My dad found out i've been smoking weed and he went crazy. Let me tell you about my background. I am a second generation christian. grew up in a christian family, went to a christian school untill college. Im 22 this year, and still living under my family. My parents are both hardcore christian, but i am not. Im no where from being a christian apart from the fact that i lied to them i go to church every sunday. I've been smoking weed for a year. Finally , today my dad caught me, came back from work early. They have been suspecting me for this few month already, but i didn't take that hint too seriously.

Now, my dad is saying weed = cigarette, and is telling me stories about how my grand father died because he was a heavy smoker. I told him, he is wrong, and weed is not cigarette. He even said that i will be addicted eventually. To be honest, the only reason why i smoked today is because i finished all my assignments and next monday is my 2 week study break. So i have this 3 day period to chill and play dota. I am honestly not addicted to weed, and you can't be addicted to it anyways. My dad just didn't listen and it is hard to tell him anything. He even asked me if weed is like a guilty pleasure to me, i said yes. and he was stunted badly. He was lost for words and i think this is the max he could take. He walked off the room and told me that he is not going to talk to me anymore until i change my attitude.

I can understand from my dad perspective, as his dad was a cigarette smoker, and his sister died in a car crash because she was drunk. So he had all these bad memories about smoking, alcohol and drug. But i told him, i don't do alcohol or smoke cigarette. weed is different from those. He still didn't want to listen to me. T he only reason why i didn't tell him was because i was afraid he will flip out, which he did. He asks me if i will continue doing it. I answered him, i wont do it in your house if you insist.

im not sure what should i do now. How do i even calm him down..

weed is bad

This post has been edited by sodifhas: Nov 21 2013, 03:55 PM

weed is fine... as long as you got self control. just dun let him catch you again. it'll be fine.

weed is worst than smoking cigarettes bro

QUIT SMOKING LA, NO GOOD FOR UR HEALTH AND UR DIDI

maybe jesus can save u now

you smoke it pure?

Smoking weed / caught with weed can go to Jail.

U know what happens to ppl who go to Jail right?

dude, weed is worse than cigarette.

thats why i do it discreetly in my house. Duh, i dont bring my weed and show it to everyone.

just stop smoking weed will calm him down...y so difficult

Weed, Drugs, Cigarette, alcohol. Never touch any of those. They are in so many ways not good for you and the people around you.
There are no benefit from taking in any of them. Infact you'll start facing problems because of them.

In my opinion, it is best to avoid.
But if it is hard for you, maybe you want to try some of those nicotine patches or start munching snacks or chewing gums just to reduce your craving.

All the best for you, pray for your well being, and your family as well.

some just googling
http://www.drugfreeworld.org/drugfacts/mar...rm-effects.html

SHORT-TERM EFFECTS
Sensory distortion
Panic
Anxiety
Poor coordination of movement
Lowered reaction time
After an initial “up,” the user feels sleepy or depressed
Increased heartbeat (and risk of heart attack)

LONG-term effects of marijuana
Reduced resistance to common illnesses (colds, bronchitis, etc.)
Suppression of the immune system
Growth disorders
Increase of abnormally structured cells in the body
Reduction of male sex hormones
Rapid destruction of lung fibers and lesions (injuries) to the brain could be permanent
Reduced sexual capacity
Study difficulties: reduced ability to learn and retain information
Apathy, drowsiness, lack of motivation
Personality and mood changes
Inability to understand things clearly

best quit while you can, since you said you are not addicted.

spread more lies my friend


that is your best option for now

use your father money to buy things that he oppose is always wrong

go work, earn your money, move out and use your own money to buy weed

If you love your father then you should feel what he's feeling right now.

If you can't give up weed for your father, do it for your mother. They both love you and it breaks their heart to see you doing what you are doing. They must be blaming themselves and questioning what went wrong.

Dude, you can bookmarked this page, and then read it back again maybe 3-5 years later, and see if you still agree with your own statement.

Need to get rid of it?

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Better change to hisap syabu. He won't find out. colourless and odourless.

You are in lucky your dad can talk to u. Some dad just wallap you until you stop. You are 22 and taking weed. I pity your father for having a son. Gl in your life if u ever going to make it far.

Admit it, you're only doing weed because you think it's 'cool'.

