Good luck and I am sure you are probably in the best hands in this field. Which reminds me I have to send a thank you not to KL Fertility as my boy is due next 3 weeks.
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Hi, this is my first time posting in Lowyat, so may not know how to reply or copy and paste your replies...

I am seeing Dr. Prashant as well with my husband. He has taken two times semen analysis and both came back low % of normal sperm count. Dr. Prashant suggested that we do ICSI, which is similar to IVF but the additional step of selecting a normal sperm and injecting into the egg outside the mother's body. Here you mentioned that your first attemp at IVF did not succeed and did two rounds of IVF? Did you do them back to back? I am concern if my body will be able to handle all these jabs/hormones getting injected into my body! Generally I am healthy and aged 31 now...Husband is 31 too. Thanks for your feedbacks!
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QUOTE(PL4 @ Nov 20 2014, 11:11 AM)
Hi, this is my first time posting in Lowyat, so may not know how to reply or copy and paste your replies...

I am seeing Dr. Prashant as well with my husband. He has taken two times semen analysis and both came back low % of normal sperm count. Dr. Prashant suggested that we do ICSI, which is similar to IVF but the additional step of selecting a normal sperm and injecting into the egg outside the mother's body. Here you mentioned that your first attemp at IVF did not succeed and did two rounds of IVF? Did you do them back to back? I am concern if my body will be able to handle all these jabs/hormones getting injected into my body! Generally I am healthy and aged 31 now...Husband is 31 too. Thanks for your feedbacks!
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Hi...yes we did 2 rounds both IVF. We didn't do back to back. I think Prashant also didn't recommend us to do back to back, he mentioned to take a 6 month break before we try again. My wife took 1 year break before we tried it again( its the emotional trauma that is harder to heal)

When we took the year out, I kept assuring my wife that its ok..and that life was fine (with or without a baby). We also did TCM, (before KL Fert set up the next door TCM). The sensei prescribe us with some herbs (Korean ginseng) as he said my wife's womb was "cold". Barred my wife from drinking cold drinks and so on. As usual we just did what we were told. I cant vouch that it solved our problem but after taking the TCM course, the second egg extraction was much easier.

As far as I can tell, when my wife was going through the jabs...it was ok (physically wise). Some complaints of bloating and so on but nothing major. By right its unlikely to do 2 rounds of IVF / ICSI back to back. This is because when the egg extraction process, usually Prashant will extract as much good eggs as possible. We had to try again cause our first extraction yielded only like 5 good eggs and from that only 2 made past day 3. That 2 was implanted and unfortunately it didn't happen. If you are lucky, as our 2nd attempt, you may have a few more eggs and you are able to freeze any extra. So one may have multiple implants with 1 egg extraction sessions.

If I remember correctly, 2nd attempt we managed to extract 13 eggs and 8 made it pass day 3. Out of that 5 made it blastocyst. We froze it and came back after 1 month for implant. Used 2 of the blastocyst and was successful with 1. We froze the remaining 3 for KIV...smile.gif.

At the risk of being like trying to promote Prashant (which I am not being paid to do so laugh.gif ), you are probably in hands of one of the best fertility doctor around. We went back to him even after 1st attempt failure because we liked him, for being frank. And he gives some aura of confidence ....dunno don't ask that's what my wife says....

Lastly, I sincerely hope that your journey will end in success and welcome you to the realm of parenthood. Here's to multiple months of interrupted sleep at nights... thumbup.gif

Let me know if you need any further clarifications. You can PM me if you like


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Hi all, I have been married for 6 years and now I'm 37 & trying for a baby. I did read all the comments above and confused as I & my husband are financially not stable. How much is estimated cost for IVF? As some commented it's 15-17K...some even up to 55K. I'm planning to take loan before I start the procedures...please advice. So far the places I surveyed Metro IVF seems to be cheaper.....
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Hi all,

For those who wanted to go for IVF at lower cost, you can go look for Dr. Tham at Ipoh GH. He is a very experience doctor in this field. And the cost is a lot lower than private hospital. If you want more details, you can pm me.
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Hi, I'm very interested to do IVF under Dr Tham at Ipoh GH, I heard it from my friend but i do not know much about the procedure and how high the successful rate under his treatment?
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Has anyone here been treated by Dr Eeson Sinthamoney at Pantai for ICSI/IVF before? Appreciate any feedback. Thanks!
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QUOTE(usha77 @ Dec 11 2014, 04:04 PM)
Hi all, I have been married for 6 years and now I'm 37 & trying for a baby. I did read all the comments above and confused as I & my husband are financially not stable. How much is estimated cost for IVF? As some commented it's 15-17K...some even up to 55K. I'm planning to take loan before I start the procedures...please advice. So far the places I surveyed Metro IVF seems to be cheaper.....
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Just my opinion, based on the experience that we have been through.
15-17k would only be a bare minimum figure, and the cost will keep piling up from there onwards. Last count, I have forked out more than 40+k with 2 full IVF rounds (first round failed), 2 fresh embryo transplant and 1 frozen embryo transplant. This does not include the cost for diagnostic procedures (HSG and hysteroscopy) which involves day-care operating theater.

Note that forking out 17K for the IVF will only cover the start of IVF until the time when the fertilized egg is transferred back to the mother's womb. After this time, any additional visits to gynae or procedures to maintain the pregnancy/baby will be additional $$ going out. If the egg successfully implants and pregnancy is confirmed, the cost adds up (as scans and further medicine like Duphaston cost comes into play). You'd also need to cater for additional cost for freezing extra fertilized eggs if there are remaining, which is a once-off + yearly cost for maintenance. If all goes well from there and pregnancy is viable (heartbeat detected), ante-natal cost (your typical baby growth ultrasound scan, first trimester scan etc etc....) will comes into play.

The cost for private IVF procedures are very expensive, even we have troubles paying for it, thus I hope that the brief explanation above can give some background info over the cost involved. All is not lost though, I know that LPPKN does provide a cheaper IVF alternative which you might be able to try. Have a look at the link below and perhaps you can try giving them a call?
http://littlemamadiary.com/lppkn-fertility-treatment/

Hope this helps and good luck!

This post has been edited by Nitrous: Dec 31 2014, 11:46 AM
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Hi all,

Thank you for the replies. Appreciate every single one.

After a few months of thinking, preparing...I think my wife and I are finally ready. We are most likely going to go with Alpha Fertility Centre at Kota Damansara. We felt extremely comfortable with Dr. Leong and we feel that this is the right choice for us. If all goes well, our appointment to start would be mid-April.

Nonetheless, all options mentioned here are excellent choices and I feel anyone TTC should explore all avenues given.

This is going to be our first IVF, I'm 36 and my wife is 31. The doctors were very confident with our chances as the problem is with me  cry.gif , not my wife. She checked out A-OK. However, we are more tapered with our expectations and keeping in mind this is going to cost a fair bit of money, approx 18-22k, I'm cautiously hopeful.

I'll probably be PM'ing some of you over the next few weeks before we start, if we have any questions, if you don't mind.

Some general questions, (Sorry if it sounds too direct, just that I need some info)

1. How old was your better half when doing your first IVF?
2. How much did it cost you?
3. How did you manage the emotional roller-coaster during the month?
4. Did you inform your immediate families of your decision? How were their responses? - I've spoken to some of my family members earlier on, they were unable to accept the fact that we couldn't conceive naturally, their answers were "Just take a holiday", "Need to reduce your stress", "It only takes one", "don't worry, it'll happen". But now they seem to be coming along very slowly. Took awhile and a lot of heated conversations, though.
5. (Sorry if this question is painful) -> If you were not successful on your first try, did the doctor try to explain why?

Thanks again and good luck to all of you on your journey!!!
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Hi, we both have been TTC for almost 4 years, here we decided to go for IVF at Alpha Fertility. Can we just get some insight from you on preparation and precautions things.

Hope to hear from you. TQ in advance. biggrin.gif

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Hi, we both have been TTC for almost 4 years, here we decided to go for IVF at Alpha Fertility. Can we just get some insight from you on preparation and precautions things.

Hope to hear from you. TQ in advance.  biggrin.gif
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Hi King King,

Glad to hear that you and wifey has decided to start with Alpha. I and hubby planning to engage with Alpha too, since we had our 6/10 eggs remaining frozen in KLFC (sigh.....long story guys). We are engaging Dr.Leong too after getting feedback and recommendation from an agent. As we are now dealing with frozen eggs and NOT fresh eggs. I am yet to meet him, but hey thanks for your word...it really adds on to my confidence. My appointment is on the 7 July 2015. I heard he has a looooooo que waiting to see him. Its ok, am already immune to waiting hours and hours in KLFC.

Just to give some answers for your questions:
1. I turned 37 this month and my hubby is 45 when we tried our 1st IVF/ICSI in KLFC. We actually started in March 2015.
2. Talking about KLFC, the whole treatment cost us around RM17k ++++ extra jabs, blood test for me and hubby, semen test, semen freezing, TESA procedure around RM5k since he had an extreme low sperm count (which we are still in doubt) egg thawing fee, egg freezing fee
3. Emotional roller coaster....hahahhha....talking about it. My hubby works overseas so i had to go through it by myself with my parents help. He joined me towards my 2nd last day of my jabs. I knew its not going to easy for me, as i am afraid of needles. I will scream out of my life looking at a needle nearing me. I was too nervous and scared for couple of days. But as the days goes by i am feeling numb about it. My only problem was to get myself driven to the clinics to get those injections as i said, i cant jab it by myself. So all my injections was done by a doctor at nearby clinic. I think this is a better way, coz less anxiety is passed on to the process of jabbing if we have to do it ourselves. The doctor does it professionally anyway. Each time it cost me RM15/jab. So 2 jabs is RM30. Towards the end of the injections, i was feeling crankly, hot, so numb, stiff.....Thank god my family was there for me.
4. We both had our both families concern, as you can see we are getting tooooooo old hahahahah. What choice do we have?? Honeymoon many times also no result. Hubby has poor sperm...still has no choice. Our families understand our needs. Even if without their consent, i think its important that any fertility issues resolution should be made by the couples and not by family members. Its your life, not theirs.
5. Last question sounds tricky......hmmmm....let me try. We were asked to stop the IVF/ICSI programme in KLFC and shifting it now to Alpha for some reasons.

Hope this helps you....keep posting ya. Good Luck! God Bless!

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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Dec 31 2014, 11:42 AM)
Just my opinion, based on the experience that we have been through.
15-17k would only be a bare minimum figure, and the cost will keep piling up from there onwards. Last count, I have forked out more than 40+k with 2 full IVF rounds (first round failed), 2 fresh embryo transplant and 1 frozen embryo transplant. This does not include the cost for diagnostic procedures (HSG and hysteroscopy) which involves day-care operating theater.

Note that forking out 17K for the IVF will only cover the start of IVF until the time when the fertilized egg is transferred back to the mother's womb. After this time, any additional visits to gynae or procedures to maintain the pregnancy/baby will be additional $$ going out. If the egg successfully implants and pregnancy is confirmed, the cost adds up (as scans and further medicine like Duphaston cost comes into play). You'd also need to cater for additional cost for freezing extra fertilized eggs if there are remaining, which is a once-off + yearly cost for maintenance. If all goes well from there and pregnancy is viable (heartbeat detected), ante-natal cost (your typical baby growth ultrasound scan, first trimester scan etc etc....) will comes into play.

The cost for private IVF procedures are very expensive, even we have troubles paying for it, thus I hope that the brief explanation above can give some background info over the cost involved. All is not lost though, I know that LPPKN does provide a cheaper IVF alternative which you might be able to try. Have a look at the link below and perhaps you can try giving them a call?
http://littlemamadiary.com/lppkn-fertility-treatment/

Hope this helps and good luck!
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Hi Nitrous,

My advice would be please complete all necessary health & blood test prior to signing up with IVF/ICSI programme. Which is get all this done:
1. Your blood test
2. Ultrasound screening for cyst, fibroids etc detection
3. Hubby's semen test - check on his guys motility, morphology, count etc
4. Hubby's blood test - to measure the level of testosterone and other hormones in his blood. If the hormone test result isn't good, please bear in mind the possibility to produce quality sample on the day of egg retrieval will be lowered. The only options available is :

A. to use your hubby poor quality sperm and fertilize all eggs
B. to opt for donor sperm
C. to freeze all your eggs and decide later go for A or B. Not all hospitals like Metro, Concept Fertility Centre, Ramey Medical Centre provides egg freezing services.

Its better that you clear all results given to you and seek extensive counselling from the hospitals. Be sure of what ever they may say. Fertilizing your precious eggs with poor quality sperm will not result in good surviving embryos formed even until the blastocyst day.

Metro is a good choice dear, as i am very comfortable with Dr. Tee's consultation, diagnosis. You may also speak with Ms. Yana the counsellor.

Hope this helps you dear. Good Luck! God Bless!
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Hi Nitrous,

My advice would be please complete all necessary health & blood test prior to signing up with IVF/ICSI programme. Which is get all this done:
1. Your blood test
2. Ultrasound screening for cyst, fibroids etc detection
3. Hubby's semen test - check on his guys motility, morphology, count etc
4. Hubby's blood test - to measure the level of testosterone and other hormones in his blood. If the hormone test result isn't good, please bear in mind the possibility to produce quality sample on the day of egg retrieval will be lowered. The only options available is :

A. to use your hubby poor quality sperm and fertilize all eggs
B. to opt for donor sperm
C. to freeze all your eggs and decide later go for A or B. Not all hospitals like Metro, Concept Fertility Centre, Ramey Medical Centre provides egg freezing services.

Its better that you clear all results given to you and seek extensive counselling from the hospitals. Be sure of what ever they may say. Fertilizing your precious eggs with poor quality sperm will not result in good surviving embryos formed even until the blastocyst day.

Metro is a good choice dear, as i am very comfortable with Dr. Tee's consultation, diagnosis. You may also speak with Ms. Yana the counsellor. 

Hope this helps you dear.  Good Luck! God Bless!
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You need to take care of your diet, both of you.
Eat more vegetable, less meat.

Sleep enough, drink less coffee.

You and your wife health must be good first.
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stress is the main problem, family pressure to peer pressure on having child. go for a long holiday and you will be suprised with the results

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post Jun 24 2015, 03:08 PM

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QUOTE(PL4 @ Dec 29 2014, 01:49 PM)
Has anyone here been treated by Dr Eeson Sinthamoney at Pantai for ICSI/IVF before? Appreciate any feedback. Thanks!
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Hi,

I have left my contact no. to his nurse for an appointment. Unfortunately been a month no calls from them. I also found out that they cant provide me with my inquiries. So no experience consulting with him.
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post Jun 25 2015, 11:13 AM

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QUOTE(Joyful2006 @ Jun 24 2015, 02:57 PM)
QUOTE(Joyful2006 @ Jun 24 2015, 02:56 PM)

Hi Nitrous,

My advice would be please complete all necessary health & blood test prior to signing up with IVF/ICSI programme. Which is get all this done:
1. Your blood test
2. Ultrasound screening for cyst, fibroids etc detection
3. Hubby's semen test - check on his guys motility, morphology, count etc
4. Hubby's blood test - to measure the level of testosterone and other hormones in his blood. If the hormone test result isn't good, please bear in mind the possibility to produce quality sample on the day of egg retrieval will be lowered. The only options available is :

A. to use your hubby poor quality sperm and fertilize all eggs
B. to opt for donor sperm
C. to freeze all your eggs and decide later go for A or B. Not all hospitals like Metro, Concept Fertility Centre, Ramey Medical Centre provides egg freezing services.

Its better that you clear all results given to you and seek extensive counselling from the hospitals. Be sure of what ever they may say. Fertilizing your precious eggs with poor quality sperm will not result in good surviving embryos formed even until the blastocyst day.

Metro is a good choice dear, as i am very comfortable with Dr. Tee's consultation, diagnosis. You may also speak with Ms. Yana the counsellor. 

Hope this helps you dear.  Good Luck! God Bless!


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Sorry this was meant for Nisha77....not Nitrous....excited to help others. smile.gif nod.gif
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Haha... No worries, anyone would benefit from the info here anyway.
Just an update on our journey at KL Fertility : My wife gave birth to a healthy baby girl about 1.5 months ago. It is a massive effort now to keep her well fed and happy. I would say, IVF process is relatively simpler than taking care of the kid, as the baby needs 24x7 of your attention (though I am pretty sure many of you would be happy to do so) nod.gif
For those still in the IVF journey, I wish you and your family all the best, and don't give up.... Cheers! icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(Joyful2006 @ Jun 24 2015, 03:35 PM)
Hi King King,

Glad to hear that you and wifey has decided to start with Alpha. I and hubby planning to engage with Alpha too, since we had our 6/10 eggs remaining frozen in KLFC (sigh.....long story guys). We are engaging Dr.Leong too after getting feedback and recommendation from an agent. As we are now dealing with frozen eggs and NOT fresh eggs. I am yet to meet him, but hey thanks for your word...it really adds on to my confidence. My appointment is on the 7 July 2015. I heard he has a looooooo que waiting to see him. Its ok, am already immune to waiting hours and hours in KLFC.

Just to give some answers for your questions:
1. I turned 37 this month and my hubby is 45 when we tried our 1st IVF/ICSI in KLFC. We actually started in March 2015.
2. Talking about KLFC, the whole treatment cost us around RM17k ++++ extra jabs, blood test for me and hubby, semen test, semen freezing, TESA procedure around RM5k since he had an extreme low sperm count (which we are still in doubt) egg thawing fee, egg freezing fee
3. Emotional roller coaster....hahahhha....talking about it. My hubby works overseas so i had to go through it by myself with my parents help. He joined me towards my 2nd last day of my jabs. I knew its not going to easy for me, as i am afraid of needles. I will scream out of my life looking at a needle nearing me. I was too nervous and scared for couple of days. But as the days goes by i am feeling numb about it. My only problem was to get myself driven to the clinics to get those injections as i said, i cant jab it by myself. So all my injections was done by a doctor at nearby clinic. I think this is a better way, coz less anxiety is passed on to the process of jabbing if we have to do it ourselves. The doctor does it professionally anyway. Each time it cost me RM15/jab. So 2 jabs is RM30. Towards the end of the injections, i was feeling crankly, hot, so numb, stiff.....Thank god my family was there for me.
4. We both had our both families concern, as you can see we are getting tooooooo old hahahahah. What choice do we have?? Honeymoon many times also no result. Hubby has poor sperm...still has no choice. Our families understand our needs. Even if without their consent, i think its important that any fertility issues resolution should be made by the couples and not by family members. Its your life, not theirs.
5. Last question sounds tricky......hmmmm....let me try. We were asked to stop the IVF/ICSI programme in KLFC and shifting it now to Alpha for some reasons.

Hope this helps you....keep posting ya. Good Luck! God Bless!
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Hi, i also from KLFC too under Dr Helena, may i know what is the reason you want to swift it to ALPHA? I also abit scare now...is it no good? I am planning to do my FET there again. Thanks
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[quote=Nitrous,Jun 25 2015, 12:13 PM]
Sorry this was meant for Nisha77....not Nitrous....excited to help others. smile.gif nod.gif
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Haha... No worries, anyone would benefit from the info here anyway.
Just an update on our journey at KL Fertility : My wife gave birth to a healthy baby girl about 1.5 months ago. It is a massive effort now to keep her well fed and happy. I would say, IVF process is relatively simpler than taking care of the kid, as the baby needs 24x7 of your attention (though I am pretty sure many of you would be happy to do so) nod.gif
For those still in the IVF journey, I wish you and your family all the best, and don't give up.... Cheers! icon_rolleyes.gif
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Hi, may i know your IVF at KLFC is under which doctor? Mine is under Dr Helena. Thanks
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 2 2015, 12:33 PM)
Hi, may i know your IVF at KLFC is under which doctor? Mine is under Dr Helena. Thanks
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Hi, we are under Dr Helena too.... a very caring doc
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Just wanted to add to the discussion.
We did 3 rounds iui with my normal ob clinic-all failed.
Decided to try IVF(ICSI) and gave Mahkota IVF centre in Melaka a try. We paid exactly RM 15000 with Dr Azlina, dont know about the other doctors there.I was informed before hand it could cost more. But I responded well to the meds.

I really like her. Doesnt push extra's on a client. Our first cycle was a success, so all in all was a gamble that paid off.

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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 2 2015, 12:31 PM)
Hi, i also from KLFC too under Dr Helena, may i know what is the reason you want to swift it to ALPHA? I also abit scare now...is it no good? I am planning to do my FET  there again. Thanks
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Hi,

I am not sure about Dr. Helena's way of treatment and diagnosis, cause i was all the way under Dr.P with lots of hope and trust. Well, on my ER day on wards all my appointments was full of disappointments.

Following situations and considerations made us to move to other centres, mainly cause:
1. My hubby was not properly tested and diagnosed to confirm that his sperm is not suitable to fertilize my frozen eggs. Actually my hubby went thru TESA in KLFC with the hope to get some quality sperm but unfortunately he failed. So immediately decision to make within 10 mins either go for "donor" or "use up hubby's sample". We decided to fertilize 4/10 frozen eggs with watever the embryologist could find....results no good embryo was formed....so no ET was done on me.

2. We were not given sufficient counseling in terms of making us understand what was actually right and wrong about our blood test prior to us starting with the entire IVF program. If we were told earlier that my hubby's sperm was that bad, i don;t think so i will consider to commence the treatment in KLFC.

3. In the effort to save the remaining 6 frozen eggs, we decided to use a donor sperm....but the bad news is.....Dr.P doesn't do with donor sperm anymore, cause he doesn't have the license to do so. Then why in the first place ask us to consider for donor sperm?? Why didn't he test my hubby completely and advice us that IVF will be successful with a donor sperm as a standby?? This made me to walk into sooo many hospitals name it...Metro Klang, TMC Puchong, TMC Kota Damansara, PrinceCourt KL, Alpha FC....just to get a clear understanding of my current situation. what went wrong?? It all boils down to know there is such a huge difference the way other hospitals counsel us compare with KLFC.

4. Thinking about donor, its not an easy thing to find a donor, suitable donor, affordable donor, quality sperm from donor....i was going nuts pass 2 - 3 months looking for a donor. We some how manage to get a donor and wanted to continue with KLFC but was told NO...cause no license to do with a donor?? What the hell!!! So how?? What shall we do next??

5. All the other hospitals listed above, were afraid to give us the assurance that 100% fertilization may take place with frozen eggs as their main reason was:

a. its frozen eggs thus quality will drop over the time
b. due to the stress of transfer from KLFC to their location, quality may drop
c. upon thawing no guarantee the eggs may survive

Oh god! give me a break please.....Dr.P is the only person on the earth that guarantees my frozen eggs quality is not compromised.... the rest centres NO..NO...NO...GUARANTEE. My frustration level has gone to the hike by now.

6. Last resort i consulted Dr.Leong and narrated my entire story...well...he too said the same thing...no assurance given...but i don't have a choice now, coz we are in need of a donor. Finally, agreed to stick with Alpha under Dr.Leong. My treatment is scheduled to start by end of July 2015, hope to gain more and all my lost hope....just for my hubby and future baby...

7. I guess GOD is watching over me and all my hard work in trying to save my eggs. Need more of his blessings....Moral of the story NEVER GIVE UP LADIES!

*P/S: I am not trying to discourage or demotivate any members in this forum. The decision to proceed depends on the level of trust, confidence and comfort of each individual with the consulting doctor. This is just my side of the story. No patients leave the clinic without paying consultation fees (the minimum a doctor earns per day per patients). So please take your time to raise any doubtful questions and leave the clinic with a satisfactory answer. Remember the more you speak the more doctors will listen. Never ever assume that doctors knows the best and we know the least.

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So sorry to hear that.
Before starting the I've process, both husband and wife will need to gone thru the blood test and sperm checking, they didn't go thru it in a first place?

QUOTE(Joyful2006 @ Jul 7 2015, 01:31 PM)
Hi,

I am not sure about Dr. Helena's way of treatment and diagnosis, cause i was all the way under Dr.P with lots of hope and trust. Well, on my ER day on wards all my appointments was full of disappointments.

Following situations and considerations made us to move to other centres, mainly cause:
1. My hubby was not properly tested and diagnosed to confirm that his sperm is not suitable to fertilize my frozen eggs. Actually my hubby went thru TESA in KLFC with the hope to get some quality sperm but unfortunately he failed. So immediately decision to make within 10 mins either go for "donor" or "use up hubby's sample". We decided to fertilize 4/10 frozen eggs with watever the embryologist could find....results no good embryo was formed....so no ET was done on me.

2. We were not given sufficient counseling in terms of making us understand what was actually right and wrong about our blood test prior to us starting with the entire IVF program. If we were told earlier that my hubby's sperm was that bad, i don;t think so i will consider to commence the treatment in KLFC.

3. In the effort to save the remaining 6 frozen eggs, we decided to use a donor sperm....but the bad news is.....Dr.P doesn't do with donor sperm anymore, cause he doesn't have the license to do so. Then why in the first place ask us to consider for donor sperm?? Why didn't he test my hubby completely and advice us that IVF will be successful with a donor sperm as a standby?? This made me to walk into sooo many hospitals name it...Metro Klang, TMC Puchong, TMC Kota Damansara, PrinceCourt KL, Alpha FC....just to get a clear understanding of my current situation. what went wrong?? It all boils down to know there is such a huge difference the way other hospitals counsel us compare with KLFC.

