A+B+C is like bare minimum must have I think

Tea ceremony is giving tea to elders and relatives, traditional families want that

B probably can skip

C - my cousin did that, only families and relatives about 6 tables like that

H - comes in a size and packages, pick moderate one. so what they give 1000 photos? by half day you wont be smiling anymore

personally, I think best is ROM then do a small dinner© then go honeymoon, photos compiles from your honeymoon trip