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> I only date men who read 2 books a week, by NXJ

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post Jan 14 2014, 08:14 PM

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QUOTE(jonny4 @ Jan 14 2014, 08:12 PM)
im currently reading Tolstoy's War n Peace.

Where can finish in a week ?
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I finished the Penguin published's 1.6k pages edition in 3 days

Then again it is my job to read
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post Jan 14 2014, 08:18 PM

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QUOTE(oe_kintaro @ Jan 14 2014, 08:16 PM)
I read Facebook and Flipboard everyday, though dead trees are a nice option once in a while...
The last dead tree I bought was ISBN 046504879X and before that ISBN 812969707...
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A history buff, I see

Books have the advantage of having closures

Most of the time, anyway
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post Jan 14 2014, 08:30 PM

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QUOTE(johnkia @ Jan 14 2014, 08:15 PM)
I notice from ure reading addict, everytime you start a sentence in this forum u begin with capital letter and organized
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It is only right to do so
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post Jan 14 2014, 08:41 PM

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QUOTE(joe_star @ Jan 14 2014, 08:37 PM)
To be honest, TS opening post was littered with grammatical errors. It could be due to nerves, reminiscing back "her" crush on the high school jock.
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I read a lot but I don't write as much

If it's not an exam and the idea was understood

I think it's okay for conversational English
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:03 PM

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QUOTE(k!nex @ Jan 14 2014, 08:58 PM)
TS ,I want to ask. How do you know the average of Kopitiam's average monthly salary since you mentioned that you earn one fifth of it ? Besides that, how certain are you that the value is correct ?

Let me analyse a little bit of your requirements:

1. Reading 2 books a week is possible if only at weekends. That means not much time for leisure like watching movies , or going to the beach and outdoor activities. So,  homely but boring kind of guys or kind of nerdy type is your cup of tea ?

2. Most guys around 20+ ~ 30 years of age are busy working on weekdays including overtime or part time business to buy car and house before getting married. So not much time left for reading.

3. You are a librarian and I guess you need to work according to shifts ? I myself work in a private university too albeit not a librarian myself, and at my workplace, librarians work on Saturdays and Sundays ( half day for Sundays) .At my place during exam month, the library closes at 11pm.  So you have time for dating ?

Conclusion is based on your requirements, how do you have time to date guys ?

Just my 2cents of thoughts ...
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Exactly why the two books requirement

It is very alarming if a guy has all the time for you

It usually means he has nothing else in life, such as a job

He will be busy enough with his work, and interested in reading enough to keep up his reading joneses with books/magazines

But not enough time to read more of it presumably due to other priorities in life

Such as a job

And I will be having more or less the same life

There will be time for seeing each other, movies, shopping, and reading

Just not 20 hours a week of it
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:05 PM

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QUOTE(Avex @ Jan 14 2014, 09:02 PM)
You will bored most guys to death even on the first date.
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Here's something to think about:

Why would I want to go on first date with someone not capable of any reading longer than Facebook statuses?

Not even remotely close to my profiling
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:06 PM

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QUOTE(emino @ Jan 14 2014, 09:05 PM)
Oh you and your silly little imagination. blush.gif  rclxms.gif

Dah I dunwan to derail her thread. You have fun there exaggerating and imagining shit, okay! laugh.gif
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Thread was derailed from page 2 onward

So it's fine
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:11 PM

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QUOTE(babybaby1988 @ Jan 14 2014, 09:08 PM)
TS post pic first. talk so much for what
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If you have enough brain power to read through the threads

You would've found my photos by now

Instead of asking people to spoonfeed you
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:14 PM

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QUOTE(fuzzy @ Jan 14 2014, 09:12 PM)
She is not interested in dating guys, she is merely interested in posting an opinion from her high horse. Two books a week is as vague as saying I only date girls that eat two meals a day.

If she is as big of a lover of books as she mentioned, she should know that one absolutely would not power through a book for the sake of finishing a book. I've just coming off a re-reading of Vonnegut's Breakfast of Champions, and at a thing 300 odd pages have taken me a week or so. Some of the chapters required an effort to digest and the re-reading made me appreciative of it in another way that I totally missed the first time around.

She also failed to look at the kind of books one is reading to fulfill that two books criteria. I finished some easy stuff like Salmon Fishing in the Yemen and Gaiman's Graveyard Book in about 6 hours or so, respectively, when I went to Japan. I still struggle with Dostoyevsky, to the point that I needed a break from it before I dive back into it again.
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Too lazy to go back and quote myself

But I do consider monthly magazines as "books"

They have themes, opening, and closures

And substantially more coherent information than a collection of news articles

Such as Newsweek, Bloomberg, Nat Geo, even Time
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:15 PM

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QUOTE(nearlee @ Jan 14 2014, 09:14 PM)
no F given
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You gave some F when you decided to post "no F given"
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:22 PM

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QUOTE(Y.J.S @ Jan 14 2014, 09:20 PM)
NXJ

I read exactly 2 books per week sometimes lesser due to basketball training.

I'm a big fan of Dan Brown where I've started to read The Da Vinci Code , Angels and Demons , and the latest Inferno .