4. Thinking about donor, its not an easy thing to find a donor, suitable donor, affordable donor, quality sperm from donor....i was going nuts pass 2 - 3 months looking for a donor. We some how manage to get a donor and wanted to continue with KLFC but was told NO...cause no license to do with a donor?? What the hell!!! So how?? What shall we do next??

5. All the other hospitals listed above, were afraid to give us the assurance that 100% fertilization may take place with frozen eggs as their main reason was:

a. its frozen eggs thus quality will drop over the time
b. due to the stress of transfer from KLFC to their location, quality may drop
c. upon thawing no guarantee the eggs may survive

Oh god! give me a break please.....Dr.P is the only person on the earth that guarantees my frozen eggs quality is not compromised.... the rest centres NO..NO...NO...GUARANTEE. My frustration level has gone to the hike by now.

6. Last resort i consulted Dr.Leong and narrated my entire story...well...he too said the same thing...no assurance given...but i don't have a choice now, coz we are in need of a donor. Finally, agreed to stick with Alpha under Dr.Leong. My treatment is scheduled to start by end of July 2015, hope to gain more and all my lost hope....just for my hubby and future baby...

7. I guess GOD is watching over me and all my hard work in trying to save my eggs. Need more of his blessings....Moral of the story NEVER GIVE UP LADIES!

*P/S: I am not trying to discourage or demotivate any members in this forum. The decision to proceed depends on the level of trust, confidence and comfort of each individual with the consulting doctor. This is just my side of the story. No patients leave the clinic without paying consultation fees (the minimum a doctor earns per day per patients). So please take your time to raise any doubtful questions and leave the clinic with a satisfactory answer. Remember the more you speak the more doctors will listen. Never ever assume that doctors knows the best and we know the least.
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[quote=Nitrous,Jun 25 2015, 12:13 PM]
Sorry this was meant for Nisha77....not Nitrous....excited to help others. smile.gif nod.gif
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[/quote]
Haha... No worries, anyone would benefit from the info here anyway.
Just an update on our journey at KL Fertility : My wife gave birth to a healthy baby girl about 1.5 months ago. It is a massive effort now to keep her well fed and happy. I would say, IVF process is relatively simpler than taking care of the kid, as the baby needs 24x7 of your attention (though I am pretty sure many of you would be happy to do so) nod.gif
For those still in the IVF journey, I wish you and your family all the best, and don't give up.... Cheers! icon_rolleyes.gif
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Congratulation. you success under which Dr and through fresh ivf or FET ? Thanks
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QUOTE(Joyful2006 @ Jul 7 2015, 02:31 PM)
Hi,

I am not sure about Dr. Helena's way of treatment and diagnosis, cause i was all the way under Dr.P with lots of hope and trust. Well, on my ER day on wards all my appointments was full of disappointments.

Following situations and considerations made us to move to other centres, mainly cause:
1. My hubby was not properly tested and diagnosed to confirm that his sperm is not suitable to fertilize my frozen eggs. Actually my hubby went thru TESA in KLFC with the hope to get some quality sperm but unfortunately he failed. So immediately decision to make within 10 mins either go for "donor" or "use up hubby's sample". We decided to fertilize 4/10 frozen eggs with watever the embryologist could find....results no good embryo was formed....so no ET was done on me.

2. We were not given sufficient counseling in terms of making us understand what was actually right and wrong about our blood test prior to us starting with the entire IVF program. If we were told earlier that my hubby's sperm was that bad, i don;t think so i will consider to commence the treatment in KLFC.

3. In the effort to save the remaining 6 frozen eggs, we decided to use a donor sperm....but the bad news is.....Dr.P doesn't do with donor sperm anymore, cause he doesn't have the license to do so. Then why in the first place ask us to consider for donor sperm?? Why didn't he test my hubby completely and advice us that IVF will be successful with a donor sperm as a standby?? This made me to walk into sooo many hospitals name it...Metro Klang, TMC Puchong, TMC Kota Damansara, PrinceCourt KL, Alpha FC....just to get a clear understanding of my current situation. what went wrong?? It all boils down to know there is such a huge difference the way other hospitals counsel us compare with KLFC.

4. Thinking about donor, its not an easy thing to find a donor, suitable donor, affordable donor, quality sperm from donor....i was going nuts pass 2 - 3 months looking for a donor. We some how manage to get a donor and wanted to continue with KLFC but was told NO...cause no license to do with a donor?? What the hell!!! So how?? What shall we do next??

5. All the other hospitals listed above, were afraid to give us the assurance that 100% fertilization may take place with frozen eggs as their main reason was:

a. its frozen eggs thus quality will drop over the time
b. due to the stress of transfer from KLFC to their location, quality may drop
c. upon thawing no guarantee the eggs may survive

Oh god! give me a break please.....Dr.P is the only person on the earth that guarantees my frozen eggs quality is not compromised.... the rest centres NO..NO...NO...GUARANTEE. My frustration level has gone to the hike by now.

6. Last resort i consulted Dr.Leong and narrated my entire story...well...he too said the same thing...no assurance given...but i don't have a choice now, coz we are in need of a donor. Finally, agreed to stick with Alpha under Dr.Leong. My treatment is scheduled to start by end of July 2015, hope to gain more and all my lost hope....just for my hubby and future baby...

7. I guess GOD is watching over me and all my hard work in trying to save my eggs. Need more of his blessings....Moral of the story NEVER GIVE UP LADIES!

*P/S: I am not trying to discourage or demotivate any members in this forum. The decision to proceed depends on the level of trust, confidence and comfort of each individual with the consulting doctor. This is just my side of the story. No patients leave the clinic without paying consultation fees (the minimum a doctor earns per day per patients). So please take your time to raise any doubtful questions and leave the clinic with a satisfactory answer. Remember the more you speak the more doctors will listen. Never ever assume that doctors knows the best and we know the least.
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Sorry to hear that. I also failed my first ivf i never told anything why the reason i failed. I personally find out the reason and request Dr to do so. I want to move to other centre but i still balance frozen embryo there. So i decided to give her another chance. I also a bit worry but i have to think positive. Yes, nobody can guaranteed the egg can survive or not after thawing. Sometime if the embryo cant survive meaning the embryo is healthy to put into our body also. If the embryo is healthy that mean our body hormone / uterus got problem. We need to find other solution to solve our body first before do the FET. All this i have to find our own....the Dr no tell me anything.

Actually i also slightly disappointed also with their services. But leave it to god .......... smile.gif

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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 9 2015, 03:08 PM)
Congratulation. you success under which Dr and through fresh ivf or FET ? Thanks
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It is under Dr Helena. It is FET cycle, the fresh cycle didn't work out.
This is actually our third IVF cycle, first 2 (both fresh, one at another center, one at KLFC) failed to give any results. Only FET (with much needed 3 months of rest for the mother) was successful.
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 9 2015, 03:15 PM)
Sorry to hear that. I also failed my first ivf i never told anything why the reason i failed. I personally find out the reason and request Dr to do so. I want to move to other centre but i still balance frozen embryo there. So i decided to give her another chance. I also a bit worry but i have to think positive. Yes, nobody can guaranteed the egg can survive or not after thawing. Sometime if the embryo cant survive meaning the embryo is healthy to put into our body also. If the embryo is healthy that mean our body hormone / uterus got problem. We need to find other solution to solve our body first before do the FET. All this i have to find our own....the Dr no tell me anything.

Actually i also slightly disappointed also with their services. But leave it to god .......... smile.gif
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Hi sister,

Sorry to hear about yours. Yes its true, at times these dr's just remain silent or speaks few words to reveal about the failure that happens. I think if we do not know the possible root cause that'z contributed to a failure, how are we suppose to find solution or correction for improvement. I belief as a patient who has undergone all the theory speaking treatment and practical experimentation of doctors on us...only we can do the inner corrections to our body. Perhaps doctor's medication helps but not to 100%. Many patients who has failed numerous IUI, IVF, ICSI has improved their success in following cycle by performing some kind of corrections.

Failure in cycles should not hinder us to seek improvement. As you said the rest we leave it to GOD and seek for his guidance.

Sister you may try taking some Chinese herbs that'z gud to strengthen your uterus and egg production. U can make it into a delicious soup and consume it daily except during your period.

Which centre are you planning to move next, if you don;t mind me asking.

Take care and GOD bless!
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QUOTE(waters @ Jan 21 2014, 03:32 PM)
Hi all,

My wife and I have been TTC for about 4 years. No luck. Early last year we went to TMC, tried IUI 3 times, all failed. Dr. Menon then recommended IVF. However, he left TMC at the end of 2013, so we're in a dilemma about where to go next.

I'm looking at SunFert, Metro IVF, Alpha and Sime Darby Subang (old SJMC).

Anyone have any info on any one of the above hospitals and their success rates.

Thanking you in advance!

Rgds,
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For fresh cycle i suggest you visit Prince Court, since they have the best embryologist there. The only embryologist with PhD is currently attached in Prince Court.
Gud Luck & God Bless
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QUOTE(Joyful2006 @ Jul 10 2015, 09:53 PM)
Hi sister,

Sorry to hear about yours. Yes its true, at times these dr's just remain silent or speaks few words to reveal about the failure that happens. I think if we do not know the possible root cause that'z contributed to a failure, how are we suppose to find solution or correction for improvement. I belief as a patient who has undergone all the theory speaking treatment and practical experimentation of doctors on us...only we can do the inner corrections to our body. Perhaps doctor's medication helps but not to 100%. Many patients who has failed numerous IUI, IVF, ICSI has improved their success in following cycle by performing some kind of corrections.

Failure in cycles should not hinder us to seek improvement. As you said the rest we leave it to GOD and seek for his guidance.

Sister you may try taking some Chinese herbs that'z gud to strengthen your uterus and egg production. U can make it into a delicious soup and consume it daily except during your period.

Which centre are you planning to move next, if you don;t mind me asking.

Take care and GOD bless!
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Hi, i still doing my FET in KL Fertility cause i still left few embryo frozen. So doctor suggest to thaw out and let it be blastocyst...this is the most worry part. If the embryo cannot turn into blastocyst meaning i need to redo a new cycle of fresh IVF. I really don't want to do another fresh cycle as is really very stress and need a strong financial also. Pray hard that my embryo can successfully turn into blastocyst.

So, what is your next plan ? Mind to share....i still undecided when to continue my FET. Slightly stress hehe....but life still need to go on. Cheers
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Jul 9 2015, 05:38 PM)
It is under Dr Helena. It is FET cycle, the fresh cycle didn't work out.
This is actually our third IVF cycle, first 2 (both fresh, one at another center, one at KLFC) failed to give any results. Only FET (with much needed 3 months of rest for the mother) was successful.
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Hi, i am under Dr Helena also. Was planning to do my FET there soon. Now, i am just worry about my embryo wheather can turn into blastocyct or not .. hehe smile.gif Doctor suggest me to thaw my balance embryo left it to 5 day then transfer. What do you think?

Can i ask if you don't mind, your first n second is failed under fresh cycle or FET? You got frozen embryo to keep during your 1st n second IVF cycle? Thanks
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My wife suggested that we go for IVF at UIA Kuantan since she work nearby (HTAA). Any experiences?
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 14 2015, 03:43 PM)
Hi, i am under Dr Helena also. Was planning to do my FET there soon. Now, i am just worry about my embryo wheather can turn into blastocyct or not .. hehe smile.gif Doctor suggest me to thaw my balance embryo left it to 5 day then transfer. What do you think?

Can i ask if you don't mind, your first n second is failed under fresh cycle or FET? You got frozen embryo to keep during your 1st n second IVF cycle? Thanks
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For the successful cycle, we thawed 3 embryos, 2 survived to day 5, with singleton pregnancy. The embryo that didn't survive to day 5 was from our first IVF round at a different center and was moved over to KLFC (after we decide not to continue there).

Our first 2 failed cycles are fresh transfers for both. We do have frozen embryos, one from the first IVF cycle, and 5 frozen from the the second IVF, total 6 in the bank. We took 3 embryos of the 6 to thaw for our successful cycle, 1 from our first IVF cycle, and 2 from KLFC IVF cycle, and waited till day 5 for the results. Only the 2 from KLFC survived, and one of them is our baby now (singleton). We still have 3 more frozen embryos still awaiting the day that they can be thawed.

Note that my wife had a break of 3 months between the failed cycle and the successful FET, in between she went for TCM consistently. She relaxed and quit her job, and mainly rest at home in preparation for the frozen cycle transfer. The reduction of stress helped immensely for our cycle, hence I would suggest that you reduce your stress and relax.

Hope this helps
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Jul 14 2015, 07:00 PM)
For the successful cycle, we thawed 3 embryos, 2 survived to day 5, with singleton pregnancy. The embryo that didn't survive to day 5 was from our first IVF round at a different center and was moved over to KLFC (after we decide not to continue there).

Our first 2 failed cycles are fresh transfers for both. We do have frozen embryos, one from the first IVF cycle, and 5 frozen from the the second IVF, total 6 in the bank. We took 3 embryos of the 6 to thaw for our successful cycle, 1 from our first IVF cycle, and 2 from KLFC IVF cycle, and waited till day 5 for the results. Only the 2 from KLFC survived, and one of them is our baby now (singleton). We still have 3 more frozen embryos still awaiting the day that they can be thawed.

Note that my wife had a break of 3 months between the failed cycle and the successful FET, in between she went for TCM consistently. She relaxed and quit her job, and mainly rest at home in preparation for the frozen cycle transfer. The reduction of stress helped immensely for our cycle, hence I would suggest that you reduce your stress and relax.

Hope this helps
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THANKS for your information Nitrous. By right, i plan to do my FET this month but doctor find out got POLYPS in the uterus so have to done a Hysteroscopy to remove the polyps and proceed FET for my next cycle. Now the worry me is afraid the 4 embryo cannot turn into blastocyct. Just pray hard....hope everything go smoothly. Btw, congrats once again to both of you.

You still got left over blastocyst in the KLFC lab right ? Or embryo ? When you planning to do the next FET smile.gif
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QUOTE(megane5439 @ Jul 22 2015, 10:50 AM)
THANKS for your information Nitrous. By right, i plan to do my FET this month but doctor find out got POLYPS in the uterus so have to done a Hysteroscopy to remove the polyps and proceed FET for my next cycle. Now the worry me is afraid the 4 embryo cannot turn into blastocyct. Just pray hard....hope everything go smoothly. Btw, congrats once again to both of you.

You still got left over blastocyst in the KLFC lab right ? Or embryo ? When you planning to do the next FET smile.gif
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If you have polyps, yes it needs to be removed before tranferring your embryo back. Note that it takes 2 months (or more) of recovery period before u can transfer the embryo back, thus take this time to rest and de-stress, it helps a lot later during the actual embryo transfer. My wife did have polyps removed too, it was done long time ago before we did any transfer of embryos.

If any of the embryo develops into blastocyst, it has a higher chance of survival inside the mother's womb, as it is at the final stage of hatching and attaching into the uterus. Of course, the embryo has to survive through to the 5th day in the petri dish, that is probably one of the few big hurdles that an embryo has to go through before becoming a baby. With that, I wish you and your partner good luck and all the best, unfortunately that is all we can do for now, and leave it to the powers-to-be to decide on the embryo's fate.

We do have 3 more embryos (not blastocyst) left in KLFC. If we are to return, we will probably do the same process again, and thaw the embryos into blastocyst first before FET process. Unfortunately, the baby is a handful, both of us not getting enough sleep and hardly even have time to bath icon_question.gif , hence I think it will be a looooooong time before we return.

Good luck again!
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Hi mummies and mummies to be, i have started my very first Gonal F 1 days back and today will be my 3rd injection up to Day 8. The mood is up and down, nervous, worry and a little excited. Anyone experienced here can advise what should and shouldn't take during this period.

I did feel a little nausea and bloating tummy, is that normal. TIA for advises.
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QUOTE(King King @ Aug 3 2015, 12:05 PM)
Hi mummies and mummies to be, i have started my very first Gonal F 1 days back and today will be my 3rd injection up to Day 8. The mood is up and down, nervous, worry and a little excited. Anyone experienced here can advise what should and shouldn't take during this period.

I did feel a little nausea and bloating tummy, is that normal. TIA for advises.
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My fresh IVF i feel ok with all the injection. So just relax and not worry everything will be alright. Good luck
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My fresh IVF i feel ok with all the injection. So just relax and not worry everything will be alright. Good luck
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Jz done my egg retrieval yesterday, many eggs were retrieved but sad case doctor has detected OHSS on me, not advisable to Go through Fresh Embryo Transfer and thus my transfer need to be deferred to next cycle. Quite sad and down on that..

And I have severe.pain at abdominal area, can't even stand up straight and the pain just came up and down

Anyone here experienced OHSS and FET. Very much appreciate your sharing as we need to get ready FET for next or next next cycle and pain relief for OHSS

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QUOTE(King King @ Aug 13 2015, 08:51 AM)
Jz done my egg retrieval yesterday, many eggs were retrieved but sad case doctor has detected OHSS on me, not advisable to Go through Fresh Embryo Transfer and thus my transfer need to be deferred to next cycle. Quite sad and down on that..

And I have severe.pain at abdominal area, can't even stand up straight and the pain just came up and down

Anyone here experienced OHSS and FET. Very much appreciate your sharing as we need to get ready FET for next or  next next cycle and pain relief for OHSS
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Hi there, if the doc detected OHSS, it is best to postpone the tranfer till you have fully recovered. There is no need to be sad, it may even be better this way. Although my wife did not get OHSS (though there are some pain at the waist after ovum extraction), our fresh cycle transfer failed. Only our FET was successful, after my wife gets good amount of rest (3 months) and stress free environment.
By the way, doctors now think that FET has higher chances of pregnancy, due to stabilization of the mother's hormones and time for the uterus to recover from the massive hormone injections given :
http://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10000872396390443862604578030600949336888

Thus, there is no need to be sad or unhappy to postpone the transfer, it may even be better. The only thing you need to worry now, is to rest and stay healthy. Light exercise, eat healthily and and think of good stuff. Take your mind off pregnancy for now.
Good luck!
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QUOTE(King King @ Aug 13 2015, 08:51 AM)
Jz done my egg retrieval yesterday, many eggs were retrieved but sad case doctor has detected OHSS on me, not advisable to Go through Fresh Embryo Transfer and thus my transfer need to be deferred to next cycle. Quite sad and down on that..

And I have severe.pain at abdominal area, can't even stand up straight and the pain just came up and down

Anyone here experienced OHSS and FET. Very much appreciate your sharing as we need to get ready FET for next or  next next cycle and pain relief for OHSS
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Hi,

i did my 1st IVF in KLFC in March 2015, on the ER day upon gaining conscious mum told that i was crying in pain, almost like in labour hahahaha. I also vomitted then went to sleep for an hour. Doc gave me a shot and it helps.
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QUOTE(King King @ Aug 13 2015, 08:51 AM)
Jz done my egg retrieval yesterday, many eggs were retrieved but sad case doctor has detected OHSS on me, not advisable to Go through Fresh Embryo Transfer and thus my transfer need to be deferred to next cycle. Quite sad and down on that..

And I have severe.pain at abdominal area, can't even stand up straight and the pain just came up and down

Anyone here experienced OHSS and FET. Very much appreciate your sharing as we need to get ready FET for next or  next next cycle and pain relief for OHSS
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Just put your feet up, stay hydrated and increase your protein intake.
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QUOTE(King King @ Aug 13 2015, 09:51 AM)
Jz done my egg retrieval yesterday, many eggs were retrieved but sad case doctor has detected OHSS on me, not advisable to Go through Fresh Embryo Transfer and thus my transfer need to be deferred to next cycle. Quite sad and down on that..

And I have severe.pain at abdominal area, can't even stand up straight and the pain just came up and down

Anyone here experienced OHSS and FET. Very much appreciate your sharing as we need to get ready FET for next or  next next cycle and pain relief for OHSS
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Hi, just treated your OHSS first. Maybe you can stop for one cycle and do it after 2 month. OHSS need solved properly. FET sometime is good news also, let your body relax and all hormone gone totally fresh your body then only do FET is a good news also. So don't worry just be prepare for your good news soon.

By the way, which fertility center you going why Dr didn't control properly your hormone jab? So total how many egg you retrietval and how many success growing?
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Hi all, I have been married for 6 years and now I'm 37 & trying for a baby. I did read all the comments above and confused as I & my husband are financially not stable. How much is estimated cost for IVF? As some commented it's 15-17K...some even up to 55K. I'm planning to take loan before I start the procedures...please advice. So far the places I surveyed Metro IVF seems to be cheaper.....
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I did 2 cycles of IVF within 1 years but failed, I think I drove a new Myvi into the medical centre and can't never get it back.

Lucky is I finally I conceived naturally and can finish the journey. IVF is a hard journey and i sincerely wish everyone a very goodluck in your attempt.
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Hi

We are trying from 7 month but still not conceive.
we are married for 2 years .

Is this the correct time to see doctor for any problem in conceiving .
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Hi all

There is a group in Facebook that discuss all these information in private - it's a secret group

U can pm me and I can add u to that group which has a lot of information to share on ivf in Msia

Cheers
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i have just failed my #1 fresh IVF. Prep for FET
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Hi

We are trying from 7 month but still not conceive.
we are married for 2 years .

Is this the correct time to see doctor for any problem in conceiving .
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there is always no harm to do a check up and consultation since you are prepared to be a parent.
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QUOTE(gladfly @ Nov 20 2014, 07:29 PM)
Hi...yes we did 2 rounds both IVF. We didn't do back to back. I think Prashant also didn't recommend us to do back to back, he mentioned to take a 6 month break before we try again. My wife took 1 year break before we tried it again( its the emotional trauma that is harder to heal)

When we took  the year out, I kept assuring my wife that its ok..and that life was fine (with or without a baby). We also did TCM, (before KL Fert set up the next door TCM). The sensei prescribe us with some herbs (Korean ginseng) as he said my wife's womb was "cold". Barred my wife from drinking cold drinks and so on. As usual we just did what we were told. I cant vouch that it solved our problem but after taking the TCM course, the second egg extraction was much easier.

As far as I can tell, when my wife was going through the jabs...it was ok (physically wise). Some complaints of bloating and so on but nothing major. By right its unlikely to do 2 rounds of IVF / ICSI back to back. This is because when the egg extraction process, usually Prashant will extract as much good eggs as possible. We had to try again cause our first extraction yielded only like 5 good eggs and from that only 2 made past day 3. That 2 was implanted and unfortunately it didn't happen. If you are lucky, as our 2nd attempt, you may have a few more eggs and you are able to freeze any extra. So one may have multiple implants with 1 egg extraction sessions.

If I remember correctly, 2nd attempt we managed to extract 13 eggs and 8 made it pass day 3. Out of that 5 made it blastocyst. We froze it and came back after 1 month for implant. Used 2 of the blastocyst and was successful with 1. We froze the remaining 3 for KIV...smile.gif.

At the risk of being like trying to promote Prashant (which I am not being paid to do so  laugh.gif ), you are probably in hands of one of the best fertility doctor around. We went back to him even after 1st attempt failure because we liked him, for being frank. And he gives some aura of confidence ....dunno don't ask that's what my wife says....

Lastly, I sincerely hope that your journey will end in success and welcome you to the realm of parenthood. Here's to multiple months of interrupted sleep at nights... thumbup.gif

Let me know if you need any further clarifications. You can PM me if you like
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Hi gladfly, thanks for sharing detailed accounts of your ivf journey. It's very helpful and also comforting to have the necessary information.

I am thinking of seeing dr prashant and would like to know more about your experience with him.
- Is he patient and willing to listen and explain your questions, however many?
- Does he help give you direction on what to do, your options and potential consequences?
- is he helpful with "problem dissection" queries - i.e. if you would like to find out the cause of failures if the treatment was not successful
- what is your wife's opinion of him...from a women's perspective
- how far in advance do you have to make an appointment to see him?
- how long is his usual waiting time?
- how many times do you have to go to the fertility center for 1 cycle of ivf and embro transfer?

Thanks!
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Hi gladfly, thanks for sharing detailed accounts of your ivf journey. It's very helpful and also comforting to have the necessary information.

I am thinking of seeing dr prashant and would like to know more about your experience with him.

- Is he patient and willing to listen and explain your questions, however many?
A: Yes, he is quite accommodative. However, he tends to give short answers.

- Does he help give you direction on what to do, your options and potential consequences?
A: Yes, when we saw him, he did gave us the options natural or assisted, IUI, IVQ or ICSI.

- is he helpful with "problem dissection" queries - i.e. if you would like to find out the cause of failures if the treatment was not successful
A: Yes he will try to diagnose the problem. My wife had to do a MRI of the womb and I had to give a sperm sample to determine what was the problem.
    However, when our first try failed, I remember he mentioned that it was quite odd as our chances were quite good. He tweeked our 2nd try, by using different injections and by implanting the embryo on day 5 (blastocyst) rather than on 3rd day.
 
- what is your wife's opinion of him...from a women's perspective
A: Hmmm...my wife says he is a nice fella (Lol). I guess its how he speaks (a little British accent) and his short sentences. Otherwise I don't think my wife would have gone back for the 2nd try. He strikes me as a person who is assuring and confident, a professional, he answers when asked that kind of fella.

- how far in advance do you have to make an appointment to see him?
A: Appointments are fixed. The nurse will fix a date for follow up appointments. The first appointment was booked by my wife so I am not sure how long that took.

- how long is his usual waiting time?
A: Looooooooooooong. 2 hours wait is norm. We usually end up at the nero café have brunch or something like that after registration..tongue.gif

- how many times do you have to go to the fertility center for 1 cycle of ivf and embro transfer?
A: Can't really remember the exact number of times, but I think 1st time had more, probably around 10 times. IIANM, his fees is not all inclusive, there were times where we had to pay during follow up appointments, but cant remember how much.