Weed... meh... tried it. And didn't see the appeal. Same goes with Ciggies.

you want to relax? take a walk.

Just dont get caught again and dont smoke weed too much. Do like me. Rent your own house/apartments and smoke alone in your house. Dont usually invite your friends, if sometimes ok la. Dont stop if you are a true ENT lol

This post has been edited by Lifeis@mess: Nov 22 2013, 10:41 AM

i dont think its because weed is 'cool', its more to the fact that weed is 'Good'. Hehe

take it for medication and not for fun xD
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ibT5kvXuoI

dude
just respect ur father and dont smoke weed at home
if u really wanna smoke weed go outside
dont worry 1-2 roll wont get u into the jail

You just said you are not addicted to it but you are not willing to stop it even if your dad don't like you doing it. You smoke it to "chill".

now tell me which part of it doesn't sounds like an addict?

actually you can show him whats happening in USA...many states have now legalize weed, and in many states they are starting to sell it commercially over the counter. New research shows it helps as pain relief and has no harmful side effects as far as they can tell.

I agree with you that ciggies is ALOT WORSE then mild weed usage. but since you are living under your dads roof, respect a bit la...get your own place..can smoke all you want

Tell your dad, " need some weed ? "

Young people never listen(not that i'm that old). But one day, though many will tell you these, You will regret your actions and appreciate your dad's concern for you. Let me tell you that you will regret putting your dad through all these. Believe me.

This post has been edited by TOMEI-R: Nov 22 2013, 04:24 PM

If I was your dad also I'll be scared $hitless.... it's not about the weed effect so much, but if get caught by police there is a possibility that your future is destroyed (jailed) and there is even a potential of you getting hangged.

Honestly drugs are good in certain ways & bad when missused. Best not to do it or stop while you can.

Convince your father to smoke weed as well and you'll get a steady supply for a good part of your life.

People tend to forget that good ol weed might get your ass on a rope.

Your ass or your neck on a rope.

U smoke weed n argue with an old man that weed is not bad? Seems like the weed has already affected ur brain.

It is better for u to just stay quite n say u are sorry n u will try to stop.

Good job son.

Instead of facing the music, confronting Ur family and tackling the problem together, U went and rant about it here; all saying how RIGHTEOUS U are.
Yeah, good job indeed.

sonudisappoint.jpg <- Ur dad.

There are reasons why weeds are banned.

You say you're not addicted but at the same time you say you won't stop even if your dad wants you to. Why? if you're not addicted, why won't you stop? is it because you'll miss the feeling of smoking weed? if yes, that is called addiction. don't even try to argue about this.

It seems you're complaining to us more than asking for advice since you're already decided on not stopping. Until the time when you stop convincing yourself that you're not addicted, you won't stop.

this is what addicts tend to say, you know?

the fact that you care more about your weed than your relationship with your father shows your addiction. good luck.

not to say cant get addicted but will be impossible to OD and die from it

Not like estacy if 2-3 pills extra then u gg d

TS said he is not addicted but he clearly is. Whether it will kill him or not is a different story.

Gonna do this Che Det style!

1. Don't believe the myth that smoking ganja is not as bad as smoking cigarettes. Smoke from burning ganja is still carcinogenic as there are many of the same carcinogenic chemicals in ganja smoke as tobacco smoke.

2. Not only that, smoking anything is still very bad for your lungs. Smoke is basically a big bunch of particles and inhaling any type of smoke - be it tobacco, cannabis or even joss sticks - will cause the build up of tar in your lungs and will irreparably damage the lungs.

3. The active ingredient in ganja (Tetrahydrocannabinol) kills neurons in your hippocampus and makes you stupid.


So don't be a jackass and stop smoking ganja.

Look pal, I;m not going to judge you like most people here so listen, weed is a lot better than booze and fags but it can turn its back on you so dont abuse it, dont ever abuse it.
Just take it easy man, get your priorities right and you can manage.

inb4 the next day TS saw a couple of pot with marijuana hiding below daddy's bed

how to calm him down? offer him a joint lah!

just stop it and replace it with other hobby etc.

i know weed is less danger compare other drug but still it is danger when u accident mix it with other thing which will cause u high w/o memory and done stupid thing u cant imagine

reporting police..lock up incoming

give your father some to calm him down bro

maybe u should let your dad try...