I also read mortal instrument series .

But for now I'm reading The Da Vinci Code 10th anniversary edition because I love it so much. I will read top gear/Cars/motor trader/sports zone every week.

I'm 6"1 tall with my foot size of 11 (UK)

I live in a decent house around Kota Kemuning , I play basketball at the lakeside basketball court weekly, I have a little bit of moustache + a permanent mark on my face below my left eye due to chicken pox.

I have no washboard-like abdomen nor a mouse on my arms.

But I gotta tell you a fact that ...
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I'm just 16 years old

haha
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Are you the morning batch or the evening batch?

I'm a frequent visitor of the park whenever I feel like having some random sky gazing time
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:26 PM

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QUOTE(Buriburi San @ Jan 14 2014, 09:24 PM)
Thanks for sharing, hopefully you will meet your dreamed man soon.

For me in the past, I always like and chase girls with short hair and a bit tomboyish and cheerful attitude. But as I grow older, finally I realized such preference is just not enough, there's something that is much more important such as his inner ability to empathy and to love.

So, finally I gave up on my superficial requirements and start pursuing the latter.

It's good to have a preference, but if you meet such a good person but does not fit into your very specific model, then it will be a loss. But if you can gamble the years of your life to hunt such man and turn out to found one that perfect, then maybe you will be happiest women on your own world.
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I understand the concept

But as of now, I want my man in the same manner I had my breakfast for the last decade

I have a taste I like and I will not accept anything less
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:30 PM

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QUOTE(mowlous @ Jan 14 2014, 09:26 PM)
Well it's not like an over the top requirement compare to that singapore girl but what about those who acquire knowledge trough video? 1hr video a day about science, history, animals, psychology etc trough youtube .... ya shouldn't dismiss other channels in exchange for intelligence ya know...
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The main reason for the two books

Is to identify men with curiosity

And are interested in intelligent pursues

Should I meet someone who fits the bill though not with books

I don't mind binning the guidelines

Though books should take precedence simply because of my interest and job

It would be tough to spend time with people who can't stand the sight of books

Or people who don't understand my need to be silent and reading
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:32 PM

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QUOTE(deejay_krish @ Jan 14 2014, 09:30 PM)
First show us ur picture to see how qualified u are to be our dates and if none or ure not even close to our taste, go n dai then, tq..........
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The fact that you are more interested in a picture of me than the idea of me

Makes it impossible for us to consider each other as a date

So a picture of me for you would be wasted

So no picture for you
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:36 PM

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QUOTE(fuzzy @ Jan 14 2014, 09:29 PM)
If it is watered down to that definition, then anyone who watches a show, a movie, browsing a /k/ thread could possibly qualify for it. Newsweek and Time aren't even interesting anymore, their article mumble on incoherent points simply to generate 'shock', hoping it will boost their subscription. You would be better off asking your new SO to read The Guardian or The New Yorker. If you want a more relevant Nat Geo, get him to look at The Atlantic's In Focus instead (http://www.theatlantic.com/infocus/).

Books is just another form of informative entertainment, I'd dread to be with someone who loves books to the extend they give no chance to other media's, or worse, any other lifestyle.
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QUOTE(NXJ @ Jan 14 2014, 09:30 PM)
The main reason for the two books

Is to identify men with curiosity

And are interested in intelligent pursues

Should I meet someone who fits the bill though not with books

I don't mind binning the guidelines

Though books should take precedence simply because of my interest and job

It would be tough to spend time with people who can't stand the sight of books

Or people who don't understand my need to be silent and reading
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:38 PM

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QUOTE(pipedream @ Jan 14 2014, 09:29 PM)
wow, 4k a month (/k salary = 20k), never knew librarian earns that much, how can i get a job at ur place ts??
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What was the title of the most recent book you read?
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:44 PM

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QUOTE(roaringkitty @ Jan 14 2014, 09:41 PM)
Then again, you did say this

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That's for work and strictly for volumes more than 500 pages

Anything less I'll treat it as a leisurely read

Of course the length of book does not guarantee the quality of it

But hey if someone published that much words

Someone else should at least audit them
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:45 PM

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QUOTE(red streak @ Jan 14 2014, 09:42 PM)
The Republic of Thieves (Gentleman B-tard, #3) by Scott Lynch. Can I get a part-time job at your place?  brows.gif
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The only opening now is medical journal section

You are by job description required to be well versed in the section

At the very least, be able to describe the book should anyone ask about it
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:51 PM

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QUOTE(TOROBO @ Jan 14 2014, 09:48 PM)
are you charmed by the way your man reads his book or by the knowledge he gains from reading a book?
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Three folds:

1. The way he reads his book

2. The knowledge he gains from reading said book

3. The fact that he is curious enough to read a book, presumably to satisfy his curiosity sparked by the book
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post Jan 14 2014, 09:52 PM

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QUOTE(meistsh_musical @ Jan 14 2014, 09:49 PM)
TS think us no need work read book 24 hour
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If that was your conclusion

Then clearly you didn't read or didn't understand what you read

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