Thanks!
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Hi there...wow my post was quite sometime ago..

Anyway we have not been back to KL Fert for sometime since busy with raising our little one. Last I heard is that Prashant don't do IVF anymore and its mostly done by Dr. Helena, but I can't confirm.

Anyway, I tried to answer your questions as above. Bear in mind this is based on our experiances 3 years ago so things may have changed.

Do let me know if you need more info, am glad to share. Good luck on your journey to parenthood!!

p.s sorry as I dont know how to use the quote function ..lel


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Hi,

We are trying from last 7-8 months.After not successful we consult with Dr. Prashant at KL fertility center. He did 2 tests.

1) Sperm Test = Quality & mobility is good.
2) Total 18 eggs are there (9-9 on both left and right side).

Dr. Prashant said untill now every thing is normal and suggest for the 3rd test (HSG test) on 9th or 10th day of cycle.

My question :- Is this HSG test is painful. What if any of the Fallopian tube is block (which i wish never be). IF HSG test also good then what are the other reasons that we are getting no success.

Please feedback

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@Munish HSG Xray is like period pain. Prepare own sanitary pad coz there will be slight spotting.
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Anyone can provide feedback about Alpha Fertility Center?

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Hi peeps

Is there a list of fertility centers that I can check out? Bad news has happened to us and we most probably need to go for a ivf icsi treatment...
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Hi peeps

Is there a list of fertility centers that I can check out? Bad news has happened to us and we most probably need to go for a ivf icsi treatment...
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I would suggest Alpha Fertility Centre. BTW, where are you located? Best to look for a place close to where you are.
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QUOTE(waters @ Feb 9 2016, 03:30 PM)
I would suggest Alpha Fertility Centre. BTW, where are you located? Best to look for a place close to where you are.
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I'm staying in ara damansara. Is location going to be a factor? My hubby travels a lot for work so I might need to go to clinics in my own sometimes. Is there any recommended ones for dealing with MFI?

Also, we did a screening at fertility associates in PJ. Hubby wants to get a second opinion. But these centers wouldn't be unethical as to give you false reports in order to get you to sign up for IVF right?
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QUOTE(waters @ Jan 21 2014, 03:32 PM)
Hi all,

My wife and I have been TTC for about 4 years. No luck. Early last year we went to TMC, tried IUI 3 times, all failed. Dr. Menon then recommended IVF. However, he left TMC at the end of 2013, so we're in a dilemma about where to go next.

I'm looking at SunFert, Metro IVF, Alpha and Sime Darby Subang (old SJMC).

Anyone have any info on any one of the above hospitals and their success rates.

Thanking you in advance!

Rgds,
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I recommend you at least get a consultation like 2nd opinion
and I recommend Dr SP Ng at Columbia Asia Puchong

friendly honest and importantly knowledgeable and experienced
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QUOTE(Fujihime @ Feb 9 2016, 04:35 PM)
I'm staying in ara damansara. Is location going to be a factor? My hubby travels a lot for work so I might need to go to clinics in my own sometimes. Is there any recommended ones for dealing with MFI?

Also, we did a screening at fertility associates in PJ. Hubby wants to get a second opinion. But these centers wouldn't be unethical as to give you false reports in order to get you to sign up for IVF right?
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Yes location is a factor. You will be paying quite a few visits to the clinic, with all the baby stuff in your head, getting stuck in traffic or travelling for an hour is really going to drive you nuts.

We stay in Tropicana so Alpha or TMC were the closest options. We chose Alpha at the end.

Getting a second opinion is fine, we got 3 before staring our fertility journey. I really don't think that the labs will doctor results to get you to do IVF. If you feel that way, get tested at a government hospital.

Not too sure about MFI, the doctor at Alpha (Dr. Leong) told us our best option was IVF. He didn't rule out IUI, though.

Hope this helps!

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QUOTE(mechanicalKB @ Feb 9 2016, 04:49 PM)
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Hi, Thanks for your advice, but that post was 2 years ago. We have a baby girl now. 8 months.

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QUOTE(waters @ Feb 10 2016, 12:28 AM)
Yes location is a factor. You will be paying quite a few visits to the clinic, with all the baby stuff in your head, getting stuck in traffic or travelling for an hour is really going to drive you nuts.

We stay in Tropicana so Alpha or TMC were the closest options. We chose Alpha at the end.

Getting a second opinion is fine, we got 3 before staring our fertility journey. I really don't think that the labs will doctor results to get you to do IVF. If you feel that way, get tested at a government hospital.

Not too sure about MFI, the doctor at Alpha (Dr. Leong) told us our best option was IVF. He didn't rule out IUI, though.

Hope this helps!
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Thanks! I'll try to call up TMC tmr to see of a screening can be done. Were the 3 tests that you do all resulting to the same conclusion?

May I know how long does it take for you to be pregnant from the time you decided to take on IVF?
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QUOTE(Fujihime @ Feb 10 2016, 01:23 AM)
Thanks! I'll try to call up TMC tmr to see of a screening can be done. Were the 3 tests that you do all resulting to the same conclusion?

May I know how long does it take for you to be pregnant from the time you decided to take on IVF?
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Great! If you can, see Dr. Surinder. He's usually pretty booked out, but really good.

Yup, all 3 tests were more or less the same

Okay, our IVF journey was a bit traumatic. We started sometime in mid April 2014. The whole process took about 5 weeks and we found out it we were pregnant during the first week of June. Two weeks later we lost the baby, it was an ectopic pregnancy so my wife had to go through an emergency surgery to remove the egg. Yes - IVF can cause an ectopic. Rare, but it happens.

Surprisingly we got pregnant naturally in November 2014, 5 months after the ectopic. Amazing, we were speechless. This was after 7 years of marriage and trying to get pregnant. All the doctors we saw told us that IVF was possibly the only way.

Looking at my daughter today, I still can't believe it.

Anyway, back on topic. The whole IVF process should take 5 weeks or so, then another 2 week wait before you know if it worked. The doctor will advise you when to start taking the daily hormone jabs, when you should come in to check the growth of the eggs, when to come in to extract the eggs and when they will fertilize and transfer the embryos or blastocysts. These dates should all be mapped out when you start the procedure.

If you are working, please try to take a lot of leave, especially during the transfer and the 2 week wait.

Expect to pay in the region of 25-30K. I don't like to say this, but try to budget for 2 IVF cycles.

Good luck!


This may sound weird, but start talking to your baby as if he/she is here. It really helped us through some tough times.






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QUOTE(waters @ Feb 10 2016, 12:29 AM)
Hi, Thanks for your advice, but that post was 2 years ago. We have a baby girl now. 8 months.

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congratz then

you are surely more experienced to know *and advise in return what when right and what
when wrong or what to avoid as you are now more than 8 months the wiser

share with us your experience
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congratz then

you are surely more experienced to know *and advise in return what when right and what
when wrong or what to avoid as you are now more than 8 months the wiser

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Sure!

See my post reply to fujihime above. Post #154.

Our IVF journey was crazy scary and a real emotional monster that we had to handle.
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Sure!

See my post reply to fujihime above. Post #154.

Our IVF journey was crazy scary and a real emotional monster that we had to handle.
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did the hormone injections make you put on weight?

went fatty?

when daughter came out went for C-section or normal birth?
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did the hormone injections make you put on weight?

went fatty?

when daughter came out went for C-section or normal birth?
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FYI, it was my wife not me, she didn't put on weight during the IVF. However some people may find that it does.

We went for a c-section at 39 weeks due to some complications late in the pregnancy.

How about you? Are you planning to start any treatments?


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QUOTE(waters @ Feb 10 2016, 06:05 PM)
FYI, it was my wife not me, she didn't put on weight during the IVF. However some people may find that it does.

We went for a c-section at 39 weeks due to some complications late in the pregnancy.

How about you? Are you planning to start any treatments?
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when it comes to gynae advice I think you will know by now that there
are always 'complications' - its standard advice and sorry to say which
you may not agree, it makes them more money to tell you that hence
the need for c-sect not natural - why? like I said there's always
'problem but not to worry, we can do a c-sect' thingy

I'm not planning anything, just thinking of the money these Drs make
with the mass of the ignorant population

like I said when I die and get born again I want to be a specialist Dr
and own a 4 storey bungalow sports car thirsty SUV and a boat at my
holiday villa at a seaside
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QUOTE(mechanicalKB @ Feb 10 2016, 06:11 PM)
when it comes to gynae advice I think you will know by now that there
are always 'complications' - its standard advice and sorry to say which
you may not agree, it makes them more money to tell you that hence
the need for c-sect not natural - why? like I said there's always
'problem but not to worry, we can do a c-sect' thingy

I'm not planning anything, just thinking of the money these Drs make
with the mass of the ignorant population

like I said when I die and get born again I want to be a specialist Dr
and own a 4 storey bungalow sports car thirsty SUV and a boat at my
holiday villa at a seaside
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If you have adequate proof you can always lodge an official complaint with the MMC rather than here.

Obstetrics is very litigious, they tend to play on the safe side. Hence any potential complications also they'll suggest a c-sec esp when it's a "million-dollar baby".

Informed consent is also needed with every procedure. Hence if your doctor is too lazy to tell you exactly why they're suggesting a c-sec, you're allowed to refuse it. You're also allowed to go seek for 2nd, 3rd, 4th opinions.
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QUOTE(Syd G @ Feb 10 2016, 06:22 PM)
If you have adequate proof you can always lodge an official complaint with the MMC rather than here.

Obstetrics is very litigious, they tend to play on the safe side. Hence any potential complications also they'll suggest a c-sec esp when it's a "million-dollar baby".

Informed consent is also needed with every procedure. Hence if your doctor is too lazy to tell you exactly why they're suggesting a c-sec, you're allowed to refuse it. You're also allowed to go seek for 2nd, 3rd, 4th opinions.
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Yup totally agree with you on that.

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when it comes to gynae advice I think you will know by now that there
are always 'complications' - its standard advice and sorry to say which
you may not agree, it makes them more money to tell you that hence
the need for c-sect not natural - why? like I said there's always
'problem but not to worry, we can do a c-sect' thingy

I'm not planning anything, just thinking of the money these Drs make
with the mass of the ignorant population

like I said when I die and get born again I want to be a specialist Dr
and own a 4 storey bungalow sports car thirsty SUV and a boat at my
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Why mention Columbia Asia? Have you gone there for treatment?

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hi,

our all tests ( sperm , ovaries, HSG ) are clear .No blocking in Fallopian tube blocking.

Dr. Recommend us to do the IUI.

As they mentioned that before IUI they will give some medicine from 2nd to periods continue to 5 days.

My question if everything is ok and is there problem that my wife not ovoluating ..if so can we say that she suffered from PCOS .

If PCOS we can buy the medicine (CLOMID) 50 mg and try without going to Dr. They said IUI cost around 3800 to 4800 RM.

Please suggest .
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QUOTE(Munish @ Feb 16 2016, 10:43 PM)
hi,

our all tests ( sperm , ovaries, HSG ) are clear .No blocking in Fallopian tube blocking.

Dr. Recommend us to do the IUI.

As they mentioned that before IUI they will give some medicine from 2nd to periods continue to 5 days.

My question if everything is ok and is there problem that my wife not ovoluating ..if so can we say that she suffered from PCOS .

If PCOS we can buy the medicine (CLOMID) 50 mg and try without going to Dr. They said IUI cost around 3800 to 4800 RM.

Please suggest .
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If cost is a factor and you want to attempt just IUI, it can be done in gov hosp for fraction of the cost (RM500-ish), just bring your test results and ask for referral to O&G clinic. Or try your luck at LPPKN.

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Thanks for the information Syd G...

My wife cycle every month is 31 days but last month was for 39 days.below are the cycle days can we say that these are normal cycles?
MAY = 30 Days
JUN = 30 Days
JUL = 34 Days
AUG = 34 days
SEP = 31 days
OCT = 31 days
NOV = 31 days
DEC = 31 days
JAN = 39 days

We also did the BBT can can see the temp. rise after ovolution ends and dip when next cycle starts.

With these cycles can we say that my wife is not ovoluting.
We did all the test and are normal.

If PCOS can the cycles be regular or not???

Please reply
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I'm not a O&G expert, but then our body is not mechanical. Sometimes even the stress of wanting to get pregnant can delay the period for a couple of days smile.gif If your wife is not ovulating, there will be no period or irregular period for months (e.g once in 3 months, sometimes have, sometimes dont have). Having consistent periods means she's ovulating, just maybe not your luck yet smile.gif

Irregular period doesnt necessary mean she has PCOS. PCOS comes with other things - hair, acne, weight gain, high LH hormones etc.

How old are u guys actually
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Hi,

I am new to this forum. We are currently in the process of starting IVF and deciding which doctor to go with. We were referred to Dr Eeson Sinthamoney from Sunfert formerly from Pantai Hospital , I believe. There aren't many feedback on those who have gone to him online. Just wondering for those who have, do you have any feedback on him? Basically a yay or nay... Interested in your views.

Thanks guys


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Thnx SYD G..

I am 30 and my wife 25 years old.
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QUOTE(Munish @ Feb 18 2016, 10:20 PM)
Thnx SYD G..

I am 30 and my wife 25 years old.
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Excellent. Statistically you have better chance of being pregnant compared to say.. Couple in their 40s and 30s. Maintain a healthy lifestyle, minimize stress and hang on to each other. There are people who gave up on fertility treatments, only to find themselves pregnant naturally after that laugh.gif

I know someone whom were married when they were 21. Blessed with their first child only after 10 years of marriage with multiple failed IUIs. And then 2 more came around naturally, 3 years apart icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif .

Never give up hope smile.gif

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Thnx SYD G..

Hope i'll soon share some good news.
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Hi,

Am lying down next to my baby girl and suddenly have the urge to check out this forum. I used to read this forum when I was ttc and sourcing for advice to go for ivf treatmemnt. I have learned one thing is that whatever we do must listen to our heart and take things at a time and relax. Yes.. It might be easy said then done. But hey I went thru the whole process hence thought of sharing my experience here.
I decided to go for ivf after 3 years of ttc and realized that ttc naturally has became very stressful for both hunky and I. So decided to seek for help. There r so many doc in town serious and mixed reviews too.. So, I just listen to my heart and I actually wrote an email to dr Wong from sunfert. Never thought he would reply but I got his reply middle of the night. That's when I told myself I will go with him. Met him and did the test etc... Problem is on my hub..and I am fully ok. So doc actually asked to try iui if we want to but of course he did explained that chances of doing ivf, icsi will be far more successful. Again... I listen to my heard and told hubby I will go for ivf.

The process was tough with all the japs around. But always remember to relax... I didn't even tell people in workplace that what I was going thru... Only family knew. Hence I was taking it quite easy and i have all the support from my family too...took 2 weeks leave relaxing at home.

I was successfully with twins!! One baby girl and one baby boy!! Both hub n me were thrilled as it was one first attempt!!! I never felt so lucky and was really over the moon... Really thank god for such great gift!!

So I guess what I wanted to share here is don't give up or don't think negatively.. Positive and must be strong to take the challenge that god is testing us.. ,ost importantly listen to what your heart tells u. Which doc u r more comfortable with.. When u r ready to go thru this... Etc. it will really helps.

Hope everyone here who is planning to try or on the journey of ivf will be successful like mine!! Spread my love to everyone as whatever miserable period u r going thru soon will be replaced by bundle of joys and happiness!
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Yes location is a factor. You will be paying quite a few visits to the clinic, with all the baby stuff in your head, getting stuck in traffic or travelling for an hour is really going to drive you nuts.

We stay in Tropicana so Alpha or TMC were the closest options. We chose Alpha at the end.

Getting a second opinion is fine, we got 3 before staring our fertility journey. I really don't think that the labs will doctor results to get you to do IVF. If you feel that way, get tested at a government hospital.

Not too sure about MFI, the doctor at Alpha (Dr. Leong) told us our best option was IVF. He didn't rule out IUI, though.

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Hi may I know what The different btw IUI and IVF ? Which 1 is for more serious case
And what the price range for this 2 treatment ?
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QUOTE(Mrmr @ Feb 24 2016, 08:18 AM)
Hi may I know what The different btw IUI and IVF ? Which 1 is for more serious case
And what the price range for this 2 treatment ?
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Hi!

http://uscfertility.org/back-basics-difference-iui-ivf/

You can read this for the differences. Generally IUI is a quick procedure vs IVF.

IVF, of course, is for more serious cases, but I would suggest you talk to your doctor. They will be able to advise you a lot better.

Can you share your fertility journey so far with us?

Good luck!!!
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QUOTE(Joyful2006 @ Jul 10 2015, 09:05 PM)
For fresh cycle i suggest you visit Prince Court, since they have the best embryologist there. The only embryologist with PhD is currently attached in Prince Court.
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Do u know the name of the embryologist? Or is just one.

Tia
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Good day

We started ivf in September at TMC in Johor with dr Fabian.
Very good and very nice doctor.
I have pcos and dh low count motility and morfology
We had ER in November and FET ICSI transfer 2 embrios of 2 days in february which we found out didn't stick few days ago.
We still have 5 embrios not very good quality
Due to my husband work we had to move to KL.

What clinic would u recommend here in KL?
Should we remain with TMC and try a new doctor or move to another clinic?
I would prefer one that makes 5-6 days transfer not 2 day trasfer.

Thank u very much and have a nice day!
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QUOTE(rose6580 @ Jan 4 2016, 11:20 AM)
Hi all

There is a group in Facebook that discuss all these information in private - it's a secret group

U can pm me and I can add u to that group which has a lot of information to share on ivf in Msia

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Hi rose

Do u have the name of the group on fb?

Tia
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Hi rose

Do u have the name of the group on fb?

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It's s secret group

U can't find it if you search unless you are a member

Therefore need a member to add u into the group

In order for member to add u into the group , u must be friend with the member on FB

So if u r interested pm me your FB name n i will add u as fren

Then only I can add u into the group

After that, admin will ask some question before adding u into the group to ensure legitimate members are added into the group

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hey ladies,

Just wanna asked, for IVF or ICSI fertility treatment is it painful? Pain level 1-10...what's the scale?
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hey ladies,

Just wanna asked, for IVF or ICSI fertility treatment is it painful? Pain level 1-10...what's the scale?
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Since I m not a lady here I can't comment too much abt the pain levels. However, just to clarify, that ICSI is not a treatment, it is a process to inject sperm head into an unfertilized egg manually by the embryologist, rather than leaving it to normal "nature's process".

There are some things inside the whole IVF process will have some pain, among them would be daily (or lesser depending on person and doctor) hormonal injections, oocyte (egg) retrival and egg transfer. And of course, the mother of all pain would be the baby's delivery which will probably send the pain level to the moon.

Good luck in your IVF!
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Anyone from butterworth can look doctor Dennis
The doctor advise is to make your stress go away first before you proceed to have baby
With stress is hard to conceive.
PM if you need the contact.

Doctor recommend is conceive naturally.
Not IVF.
Mostly he check husband/wife condition first.
Is not the food or anything that make you cannot have baby.
Is the stress inside. The first solution you need to solve.



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hi guys, my wife success in IVF and we got a lovely baby girl. We have a journey page in Facebook (*just that is written in Chinese). If anyone likes to read more can goto my FB page;

here is the link: https://www.facebook.com/ivfjourney2015
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We've been trying for 1 year. I am 31 this year. I am scared. so I was thinking to go IVF or IUI. Since IUI is cheaper, I thought of going IUI first.

Is it normal to go for IUI first and if it is not successful only go for IVF?

I just did the xray scan, it is so painful I almost fainted. Is IVF painful too?
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QUOTE(skydrake @ Apr 11 2016, 12:37 PM)
hi guys, my wife success in IVF and we got a lovely baby girl. We have a journey page in Facebook (*just that is written in Chinese). If anyone likes to read more can goto my FB page;
Congratulations!

QUOTE(Informationiac @ Apr 11 2016, 04:10 PM)
We've been trying for 1 year. I am 31 this year. I am scared. so I was thinking to go IVF or IUI. Since IUI is cheaper, I thought of going IUI first.

Is it normal to go for IUI first and if it is not successful only go for IVF?

I just did the xray scan, it is so painful I almost fainted. Is IVF painful too?
What XRay procedure that you did, that is so painful? As far as I know, Xray is literally painless, unless you are going for diagnosis xrays like angiography.
Before u go for IUI, please go visit a fertility gynae, to diagnose the cause of sub-fertility. We skipped IUI and went straight to IVF as we know that for our condition (bilateral blocked tubes), there is no way that IUI would help. It helps if you know what is the problem before deciding what you'd need to do next.
Oh yea, just a FYI, no pain compares to childbirth.... think you have heard of it a billion times before smile.gif
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Apr 12 2016, 05:56 PM)
Congratulations!
What XRay procedure that you did, that is so painful? As far as I know, Xray is literally painless, unless you are going for diagnosis xrays like angiography.
Before u go for IUI, please go visit a fertility gynae, to diagnose the cause of sub-fertility. We skipped IUI and went straight to IVF as we know that for our condition (bilateral blocked tubes), there is no way that IUI would help. It helps if you know what is the problem before deciding what you'd need to do next.
Oh yea, just a FYI, no pain compares to childbirth.... think you have heard of it a billion times before smile.gif
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I did the normal one, they pump like a small balloon inside my tube. then then expand little by little, then x-ray.

So result came out and doctor said both of us are very healthy. My hubby's little rascal can swim very fast and good health. My tubes are all ok, period came in every 28 days +-1 day.

Now doctor told us to take medication like 2 tables for each day for 5 days on the first day of menstrual. The side effect is that the ovary will become big. but then is just normal she says, after 2-3 days it will shrink back. The medicine is for increasing soemthing i forgot. the name of med is called Clomid 50mg. Doctor advised, why dont try this before IUI. Anyone had this before?
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QUOTE(Informationiac @ Apr 11 2016, 04:10 PM)
We've been trying for 1 year. I am 31 this year. I am scared. so I was thinking to go IVF or IUI. Since IUI is cheaper, I thought of going IUI first.

Is it normal to go for IUI first and if it is not successful only go for IVF?

I just did the xray scan, it is so painful I almost fainted. Is IVF painful too?
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My wife was 37 we decide for IVF. We been trying for 4+years and done research for 2+ years before deciding on IVF. I had found a lot of reasoning that IVF is suitable for us because my wife got cysts and my little swimmer is normal "means not very kuat in other words shakehead.gif " and we're getting OLD. So i did more research and most article saying should not have problem for pregnancy however some article said it "might" have chances contribute to fertility problems. *I found this article AFTER we're in the IVF process, big gamble huh?*

For your question, "Is it normal to go for IUI first and if it is not successful only go for IVF?". I can't give any advice on this but your age "31", I suggest u to do more research and takes more time to digest all the info. I bet u will come out with better decision, I can't guarantee this will helps but at least this will reduce the mistakes of going to the wrong path. From the body checkup part and into the process will takes u A LOT of $, effort, time, pain and HOPE is the important things.

And this question, "I just did the xray scan, it is so painful I almost fainted. Is IVF painful too?". I really don't know how painful it is, the only thing I participate is everyday I need to use needle to poke my wife belly to inject the medication. If u got time can read my facebook page in my previous reply on top but is in chinese. My wife logging the journey from the day we "think" on IVF until today with my babygirl picture.

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Congratulations!
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My wife was 37 we decide for IVF. We been trying for 4+years and done research for 2+ years before deciding on IVF. I had found a lot of reasoning that IVF is suitable for us because my wife got cysts and my little swimmer is normal "means not very kuat in other words  shakehead.gif " and we're getting OLD. So i did more research and most article saying should not have problem for pregnancy however some article said it "might" have chances contribute to fertility problems. *I found this article AFTER we're in the IVF process, big gamble huh?*

For your question, "Is it normal to go for IUI first and if it is not successful only go for IVF?". I can't give any advice on this but your age  "31", I suggest u to do more research and takes more time to digest all the info. I bet u will come out with better decision, I can't guarantee this will helps but at least this will reduce the mistakes of going to the wrong path. From the body checkup part and into the process will takes u A LOT of $, effort, time, pain and HOPE is the important things.

And this question, "I just did the xray scan, it is so painful I almost fainted. Is IVF painful too?". I really don't know how painful it is, the only thing I participate is everyday I need to use needle to poke my wife belly to inject the medication. If u got time can read my facebook page in my previous reply on top but is in chinese. My wife logging the journey from the day we "think" on IVF until today with my babygirl picture.
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QUOTE(skydrake @ Apr 13 2016, 12:03 AM)
My wife was 37 we decide for IVF. We been trying for 4+years and done research for 2+ years before deciding on IVF. I had found a lot of reasoning that IVF is suitable for us because my wife got cysts and my little swimmer is normal "means not very kuat in other words  shakehead.gif " and we're getting OLD. So i did more research and most article saying should not have problem for pregnancy however some article said it "might" have chances contribute to fertility problems. *I found this article AFTER we're in the IVF process, big gamble huh?*

For your question, "Is it normal to go for IUI first and if it is not successful only go for IVF?". I can't give any advice on this but your age  "31", I suggest u to do more research and takes more time to digest all the info. I bet u will come out with better decision, I can't guarantee this will helps but at least this will reduce the mistakes of going to the wrong path. From the body checkup part and into the process will takes u A LOT of $, effort, time, pain and HOPE is the important things.