So many way to release your pressure.... Don take weed as your excuse... I will ask carrier,s mother pray for u..

TS, continue what u r doing . its a phase of life. something when reality hits u hard , then only u find ways bear the consequences (without begging others to help) . right now, make sure u enjoy what ur doing without harming others .

show him this

>weed is worse than cigarettes
>omg u smoke weed you are doomed for life
>ts is penagih dadah

sample comments of typical fattie /k/tard who never goes out of his own room and see the world.

just dont smoke in the house and respect your parents. smoke somewhere else, with a friend or outside or whatever. just stay safe and chill. no point arguing about it because people wont understand it anyway.

obama is christian, and he smoked weed before.

gimme summa dat bruh

I was a small kid now. Hope and pray he doesn't put me through what you did to your dad.

Behind my house got a lot of lalang. I can harvest for you. 1 puff u will definitely quit for good. hahaha

dont smoke.... bake it into cookies instead

so that explains all the shit posting.

+1

Weed brosefs unite!

atleast hes not taking alcohol and other dangerous drugs....

Donno la if you ask me weeds still can get one in jail right? Unlike alcohol. Anyway to me all is no good lor. Better stay away

your body is a temple of god. <-- if your sunday school days reminds u of anythin. if no feel guilt, by all means continue what u do now.

weed is bad, stop smoking

geez it's like i'm talking to an arsenal fan

Reading this thread makes me high,naise weed you got there bro.

i take it in cake or cookies instead..

Smoking weed happens for a reason.

can try ulam the weed

tell is dad is pucuk ubi

organic is ok

this is my POV
smoking ciggie or weed doesnt not change who you are.
im a cigg smoker. my dad isnt. i kantoi by him when i was 22.

well, i started smoking due to friends influence. but i personally think that hanging out with friends whom smoke but it is a good person in general rather than hang out with a non-smoker but bad person in general (waste parents money, prostitutes, gambling)

on the side note, just because you smoke does not mean you are a bad guy in general. it will not change who you really are, just an bad addiction.

it like girls who like to shop. same concept. imho

he asked me when did i started smoking. i said form2 i had my first batang and it hits back hard when i was in form 5.

Makes me wanna try weed.

neither are good.

all depends on you.

Weed is good mang...good for teh soul...

AKTA DADAH BERBAHAYA, 1952
Tafsiran "Pengedaran Dadah" termasuklah semua perbuatan seperti mengilang, mengimport, mengeksport, menyimpan, menyembunyi, membeli, menjual, memberi, menerima, menyetor, mengendalikan, mengangkut, membawa, menghantar, mengirim, mendapatkan, membekal atau mengedar mana-mana dadah berbahaya. Seseorang itu adalah dianggap mengedar dadah sekiranya di dapati di dalam miliknya :-

15 gram atau lebih berat heroin
15 gram atau lebih berat morfin
15 gram atau lebih berat monoasetilmorfin

Sejumlah 15 gram atau lebih berat heroin, morfin dan monoa setil morfin atau sejumlah 15 gram atau lebih berat bagi mana-mana dua daripada dadah berbahaya tersebut.



Sejumlah 15 gram atau lebih berat heroin, morfin dan monoa setil morfin atau sejumlah 15 gram atau lebih berat bagi mana-mana dua daripada dadah berbahaya tersebut.

1,000 gram atau lebih berat candu masak
1,000 gram atau lebih berat candu mentah

Sejumlah 1,000 gram atau lebih berat candu masak dan mentah

200 gram atau lebih berat ganja
200 gram atau lebih berat resin ganja

Sejumlah 200 gram atau lebih berat ganja dan resin ganja

40 gram atau lebih berat kokain
2,000 gram atau lebih berat daun koka
50 gram atau lebih berat 2-Amino-1-(2,5-dimethoxy-4 methyl) phenylpropane
50 gram atau lebih berat Amphetamine
50 gram atau lebih berat 2, 5- Dimethoxyamphetamine (DMA)
50 gram atau lebih berat Dimethoxybromoamphetamine (DOB)
50 gram atau lebih berat 2-5-Dimenthoxy-4 -ethylamphetamine (DOET)
50 gram atau lebih berat Methamphetamine
50 gram atau lebih berat 5-Methoxy-3,4-Methylenedioxyamphetamine (MMDA)
50 gram atau lebih berat N-ethyl MDA
50 gram atau lebih berat N-hydroxy MDA
50 gram atau lebih berat N-methyl-1-(3,4-methylenedioxypheny)-2-butanamine
50 gram atau lebih berat 3,4-Methylenedioxy-methamphetamine (MDMA)
50 gram atau lebih berat Paramethoxyamphetamine (PMA)
50 gram atau lebih berat 3,4,5-Trimethoxyamphetamine (3,4,5-TMA )

