Reading your post was a very refreshing change of pace compared to reading all the other sub par verbal plays used prolifically in this forum. Especially the term "ayam". God I hate this forum for that. I always imagine the person using it as having a very annoying nasally tone.

Anyway, I admire your stance and the clarity in which you state your requirement of men. It's heartening to see a girl actually knowing what she wants and not beat around the bush.

+1 internet for you.

Its actually relatively easy to finish 2-3 books a week. I work a 9-5 job and can easily finish 3 books a week although I have to actively stop myself from doing so. Books don't come cheap and I'm not financially well-endowed enough to afford splurging on books like that. But during college days without access to a good library, I can easily go through 11-12 books a month. So.. yeah, it's not impossible. Just that most choose not to =)

You may be right there, but unfortunately, there aren't a very wide selection of Malaysian english forums with high traffic.