And this question, "I just did the xray scan, it is so painful I almost fainted. Is IVF painful too?". I really don't know how painful it is, the only thing I participate is everyday I need to use needle to poke my wife belly to inject the medication. If u got time can read my facebook page in my previous reply on top but is in chinese. My wife logging the journey from the day we "think" on IVF until today with my babygirl picture.
Thank you  rclxms.gif
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Congratulations!
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I did the normal one, they pump like a small balloon inside my tube. then then expand little by little, then x-ray.

So result came out and doctor said both of us are very healthy. My hubby's little rascal can swim very fast and good health. My tubes are all ok, period came in every 28 days +-1 day.

Now doctor told us to take medication like 2 tables for each day for 5 days on the first day of menstrual. The side effect is that the ovary will become big. but then is just normal she says, after 2-3 days it will shrink back. The medicine is for increasing soemthing i forgot. the name of med is called Clomid 50mg. Doctor advised, why dont try this before IUI. Anyone had this before?
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Ok, now I understand. The procedure you went through is called HSG, my wife went through the same procedure as well, and yes it was painful, more so coz her tubes were blocked.
If you do not have issues with tubes, and have good sperm in your partner then maybe can give Clomid a try. It is an ovulation medicine, triggering the maturity of the eggs and releasing the eggs from your body. It has to be timed correctly (the doctor will prescribe the time), and make sure copulation (aka sex) happens at the prescribed time as well. If all goes well, then viola! you are peggy...
IUI would be the next logical step if Clomid fails to give results, but do give Clomid a few tries first before deciding to go IUI. You are 31 so still have some time to think and try... biggrin.gif
IVF should only be your last option, and should only be considered if you know the diagnosis of the sub-fertility issue, and not before... as you know, IVF is very stressful to the lady and the family (not to mention financials).

Good luck!
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QUOTE(Nitrous @ Apr 13 2016, 10:23 AM)
Ok, now I understand. The procedure you went through is called HSG, my wife went through the same procedure as well, and yes it was painful, more so coz her tubes were blocked.
If you do not have issues with tubes, and have good sperm in your partner then maybe can give Clomid a try. It is an ovulation medicine, triggering the maturity of the eggs and releasing the eggs from your body. It has to be timed correctly (the doctor will prescribe the time), and make sure copulation (aka sex) happens at the prescribed time as well. If all goes well, then viola! you are peggy...
IUI would be the next logical step if Clomid fails to give results, but do give Clomid a few tries first before deciding to go IUI. You are 31 so still have some time to think and try...  biggrin.gif
IVF should only be your last option, and should only be considered if you know the diagnosis of the sub-fertility issue, and not before... as you know, IVF is very stressful to the lady and the family (not to mention financials).

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Ty so much for your encouragement. every month when the blood drip come we will feel sad. Hopefully the Clomid works.
Clomid won't affect the conceive quality? or health of the baby in future right
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stressful yet happy. at least I had done trying it. my wife wanted a baby so much and I told her this is only 1 shot gamble, if it does not success don't lose hope and we need to carry on to live a better life even without baby. we're lucky thou, we only got 6 egg and 3 success fertile BUT ONLY "ONE" which is the most suitable best grade to use. so this is truly count on "LUCK" for me as a gift from God.

from the whole process, i remember it and I have few points to tell u that it will increase the success rate.
1. u need to be mentally prepare
2. your husband support from A-Z means from taking care of your emotion, food, care, money to almost anything u need. most importantly is taking care of your emotion and very supportive.
3. always think on the positive side, no matter what happen. (for myself as a Christian, praying is my only option to stay positive, for non Christian i guess u all have a way to make yourself happy and think positive right?)

there is a lot more thing that can increase the success rate, eg, look for the right doctor or fertility centre is also important. anyhow if u able to do all the above mention, i guess by your side had done a great work.

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Does any1 try govt. I want to govt as financial problem. We started our treatment last year March 2015. This month is my first cycle. On clomid treatment but failed as doc say I got PCOS. Should I seek another doctor advice? Previously I did see tmc sense I and they say my womb "cold"... One cycle cost me rm390... Try for half year but no news so hence go for govt.... Any advice?
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Hi,

I am new to this forum. We are currently in the process of starting IVF and deciding which doctor to go with. We were referred to Dr Eeson Sinthamoney from Sunfert formerly from Pantai Hospital , I believe. There aren't many feedback on those who have gone to him online. Just wondering for those who have, do you have any feedback on him? Basically a yay or nay... Interested in your views.

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From our experience, Dr Eeson is very friendly, very positive kind of person. I would definitely recommend you or anyone. He had even wrote and publish a book called "Overcome infertility".
My wife had met him twice during IVF cycle. Our primary consultant was Dr Wong at Sunfert but he is too busy with appointments, thus we were asked to see Dr Eeson (to cut down waiting time) for Day 8 and OPU of IVF cycle. Transfer done by Dr Wong though.

D2 - Dr Wong
D8 - Dr Eeson
D11 - Dr Wong
OPU - we were asked to see Dr Lim but we opted for Dr Eeson
ET - Dr Wong
Beta HCG - Dr Wong
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hello All, I am not a doctor but I can share you some info about IVF process from our experience. Below may not applicable for all and everyone, but I think this is how it will be for normal situation.



IVF there are 5 phases:-

Phase 1: Forcing ovaries to produce more eggs

All women naturally produce only one egg each month. But here, we are forcing both ovaries to produce more eggs from injection (FSH, LH). Usually, doctor wanted to see average of 6-10 eggs, but it doesn't mean that it is not OK when you have less than 10. There are many women have gotten pregnant with only 2 or 3 eggs. So please stay hopeful. During this phase, usually you will require to see doctor three times D2, D8, D11. And before you start, Your AMH (egg reserve) in bloodstream is tested to let the doctor to decide which protocol & correct dose is suitable for you. If you are high risk of OHSS - OVARY HYPERSTIMULATION SYNDROME, different protocol will be used for trigger in Phase 3.

D2 - start self injection with initial dose (dose is decided based on your AMH, PCOS, etc)
D8 - SCAN. Evaluate egg growth and decide if the initial dose is OK, or needs reduce or increase, or even add another type of injection so that all eggs are growing around same size.
D11 - evaluate egg size to see if they are in good size (majority should be > 15mm with one or two >18mm) and also decide if injection needs to be continue for 2-3 more days to make majority of eggs become >15mm

If you are at high of OHSS - OVARY HYPER STIMULATION SYNDROME, Your hormone (Progesterone, Estradial E2) will be tested to see if you are suitable for Embryo transfer later.

Phase 2: Trigger / Maturation
D13/14 - You will be given another injection called "trigger" which mean you are forcing eggs to mature. Immature eggs is not suitable for fertilization.
This trigger has to be taken exactly 35-36hours before your scheduled OPU - egg retrieval. This window is important.

You also need to take antibiotic one day before the OPU - Egg retrieval procedure.
Instruction will be given to you what to do/not to do.


Phase 3: OPU - Egg retrieval from minor surgery procedure.
D15/16 - Egg will be taken out from ovaries. Husband also need to produce sperm on the same day. Embryologist will inject (ICSI) sperm into egg for fertilization. If ICSI technique is not used, then sperm & egg are placed in same container to let fertilization happen naturally.

Suppose the egg & sperm fertilized successfully, The embryologist will monitor embryo development progress to see if the number cells are multiplying correctly. 3days embryo should have 8cells. 5-day embryo will become blastocyst (many many cells). Embryologist will set grade for each egg based on its cell numbers and fragmentation.

You will be given progesterone supplements to take daily until your transfer, which will make your uterus receptive for implantation later.
Instruction will be given to you what to do/not to do.

Phase 4: Embryo transfer
D17/18 - The good or average embryos will be transferred to your uterus hoping all will be OK. You will be given instruction what to do/what not to do. And you will be also asked to bedrest 1-2weeks depends on your condition/previous miscarriage history.

You will continue with progesterone and estrogen supplements

Phase 5: Beta HCG
To check if you are pregnant or not. Good luck!

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There is a group in Facebook that discuss all these information in private - it's a secret group

U can pm me and I can add u to that group which has a lot of information to share on ivf in Msia

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I've tried many IUI & 3 IVF, all failed.
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Can you add me to the FB group?
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Hi,
Does any1  try govt. I want to govt as financial problem. We started our treatment last year March 2015. This month is my first cycle. On clomid treatment but failed as doc say I got PCOS. Should I seek another doctor advice? Previously I did see tmc sense I and they say my womb "cold"... One cycle cost me rm390... Try for half year but no news so hence go for govt.... Any advice?
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Me and my wife went to HUKM, and the Dr is good. We have been TTC for nearly 5 years. Previously, we went to Dr Hamid Arshad, and consume clomid for about 3 cycle. No result yet. He planned for laparoscopic surgery and dye test but it was scheduled nearly 6 months ahead. We cannot wait and we went to HUKM.

The price for treatment and consultation is definetly cheaper. We went for surgery and dye test for within 2 weeks. Dr checks everything is okay and the dye test showing a good results. Previously during HSG, my wife have a minor adhesion and hydrosalpinx.

Dr provide us to try natural again, and provide us clomid.This time, we are already trying to plan for IUI. Before we are able to get to IUI treatment, my wife is preganant. What we do to get pregnnt ? After the surgery, I ask my wife to take leave for nearly 4 weeks, and I provide her to some vitamins. We do not use clomid as it turn out negative result previously. My wife consume Nutrilitte Double X, folic acid, and Cal D everyday for a month, and we finally got positive result.

We have try many medicine, and turn out with disappointment. My suggestion is, keep trying and never give up. You need to be positive, less stress and try different medicine, if one's is not working.
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QUOTE(crysis08 @ May 26 2016, 01:34 AM)
Me and my wife went to HUKM, and the Dr is good. We have been TTC for nearly 5 years. Previously, we went to Dr Hamid Arshad, and consume clomid for about 3 cycle. No result yet. He planned for laparoscopic surgery and dye test but it was scheduled nearly 6 months ahead. We cannot wait and we went to HUKM.

The price for treatment and consultation is definetly cheaper. We went for surgery and dye test for within 2 weeks. Dr checks everything is okay and the dye test showing a good results. Previously during HSG, my wife have a minor adhesion and hydrosalpinx.

Dr provide us to try natural again, and provide us clomid.This time, we are already trying to plan for IUI. Before we are able to get to IUI treatment, my wife is preganant. What we do to get pregnnt ? After the surgery, I ask my wife to take leave for nearly 4 weeks, and I provide her to some vitamins. We do not use clomid as it turn out negative result previously. My wife consume Nutrilitte Double X, folic acid, and Cal D everyday for a month, and we finally got positive result.

We have try many medicine, and turn out with disappointment. My suggestion is, keep trying and never give up. You need to be positive, less stress and try different medicine, if one's is not working.
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I've heard nutrilite is good, and having a good review. however, i cannot find this product in guardian, watson, may i know where do u get it?

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I've heard nutrilite is good, and having a good review. however, i cannot find this product in guardian, watson, may i know where do u get it?
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I've bought it from my sister with membership price. I can pm you her number if you need it. It is very good product, I have tried many product previously, and maybe this one is suitable for us.
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I've bought it from my sister with membership price. I can pm you her number if you need it. It is very good product, I have tried many product previously, and maybe this one is suitable for us.
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Yes, please thanks. I'm also trying to conceive for 5 years already, and some of my relatives, does suggest this product as well...might want to try it and see how it's goes.
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hi everyone. we are TTC for 3 years now and have gone to a fertility specialist. my husb has a problem wt his testes. one is undecended, hence it is not producing any sperm we also did the SSR (surgical sperm retrival) and found that there is no good sperm. I am going to be 36. Because of our situation we try not to discuss it with our families because they stress us out more... I found this thread and see soo many people post about IUI, IVF etc and the success. I feel so happy for all of you.. But In my case, I really don't know what else to do. We already tried clomid, herbal medicines, but its not working. Doc said cannot do anything.
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hi everyone. we are TTC for 3 years now and have gone to a fertility specialist. my husb has a problem wt his testes. one is undecended, hence it is not producing any sperm we also did the SSR (surgical sperm retrival) and found that there is no good sperm.  I am going to be 36. Because of our situation we try not to discuss it with our families because they stress us out more... I found this thread and see soo many people post about IUI, IVF etc and the success. I feel so happy for all of you.. But In my case, I really don't know what else to do. We already tried clomid, herbal medicines, but its not working. Doc said cannot do anything.
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So to hear what u had mentioned. Main problem is on your case described was the sperm right? May I know your hubby age and did doctor said anything about what makes his sperm not good as mentioned?

What attempts and how many times u had done to work this out?

Lastly, u can ignore my question if u not will to publish it into post and I respect it. My purpose is try to find out the problem and "maybe" someone read this can help.


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So to hear what u had mentioned. Main problem is on your case described was the sperm right? May I know your hubby age and did doctor said anything about what makes his sperm not good as mentioned?

What attempts and how many times u had done to work this out?

Lastly, u can ignore my question if u not will to publish it into post and I respect it. My purpose is try to find out the problem and "maybe" someone read this can help.
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Yes, is because he has the undecended testes from child, it has affected the sperm reproduction. We have immotile sperms and only one. Retrievel using the Surgical method. We went few doctors. Even to Urologists for examination. He is hi risk for cancer.. Because of this events, he is very very upset.. We did the SSR one time, and doctor advise us not to anymore, no point. The doctor said we need to find other alternative now. My age is going up, so our percentage to conceive going down.
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Yes, is because he has the undecended testes from child, it has affected the sperm reproduction. We have immotile sperms and only one. Retrievel using the Surgical method. We went few doctors. Even to Urologists for examination. He is hi risk for cancer.. Because of this events, he is very very upset.. We did the SSR one time, and doctor advise us not to anymore, no point. The doctor said we need to find other alternative now. My age is going up, so our percentage to conceive going down.
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From ur current situation, I really not dare to give any advice as much as I can understand how u guys feels. A little story from my own experience and NOT comparing to yours and I made it shorter for u to read. When we decided to go for IVF, we have a lot of problem lagging in between and most IMPORTANTLY for our side was age and financially (ONLY ABLE TO DO ONE SHOT) if failed we need to accept the truth of not having baby and live the rest of our life which is very very hard to accept. Before we go for IVF, I told my wife all the things that we will face and even if we failed we need to face it and will tell our self that we did our best.

What I trying to tell inside this superb short story is, don't give up, don't lose hope and try to make both u and husband happy and as long as u both had tried your very best to make this happen. Time is limited but not the end yet.
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QUOTE(skydrake @ Jun 10 2016, 01:13 PM)
From ur current situation, I really not dare to give any advice as much as I can understand how u guys feels. A little story from my own experience and NOT comparing to yours and I made it shorter for u to read. When we decided to go for IVF, we have a lot of problem lagging in between and most IMPORTANTLY for our side was age and financially (ONLY ABLE TO DO ONE SHOT) if failed we need to accept the truth of not having baby and live the rest of our life which is very very hard to accept. Before we go for IVF, I told my wife all the things that we will face and even if we failed we need to face it and will tell our self that we did our best.

What I trying to tell inside this superb short story is, don't give up, don't lose hope and try to make both u and husband happy and as long as u both had tried your very best to make this happen. Time is limited but not the end yet.
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Thank you for your kind words.. I posted here, because I feels this thread people give alot of virtual support, and positive feedbacks.. I feel sometimes sharing with strangers is better.. I don't want to give-up, but this journey give me so many obstacles.. I am just getting tired. But thank you again for sharing you journey..
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Thank you for your kind words.. I posted here, because I feels this thread people give alot of virtual support, and positive feedbacks.. I feel sometimes sharing with strangers is better.. I don't want to give-up, but this journey give me so many obstacles.. I am just getting tired. But thank you again for sharing you journey..
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this time I can give a little advice when ur saying getting tired coz of too many obstacle. plan a small break and have fun! it won't consume u too much time but it will let u refresh just like restarting up your computer. this will makes u run smoother smile.gif

hope it helps! rclxms.gif
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this time I can give a little advice when ur saying getting tired coz of too many obstacle. plan a small break and have fun! it won't consume u too much time but it will let u refresh just like restarting up your computer. this will makes u run smoother smile.gif

hope it helps!  rclxms.gif
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Believe or not , may try winter caterpillar
After one year can see result
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QUOTE(danielisme @ Jun 11 2016, 11:30 PM)
Believe or not , may try winter caterpillar
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what is winter caterpillar? i tried google and results with bunch of caterpillar or moth and similar. how does it relates to this thread topic IVF or similar? care to give more details?

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Chinese herb , caterpillar
It's able to increased sperm count to normal from low count

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Chinese herb , caterpillar
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and also known as "Dong Chong Xia Cao"?
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Chinese herb , caterpillar
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Helo. How do I get it and how to consume it? boil etc?

Thanks in advance.
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U can get from Chinese herb shop but make sure the shop is trusted one
The singseh will teach u how to consume and boil

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Helo. How do I get it and how to consume it? boil etc?

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oh ya, if any chances that u wants to know more about ivf. u can come to listen for the coming talks at tropicana. We will be there also coz they invite us for the success celebration. u can PM my wife for registration and reserve your seats and FREE VOUCHER at https://www.facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/

best reason to go for this talk is because ALL the doctors from this facilities will be there on the same day. so is an opportunity to get more information.

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There is a group in Facebook that discuss all these information in private - it's a secret group

U can pm me and I can add u to that group which has a lot of information to share on ivf in Msia

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Hi me and my hubby is searching relevant info and deciding which doctor to go for currently, as such, can you add me in the group? My email is khaiyin85@hotmail.com. Thanks.
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How come discuss in Fb become private? Dr prashant quite a good doctor and high success rate. If from Northern, I can also recommend a good doctor but it require lots of time and energy as queue as early as 6am
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Hi me and my hubby is searching relevant info and deciding which doctor to go for currently, as such, can you add me in the group? My email is khaiyin85@hotmail.com. Thanks.
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Can pm me your FB profile link ?
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Dear Rose could you add me to the FB secret group about IVF?
My fb name is Betty Cartoon
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It's s secret group

U can't find it if you search unless you are a member

Therefore need a member to add u into the group

In order for member to add u into the group , u must be friend with the member on FB

So if u r interested pm me your FB name n i will add u as fren

Then only I can add u into the group

After that, admin will ask some question before adding u into the group to ensure legitimate members are added into the group

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Hi Betty pls msg me on lowyat thanks

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after tried so many round still not pregnant, finally decided to give a try on ivf....
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Does consuming royal jelly helps in improving the quality of egg before IVF? Or is there any specific food that could help the body before preparing to start the IVF cycle?

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Does consuming royal jelly helps in improving the quality of egg before IVF? Or is there any specific food that could help the body before preparing to start the IVF cycle?

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I guess u had google a bit about this and found a lot article saying it will improve eggs quality by consuming royal jelly and looking for more information here or maybe real testimonial. Well I'm curious about this too, perhaps someone with real testimonial can tell us.

If u know read chinese u can see article here https://www.facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/pos...633917306883263 for IVF preparation information.
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I haven't decided which centre.... but went to CC Chung centre to have checking.... Might drop by Alpha fertility centre also....
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I haven't decided which centre.... but went to CC Chung centre to have checking.... Might drop by Alpha fertility centre also....
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Hi, may I know where your wife buy the Blackmore conceive? I couldn't find it at majority pharmacy....
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So many of you have contacted me regarding what supplements I took during my fertility treatment. So I have decided to make the information more easily accessible... Here it is...

Angel Bumps' Pregnancy/Fertility Protocol!!!

Be warned... here is the LONGEST list you will ever see, but if I didn't explain what each thing was for, then you'd only question it, naturally! So, I have put a short explanation of what each thing is used for and why and you can come to your own conclusions. I suggest you check the stuff out on the internet or via your clinic or GP before you take any of it, to ensure you have peace of mind that it is all safe for you to take!! It took about a year to gather all this information and it is copied and pasted in my digital diary which takes up about 50 pages of information, so believe me, this is the SHORTENED version! LOL!

Here goes....

I've posted this to other people and on other fertility sites, but I thought it also might help you all:

Just to let you know: a family member of mine tried for 2 and a half years before she got pregnant. In the end, she started using ovulation kits and got pregnant straight away. She was soooo sure of the date she ovulated, due to the dates of her period, but she was wrong. All she needed to buy was simple ovulation kits! Honestly.

I was never pregnant prior to trying IVF (to my knowledge) - for 20 years, until I changed my diet and started taking supplements seriously. There are very basic things you can also do to encourage sperm to meet the egg, for the egg to then fertilize and then for the embryonic cells to first of all multiply and implant, but you need to be eating the right things and taking the right supplements.

Here is a list of stuff I took:

You can buy from Holland & Barrett, Boots, ASDA, www.naturesbest.co.uk, etc:
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• Take Evening Primrose Oil (High Strength) from first day of period for 14 days, then stop at ovulation and DON’T take for another 14 days or until your period comes again. EPO can cause your period to start, that is why you only take it up until ovulation, not after. It’s a stop and start supplement not to be taken permanently. If pregnant, don’t take. But keep using this procedure until you do become pregnant! Evening Primrose Oil is a herb that is often used specifically to help increase cervical mucus. Evening primrose oil is an essential fatty acid that is also an anti-inflammatory. Evening primrose oil will not only help to increase cervical mucus, it can also help to increase the quality and effectiveness of cervical mucus, and produce more “egg-white cervical mucus.” GQCM can help the sperm reach the egg easier. It can make the uterus a less 'hostile' place. Taken over time, it can help reduce the narrowing of vessels and promotes blood flow. If you are not trying naturally, i.e.: having fertility treatment, then you can take throughout your treatment non-stop, but PLEASE stop in the 2WW, as it can bring on uterine contractions and therefore make you bleed/have your period.
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If you are trying to conceive naturally, you may wish to try cough medicine - sounds daft, but the theory is right:

Robitussin and it’s Effect on Cervical Mucus
Robitussin works on the cervical mucus and increases your chances of getting pregnant. The sperm can swim up to meet the egg much more easily when your mucus is slippery!

Robitussin is a popular brand of cough syrup and it might be surprising to consider its relation with fertility. But the fact is that this expectorant is used to loosen and thin mucus of a different kind too, called cervical mucus, in women. Robitussin is only a specific brand and any expectorant that contains guaifenesin as the only active ingredient can be used in its place. Generic versions are most likely available as well. Be sure to carefully inspect the ingredients list to make sure the ONLY active ingredient as guaifenesin. Any other ingredients can diminish the effect you are looking for.

What is the recommended dose of Robitussin (or other cough medicine that only contains guaifenesin as the active ingredient?
The recommended dose for improving cervical mucus is two teaspoons (200 mg) taken orally three times per day. Recommended dosage is two teaspoons (200 mg) taken orally three times per day. If mucus still appears thick, you can take as the maximum dosage as listed on the label of the cough medicine. Water intake should be increased to encourage cervical mucus production and a full glass should take with each dose of guaifenesin.

If you're taking Clomid (clomiphene citrate, Serophene) as an ovulation inductor, it may help to know that it can cause hostile mucus in 30 percent or more of women using it. Higher doses of Clomid tend to be more associated with less cervical fluid and a thinner uterine lining, than the 50 mg dose and Robitussin can help to reverse this.

What cycle days should I take Robitussin (cough medicine that only contains guaifenesin as the active ingredient)?
Most doctors suggest taking Robitussin five days before and including the day of ovulation for a total of 6 days during your cycle. This helps provide the optimal environment to help the sperm survive and get to where they need to go. If you take Clomid, waiting until the day after the last Clomid pill is taken before starting Robitussin is suggested.

Water:
6 glasses of water minimum along with all the other drinks! Really, yes - really!
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The first mistake that couples make is assuming that a woman can get pregnant anytime. In reality, the conception window is very narrow - only about 5 days in any given menstrual cycle. Sperm, as a general rule, is said to be able to live up to five days in the vaginal canal, though three days is a more realistic timeframe. The female portion, the ovum (or egg) only lives 24-48 hours. With these numbers, a woman is most fertile in the three days leading up to ovulation, the day of ovulation, and the day after ovulation.

The question that poses is obvious: When does a woman ovulate? If you'd like to subscribe to the old school, they'll tell you that every woman ovulates on day fourteen of her menstrual cycle. They're wrong, too. Every woman is different, so why should every menstrual cycle be the same? Some say that the best way to counter that is to just count back fourteen days from the day their next period is expected. Does this have to be so confusing? Not at all. If you'd like to have a good basic idea of when you ovulate, you should get a calendar. On that calendar, mark the date of your next expected period. Next, count backward from that date seventeen days. That will give you the date roughly three days before ovulation. Start having intercourse on that date and continue every other day until twelve days before your expected period. That should give you a reasonable chance at conceiving, but if you want a huge head start on the process, read on.

