A - Tea Ceremony
B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride)
C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only)
D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends)
E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail)
F - Buffet
G - Honeymoon
H - Pre-Wedding Photo
I hope I can have:

1. ROM at Putrajaya

2. Pre wedding photo

3. Pick the bride + tea ceremony (if can I wanna skip this too but I think it's kinda compulsory for chinese as a respect for the elderly)

4. Buffet at restaurant e.g. Passion Road max 50 pax (I really don't fancy big crowd and non intimate event)

5. Honeymoon

PS: can this be consider as simple? 

Why?

what is the bad news?

Of course her mother bro, my gf often went with me alone to other cities and countries.. According to my gf, her mother also wants to join if I go fancy restaurant with my gf but I just ignore it..I don't know her mother also like wearing her sisters' clothes too although the clothes were given by her sisters' bf.. yes, suffer now..she also asked my gf to pay back the costs of raising her liao. And We will move another city to avoid her mother.

nope..got father but her father is totally 180 degree with her mother.

100% dominant liao, my gf said her mother always complain to her father everyday about financial thingy and always said past things how regret not marry rich guy and coz of that she advises my gf to marry capable man coz don't want her daughter will be suffered like her.. I don't think they are poor, my gf is a doctor sian..

Moreover,Her sister's bf even give monthly allowance to his gf 20% of his salary(for shopping).. I always become a victim be compared by her mother most of time how her sister's bf can give anything and very capable than me.. Do you know how sick if you are always be compared with someone else? I believe my gf is more like her father than her mother liao..I even often scold my gf and she seldom complain

What a gem? don't think so, she needs to pay back money to her mother.. Moreover, I do not want to subsidise her to do specialist, she needs to pay herself la.. I can say her monthly salary is below average, she works at small private hospital. A fresh grad doctor doesn't have higher starting salary than an auditor, do you know?