Simple: trial and error. All my relationships began with identifying if the boy/man has “that look”. If he has it and the chemistry is balanced, I always initiate the pursuing. Through a series of boys/men, I identified what variable I preferred most in men – the amount of books he read.

Boys/men I dated who read more than two books a week (includes magazines and book of varying genre) generally lack passion in other things, like beaching. Those who read less are incapable of projects or tasks requiring more than a day of attention.

To date, only one man I dated read two books a week. He was the perfect one. The right amount of attention and opinion. The cool attitude towards life. The relationship ended because I was the third wheel and I didn’t want to ruin his life. He agreed it was regrettable but the right thing to do.

not sure if you are dating with jerks or normal men, the concept of mutual understanding have nothing to do with men reading two books a week, they probably have something that are indifferent with you too

Because in your tiny brain the assumption is all woman wants sex above all else and can't live without getting married by 30

You probably can't even finish reading a restaurant menu without feeling headache

Your requirement is so vague. 2 books is a poor way of gauging attention span, because there are many other factors involved.

1) 2 books per week
2) ? pages per books
3) ? words per pages
4) ? mins per word (reading speed)

Variables 2-4 are unknowns that if undefined, will make your 2 books/week criteria moot. You want a guy that can read 2 800 page encyclopaedias per week or a guy that can read 10 page magazines?

You actually don't know what you really want, but portray yourself otherwise. You just want a guy that has the qualities of that one guy who so happened to read 2 books a week. But to summarize the qualities that guy has into such a loose criteria such as '2 books a week' shows that you lack experience, as you quantified his qualities into the only way you have experience with, which are books, and the time you have to read them.

Why don't you read less, and experience more? Many things learnt not just through words through your eyes. Shocking I know!

Oh did I just generalized?

Read a thousand books live a thousand lives

My search for contribution of Lik Tin Trading to local community came up empty

What exactly was your help to mankind?

Then you wouldn't mind showing me in real life?

Send me your contact, and I would love to meet someone who has such intellect and might even point me to the right direction in life

This will achieve several things, like validating my gender in person and I can vouch for your credibility in Kopitiam

Oh? Why do I get the feeling you are not willing to meet me up? Is it because everything you claim to be, was not?

Wow your balls just shrunk when a woman suggest to meet up ? Lullz

Sure

Too bad for me I will never learn the bravado and contribution of Lik Tin Trading towards humanity

Also the big throbbing critical thinking and analytic skill

So in other words, you are nobody la. Nobody also want to lecture people like he's Gandhi like that.

Like, what?

That everyone should abide the notion that everyone must do the same thing?

Exactly. I don't know you and you don't know me. Therefore we are nobodies in the internet. Who are you to judge someone else just by their love to read books? Hmmmmm?

I disagree with everything you said.

Btw, I g2g. Tata

Why are you not answering my question of

Who are you to judge that I don't have a life?

TS story reminds me about a movie where the main character is a dedicated English teacher who had a hard time finding a partner because of her high standards

next time dont demand too much from guys if you dont have interesting thing to show. read books? everyone read.

now fly a jet thats unique

hmm where do i fit in your list?

lol let her be. there are guys who read more books than her but she still deny it insisting that she is far more superior.

such supercilious goddess. good luck finding future companion 

saint agata bull one cannot. so nice

if sell all can do like these

too bad, NXJ not appreciate. if not i will sacrifice all for these

i will sacrifce everything for her. including my passion

library of alexandria all gone, but i will try to get all books in the world and try safeguard them for the future

for her

forgot to mention, thats the collection of books over 23 years. and last time i read 5 books per 2 weeks, then later only 3 books per week

i will now sacrifice 3 books/novel per week to read only 2 books/novel per week