Cervical mucus is also a good indicator of ovulation. Right after menstruation, there will be little or no cervical mucus. As you approach ovulation, cervical mucus will get thick and extremely moist. During ovulation, you will usually observe what is referred to as "egg white cervical mucus." This is the most sperm-friendly mucus that a woman can have and it greatly increases the survival of sperm thereby increasing chances of pregnancy. In the case that egg white cervical mucus is never observed, there are products available to increase quality mucus production or even substitute for it. Evening primrose oil is an excellent product for increasing cervical mucus quality.
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Also, per day take
• Folic Acid : at least 400 mcg, but you can take up to 5000 mcg (only this must be prescribed by a GP). I took 2 Folic Acid x 400mcg per day in addition to the following, some of which already contain extra folic acid, as it is a perfectly safe supplement. New studies suggest folate can increase pregnancy rates, prevent miscarriage and can help sperm to have the correct balance of chromosomes. Avoid drinking tea and other drinks that contain tannic acid (tannin) whilst also taking folic acid or aspirin. These may be drinks like your decaf green tea, or normal decaf tea - tannin is still in these drinks. A clue to what drinks contain tannin is if you take a sip and your tongue feels 'fluffy' - the fluffier, the more tannin in your drink.
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• Coenzyme Q10 (COQ10): 2 x 35 mg – promotes blood flow to the ovaries, creates great quality eggs (especially age-related egg-decline), helps prevent miscarriage (so take throughout pregnancy). Be careful when purchasing your Q10: some versions contain other supplements/added ingredients to make it work better, which you may not necessarily want. So check the small print. For e.g.: Tesco Q10 contains Vitamin E, which is fine before pregnancy, but some studies have shown Vit E can/may cause birth defects at high doses. Not sure if there is enough evidence, but you want to make sure you are taking supplements that are right for you. Q10 can also protect sperm from cell damage. CoQ10 (also known as ubiquinone) is in every cell of the human body...
http://www.healingdaily.com/detoxification...oenzyme-q10.htm
It also reduces the risk of preeclampsia:
http://linkinghub.elsevier.com/retrieve/pi...020729208005626
(to take Especially in 2WW).
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• Selenium : 1 x 200 ug – helps promote implantation/helps embryos to stick! Prevents miscarriage (so take straight away and throughout pregnancy). (Especially in 2WW).
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• Vitamin C : 1 x 500 to 1000 mg – helps improve pregnancy rates. Helps prevent miscarriage (so take straight away and throughout pregnancy).(Don’t take more than 1000mg per day, which is the best amount - more can cause stomach upset, etc). Vit C can also protect sperm from cell damage. (Especially in 2WW).
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• Zinc : 1 x 15 mg – THE most important fertility supplement! Helps EVERYTHING! Helps prevent miscarriage, too (so take straight away and throughout pregnancy). Zinc helps with implantation. (Especially in 2WW).
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• Iron : 1 x 14 mg – helps with quality of blood. Helps prevent miscarriage (so take straight away and throughout pregnancy). (Especially in 2WW).
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• Vitamin B complex : 1 x balances out your hormones and encourages pregnancy (so take straight away and throughout pregnancy).
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• Vitamin B6 : 1 x 10 mg – helps produce progesterone – the pregnancy hormone (so take straight away and throughout pregnancy). Some people get pregnant, but do not produce enough progesterone, so the pregnancy does not continue. So this could be a vital supplement for some ladies. I believe it helped my Gestone (progesterone injections) work better in my body, by helping my body to 'put' the Gestone where it was needed! B6 also strengthens the immune system. Taking supplements such as vitamin B6, zinc and magnesium can help to reduce the risk of miscarriage since these nutrients are all required to help the pituitary and ovaries produce the high levels of oestrogen and progesterone needed to secure the pregnancy until the placenta can take over. (Especially in 2WW).

B6 deficiency can lead to a buildup of estrogen in your system causing decreased progesterone production. A proper balance of estrogen and progesterone is essential for conception to occur. Too low a level of progesterone can lead to miscarriage and luteal phase defects (where the time from ovulation to menstruation is shorter than 10 days).

B6 effectively reduces blood estrogen and increases progesterone in the body making you much more conducive to getting pregnant.

B6 can help reduce and prevent the symptoms of morning sickness - even severe morning sickness...
http://www.morningsicknesshelp.com/morning...kness-cure.html

Vitamin B6 can also improve mucus quality. Sperm needs a viable mucus consistency travel through the cervix to get to the egg, and the better quality fertile mucus you have, the easier it is for sperm and egg to meet and hopefully make a baby.

B6 works best when taken with the other B group vitamins as it absorbs better this way. Just 50 mg is usually enough to make positive changes, although if you don’t notice a difference in your luteal phase within two to three months, try increasing the dosage. 100-200 mg is usually recommended by care/health professionals (SHORT term), but.... You need to balance your/any intake of B6 with B12 - it's important to remember this. B6 can disguise a B12 deficiency/anemia, so make sure you are getting BOTH. B6 can cause (reversible) nerve damage if taken excessively, so PLEASE try to take no more than 50 mgs per day (if taking LONG term), just to be on the safe side! (500 mgs is great during 2WW and if you get a positive, I should think you could take this until week 12 and then taper down, to a more sensible limit, like 100 mg, 50 mg or 10 mg...)

Just to clarify, you can take B6 up to 500 mgs to help produce progesterone in the 2WW, but it's meant to be a short term thing, because B6 can cause nerve damage, which is apparently reversible. If you are going to increase your B6 from 50/100 mgs per day, make sure firstly, that you are supplementing with some B12 (to avoid B12 anemia/deficiency) and secondly, that the increase is only for the SHORT term! For example, you wouldn't be on 500 mgs for months on end, just every so often, for example, with your treatment cycle.

http://www.google.co.uk/search?source=ig&h...oq=B6+progester

Above link is a simple search on google for B6 and progesterone. It is not true to say that there is nothing that can be done to increase progesterone production in your body - that is what I thought only a few months ago.
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Multi vitamins:
These can be great, but can contain Vitamin A which is a no no. You may be wondering why you should take all these things separately and not just settle for a multi vitamins? The answer is simple; a multi vitamins could not contain all of these things in the quantity you need. It is a bit of a bind and time-consuming sourcing all these separate supplements, but the extra time invested is worth it for the desired result. Imagine, a lot of people out there take a multi-vitamins anyway and they are not trying to get pregnant like you. Multi vitamins have the basic RDA as recommended for people NOT trying to conceive. People with fertility issues need to have a 'boost' more than a multi-vitamin can provide in MHO.

***SOME INFO*** Most vitamins, ESPECIALLY B-vitamins are WATER SOLUBLE and therefore your body will get rid of what it doesn't need via your urine! Don't dwell on the figures too much, ie: 1MG, 1.5MG... know that you are TAKING ALL AT OPTIMUM levels and the rest your body will disperse with - it is NOT an exact science [this list] ***
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• You must be taking Pregnacare Conception (Pregnacare Plus is for pregnant ladies and also has slightly different ingredients, so take the 'Conception' variety, which has proven effect on conception rates)? You can take the Pregnacare Plus when you get pregnant!
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• Royal Jelly : 3 x 500 mg per day. Helps produce fantastic eggs! Really great for both your fertility. Can increase sperm count!
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• Bee Propolis : 1 x 500mg per day – acts like a natural antibiotic, gets rid of minute harmless (to us) germs, that may be harmful to a tiny embryo. Evidence suggests in IVF trials at has helped to increase pregnancy rates from 20% to 60%. The pollens also improved the ability of the eggs to withstand the incubation period. Bee Propolis can be beneficial to women with endometriosis. Stop when pregnant!!
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All of the above are in addition to your Pregnacare Conception which contains a very small amount of L-arginine - you can also get L-arginine from Holland & Barrett. (It is also perfectly safe to take Pregnacare CONCEPTION alongside (up to) 5000 MG folic acid).
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• L-Arginine : I took 500mg per day. L-Arginine helps the embryo(s) implant! Can help with sperm motility and sperm count!
***SOME INFO*** L-Arginine is sometimes used for preeclampsia - this will assure you that it is still safe to take if you get pregnant - so DON'T WORRY!!! Take untill 12 weeks, if you want to. but your DOCTOR will advise you, so take their advice once pregnant!***
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• Alpha Lipoic Acid (ALA) : from H&B, another great supplement for cell division – helps the embryos divide/continue to make cells. Good for egg quality. It enhances the effect of vitamin C. (Especially in 2WW).
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• Decaf Green tea : 4 cups per day - FULL of antioxidants, so makes the blood in the uterus as fresh as a daisy, gets rid of any bad toxins - take folic acid separately to any tea as tannin interferes with absorption.

Green tea has been linked to spina bifida in one study. This may have something to do with people not taking enough folic acid to surpass the effects, or taking their folic acid at the same time as the green tea, be warned:

http://www.whfoods.com/genpage.php?tname=foodspice&dbid=146

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-...gnant-mums.html

http://www.babycenter.ca/pregnancy/ref/greenteasafe/

http://www.babycenter.com.sg/preconception...greenteaexpert/

Additionally, it may not just be green tea, it could be any tea! But it's only one study!
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• a handful of Brazil nuts every day after ovulation and/or embryo transfer – helps the embryos implant (Brazil nuts contain natural selenium). (Especially in 2WW).
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• plenty of water – needed to flush out your system and help with blood flow and flush out ovaries of toxins. (Especially in 2WW).
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• eat at regular intervals – so your body ‘feels’ a routine. (Especially in 2WW).
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If you are not using fertility treatment - Buy an ovulation kit to help you know when you are ovulating. As soon as you ovulate, you can stop taking the EPO and start eating the Brazil nuts!

- No caffeine
- No alcohol
- No smoking
Each of the above 3 things reduce your chances by between 10% and 90%, fact.
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If you have heavy or 'clotty' periods, or blood clotting issues (get this checked out by your GP) ask your fertility advisor about the following:

• If you are not allergic to aspirin, ask your GP if it’s ok to take 75mg per day (no more because the stronger it is the less the effect! 75mg as been proven to be just right). It stops minute blood clots from forming in the uterus and staves off killer cells (which can kill the embryo) - Be careful if taking aspirin with EPO and fish oils and Q10 as they all have an effect on blood! Divide doses throughout the day and take your aspirin totally separately to your folic acid because aspirin interferes with folic acid absorption, for example, I take my aspirin just before I got to bed. You can take low does aspirin up until you are 36 weeks pregnant. You have to stop then, as you may go into labour at any time, so you need to have your blood able to clot! Low dose aspirin is available on the shelf in ASDA, Tescos, etc. Avoid drinking tea and other drinks that contain tannic acid (tannin) whilst also taking aspirin. These may be drinks like your decaf green tea, or normal decaf tea - tannin is still in these drinks. A clue to what drinks contain tannin is if you take a sip and your tongue feels 'fluffy' - the fluffier, the more tannin in your drink.
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• Fish oils : High strength fish oils help the ‘quality’ of the blood in the uterus which encourages the embryos to wanna grow there. Make sure the fish oils are from the ‘fish body’ and not the fish's liver, as the liver type may contain mercury. So NO Cod Liver Oil! There are plenty of fish oils that are made from the body only – check the ingredients. (Especially in 2WW).
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For MEN :
Your other half can take all of these except maybe for the B-Complex and B6, which are more for women in any case. Zinc, Royal Jelly, Bee Propolis, Folic Acid, Q10 and Arginine are the most important male protocol though – as I know what it’s like getting men to take anything! You could start him off on a few of these and then maybe encourage him to take some of the others I have mentioned. Vitamin E is also good for his sperm. As it is an antioxidant, both of you could take vitamin E up until your pregnancy test, not after.
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When it comes to his fertility:
Vitamin B6 (pyridoxine) - men:
Together with zinc, B6 is essential for the formation of male sex hormones. A deficiency causes infertility in animals.
Sources: molasses, brewer's yeast, whole grains, nuts, brown rice, organ and other meats, egg yolks, fish, poultry, legumes, seeds, and green leafy veggies.
Dosage: RNI 1.4 mg per day, but up to 50 mg may be used per day.
Note: Zinc is needed for its absorption.

Vitamin B12 - men:
Folate and B12 are needed for the synthesis of DNA and RNA. These make up the blueprint for the genetic code of the entire body. Low levels can cause abnormal sperm production, reduced sperm counts, and reduced motility. even if your count is only on the low side, supplement with B12.
Sources: lamb, sardines, salmon, fermented foods that contain bacteria. Calcium aids in its absorption.
Dosage: RNI from 1.5 mcg per day.

There may be absolutely NOTHING wrong with your partner, there was nothing 'wrong' with mine, but he felt he should 'boost' his sperm quality, which was already good, so that the resulting 'embryo' has really good set of chromosomes and all the right ingredients to make a baby - it still does take two.
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There are a lot of supplements here! I took a batch in the morning with my breakfast and another batch with my lunch to divide it up, as it is a lot to swallow, literally! Once you're pregnant, you can revise what you need to take. HONEST, I DID TAKE THEM ALL.
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No Artificial Sweetener -- Although there has been a great deal of debate, studies have found that artificial sweeteners, like aspartame, may be linked to cancer and decreased fertility. Aspartame has been linked with miscarriage. So avoid, or be very wary of Sugar free, diet, 'no sugar' foods and drinks. (Especially in 2WW). I have not had any throughout treatment and pregnancy. Full stop.
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Avoid Vitamin A in supplements and foods that are high in vitamin A, such as liver, but Beta Carotene is a pigment in plants that is converted into vitamin A in the body naturally. The corpus luteum is very high in beta carotene, so it may be cardinal in the regulation of the reproductive cycle hormones. The Corpus Luteum is the yellow-pigmented glandular structure that forms from the ovarian follicle following ovulation. The gland produces progesterone through the second half of the menstrual cycle and into early pregnancy, which prepares and supports the uterine lining for implantation. Progesterone also causes the half-degree or more basal temperature elevation noted after ovulation. If the corpus luteum functions poorly, the uterine lining may not support a pregnancy. If the egg is fertilized, a corpus luteum of pregnancy forms to maintain the endometrial bed and support the implanted embryo. A deficiency in the amount of progesterone produced (or the length of time it is produced) by the corpus luteum can mean the endometrium is unable to sustain a pregnancy. This is called Luteal Phase Defect (LPD). It may be beneficial for some ladies to take Beta Carotene because of this.
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These two may be found in your main fertility supplement in any case, but they are worth a mention:
Manganese
Deficiency may lead to defecive ovulation, and inhibit the synthesis of sex hormones. Manganese competes with iron for absorption. It is advisable to take manganese supplements with protein foods and vitamin C.

Magnesium
We need B1 and magnesium for energy production. Take with selenium, calcium, vitamin B6, and D to aid in absorption. Take with protein foods. Alcohol, tea, coffee, and smoking inhibit absorption. Taking supplements such as magnesium can help to reduce the risk of miscarriage since these nutrients are all required to help the pituitary and ovaries produce the high levels of oestrogen and progesterone needed to secure the pregnancy until the placenta can take over.
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I would suggest breaking them up into 2 or 3 batches per day, to make it easy on yourselves and easier on your stomachs! Try the iron separately to your zinc. Take your iron with your vitamin C. Take L-Arginine separately to L-Lysine [due to the herpes & cold sore virus - one can cause it, one can stop it - so TAKE SEPARATELY/ different times of day]. Take aspirin with nothing else.

Good luck and I hope that some of these things will help you and your partners.
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Just a note, there has been a lot of talk about a painkiller that has been used around the time of Embryo Transfer that for some reason has aided implantation. This painkiller is called: Piroxicam and is marketed under the name of Feldene. Please ask your clinic if they are willing to trial this with you.
http://www.fertilityneighborhood.com/conte...chive_1115.aspx

Mainly....
10 milligrams (mg) of piroxicam (Feldene) approximately 1 to 2 hours before embryo transfer... took implantation rates from around 30% to 50% - sounds bl00dy great! But not sure why this isn't being trialled over here...
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WOMB WARMING:
OK, this is something I did leading up to Egg Collection day (ovulation, if you are trying naturally). I personally DO NOT recommend doing ANY form of belly, stomach, womb-warming AFTER EMBRYO TRANSFER. There is GOOD evidence to suggest that embryos die off after having heat applied. Embryos are heat sensitive - anything warmer than body temperature is a danger to them. The point of womb-warming is to get the blood flowing to the ovaries and uterus and to get everything 'on the move' - there is NO need to do it after the embryos have been put back in. By all means, keep your belly covered up with your clothing as you would normally and in your bed with your duvet, but PLEASE do not apply any heat to your belly WHATSOEVER after ET. Just my personal opinion, but I have posted about this subject before with some excellent clinical links that show good research that proves this. This is also one of the reasons your clinic will ask you not to take hot baths AFTER your ET.

The temperature inside the human body is around 98.5°F/37°C - about the same as a tropical jungle! Embryos are heat sensitive and perish easily with the addition of heat - scientific fact. The reason you warm your womb up to Embryo Transfer is to get the blood flow going prior to the embryos been placed inside. After this, the human body is keeping them warm enough. Obviously, you wont be walking around in cropped tops in this weather, but it is advisable to keep your belly covered up! Apart from this, no additional 'heat' is required. For example: this is the reason they tell you to avoid hot baths and steam rooms. This is related to the reason why water birthing pools are heated to 37.5 degrees for when the baby is about to come out - so that the baby is not distressed. Don't mess with body temperature!

The human oocyte is temperature-sensitive and is therefore kept in a humidified incubator until transfer.

During all handling of oocytes and embryos they must be protected from extrinsic sources of physical and chemical stress. Such factors can be grouped into three major areas: (1) temperature changes; (2) culture medium osmolarity and pH; and (3) air quality, although they do interact in various ways. The simplest way to consider these factors is that any compensation that an oocyte or embryo has to make comes at an energy cost, and hence must be considered as “stress” since the cells’ physiological energy budget is dedicated to its normal development.

As for temperature - The oocyte (embryos to us ladies!!) in particular is extremely sensitive to alterations in temperature. Cooling causes the spindle to depolymerize, risking aneuploidy of the resulting embryo if not all chromosomes reattach to the spindle when it repolymerizes as the oocyte warms back up to 37°C. In addition, temperature shifts can affect trans- membrane transport and many intracellular metabolic processes. For example: information derived from the early days of bovine embryo transfer states that more frequent shifts in holding temperature, and the greater the magnitude of those changes, the worse the embryo quality (measured in terms of pregnancies achieved). Consequently, human oocytes and embryos must be held as closely as possible at a stable 37°C.

There's evidence that a rise in your core body temperature could be detrimental to your developing fetus, particularly in the first three months when the baby's neural tube is developing: some studies have linked a rise in core body temperature to neural tube defects in babies such as Spin-Bifida.

I was strictly told to avoid any form of additional heat - and I'm preggers, so I'm not arguing with their medical advice!! I was using a hot water bottle to warm the injection sites on my butt on thighs prior to injecting and this helps to circulate the blood in order for the oil to be more easily absorbed. I mentioned this to my nurse on one of my visits and she said, as long as you're not putting that hot water bottle anywhere near your tummy you'll be fine! I told her not to worry, I wont! I was frightened to death of any additional heat getting to my tummy!

There is a lot of good come out of Chinese medicine and acupuncture, but please do not take things in the literal sense! Use your best judgment and read things carefully! Womb warming is only good leading up to EC. Some people swear by Chinese medicine, this book that book, just think about it logically in your head.... when you have a high temperature, you are usually sick, right? Your body's core temperature is the around about the same all around your body. Keep covered up, but don't apply heat to your tummy after ET. There no scientific evidence to suggest womb warming works to get your embryo to implant. It only works to increase blood flow/circulation prior to EC. Sorry.
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I have so much more information and to post it all here would be insanity as I'm sure you will all get bored of the stupidly long list, but if there's anything else, just ask.

I'm also not in the least bit embarrassed to say that sometimes people get things wrong... I got all this info from books and the internet and as such, things can get out-of-date VERY quickly! I would encourage you to check out the latest information yourselves and to check back here to see what items have changed, as I will ALWAYS update. I'm not the kind of person to stick to my guns and give out useless, outdated info, just to save face. If it changes - I will change it here - promise.

Please don't hesitate to ask any questions - I will try to make the answers shorter than this!

Good luck all! x

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2. total less than RM 500 per single order per month
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QUOTE(chloepl @ Sep 29 2016, 08:25 PM)
Tried for two times IVF. All failed. 2 frozen embryo left but I dont have the courage to go for it. Start my IVF treatment since 2014 and all results in failure. Just feel hopeless.
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feel sorry for your results. may i ask, 2 times also (Day 2 – Day 4) embryo stage? or is a Blastocyst Stage (Day 5)?

*please ignore my question if u don't feels like answering, it is ok* nod.gif

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QUOTE(chloepl @ Sep 29 2016, 08:25 PM)
Tried for two times IVF. All failed. 2 frozen embryo left but I dont have the courage to go for it. Start my IVF treatment since 2014 and all results in failure. Just feel hopeless.
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sorry to hear about this. Did the doctor give you any reasons why it failed? Also, did you have to do a HSG? sorry for asking you this.
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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 3 2016, 11:04 AM)
embryo stage is day 3 and 7 cells. lining also was 10mm thick. but why 2 times ends with failure?  :confused:
hcg level less than 2
doctor said that my case is unexplained reason
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my wife doctor said to embryo at day 5 blastocyst stage have higher chances but this might not be the only reason, it might be some other unknown reason. anyhow, there is way to increase the rates higher.

when is your last time ivf?

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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 5 2016, 06:42 PM)
Done my last time ivf on june2015. oh,blastocyst stage got higher success rate? blink.gif
I was advised to take chinese medicine to recuperate my body. strengthening my body and for healthier uterus.
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yes, because blastocyst got more cells. however as i said this is NOT the only element that makes it success. still got many things beyond consuming supplements eg, lifestyle as in your daily stress in family or work, eating habits, alcohol, tobacco intake too. a lot of it needs to be taken care.

Not only wife side, husband side is very important to produce a higher grade sperm and support in every aspect.

lastly, all above is can be done and the rest is pray because beyond our control.

what's ur age now? still got any frozen embryo?

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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 11 2016, 04:58 PM)
I only take folid acid. Hm,eating habits is normal. No alcohol and tobacco. but less exercise. sad.gif 
But as you said, still got many things that need to concern.
maybe there is another unknown reason confused.gif
For my case, my husband is low sperm count.so the only way is ivf. But why why why, all failed.  vmad.gif
Ya, 2 frozen embryo left.
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as u had mentioned u only take folid acid, maybe u should increase supplements. I had PM u my wife FB page, u can go there can see.. a lot article/topic similar your cases. since u have 2 embryo left, maybe u can think about getting ready again for next attempt but don't be too rush.
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QUOTE(rose6580 @ Jan 4 2016, 11:20 AM)
Hi all

There is a group in Facebook that discuss all these information in private - it's a secret group

U can pm me and I can add u to that group which has a lot of information to share on ivf in Msia

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Hi all

there is a new group in Facebook called "IVF Moms Malaysia" which is a closed group. you can search for the group and request to join directly.

the admin is Mabel Tan who also owns this blog "easymummy.com"
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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 5 2016, 06:42 PM)
Done my last time ivf on june2015. oh,blastocyst stage got higher success rate? blink.gif
I was advised to take chinese medicine to recuperate my body. strengthening my body and for healthier uterus.
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Let me share some experience on my side
1) Yes blastocyst may have higher rate of success, as it is at the late stage where hatching will commence soon, but note that there is a hurdle going from 3-day embryo to a 5-day blastocyst. Technology these days allows incubation to 5-day blastocyst, but note that it comes with higher risk of the embryo dying during incubation. For us, only 2 of 3 embryos survive to blastocyst, and only 1 of that 2 was successful to birth.

2) My wife did take chinese medicine and acupuncture to stengthen her body and warm it up. On top of that, she also take baby-aspirin (need doctor's prescription), as her family have history of elevated immune response. Even though blood test shows that she does not have it, the doctor didn't want to take any chances, and prescribed her the aspirin.

3) There are also many factors involved as mentioned by skydrake. Stress plays a part too, my wife quit her job and relax at home.

Good luck to you, and may you enjoy your parenthood soon.
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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 24 2016, 02:44 PM)
Thank you. I have look through your wife’s fb page. Its useful. smile.gif  Hey,your daughter looks adorable.  biggrin.gif
im not sure when I will go for next attempt. unsure.gif  But try to strengthen my body and get ready first. Exercise and take more supplements.  laugh.gif
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my wife had help many couple successful in ivf in this page, we're both happy that out testimonial helps. my daughter getting naughtier day by day now, every morning she woke up and my wife put her on my bed and she roll roll over to me and slap me while i still sleeping doh.gif

yes, u need time to strengthen your body and mentally too! u need some soul food to release your stress. i can suggest u to go for a sweet holiday with your husband, try to get as sweet as possible so that your both going to be parents mentally prepare. this will helps your stress level control to the best, love is the best medicine ever smile.gif
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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 24 2016, 04:23 PM)
A big thanks to you for your sharing.  :thumbsup:
Just 2 frozen embryo left. But I don’t have any courage as of now. unsure.gif
I have to prepare myself for the next attempt. I’m afraid fail again and have to restart the new process… oh no…  cry.gif
as you said,stress plays a part too. I’m really stress during that time..full of disappointment and so depressed.
Whats kind of chinese medicine your wife taken? Actually I was advised to take chinese medicine too.
Thank you for your good wishes.  biggrin.gif
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Perhaps u give urself a vacation or holiday before u started the FET... Me trying my best to stay relax and rest more... I also talking to mummy that go thru ivf and successful... Heard their story and talk to them whenever I was so stress and disappointed...

*p/s: I extracted 10eggs and only 4egg fertilized and only one is good while 3 is 2-cell... I still give a try as doc say the one good is grade C can't really survived freeze process... I thought I not able make it and told my hubby that if not success we will take a rest n holiday before started new cycle... And when test beta hcg, I'm positive and confirmed... Now wait another appt to check again the beta... Just take it easy and relax yourself...
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Haha,  biggrin.gif your daughter is so cute.  wink.gif
Ya, maybe you are right. I think is the right time to go for a holiday and relax myself.my husband is quite busy with his work. Have to talk to him. 
Actually my stress level is increased day by day. Especially during new year, the period before cny coming.  blink.gif u know that relatives sure ask “when you want to have a baby?”   bangwall.gif
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it is really a blessing for me to have a healthy n cute baby girl. meanwhile for u need reduce your stress level no matter what, this is a must. added, relative stress on cny, i truely understand.. this u need to ask yourself whether u can handle it or not if can't handle u can think about skipping cny with holiday trip 😂

beside stress level, u can add on some supplements of Chinese herbs which my wife had taken it before ivf. no 100% promises but at least we did what we should. for the chinese herbs formula, u may contact my wife directly thru fb page i mentioned before so she can explain to u or if u wants me to explain more details and pm me too.

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Hi, im new here. May i know anyone did iui b4? How much it cost? Can it b done every months? Sorry desperately to get pregnant.😥
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Haha,  biggrin.gif your daughter is so cute.  wink.gif
Ya, maybe you are right. I think is the right time to go for a holiday and relax myself.my husband is quite busy with his work. Have to talk to him. 
Actually my stress level is increased day by day. Especially during new year, the period before cny coming.  blink.gif u know that relatives sure ask “when you want to have a baby?”  bangwall.gif
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I know tat feeling. 😧 i alw hv to answer tat questions also. Jus hate when festival is coming.
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Hi, im new here. May i know anyone did iui b4? How much it cost? Can it b done every months? Sorry desperately to get pregnant.😥
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Hi, do u know what is the reason u not getting pregnant? desperate is good but at least with the proper guides should be ok.
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Hi, do u know what is the reason u not getting pregnant? desperate is good but at least with the proper guides should be ok.
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Thanks so much your reply. We went lab can check, told sperm got prob so may need iui, so jus wonder how much it cost ? It will b a burder for us.
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QUOTE(dreamcomes @ Oct 29 2016, 09:05 AM)
Thanks so much your reply. We went lab can check, told sperm got prob so may need iui, so jus wonder how much it cost ? It will b a burder for us.
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not so sure about iui prices, but some friends did told is about 3-4k for private and for gov i they said is really cheap n not sure they saying is real or not as in rm1. however the rates is sure low, been told most of them failed, maybe i did not have any testimonial from the success ppl before.

howver, ivf is a burden to me too. i go for it and stick with the plan then it should be ok. if your age is stil young, u may try iui else should go for ivf.

all that best to be a parent! 😀
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Thanks so much your reply. We went lab can check, told sperm got prob so may need iui, so jus wonder how much it cost ? It will b a burder for us.
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Good morning,

We did 3 iuis in 2013 all failed. It costed us about 2k each time at Tropicana Medical Centre. That was 3 years ago.

Anyway, iuis are sort of a hit and miss. Because of the sperm washing, it doesn't live as long so the timing during insemination must be spot on. Usually it's the best guess of the doctor.

Depending on your age, you can try iui. Did the lab give you an indication on costs?
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QUOTE(waters @ Oct 29 2016, 10:01 AM)
Good morning,

We did 3 iuis in 2013 all failed. It costed us about 2k each time at Tropicana Medical Centre. That was 3 years ago.

Anyway, iuis are sort of a hit and miss. Because of the sperm washing, it doesn't live as long so the timing during insemination must be spot on. Usually it's the best guess of the doctor.

Depending on your age, you can try iui. Did the lab give you an indication on costs?
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They dunno d cost as well. I so depressed now, seem like iui like more in luck rather than real improvement in achieving pregnancy.😧
I tho by iui, d chances will b much better. Feel like hopeless now.
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QUOTE(dreamcomes @ Oct 29 2016, 01:38 PM)
They dunno d cost as well. I so depressed now, seem like iui like more in luck rather than real improvement in achieving pregnancy.😧
I tho by iui, d chances will b much better. Feel like hopeless now.
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Hi, the chances are better, but ivf is of course a lot lot higher. I suggest talk to a doctor, they should advise you on your next action, not a lab.

In this thread there are tons of recommendations of doctors. Go to one close to you, take the sperm test results and discuss it.

Good luck! My wife and I tried for 7 years before we got pregnant. It was a tough tough time for us. I feel what you're going through.
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Tq so much. Yes it is tough. May i ask how you feel thro the 7 years before u got your baby? There is oly 1 thing (to get pregnant) in my mind d whole day, feel like cant proceed with others things in life😟
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Hi, im new here. May i know anyone did iui b4? How much it cost? Can it b done every months? Sorry desperately to get pregnant.😥
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I did twice IUI at govt... It really cheap... Each visit cost u rm5 with medicine (injection, needles, etc) but u needed to prepare cooler box with ice cant dry ice... U will need visit them on day 2/3 of ur period then they will scan and give u injection... Then on day 10 come again to scan... if ok, they give u trigger to injection and the trigger is prengyl 5000ui or any dosage that suit u... Then on that day ur husband need pay rm5 for the room to provide sperm... That's all you are done and back...

So if u were lucky on day 10 can trigger meaning u just like spend RM 5 x 4 = rm 20.00 the whole process...

I did ask about the ivf centre that i went for it.... They say if did IUI will not exceed rm2k each cycle...
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QUOTE(MandyG @ Oct 30 2016, 12:58 AM)
I did twice IUI at govt... It really cheap... Each visit cost u rm5 with medicine (injection, needles, etc) but u needed to prepare cooler box with ice cant dry ice... U will need visit them on day 2/3 of ur period then they will scan and give u injection... Then on day 10 come again to scan... if ok, they give u trigger to injection and the trigger is prengyl 5000ui or any dosage that suit u... Then on that day ur husband need pay rm5 for the room to provide sperm... That's all you are done and back...

So if u were lucky on day 10 can trigger meaning u just like spend RM 5 x 4 = rm 20.00 the whole process...

I did ask about the ivf centre that i went for it.... They say if did IUI will not exceed rm2k each cycle...
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Tq ao much ur info. Really helpful. May i know ice box for what?


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I did twice IUI at govt... It really cheap... Each visit cost u rm5 with medicine (injection, needles, etc) but u needed to prepare cooler box with ice cant dry ice... U will need visit them on day 2/3 of ur period then they will scan and give u injection... Then on day 10 come again to scan... if ok, they give u trigger to injection and the trigger is prengyl 5000ui or any dosage that suit u... Then on that day ur husband need pay rm5 for the room to provide sperm... That's all you are done and back...

So if u were lucky on day 10 can trigger meaning u just like spend RM 5 x 4 = rm 20.00 the whole process...

I did ask about the ivf centre that i went for it.... They say if did IUI will not exceed rm2k each cycle...
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Tq ao much ur info. Really helpful. May i know ice box for what?
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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 30 2016, 04:08 PM)
Why they want ask such of this bangwall.gif  question.  mad.gif
Some of them even told u ”u know xx is already give birth to a baby girl?”  shakehead.gif
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Hi, chloepl. Yap the situation is totally suck, when we hv to face all those questions. Like we can control when we wanna give birth😠

I really hope all this end fast (with good ending?😃) but i think there is no shortcut, hv to face it anyway.
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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 30 2016, 04:17 PM)
I don’t want to try the chinese medicine which is need to cook one. My friend recommend me one chinese medicine formula, no need to cook. Powder form. Easier for me.  biggrin.gif
she is Dr Terrenz customer. so she recommend it to me. smile.gif
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ic, actually the one i recommend to u is from the same source n same product. my wife is their reseller. 😊

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QUOTE(chloepl @ Oct 30 2016, 04:08 PM)
Why they want ask such of this bangwall.gif  question.  mad.gif
Some of them even told u ”u know xx is already give birth to a baby girl?”  shakehead.gif
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I remember talking to someone who whispered to me in tears that she hated going for raya visits for these questions. At that time they've been married for 10 years (they both married early at 21) with a few failed IUIs. They had no money for IVF.

But little that we know at that time she was already pregnant with her first born biggrin.gif

Fast forward 7 years, she now has 3 daughters all conceived naturally. rclxms.gif

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Tq ao much ur info. Really helpful. May i know ice box for what?
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The ice box is for the medicine... Any injection medicine need maintain in cool temperature... Even iui or ivf... So after u back then u put these injection medicine into fridge..

Previously I try tcm give me is a tablet medicine to eat which she say consist of ginseng, etc which to warm ur uterus...

I understand how u feel about it when come to big festival.. My in lAws keep telling my hubby that who who had how many children... Then keep hint like which uncle go back hometown is it cos daughter in law pregnant... During bday, say wanna have a grandchildren stand beside n wish bday..
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Hope 1 day i can celebrate all those festival happily, at least with a little heartbeat in my tummy😉


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Hope 1 day i can celebrate all those festival happily, at least with a little heartbeat in my tummy😉
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It's s secret group

U can't find it if you search unless you are a member

Therefore need a member to add u into the group

In order for member to add u into the group , u must be friend with the member on FB

So if u r interested pm me your FB name n i will add u as fren

Then only I can add u into the group

After that, admin will ask some question before adding u into the group to ensure legitimate members are added into the group

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can add me?

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can you add me as well, my facebook id is : monlin2016@outlook.my.

I had 3 IVF cycles but all failed due to low ovarian reserve problems.

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Hi all

There is a group in Facebook that discuss all these information in private - it's a secret group

U can pm me and I can add u to that group which has a lot of information to share on ivf in Msia

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can you add me as well, my facebook id is : monlin2016@outlook.my.

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Hi rose, can you add me : monlin2016@outlook.my
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the admin is Mabel Tan

https://www.facebook.com/groups/539890222883395/

if you wanna join the SECRET group called Trying to Conceive, you have to directly msg the admin

the admins are https://www.facebook.com/fuifuil33?fref=ts

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https://www.facebook.com/minglmy?fref=ts


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QUOTE(rose6580 @ Nov 10 2016, 02:30 PM)
you can join the new CLOSED group yourself - its called IVF Moms Malaysia
the admin is Mabel Tan

https://www.facebook.com/groups/539890222883395/

if you wanna join the SECRET group called Trying to Conceive, you have to directly msg the admin

the admins are https://www.facebook.com/fuifuil33?fref=ts

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Thanks, I will try to contact them.
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oic, ya, is vhcformula (孕育宝)。 they also recommend me to consume another products too. enhance progesterone. hope can helps  biggrin.gif
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Hi all

There is a group in Facebook that discuss all these information in private - it's a secret group

U can pm me and I can add u to that group which has a lot of information to share on ivf in Msia

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Hi all, anyone had thinking to do ivf and wanted to know more. alpha fertility centre at kota damansara is having a talk on 17/12/2016 2:30PM.

my wife, me and my daughter (ivf baby) is joining this talk to share our testimonial too. seats is limited, so first come first serve.

oh ya, added for registrant will be given voucher worth rm350 for fertility screening.

whoever interested can register at

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Hi can u plz add me in d group? Thanks
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can you add me as well, my facebook id is : monlin2016@outlook.my.

I had 3 IVF cycles but all failed due to low ovarian reserve problems.
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Hi rose, can you add me : monlin2016@outlook.my
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the admin is Mabel Tan

https://www.facebook.com/groups/539890222883395/

if you wanna join the SECRET group called Trying to Conceive, you have to directly msg the admin

the admins are https://www.facebook.com/fuifuil33?fref=ts

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Congrats Mandy..
Did you go to LPPKN? IVF also? Mind to share the price?

QUOTE(MandyG @ Oct 30 2016, 12:58 AM)
I did twice IUI at govt... It really cheap... Each visit cost u rm5 with medicine (injection, needles, etc) but u needed to prepare cooler box with ice cant dry ice... U will need visit them on day 2/3 of ur period then they will scan and give u injection... Then on day 10 come again to scan... if ok, they give u trigger to injection and the trigger is prengyl 5000ui or any dosage that suit u... Then on that day ur husband need pay rm5 for the room to provide sperm... That's all you are done and back...

So if u were lucky on day 10 can trigger meaning u just like spend RM 5 x 4 = rm 20.00 the whole process...

I did ask about the ivf centre that i went for it.... They say if did IUI will not exceed rm2k each cycle...
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Congrats Mandy..
Did you go to LPPKN? IVF also? Mind to share the price?
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I didn't go LPPKN... I straight to GH but ivf I done outside GH... I done at private hospital...
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I didn't go LPPKN... I straight to GH but ivf I done outside GH... I done at private hospital...
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GH can do the SA also? Mind to share which GH you went?
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GH can do the SA also? Mind to share which GH you went?
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They will give u a list of form and u come back to did the test when and when... Hospital Kuala Lumpur infertility department... They did all the test before see you... But they won return u back ur result...
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They will give u a list of form and u come back to did the test when and when... Hospital Kuala Lumpur infertility department... They did all the test before see you... But they won return u back ur result...
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Thanks.
Would like to have a check before decide go for IVF.. Do you happen to know which other GH provide the infertility treatment also beside Hospital KL?
Or anyone can share also if you got the information?
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Thanks.
Would like to have a check before decide go for IVF.. Do you happen to know which other GH provide the infertility treatment also beside Hospital KL?
Or anyone can share also if you got the information?
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If no then mistaken only GH offer infertility test...
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QUOTE(ChristineTSL1972 @ Dec 27 2016, 07:02 PM)
Hi...just a brief introduction of myself..i been TTC for 9 yrs after my marriage n i tried my first attempt of ivf at a half gov hospital n failed...then i changed to Metro IVF n successful got a pair of twins gals...they r 4 yrs old now...if u gals wanna to know more abt me i can share in more details my stories...cheers n have a wonderful day!
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QUOTE(ChristineTSL1972 @ Jan 4 2017, 04:37 PM)
Hi everyone...Metro IVF is ging to have a public forum Make pregnancy possible this month......u are invited to attend their public forum on 14/1/2017 (Sat) 10.00am to 3pm at Four Points By Sheraton Puchong for more details info.:-

https://www.facebook.com/MetroIVF/photos/a....3024806/?type=3
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Thanks for the tip! And congrats on your twin girls smile.gif

My wife and I also trying to conceive for 2 years now. Going for 2nd round IUI. IVF will be last resort. Hopefully this year got luck biggrin.gif
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Hi Obee,

Can go join Metro Public forum this Sat 14/1/2017 to know more abt how to get pregnant...GOOD LUCK!!! thumbup.gif
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Thanks Christine! Your story/experience should give my wife some encouragement smile.gif She's 35 this year and we just went through our 2nd IUI this morning. Hopefully this time got good news. We also registered for the Metro public forum. Will look for Dr Tee as you mentioned smile.gif
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Good luck to you n ur wife...may i know which centre u r doing iui now?
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QUOTE(christinesim @ Jan 13 2017, 12:54 PM)
I'm new here. I have been tried for my first ivf on June last year and failed. sad.gif  going to try for next attempt on mac or apr.  hope this time can be successful.
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Hi, sad to hear that u had failed. good luck on your next attempt. if likes to know more about ivf success stories may try to see my wife journey at https://www.facebook.com/ivfjourney2015 she had write her testimonial and also friends that did ivf was been talk about in her page.
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I'm new here. I have been tried for my first ivf on June last year and failed. sad.gif  going to try for next attempt on mac or apr.  hope this time can be successful.
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the admin is Mabel Tan

https://www.facebook.com/groups/539890222883395/

if you wanna join the SECRET group called Trying to Conceive, you can directly msg the admins below

the admins are https://www.facebook.com/fuifuil33?fref=ts

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anyone here has done PGD or PGS in ivf treatment?
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the admin is Mabel Tan

https://www.facebook.com/groups/539890222883395/

if you wanna join the SECRET group called Trying to Conceive, you can directly msg the admins below

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Failed our second IUI treatment. Trying tcm to 'fix' our body and looking to try IVF soon. Hopefully wifey is strong enough to go through it
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anyone try this before?

http://ivfkasih.com/
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hi all

wan to ask

can ivf choose gender ? how much cost ?
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QUOTE(chloepl @ Mar 8 2017, 03:24 PM)
vhc and female 2 is chinese medicine. failed 2 times, sad.gif do not want to take risk again, just hope to strengthen body before ivf.
you can get more details on hk-vhcformula.com
due to i still have 2 frozen embryos left and going to do fet,they recommend me to take vhc and female 2.
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sorry to hear that. hope the next round will be a successful one.
we are on chinese med treatment now to strengthen our body before starting ivf.
hopefully it'll help my wife's womb condition smile.gif
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hi all

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can ivf choose gender ? how much cost ?
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from what i know, standard IVF package does not include gender selection. that's another package altogether.
cost could be around the same price of an IVF package.
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from what i know, standard IVF package does not include gender selection. that's another package altogether.
cost could be around the same price of an IVF package.
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do u noe roughly the cost of gender selection cost ?
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Pre-implantation genetic screening allows us to screen all chromosomes in your embryos and select embryo(s) with no chromosomal abnormalities for transfer. The estimated cost of an IVF+PGS cycle including medication is about RM35,000 – RM50,000


http://www.tmcfertility.com/resources/faq/...of-ivf-with-pgd

For your reference. Price may vary according to fertility centres.
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http://www.tmcfertility.com/resources/faq/...of-ivf-with-pgd

For your reference. Price may vary according to fertility centres.
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There is one technique called microsort, it is used to separate the X and Y chromosome bearing sperm.
Will somewhat increase the percentage of desired sperm.
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There is one technique called microsort, it is used to separate the X and Y chromosome bearing sperm.
Will somewhat increase the percentage of desired sperm.
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QUOTE(obee @ Feb 23 2017, 04:23 PM)
Failed our second IUI treatment. Trying tcm to 'fix' our body and looking to try IVF soon. Hopefully wifey is strong enough to go through it
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IUI's success rate is low, ~20%. But dun gv up too soon.
To get a successful pregnancy there are some criteria to fulfill, including the sperm count, follicle size and number, time of LH surge/bHCG injection and the endometrium lining.
If all good then will have higher chance of getting pregnant.

Choose a good doc and a good lab. This plays a major role actually.


If really going for IVF and if your wife is scare of injection, can try ask your doc to gv Elonva, 1 injection is equals to 1 week of FSH injection.

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IUI's success rate is low, ~20%. But dun gv up too soon.
To get a successful pregnancy there are some criteria to fulfill, including the sperm count, follicle size and number, time of LH surge/bHCG injection and the endometrium lining.
If all good then will have higher chance of getting pregnant.

Choose a good doc and a good lab. This plays a major role actually.
If really going for IVF and if your wife is scare of injection, can try ask your doc to gv Elonva, 1 injection is equals to 1 week of FSH injection.
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We did our tests and IUI at SunMed. Both of us checked out ok but still no success.
Now we are preparing ourselves mentally and physically first before going with IVF.
She's fine with needles just more concerned about the womb condition.
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thank you. i hope this chinese medicine will help me in body condition,wombs and progesterone as well.
when will you start the ivf treatment? good luck  biggrin.gif
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Thanks. If all goes well, maybe before end of the month or early April smile.gif
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To be exact to your question, gender selection process cost "that I know", is like below;

1. Microsort cost USD1,800 *As up to date rates*, The amount is in USD because is done by US company for the Fertility Centre *that I knows* (effectiveness of sorting, 70-80% accuracy)

2. PGS can be add on for 100% accuracy *depending on availability of Fertility Centre*, this process only can be done in Blastocyst Stage because it examines the DNA of Blastocyst. *As what I knows* this process can cost vary ranging from RM5K initial first Blastocyst to RM3K per/Blastocyst depending on how many it can be done. Let say if u got 3 Blastocyst will be calculate as below;
1st Blastocyst = RM5K
2nd Blastocyst = RM3K
3rd Blastocyst = RM3K
Total = RM11K (prices are vary depending on Fertility Centre, and this is their current rates that I know)

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Hi,

To be exact to your question, gender selection process cost "that I know", is like below;

1. Microsort cost USD1,800 *As up to date rates*, The amount is in USD because is done by US company for the Fertility Centre *that I knows* (effectiveness of sorting, 70-80% accuracy)

2. PGS can be add on for 100% accuracy *depending on availability of Fertility Centre*, this process only can be done in Blastocyst Stage because it examines the DNA of Blastocyst. *As what I knows* this process can cost vary ranging from RM5K initial first Blastocyst to RM3K per/Blastocyst depending on how many it can be done. Let say if u got 3 Blastocyst will be calculate as below;
1st Blastocyst = RM5K
2nd Blastocyst = RM3K
3rd Blastocyst = RM3K
Total = RM11K (prices are vary depending on Fertility Centre, and this is their current rates that I know)
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mind to share which Fertility Centre ??

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mind to share which Fertility Centre ??
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Alpha Fertility Centre, that's where my success ivf baby from. If u likes to see more of my process testimonials can visit my wife FB page at http://facebook.com/ivfjourney2015 where all our write out of what we goes thru
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Alpha Fertility Centre, that's where my success ivf baby from. If u likes to see more of my process testimonials can visit my wife FB page at http://facebook.com/ivfjourney2015 where all our write out of what we goes thru
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Hi, any good recommendation of IVF centre and doctor to go to? Been trying for 8 years with several losses. I'm seeing this doc for IVF and IUI for past 3 years with no success and would like to try another doctor

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Hi, any good recommendation of IVF centre and doctor to go to? Been trying for 8 years with several losses. I'm seeing this doc for IVF and IUI for past 3 years with no success and would like to try another doctor
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Hi. I'm sorry for your loss. Cheer up smile.gif
May I know which fertility center you've been seeing?
We will start our first cycle at Metro IVF soon. Location is in Klang though.
Why we chose there because a few people recommended us Dr Tee.
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QUOTE(Shimo @ Mar 16 2017, 12:27 PM)
Hi, any good recommendation of IVF centre and doctor to go to? Been trying for 8 years with several losses. I'm seeing this doc for IVF and IUI for past 3 years with no success and would like to try another doctor
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Hi, sorry to hear what u had goes thru. May I know how old both of u now? If u can share a bit more about journey eg, where u did your iui n ivf if u feel comfortable? or if u don't is ok biggrin.gif

we surely have few facilities that everyone able to recommend, I did mine at alpha fertility and if u likes to know more about my journey write out is at https://www.facebook.com/ivfjourney2015 rclxms.gif
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Hi

May i know if anyone tried the Fertility Massage or Yoga? Also any recommendation for acupunture and Chinese med?

I just done my 1st IVF process and not sucessful. Now taking a break and observe the condition before the 2nd IVF.
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Has anyone here heard anything about "Concept Fertility Centre" in KL? .... They are part of the Damai Service Hospital.

I have emailed them 2 times already with questions concerning IMF, and have never received a reply.

They have a website that is still working, but maybe they are now out of business?

http://www.conceptfertility.com.my/


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Has anyone here heard anything about "Concept Fertility Centre" in KL? .... They are part of the Damai Service Hospital.
I have emailed them 2 times already with questions concerning IMF, and have never received a reply.
They have a website that is still working, but maybe they are now out of business?
http://www.conceptfertility.com.my/
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I guess I will do that ... I am in the US.

Just seems strange they won't reply to emails.
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Hi all, I have a question. Nowadays IVF easily costs like RM15k+. Is that 15k for 1 time (cycle) or until success? If lets say first 2 times failed and need 3rd time, is the total cost going to be 45k? Thanks.
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Hi all, I have a question. Nowadays IVF easily costs like RM15k+. Is that 15k for 1 time (cycle) or until success? If lets say first 2 times failed and need 3rd time, is the total cost going to be 45k? Thanks.
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lets say IVF alone. with medical advances improving exponentially, the success rates increases. the highest average success rates are no more than 60%, with the average are about 30-40%. Any centers that claims higher are likely using falsified advertisement /bias data.
Success rates are affected by various factors, tends to be higher for younger couples, while lower for elderly couples. It is also affected by the current health status of the male and female.

Though u r right, the cost is about RM15k+ for the first time. But subsequent retry usually cost less, again, due to several factors. eg, (additional spare eggs were harvest from the first attempt).

I believe most couple find the time consumption, and going thru repeated failures most depressing. There are alot of centers for Reproductive Medicine specialist today. Its best to pick one thats reliable.
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QUOTE(FluffyTee @ May 7 2017, 07:25 PM)

There are alot of centers for Reproductive Medicine specialist today. Its best to pick one thats reliable.


And that's the problem ... How is anyone supposed to know which IVF center in Malaysia is "reliable" when you live in someplace far far away such as the United States?

Malaysia is a very long way to travel from the USA ... Since I am not a citizen of Malaysia, I am required by the airlines to have a round trip ticket when I leave the USA for Malaysia ... The problem is, I don't even know when my return date will be. It's hard to buy a round trip ticket when you have no idea as to how long you even need to be in Malaysia for IVF.

This whole process is not exactly easy when you live 15,000 km away from Malaysia.





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And that's the problem ... How is anyone supposed to know which IVF center in Malaysia is "reliable" when you live in someplace far far away such as the United States?

Malaysia is a very long way to travel from the USA ... Since I am not a citizen of Malaysia, I am required by the airlines to have a round trip ticket when I leave the USA for Malaysia ... The problem is, I don't even know when my return date will be. It's hard to buy a round trip ticket when you have no idea as to how long you even need to be in Malaysia for IVF.

This whole process is not exactly easy when you live 15,000 km away from Malaysia.
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Hmm.. there are numerous Reproductive medicine in Malaysia now. Truth is its hard to tell who are the best. But picking one thats reliable should be ok.
I believe scrolling the forum, ull notice a few recommendation.

In malaysia, there is no restriction yet as whom(doctor) can treat infertility.
My advise is to pick on thats a fully registered reproductive specialist (A gynaecologist whom have further sub-specialist in reproductive medicine).

Perhaps you could look into Asst Prof Dr Tee Swi Peng.

Dr Tee Swi Peng is one of the fully registered Reproductive Medicine Specialist in Malaysia. When reproductive medicine became on official specialization in Malaysia, he was among the pioneer whom were direct recognized by the ministry and NSR.

He is a lecturer UTAR as a clinical-assistant Professor and also run his own private practice in MetroIVF.

Statistically his success rate is among the highest in Malaysia which is y he is recommended.

He has appeared in several public talks and interviews and has appeared several times in TV and radios in Malaysia. We might be able to still find his talks and seminar recordings on youtube.

You could try search MetroIVF facebook or email via their official website.

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FluffyTee ...

Thanks for the reply and the info ... Metro IVF was actually one of the IVF clinics that actually did reply to the email I sent them.

It looks like my ex-wife will need to be in Malaysia for almost 1 month to complete the IVF procedure from start to finish.
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Here is a copy of the email I sent to these various IVF clinics in Malaysia on behalf of my ex-wife:
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Hello,

My name is -----------------. I am a healthy 34 year old Philippines born female (Feb 28, 1983). I am married to an American man and live here in the USA. I am now a US citizen with a US passport.

Before I get too old, I want so much to have a baby, however, my husband had a vasectomy many years ago and does [not] want to undergo PESA / TESE.

Here in the US, I was seeing a fertility doctor and was injected with donor sperm (from a sperm bank) 4 different times with hope to become pregnant.

I did [not] become pregnant during any of these 4 attempts.

The American fertility doctor here in the USA believes that my problem is that my fallopian tubes are blocked. I believe the best option for me now would be to have IVF using donor sperm that you would provide.

Again, I am healthy and of normal weight. I have never had any STD or any serious health problems.

I come from a large family, and all of my sisters have children ... I just don't understand why I would have blocked fallopian tubes.

I can bring a copy of my Philippines marriage certificate if that is required. My ex-husband will also be with me when I go to your clinic for the IVF procedure.

1. Do you believe that I could benefit from IVF ?

2. Can your medical facility provide donor sperm ?

3. If the IVF treatment works for me, how long would I need to be in KL Malaysia ?

4. With the IVF procedure, the donor sperm and all medicines what would be the approximate total medical cost to me ?


Sincerely,

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QUOTE(FluffyTee @ May 8 2017, 07:25 AM)
lets say IVF alone. with medical advances improving exponentially, the success rates increases. the highest average success rates are no more than 60%, with the average are about 30-40%. Any centers that claims higher are likely using falsified advertisement /bias data.
Success rates are affected by various factors, tends to be higher for younger couples, while lower for elderly couples. It is also affected by the current health status of the male and female.

Though u r right, the cost is about RM15k+ for the first time. But subsequent retry usually cost less, again, due to several factors. eg, (additional spare eggs were harvest from the first attempt).

I believe most couple find the time consumption, and going thru repeated failures most depressing. There are alot of centers for Reproductive Medicine specialist today. Its best to pick one thats reliable.
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Thank you so much for the info. IVF is really a huge commitment especially on financial and emotional. Just thinking about it already emotionally stressed.
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FluffyTee ...
Thanks for the reply and the info ... Metro IVF was actually one of the IVF clinics that actually did reply to the email I sent them.
It looks like my ex-wife will need to be in Malaysia for almost 1 month to complete the IVF procedure from start to finish.
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Probably none of my business to ask why are u trying to get ur ex wife pregnant and emailing on her behalf, but

Malaysia have set up several regulations in reproductive medicine. I am not entirely familiar but there are criteria before allowing an individual to be pregnant via artificial methods,eg, marriage/capability of having a baby, age limit, egg donors and etc. Its best to consult the a reproductive medicine specialist in malaysia.
Some of ur questions are medical related questions and some questions could not be reply by the sales management inquiry. Should you need to seek a doctors opinion, unfortunately u are required to be physically present there.

Every physician has their own protocol and techniques. Cost has always been an issue. IVF has a more guaranteed success as it relies on less factors (eg, tubal blockage).
Some specialist prefer to jump in straight for IVF, rather than spending more of patients money and time running procedures of to what caused the infertility, which may not even change the outcome.
Some would try for IUI which is less costly.
Block tubes can be an acquired or congenital(birth). Pelvic inflammatory disease are notorious and often asymptomatic can cause tube narrowing later in life.

IVF does come with failure rates as i mentioned. These failures includes fail to conceive or miscarriage along the way.
(PS: doctors don't use the word "healthy". "No known medical illness", is a preferred term)

QUOTE(gohkokho @ May 8 2017, 02:24 PM)
Thank you so much for the info. IVF is really a huge commitment especially on financial and emotional. Just thinking about it already emotionally stressed.
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IVF is expected to have failure rates. It is more of a .... "push" or Assisted conceptions as they called it. If a fail to conceive or a miscarriage occurs, its usually bcoz that pregnancy was not meant to be (usually due to bad genetic combination of the embryo). It is just by chance. (FYI about 50% of natural conception auto aborts without the women realizing their pregnant for the same reasons. Most women noticed a slight late/heavier periods.)

A couple going for assisted conception used to be stigmatized and alone. But today, fortunately we have this forum and community to help one another.
Dont worry too much about it. Looking at your very own pair of eyes looking back at you.... priceless.
I wish you all the best. perhaps one day, ull return here to share and help another couple in the future.
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QUOTE(FluffyTee @ May 8 2017, 06:57 AM)
Probably none of my business to ask why are u trying to get ur ex wife pregnant and emailing on her behalf ...

It is her idea to get pregnant, not mine. Since she had no luck getting pregnant by other means because of blocked tubes, I suggested she check into IVF.

I just told her that I would help her by checking into it for her ... so that's why I wrote the email and sent it to some various IVF clinics.

At one time, I checked into getting my vasectomy reversed, but my doctor told me that since it has been so long since I had the vasectomy done, the chances of a reversal were slim to none.

BTW ... I had this vasectomy done a long time before we were married (it was done after having children with my first wife).

Anyway, I came on this forum basically just to ask if anyone knows of a good IVF clinic in KL, Malaysia. It's not easy trying to figure out which clinic is good and which ones are not so good when you live on the other side of the planet from Malaysia. And reading 'reviews' on the internet hasn't helped much either ... I can't even find any reviews on many of these IVF clinics.

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Anyway, I came on this forum basically just to ask if anyone knows of a good IVF clinic in KL, Malaysia. It's not easy trying to figure out which clinic is good and which ones are not so good when you live on the other side of the planet from Malaysia. And reading 'reviews' on the internet hasn't helped much either ... I can't even find any reviews on many of these IVF clinics.
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Hi Turbota. Base on my experience if you were looking for a reliable IVF centre in Malaysia, I would recommend Alpha fertility centre. But this is purely base on my personal experiences. I have some notes written in here https://www.facebook.com/notes/%E6%88%91%E7...46292405645753/ if u likes to know what I had goes thru the whole process. My English is not very good but hopefully it will helps u to know more about IVF process in this facility base on my own experiences.

U said u were not local and travel far away, u had mention that whole IVF process took 1 month.. sadly this 1 month is base on standard process timing and for every different individual might takes different timing, however 1 month is the minimum. *cross finger for everything goes smoothly, my wife took 36 days to be exact according to my log*. Again, is very depending on each individual.. all these numbers is only base on records until doctor have do all the screening n test only able to know further, added need to wait for medication take effects on it and again each individual is different.

As far as I know, if u are not local.. if u plan to stay 1 month is way to tight, if u able to stretch it more than 2 month is be safer when u do planning. I have friends from East Malaysia and also success the IVF process in this facility by taking their flight to West Malaysia for 2 days 1 night, see doctor and get all the medication then fly back to East. After all the medication done come fly back West to do OPU and stayed for few more days *this is IF everything goes smoothly*. As u from so far is not able to do so, unless u can travel twice to Malaysia else u really need to stay for 2 months ++.

hope this info at least helps u a bit, good luck to your journey.
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skydrake ...

Thanks for the info. I will send Alpha an email.

One of the big problems with all this is the airline tickets. I need to buy round trip tickets from the USA to Malaysia, but it is almost impossible know on what date I need to have the return ticket for. I can see that no matter what date the return ticket is, it will more than likely need to be changed at some point in time. Not only are round trip airline tickets from the US to Malaysia expensive, but changing the return date is also expensive.

And since we don't live in Malaysia, we would need to find a hotel close to the IVF clinic for at least a full months stay ... Maybe these hotels will give you a discount if you tell them your going to stay there for at least a full month.

We were looking to have this IVF done maybe in Thailand, but Thailand just recently changed the law ... They are not allowed to perform IVF anymore on an unmarried women (such as a divorced woman) ... I don't know what the law is in Malaysia concerning IVF on an unmarried woman?

Anyway, this whole thing is very complicated.


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skydrake ...

Thanks for the info. I will send Alpha an email.

One of the big problems with all this is the airline tickets. I need to buy round trip tickets from the USA to Malaysia, but it is almost impossible know on what date I need to have the return ticket for. I can see that no matter what date the return ticket is, it will more than likely need to be changed at some point in time. Not only are round trip airline tickets from the US to Malaysia expensive, but changing the return date is also expensive.

And since we don't live in Malaysia, we would need to find a hotel close to the IVF clinic for at least a full months stay ... Maybe these hotels will give you a discount if you tell them your going to stay there for at least a full month.

We were looking to have this IVF done maybe in Thailand, but Thailand just recently changed the law ... They are not allowed to perform IVF anymore on an unmarried women (such as a divorced woman) ... I don't know what the law is in Malaysia concerning IVF on an unmarried woman?

Anyway, this whole thing is very complicated.
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Oh well, now u mentioning about unmarried. As far as I know, it can't be done in this facility without marriage. About he hotel, I know the closes hotel/motel to this facility centre which is just few steps away from the hotel main door to the facility main door and I guess accommodation is not an issue as long as u have money to pay. most importantly now is your marriage issue or unmarried might cause the problem to proceed IVF process in this facility. doh.gif

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Well, in our situation, we were married in the Philippines, but were later divorced while living in the United States (she was actually born in the Philippines, but is now a US citizen)

However, since the Philippines is a Catholic country, there is no such a thing as divorce there. You are married for life unless you get a court ordered annulment ... So, we are still legally married in the Philippines.

All my wife would have to do is bring to Malaysia her legal Philippines marriage certificate that shows that she's married to me ... And I will also be with her while in Malaysia ... Done deal

I really feel bad for my ex-wife .... She has always wanted to have a baby ("to make my life complete"), and I told her before we ever got married 10 years ago that I had a vasectomy. It was never a surprise to her.

She tried 4 times to get pregnant using sperm from a sperm bank here in the US. All attempts were unsuccessful. Then she finds out that she has blocked fallopian tubes. So, IVF is the only hope for her at this point in time. And since she is now 34 years old, her time is running out.
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Well, in our situation, we were married in the Philippines, but were later divorced while living in the United States (she was actually born in the Philippines, but is now a US citizen)

However, since the Philippines is a Catholic country, there is no such a thing as divorce there. You are married for life unless you get a court ordered annulment ... So, we are still legally married in the Philippines.

All my wife would have to do is bring to Malaysia her legal Philippines marriage certificate that shows that she's married to me ... And I will also be with her while in Malaysia ... Done deal

I really feel bad for my ex-wife .... She has always wanted to have a baby ("to make my life complete"), and I told her before we ever got married 10 years ago that I had a vasectomy. It was never a surprise to her.

She tried 4 times to get pregnant using sperm from a sperm bank here in the US. All attempts were unsuccessful. Then she finds out that she has blocked fallopian tubes. So, IVF is the only hope for her at this point in time. And since she is now 34 years old, her time is running out.
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ic, in that case u if u like to know more or Q&A for facility can ask my wife assist u because she have friends in the facility and can make arrangement for u directly. u may msg her thru this FB page https://www.facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/

btw, means now both of u stay together or u in US and she is in PH?


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QUOTE(skydrake @ May 8 2017, 12:45 PM)

btw, means now both of u stay together or u in US and she is in PH?


At the moment, she is living back in the Philippines and I am here in the US.

If she does this IVF pretty soon, I will fly to the Philippines and then we will fly together to KL, Malaysia.
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After the IVF is finished, we both fly back to the Philippines together, then I will fly by myself back to the US.

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QUOTE(Turbota @ May 9 2017, 01:02 AM)
At the moment, she is living back in the Philippines and I am here in the US.

If she does this IVF pretty soon, I will fly to the Philippines and then we will fly together to KL, Malaysia.
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After the IVF is finished, we both fly back to the Philippines together, then I will fly by myself back to the US.
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I see, wish u can find a reliable facility soon. As mentioned before, if u likes to know more about Alpha Fertility can let me know. Good luck! rclxms.gif
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Thank you kohchuup ....
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ic, in that case u if u like to know more or Q&A for facility can ask my wife assist u because she have friends in the facility and can make arrangement for u directly. u may msg her thru this FB page https://www.facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/

Thanks for the link. The problem is that the facebook paqe is mostly in Chinese ... Unfortunatly, I don't read Chinese, so I don't understand most of it.

There seems to be many advertisements on that facebook page for Alpha ... Does your wife work for Alpha ?
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Anyway, I sent an email to Alpha, but have not received a reply yet. I will give them some time to respond (if they ever do respond).

I also asked them how much all this will cost since there website does not give any prices.

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IVF does come with failure rates as i mentioned. These failures includes fail to conceive or miscarriage along the way.
(PS: doctors don't use the word "healthy". "No known medical illness", is a preferred term)
IVF is expected to have failure rates. It is more of a .... "push" or Assisted conceptions as they called it. If a fail to conceive or a miscarriage occurs, its usually bcoz that pregnancy was not meant to be (usually due to bad genetic combination of the embryo). It is just by chance. (FYI about 50% of natural conception auto aborts without the women realizing their pregnant for the same reasons. Most women noticed a slight late/heavier periods.)

A couple going for assisted conception used to be stigmatized and alone. But today, fortunately we have this forum and community to help one another.
Dont worry too much about it. Looking at your very own pair of eyes looking back at you.... priceless.
I wish you all the best. perhaps one day, ull return here to share and help another couple in the future.
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QUOTE(Turbota @ May 9 2017, 07:51 PM)
Thanks for the link. The problem is that the facebook paqe is mostly in Chinese ... Unfortunatly, I don't read Chinese, so I don't understand most of it.

There seems to be many advertisements on that facebook page for Alpha ... Does your wife work for Alpha ?
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Anyway, I sent an email to Alpha, but have not received a reply yet. I will give them some time to respond (if they ever do respond).

I also asked them how much all this will cost since there website does not give any prices.
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U can PM the page with English so my wife can answer u more details. She don't work for Alpha, basically she is a blogger and sharing her/our success testimonial of IVF baby is at Alpha and helps out people to know more about IVF. The price that we spend for IVF is around rm25k+ and this is also the average price most people pay, prices not showing is because everyone might cost a different price depending on what type of treatment and medication.
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U can PM the page with English so my wife can answer u more details. She don't work for Alpha, basically she is a blogger and sharing her/our success testimonial of IVF baby is at Alpha and helps out people to know more about IVF.

The price that we spend for IVF is around rm25k+ and this is also the average price most people pay, prices not showing is because everyone might cost a different price depending on what type of treatment and medication.

I sent Alpha an email with some questions I have. As of now, they have not replied. I am going to give Alpha a couple more days to reply. If they still don't reply by then, I will look elsewhere for another clinic ... A business that does not reply to legitimate emails from a potential patient / customer obviously don't need anymore business ... so I can take my money elsewhere.

BTW ... You stated that you paid RM25,000
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About a week ago, I got a reply from a clinic called Metro IVF. Here was there response to the cost at there clinic:
"IVF for women 35yo n below will be RM16000. This package would cover the medications, consultations n scans DURING IVF treatment. Extra costs will b incurred during luteal support stage & also if u under or over respond, or if there r extra embryos for freezing".

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QUOTE(Turbota @ May 11 2017, 06:52 AM)
I sent Alpha an email with some questions I have. As of now, they have not replied. I am going to give Alpha a couple more days to reply. If they still don't reply by then, I will look elsewhere for another clinic ... A business that does not reply to legitimate emails from a potential patient / customer obviously don't need anymore business ... so I can take my money elsewhere.

BTW ... You stated that you paid RM25,000
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About a week ago, I got a reply from a clinic called Metro IVF. Here was there response to the cost at there clinic:
"IVF for women 35yo n below will be RM16000. This package would cover the medications, consultations n scans DURING IVF treatment. Extra costs will b incurred during luteal support stage & also if u under or over respond, or if there r extra embryos for freezing".

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I see.

Yes. I had paid roughly 25k plus minus. I did not really calculate exactly what amount I had paid each bill.

I see you had found a relatively lower price than IVF center I had that replied your email, just for your information.. I'm just sharing my experiences what I had been thru and hope it will helps in your research of IVF centre. Be honest, at first my wife also doing the same thing as u r which is comparing prices and reliability of the facilities.. I had told here, price is secondary important in our search when reliability come first and we only made our decision going for this centre. Come to say this way, results of IVF success rate is really depending few requirements/points below;

Patients side needs to have, 1. legit marriage 2. body condition require to be pregnant without out health issue 3. money *this comes to 3rd because without 1&2 got money also no use*

Facilities side needs to have, 1. doctor with experience & skills *someone that had won more than 100 battles at least for example* 2. lab & technologies *I tot every facilities will have the same tech and I'm wrong* 3. Administration & management *yes, this is as important as u said.. replying customer/patient email is important as I agreed too.*

Is good that u taking time doing research, I bet u will find a good facilities. thumbup.gif
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skydrake ....

I would rather pay a little more for better medical care ... Money is not that big of a problem for me.

The problem I am having with Alpha seems to be the same problem I had with Concept Fertility Care ... They don't answer emails.

I am still waiting for a reply from Alpha ... I just don't know why they are not replying to me? confused.gif

The email address I used to send my questions to Alpha is the one I got right off there website. but again, no reply yet from them.
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skydrake ....

I would rather pay a little more for better medical care ... Money is not that big of a problem for me.

The problem I am having with Alpha seems to be the same problem I had with Concept Fertility Care ... They don't answer emails.

I am still waiting for a reply from Alpha ... I just don't know why they are not replying to me?  confused.gif

The email address I used to send my questions to Alpha is the one I got right off there website. but again, no reply yet from them.
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skydrake ... I just sent you a PM

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skydrake ... I just sent you a PM

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An old Chinese business man that lived in the Philippines once told me:

1. You can't make money if you don't answer your phone

2. You can't make money if you don't answer emails

3. You can't make money if your closed for the day

4. And you can't make money if your out of stock

***** Alpha Fertility Centre should pay particular attention to #2
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Hi,
Does any1  try govt. I want to govt as financial problem. We started our treatment last year March 2015. This month is my first cycle. On clomid treatment but failed as doc say I got PCOS. Should I seek another doctor advice? Previously I did see tmc sense I and they say my womb "cold"... One cycle cost me rm390... Try for half year but no news so hence go for govt.... Any advice?
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You can try the Mini IVF package from METRO. which cost around RM9k If I am not mistaken.

https://www.facebook.com/MetroIVF/photos/a....?type=3&theater
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QUOTE(Turbota @ May 8 2017, 11:08 PM)
Well, in our situation, we were married in the Philippines, but were later divorced while living in the United States (she was actually born in the Philippines, but is now a US citizen)

However, since the Philippines is a Catholic country, there is no such a thing as divorce there. You are married for life unless you get a court ordered annulment ... So, we are still legally married in the Philippines.

All my wife would have to do is bring to Malaysia her legal Philippines marriage certificate that shows that she's married to me ... And I will also be with her while in Malaysia ... Done deal

I really feel bad for my ex-wife .... She has always wanted to have a baby ("to make my life complete"), and I told her before we ever got married 10 years ago that I had a vasectomy. It was never a surprise to her.

She tried 4 times to get pregnant using sperm from a sperm bank here in the US. All attempts were unsuccessful. Then she finds out that she has blocked fallopian tubes. So, IVF is the only hope for her at this point in time. And since she is now 34 years old, her time is running out.
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My Fallopian tube is block too yet I manage and success to get pregnant with the 1st IVF attempt under Dr Tee @ Metro IVF. I was 34 years old when i did my IVF. Now my son already 5 years old.
Do pay metro a VISIT. They have a very high successful rate too.

This Saturday they are giving a talk at Four Points By Sheraton Puchong. No harm go and listen to the talk.
You can contact the IVF counselor for more information (Ms Su Teng 017-623 6196 or Ms Yen Na 019-290 0938)
https://www.facebook.com/MetroIVF/?hc_ref=SEARCH&fref=nf

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QUOTE(sily22 @ May 16 2017, 10:37 PM)
My Fallopian tube is block too yet I manage and success to get pregnant with the 1st IVF attempt under Dr Tee @ Metro IVF.  I was 34 years old when i did my IVF. Now my son already 5 years old.
Do pay metro a VISIT. They have a very high successful rate too.

This Saturday they are giving a talk at Four Points By Sheraton Puchong. No harm go and listen to the talk.
You can contact the IVF counselor for more information (Ms Su Teng 017-623 6196 or Ms Yen Na 019-290 0938)

sily22 ...

Thank you very much for the info.

It would be nice to attend the talk at Four Points, but unfortunately, I am now in the US.



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It's s secret group

U can't find it if you search unless you are a member

Therefore need a member to add u into the group

In order for member to add u into the group , u must be friend with the member on FB

So if u r interested pm me your FB name n i will add u as fren

Then only I can add u into the group

After that, admin will ask some question before adding u into the group to ensure legitimate members are added into the group

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You can try the Mini IVF package from METRO. which cost around RM9k If I am not mistaken.

https://www.facebook.com/MetroIVF/photos/a....?type=3&theater
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just wanna asked a noob question, my wife going to do FET at malaysia. Is it advisable to fly back Brunei the next day? She's bruneian.
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just wanna asked a noob question, my wife going to do FET at malaysia. Is it advisable to fly back Brunei the next day? She's bruneian.
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why not stay 3 days at least? the 2nd day fly back a bit tiring n your effort will be wasted
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Hi, May i know RM9k included all?
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If you like to find out, please join the group.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/341516486297466/


Thanks

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my wife is going on IVF with Dr. Tee at Metro Klang. she did egg extraction yesterday and we did receive a good news from doctor this afternoon that out of 27 egg extracted out yesterday, 10 are fertilized and she is ready for embryo transfer tomorrow. hope all goes well and good luck to both of us.
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my wife is going on IVF with Dr. Tee at Metro Klang. she did egg extraction yesterday and we did receive a good news from doctor this afternoon that out of 27 egg extracted out yesterday, 10 are fertilized and she is ready for embryo transfer tomorrow. hope all goes well and good luck to both of us.
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all the best! remember to let your wife take a good rest on the 2 weeks wait after the transfer, try not to work any further. u must take care extra on this 2 weeks. Good luck again!
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all the best! remember to let your wife take a good rest on the 2 weeks wait after the transfer, try not to work any further. u must take care extra on this 2 weeks. Good luck again!
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thanks...yup she is on leave for 1 month..doctor advise her to completely rest on bed for at least 2 to 3 weeks but i did ask her to take 1 month leave.
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Have a good Rest to your wife SILLY GUY.
Hope to hear good news from you soon.

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Have a good Rest to your wife SILLY GUY.
Hope to hear good news from you soon.
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today Metrto called my wife, they told me that the development of the 10 embryo abit slow due to my sperm is extracted through a cut on my skin below the pen1s. it is expected due the sperm immature.They never do the grading check they do not want to disturb the development. They suggest to do the ET tomorrow already. I dont know whether is a good news or bad news.Im really confuse now. confused.gif

What i afraid is the embryo does not survive in my wife stomach after transfer. My wife did ask the consultant about above question which they cant answer us also. cry.gif
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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Sep 6 2017, 03:00 PM)
today Metrto called my wife, they told me that the development of the 10 embryo abit slow due to my sperm is extracted through a cut on my skin below the pen1s. it is expected due the sperm immature.They never do the grading check they do not want to disturb the development. They suggest to do the ET tomorrow already. I dont know whether is a good news or bad news.Im really confuse now.  :confused:

What i afraid is the embryo does not survive in my wife stomach after transfer. My wife did ask the consultant about above question which they cant answer us also. cry.gif
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hmm, did they do icsi to sperm?
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seriously im not sure...they just told my wife there is development and is just the development slower than usual sperm that natural eject out. They say it is ready to be transfer tomorrow.
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seriously im not sure...they just told my wife there is development and is just the development slower than usual sperm that natural eject out. They say it is ready to be transfer tomorrow.
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ic, in that case. I will suggest u to have faith for this moment because there is no turning back but to go forward and hopefully there is embryo to transfer.

hope to hear good news from u next reply.
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QUOTE(skydrake @ Sep 6 2017, 08:07 PM)
ic, in that case. I will suggest u to have faith for this moment because there is no turning back but to go forward and hopefully there is embryo to transfer.

hope to hear good news from u next reply.
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Dedinately there is embryo to transfer for tomorrow ET...wish me and my wife good luck..will update you all once there is any progress..
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Dedinately there is embryo to transfer for tomorrow ET...wish me and my wife good luck..will update you all once there is any progress..
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Live update from Metro..wife just after ET.she is tired and resting on bed..total of 1x grade 1 with 9 buble..(i dunno what it is call) and 2x grade 2 with 8 buble..great news is additional 3 more embryo which they told us not moving ady start to develop and mature.so total of 10 embryo will be freeze up for future pregnancy.
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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Sep 7 2017, 11:14 AM)
Live update from Metro..wife just after ET.she is tired and resting on bed..total of 1x grade 1 with 9 buble..(i dunno what it is call) and 2x grade 2 with 8 buble..great news is additional 3 more embryo which they told us not moving ady start to develop and mature.so total of 10 embryo will be freeze up for future pregnancy.
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great to know u have a 9 cells graded 1, day 3 embryo, is a good news. this is the moment husband can help to create better chances but taking care of wife in extra extra more effort. put this mission into top priority, other aside first.. smile more, talk more silly this that can make happy moments.. sure it will add better chances.

happy for u!

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sily22 ...

Thank you very much for the info.

It would be nice to attend the talk at Four Points, but unfortunately, I am now in the US.
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Here's a suggestion, you may wanna get in touch with MHTC (Malaysia Healthcare Travel Council) and they can assign you a consultant and recommend you a few centres, complete with success rate and cost etc. It's a lot better than contacting individual centres.

http://www.medicaltourism.com.my/contact-us
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Me and my wife went for her check up on the 17th day after embryo transfer and joys and tears flow through my eyes. The doctor did a urine test , ultrasound and blood test. Urine test show positive and the ultrasound can see 2 blur patch which doctor say there is a possibility of twin baby. Blood test show the hormone reading in her body was above 200 which means is good.
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Me and my wife went for her check up on the 17th day after embryo transfer and joys and tears flow through my eyes. The doctor did a urine test , ultrasound and blood test. Urine test show positive and the ultrasound can see 2 blur patch which doctor say there is a possibility of twin baby. Blood test show the hormone reading in her body was above 200 which means is good.
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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Sep 25 2017, 08:54 AM)
Me and my wife went for her check up on the 17th day after embryo transfer and joys and tears flow through my eyes. The doctor did a urine test , ultrasound and blood test. Urine test show positive and the ultrasound can see 2 blur patch which doctor say there is a possibility of twin baby. Blood test show the hormone reading in her body was above 200 which means is good.
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congratulations bro..... happy for u... rclxms.gif
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Me and my wife went for her check up on the 17th day after embryo transfer and joys and tears flow through my eyes. The doctor did a urine test , ultrasound and blood test. Urine test show positive and the ultrasound can see 2 blur patch which doctor say there is a possibility of twin baby. Blood test show the hormone reading in her body was above 200 which means is good.
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Congratulations
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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Sep 25 2017, 08:54 AM)
Me and my wife went for her check up on the 17th day after embryo transfer and joys and tears flow through my eyes. The doctor did a urine test , ultrasound and blood test. Urine test show positive and the ultrasound can see 2 blur patch which doctor say there is a possibility of twin baby. Blood test show the hormone reading in her body was above 200 which means is good.
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Congrats man rclxms.gif rclxms.gif rclxms.gif rclxms.gif rclxms.gif
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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Sep 25 2017, 08:54 AM)
Me and my wife went for her check up on the 17th day after embryo transfer and joys and tears flow through my eyes. The doctor did a urine test , ultrasound and blood test. Urine test show positive and the ultrasound can see 2 blur patch which doctor say there is a possibility of twin baby. Blood test show the hormone reading in her body was above 200 which means is good.
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Congratulation! Do you mind PM me the total cost for the whole process? metro in puchong or klang? Thanks.

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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Sep 25 2017, 08:54 AM)
Me and my wife went for her check up on the 17th day after embryo transfer and joys and tears flow through my eyes. The doctor did a urine test , ultrasound and blood test. Urine test show positive and the ultrasound can see 2 blur patch which doctor say there is a possibility of twin baby. Blood test show the hormone reading in her body was above 200 which means is good.
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congrats. my wife did around the same time as yours too at Metro but got news last Sat IVF failed. how old is your wife?

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today Metrto called my wife, they told me that the development of the 10 embryo abit slow due to my sperm is extracted through a cut on my skin below the pen1s. it is expected due the sperm immature.They never do the grading check they do not want to disturb the development. They suggest to do the ET tomorrow already. I dont know whether is a good news or bad news.Im really confuse now.  confused.gif

What i afraid is the embryo does not survive in my wife stomach after transfer. My wife did ask the consultant about above question which they cant answer us also. cry.gif
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may i know why is it extracted that way?

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Our IVF with Dr.Tee @ Metro failed. Wife is already 42, what else can we do? cry.gif
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may i know why is it extracted that way?
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they claim my soldier is lazy to swim from masturbation so they extract fresh soldier directly from factory... biggrin.gif
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Our IVF with Dr.Tee @ Metro failed. Wife is already 42, what else can we do?  cry.gif
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age of 42 is not really late from pregnancy (IVF). Even some at age of 48 still success. Take a rest and try for next round. You still have frozen embryo.
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age of 42 is not really late from pregnancy (IVF). Even some at age of 48 still success. Take a rest and try for next round. You still have frozen embryo.
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no frozen embryo. wife got extracted 5 but only 1 made it. then when time to insert suddenly got another 1 matured. so inserted 2 but both fail. i did some reading mostly said after extraction it's usually 5 days before matured but they call my wife after only 2 days.

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they claim my soldier is lazy to swim from masturbation so they extract fresh soldier directly from factory... biggrin.gif
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mine no problem but still fail..haizz

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congrats. my wife did around the same time as yours too at Metro but got news last Sat IVF failed. how old is your wife?
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30 y.o. Dont give up.give it another try..
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QUOTE(talker @ Sep 28 2017, 01:47 PM)
no frozen embryo. wife got extracted 5 but only 1 made it. then when time to insert suddenly got another 1 matured. so inserted 2 but both fail. i did some reading mostly said after extraction it's usually 5 days before matured but they call my wife after only 2 days.
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not necessary 5 days. they call my wife after 3 days. my wife got 28 extracted but only 10 mature at first. last minute another 4 more mature which i frozen all the balance mature embryo.

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mine no problem but still fail..haizz
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mine no problem but still fail..haizz
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dun give up bro..... try ivf n at the same time try natural way....


both of u try to eat healthy for a while, do some light exercise, success rate r higher if u r healthy.... not because of age bro...
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dun give up bro..... try ivf n at the same time try natural way....
both of u try to eat healthy for a while, do some light exercise, success rate r higher if u r healthy.... not because of age bro...
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this is very true ..quit drinking and smoking if you are right now. I quit my drinking 6 months back and cut down from chain smoker to social smoker.
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this is very true ..quit drinking and smoking if you are right now. I quit my drinking 6 months back and cut down from chain smoker to social smoker.
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welldone bro... actually u can drink but moderately or once a while..... better quit smoking for good..
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dun give up bro..... try ivf n at the same time try natural way....
both of u try to eat healthy for a while, do some light exercise, success rate r higher if u r healthy.... not because of age bro...
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Hi Everyone, I would like to share a few words for those who are trying to go with IVF.

We perform IVF @ TMC Kota Damansara and blessed with twins. Our Doctor is Dr. Surinder.
A very well know Dr and knowledgeable to the extend we felt he is our god.

Wife did c-section and delivered under Dr. Surinder care and was gone smoothly.
Both mother and babies are doing well.

my 2 cent advice, wife must eat healthy food and do not strain. avoid staircase or any heavy movement.

Cheers
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welldone bro... actually u can drink but moderately or once a while..... better quit smoking for good..
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Hi Everyone, I would like to share a few words for those who are trying to go with IVF.

We perform IVF @ TMC Kota Damansara and blessed with twins. Our Doctor is Dr. Surinder.
A very well know Dr and knowledgeable to the extend we felt he is our god.

Wife did c-section and delivered under Dr. Surinder care and was gone smoothly.
Both mother and babies are doing well.

my 2 cent advice, wife must eat healthy food and do not strain. avoid staircase or any heavy movement.

Cheers
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Congratulation. Mind to share the total cost, u & wife age and other processes info? Tq

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i wish i can quit smoking...trying hard to do so...
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I smoke since I'm 13 till 36 I stopped. Reason is I wants a baby, I can say that I'm lucky which I have both now.. smoking quited and I had a baby girl. quit smoking is not simple but is do-able, maybe u can try my "suggestion"? u said u tried, had u try "hard" enough? don't have to answer me, answer yourself. I believe if u do hard enough, results will be same like me.

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bad news guy...my wife miscarriage last wednesday at the stage of 4th weeks due to implantation bleed. the embryo does not want to stick due to rejection from the uterus. Based on what Dr. Tee said, the uterus might detected abnormal embryo, which is why the uterus rejected the embryo to stick... our plan is to do embryo transfer again in 3 months time since we have around 10 frozen embryo left.
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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Oct 9 2017, 09:18 AM)
bad news guy...my wife miscarriage last wednesday at the stage of 4th weeks due to implantation bleed. the embryo does not want to stick due to rejection from the uterus. Based on what Dr. Tee said, the uterus might detected abnormal embryo, which is why the uterus rejected the embryo to stick... our plan is to do embryo transfer again in 3 months time since we have around 10 frozen embryo left.
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So sad to hear that, dont give up.

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I am thinking to go for fertility test in sunway medical fertility center, but i saw their couple fertility screening for woman only female hormone profile and Pelvic scan. thats all?
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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Oct 9 2017, 09:18 AM)
bad news guy...my wife miscarriage last wednesday at the stage of 4th weeks due to implantation bleed. the embryo does not want to stick due to rejection from the uterus. Based on what Dr. Tee said, the uterus might detected abnormal embryo, which is why the uterus rejected the embryo to stick... our plan is to do embryo transfer again in 3 months time since we have around 10 frozen embryo left.
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cry.gif sad to hear.
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So sad to hear that, dont give up.
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is a big impact for me and my wife but as a man, i need to be strong and comfort my wife. anyway we will proceed with 2nd ET in 3 months time if the time is right.
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I am thinking to go for fertility test in sunway medical fertility center, but i saw their couple fertility screening for woman only female hormone profile and Pelvic scan. thats all?
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Can consider of DSH hospital, Jln Ipoh KL
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Congratulation. Mind to share the total cost, u & wife age and other processes info? Tq
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Age myself 33 wife 32

Cost for the IVF treatment only is around 15k
Cost for the checkup and medicines can be around 7k+ (some medicines can be bought from pharmacy which is way cheaper)
Cost for the delivery (czer) is around 10k for my wife and 2k each for my twin babies

The cost that i mention for IVF treatment and medicines are just rough estimation as i don't recall exactly how much unless i refer back to every each receipts.
Meanwhile cost for delivery is about there as what i've mention.


QUOTE(sillyguy @ Oct 9 2017, 09:18 AM)
bad news guy...my wife miscarriage last wednesday at the stage of 4th weeks due to implantation bleed. the embryo does not want to stick due to rejection from the uterus. Based on what Dr. Tee said, the uterus might detected abnormal embryo, which is why the uterus rejected the embryo to stick... our plan is to do embryo transfer again in 3 months time since we have around 10 frozen embryo left.
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hi SillyGuy, really i felt sad and sorry. Please stay focus and support more to wifey and stay confident. don't lose hope.
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is a big impact for me and my wife but as a man, i need to be strong and comfort my wife. anyway we will proceed with 2nd ET in 3 months time if the time is right.
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Husband support is very important. Feed her well especially with plenty of fruits and vegetables that can protect the female uterus. She has to be in good state of health to carry the baby.
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Can anyone recommend the best fertility center and doctor, with lowest cost...
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QUOTE(sillyguy @ Oct 9 2017, 09:18 AM)
bad news guy...my wife miscarriage last wednesday at the stage of 4th weeks due to implantation bleed. the embryo does not want to stick due to rejection from the uterus. Based on what Dr. Tee said, the uterus might detected abnormal embryo, which is why the uterus rejected the embryo to stick... our plan is to do embryo transfer again in 3 months time since we have around 10 frozen embryo left.
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sorry to hear this bro, please stay healthy for both of you before going for 2nd attempt. All the best bro
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QUOTE(vinothrao84 @ Oct 2 2017, 04:00 PM)
Hi Everyone, I would like to share a few words for those who are trying to go with IVF.

We perform IVF @ TMC Kota Damansara and blessed with twins. Our Doctor is Dr. Surinder.
A very well know Dr and knowledgeable to the extend we felt he is our god.

Wife did c-section and delivered under Dr. Surinder care and was gone smoothly.
Both mother and babies are doing well.

my 2 cent advice, wife must eat healthy food and do not strain. avoid staircase or any heavy movement.

Cheers
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congratulations bro....

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QUOTE(vinothrao84 @ Oct 2 2017, 04:00 PM)
Hi Everyone, I would like to share a few words for those who are trying to go with IVF.

We perform IVF @ TMC Kota Damansara and blessed with twins. Our Doctor is Dr. Surinder.
A very well know Dr and knowledgeable to the extend we felt he is our god.

Wife did c-section and delivered under Dr. Surinder care and was gone smoothly.
Both mother and babies are doing well.

my 2 cent advice, wife must eat healthy food and do not strain. avoid staircase or any heavy movement.

Cheers
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what type of twins?
how many embryos transferred?
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Why do we need to take medicine (progynova) second day after haid. What will happened if I take on the first day of my hiad.
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Why do we need to take medicine (progynova) second day after haid. What will happened if I take on the first day of my hiad.
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progynova = oestrogen

function in the uterine cycle to thicken the uterine wall.

well, if you take it on the first day of period.........prolly just money down the drain.
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QUOTE(slimey @ Nov 29 2017, 11:45 PM)
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progynova = oestrogen

function in the uterine cycle to thicken the uterine wall.

well, if you take it on the first day of period.........prolly just money down the drain.
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Thank you for your useful infor thumbsup.gif . You mean first day take progynova instead of second day will waste money. However it will not spoilt the whole plan to thicken the uterine wall. Is it right?
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My sperm analysis show that only 40 % of my total sperm has adequate mobility. This is less than 50% set by WHO. I would be appreciate if u could tell me that could I go for IVF.? Do I need to do ICSI?
TQ
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Other parameter fulfill the WHO criteria.
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Sorry, sperm mobility is wrong spelling. It should be sperm motility.
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Sorry, sperm mobility is wrong spelling. It should be sperm motility.
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What did the doctor say? Usually they will recommend ICSI.
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The Doctor did not ask me to use icsi. They will use the normal ivf

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I had failed Fet about 20 times. Doctor asked husband and wife go for a DNA blood test that cost about RM3000. Can anyone tell me forther about the test?
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I had failed Fet about 20 times. Doctor asked husband and wife go for a DNA blood test that cost about RM3000. Can anyone tell me forther about the test?
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sorry to hear u failed 20 times, may I know is it IVF?
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My sperm analysis show that only 40 % of my total sperm has adequate mobility. This is less than 50% set by WHO.  I would be appreciate if u could tell me that could I go for IVF.? Do I need to do ICSI?
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try taking Surbex Zinc.

I took it. made wonders.

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try taking Surbex Zinc.

I took it. made wonders.
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Read a few ppl talking about this. Any reason why Surbex Zinc? I see their zinc contain 15mg, abt the same as others like Biolife. tq


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Read a few ppl talking about this. Any reason why Surbex Zinc? I see their zinc contain 15mg, abt the same as others like Biolife. tq
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i dont know. u can try biolife.

does it have other things besides zinc?

Surbex Zinc has Zinc, B complex, Vit C, Vit E and Folic acid.
I never tried other brands, so i cant compare.

my first try was with Surbex and its good.

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Yes, 20 time FET in IVF, Any one know blood test for chromosome analysis
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I heard that in order to provide fresh sperm to IVF. Husband should ejaculate sperm prior two days before IVF. This is contracting to previous theory that husband should avoid ejaculate sperm three days before IVF.
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Hi all.. I've been trying for 3 years and thinking of doing IVF, but the cost is too expensive , came across this IVF KASIH . have anyone heard of this low cost IVF programme?
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Have you heard of stemcells product? You may give it a go. Lots of couple after consume the product conceive within 2 yrs.
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Hi all.. I've  been trying for 3 years and thinking of doing IVF, but the cost is too expensive , came across this IVF KASIH . have anyone heard of this low cost IVF programme?
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try checking with LPPKN, and also government hospitals.
gov hospital around 5K if im not mistaken.

ivf kasih never heard.
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just curious how many time can be done for IVF?

1 session cost around 5-10k?
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just curious how many time can be done for IVF?

1 session cost around 5-10k?
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what u mean how many time ivf?


1 session usually cost around that depending on the place u go to.
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what u mean how many time ivf?
1 session usually cost around that depending on the place u go to.
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newbie here...if 1 session tak kena leh?

another session means start all over again?

and how do they extract sperm from guy?
i see from broucher need do minor surgery? blink.gif
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QUOTE(M4A1 @ Jan 17 2018, 01:14 PM)
newbie here...if 1 session tak kena leh?

another session means start all over again?

and how do they extract sperm from guy?
i see from broucher need do minor surgery?  blink.gif
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sperm get from guy? normal la, no need surgery.


for woman, need to take the egg out. then join with sperm manually in lab. this is called in-vitro.

then need to put these back in the woman.

woman need some minor procedures/surgery.
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sperm get from guy? normal la, no need surgery.
for woman, need to take the egg out. then join with sperm manually in lab. this is called in-vitro.

then need to put these back in the woman.

woman need some minor procedures/surgery.
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my colleague did 6th time..3 in sg 3 in us also fail...damn!!
and each time is $sgd 20k...

damn i dunno how many time i will try then give up
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just curious , how many "eggs" do you all put in every time ?

3 ? or 2 ?

i heard 3 is max?
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my colleague did 6th time..3 in sg 3 in us also fail...damn!!
and each time is $sgd 20k...

damn i dunno how many time i will try then give up
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u woman or man? ur partner ok or not?
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Hello Guys,

i need some input on the below making some right decision.below is the history of our case.

Married and trying for child for more then 2 years.

Husband 34 with no complication.Have done sperm check all the required check and everything is normal.

Wife 34 with no complication as well. Have done the checkup in KL fertility clinic and all seems normal.

Have done 3 IUI in KL fertility clinic with no success. Dr Prasanth advise for IVF is the only choice as its around 25k.


I have checked in PPUM and the cost is around less then 10k.

I have also checked in Metro IVF and they have diffrent kind of package like permata package is less then 10k and full ivf is 20k.

So my question,

1)why dont people go to PPUM when the cost is only half or less compare to other private clinic.

2) Is there any different procedure, medicine or laboratory used in PPUM compare to in private like Metro or KL fertility ?

3)as far i know the medicine in PPUM are subsidy by government so the treatment is cheaper.apart from that is there any difference in procedure or technology and so on ?

4)Should i just go to PPUM where by it only cost 10k or go to Metro IVF and so on?

5)is the IVF is equally effective or successful as other clinic such Metro or KL fertility clinic ?


I unable to find this info in the internet. Appreciate some input and guidance.
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QUOTE(bulletjacky @ Mar 14 2018, 05:45 PM)
Hello Guys,

i need some input on the below making some right decision.below is the history of our case.

Married and trying for child for more then 2 years.

Husband 34 with no complication.Have done sperm check all the required check and everything is normal.

Wife 34 with no complication as well. Have done the checkup in KL fertility clinic and all seems normal.

Have done 3 IUI in KL fertility clinic with no success. Dr Prasanth advise for IVF is the only choice as its around 25k.
I have checked in PPUM and the cost is around less then 10k.

I have also checked in Metro IVF and they have diffrent kind of package like permata package is less then 10k and full ivf is 20k.

So my question,

1)why dont people go to PPUM when the cost is only half or less compare to other private clinic.

2) Is there any different procedure, medicine or laboratory used in PPUM compare to in private like Metro or KL fertility ?

3)as far i know the medicine in PPUM are subsidy by government so the treatment is cheaper.apart from that is there any difference in procedure or technology and so on ?

4)Should i just go to PPUM where by it only cost 10k or go to Metro IVF and so on?

5)is the IVF is equally effective or successful as other clinic such Metro or KL fertility clinic ?
I unable to find this info in the internet. Appreciate some input and guidance.
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I doubt anyone here can answer your questions unless they've worked at the few places to compare their equipment, medicine, and procedures!

Personally,
1) I think most people follow their friend's recommendation. PPUM is rather low key. Other private centres are more aggressive in promoting their services. We didn't even think of PPUM, for instance.

2-5 I have no idea.

But looks like a lot of blogs in Malay do mention PPUM for IVF. So maybe you can look into those.

I do think that there are many good doctors and equipment in government hospitals. Main reason for not going to govt hospitals is the long waiting times. If they can do it quickly, I think there's no reason to think of them as inferior.

Best of luck to you and let us know your experience at PPUM if you do choose it.
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QUOTE(bulletjacky @ Mar 14 2018, 05:45 PM)
Hello Guys,

i need some input on the below making some right decision.below is the history of our case.

Married and trying for child for more then 2 years.

Husband 34 with no complication.Have done sperm check all the required check and everything is normal.

Wife 34 with no complication as well. Have done the checkup in KL fertility clinic and all seems normal.

Have done 3 IUI in KL fertility clinic with no success. Dr Prasanth advise for IVF is the only choice as its around 25k.
I have checked in PPUM and the cost is around less then 10k.

I have also checked in Metro IVF and they have diffrent kind of package like permata package is less then 10k and full ivf is 20k.

So my question,

1)why dont people go to PPUM when the cost is only half or less compare to other private clinic.

2) Is there any different procedure, medicine or laboratory used in PPUM compare to in private like Metro or KL fertility ?

3)as far i know the medicine in PPUM are subsidy by government so the treatment is cheaper.apart from that is there any difference in procedure or technology and so on ?

4)Should i just go to PPUM where by it only cost 10k or go to Metro IVF and so on?

5)is the IVF is equally effective or successful as other clinic such Metro or KL fertility clinic ?
I unable to find this info in the internet. Appreciate some input and guidance.
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i also just spoken/attend to Dr Prasanth.
we havent get into IVF yet , ours are just 1st time meet up .
wife taken blood for ( i also dunno for what..it seems to check on her fertility).

can share how is his service? since u have go through 3 IUI?
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QUOTE(M4A1 @ Mar 23 2018, 03:51 PM)
i also just spoken/attend to Dr Prasanth.
we havent get into IVF yet , ours are just 1st time meet up .
wife taken blood for ( i also dunno for what..it seems to check on her fertility).

can share how is his service? since u have go through 3 IUI?
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Is to check her hormone level. I heard my frenz under him, he super busy. My frenz only mee the him like once or twice only
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QUOTE(bulletjacky @ Mar 14 2018, 05:45 PM)
Hello Guys,

i need some input on the below making some right decision.below is the history of our case.

Married and trying for child for more then 2 years.

Husband 34 with no complication.Have done sperm check all the required check and everything is normal.

Wife 34 with no complication as well. Have done the checkup in KL fertility clinic and all seems normal.

Have done 3 IUI in KL fertility clinic with no success. Dr Prasanth advise for IVF is the only choice as its around 25k.
I have checked in PPUM and the cost is around less then 10k.

I have also checked in Metro IVF and they have diffrent kind of package like permata package is less then 10k and full ivf is 20k.

So my question,

1)why dont people go to PPUM when the cost is only half or less compare to other private clinic.
PPUM is like other govt hospitals. Won't take risk.
My 1st iVF in HkL..doc only retrieve 12 eggs which os a failure.
2nd IVF in Metro IVF..higher success rates..doc retrieve 42 eggs because i have pcos (polystatic ovary). Recommend you to go to Metro under Dr Tee. Egg retrieval based on the patients conditions.

2) Is there any different procedure, medicine or laboratory used in PPUM compare to in private like Metro or KL fertility ?
IVF laboratory are the same but they won't take risk thats y cheaper and the medicine subsidy from govt.

3)as far i know the medicine in PPUM are subsidy by government so the treatment is cheaper.apart from that is there any difference in procedure or technology and so on ?

4)Should i just go to PPUM where by it only cost 10k or go to Metro IVF and so on?
I recommend you to go Metro under Dr Tee. He is very patience, calm and very caring. I'm very comfotable under him and he will answer all your question nicely.

5)is the IVF is equally effective or successful as other clinic such Metro or KL fertility clinic ?
I unable to find this info in the internet. Appreciate some input and guidance.
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I have heard many success stories in Metro. Even patients from other countries like UK, India ans singapore came for he treatment.

This post has been edited by hema8311: Aug 18 2018, 03:47 PM
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Hi, i recommend you to go for Metro IVF under Dr Tee supervision. I don't want to comment on other IVF centres because personally I didn't get any treatment from them and also have heard from other friends on low success rates.

To answer ur question:
Why not PPUM?
For me personally, my 1st IVF was in HKL. Normally, govt hospitals or semi govt like PPUM won't take risk. Meaning the doctor will retrieve fewer eggs which leads to low success rates. Retrieval of eggs depends on the patients condition. I have PCOS, retrieval of 12 eggs for my 1st IVF in HKL is a failure. For PCOS, need to get more eggs out for higher success rates where Dr Tee did for me for my 2nd IVF in Metro.

Personally, i have seen higher success rates in Metro IVF. And also, if you have a medical report on HSG (blocked tube), or other check up related to Fertility, you can inform the results to Dr Tee. Can save money because he won't force you to do the check up again.

He will only take blood test of wife and husband to check on HIV infection if any and for Husband - sperm count.


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It's important to choose a centre that does genetic screening especially if ure above 35 yrs old. But PPUM does not do this. I think only Sunfert (Bangsar South) or Tropicana Medical Centre has this.

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my wife recently did ivf with dr kannapan from sunway fertility centre... he's a pretty cool guy and very knowledgable ...

whatever he say will happen did happen .. his centre also won IMTJ award for the best fertility clinic of the year 2020... worth checking out
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Hi anyone can share their Ivf experience at kpj damansara under dr Mohan?

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