Sejumlah 50 gram atau lebih mana-mana gabungan daripada dadah-dadah berbahaya yang disenaraikan di dalam perenggan (xi) hingga (xxiv)

Seseorang itu adalah dianggap melakukan kesalahan di bawah Seksyen 39(A) Akta

Dadah Berbahaya 1952 sekiranya di dapati di dalam miliknya :terdapat :- 5 gram atau lebih berat heroin

gram atau lebih berat morfin
gram atau lebih berat monoasetilmorfin

Sejumlah 5 gram atau lebih berat heroin, morfin dan monoasetil morfin atau sejumlah 15 gram atau lebih berat bagi mana-mana dua daripada dadah berbahaya tersebut.

250 gram atau lebih berat candu masak
250 gram atau lebih berat candu mentah

Sejumlah 250 gram atau lebih berat candu masak dan mentah

50 gram atau lebih berat ganja
50 gram atau lebih berat resin ganja

Sejumlah 50 gram atau lebih berat ganja dan resin ganja

15 gram atau lebih berat kokain
750 gram atau lebih berat daun koka
30 gram atau lebih berat 2-Amino-1-1(2,5-dimethoxy-4 methyl) phenylpropane
30 gram atau lebih berat Amphetamine
30 gram atau lebih berat 2, 5- Dimethoxyamphetamine (DMA)
30 gram atau lebih berat 2, 5-Dimethoxybromoamphetamine (DOET)
30 gram atau lebih berat 2-5-Dimenthoxy-4 -ethylamphetamine MMDA
30 gram atau lebih berat Methamphetamine
30 gram atau lebih berat 5-Methoxy-3,4-Methylenedioxyamphetamine (MMDA)
30 gram atau lebih berat Methylenedioxyamphetamine (MDA)
30 gram atau lebih berat N-ethyl MD
30 gram atau lebih berat N-hydroxy MDA
30 gram atau lebih berat N-methyl-1-(3,4-methylenedioxypheny)-2-butanamine
30 gram atau lebih berat 3,4-Methylenedioxy-methamphetamine (MDMA)
30 gram atau lebih berat Paramethoxyamphetamine (PMA)
30 gram atau lebih berat 3,4,5-Trimethoxyamphetamine (3,4,5-TMA)


Sejumlah 30 gram atau lebih mana-mana gabungan daripada dadah-dadah berbahaya yang disenaraikan di dalam perenggan (m) hingga (z). Hukumannya ialah penjara tidak kurang 5 tahun atau penjara seumur hidup atau 10 sebatan rotan.

Seseorang itu adalah dianggap melakukan kesalahan di bawah Seksyen 6B Akta Dadah Berbahaya 1952 sekiranya ia di dapati menanam atau mengusahakan pokok ganja (walaupun sepohon) dan boleh dihukum penjara seumur hidup dan disebat tidak kurang daripada 6 sebatan.



Akta Dadah Berbahaya 1952 (Pindaan) 2002 Akta A1167 telah diluluskan dan diwartakan pada 8 Ogos 2002. Dengan berkuatkuasanya Akta ini mulai 11 November 2002, penagih-penagih dadah yang menagih semula selepas 2 kali menjalani rawatan dan pemulihan di Pusat Serenti atau pengawasan di dalam komuniti akan dikenakan hukuman penjara dari 5 hingga 7 tahun dan sebatan tidak lebih dari 3 sebatan.

Sekiranya mereka di dapati menagih sekali lagi bagi kali ke 4, mereka akan dihukum penjara dari 7 hingga 13 tahun dan sebatan sebanyak 3 hingga 6 sebatan.

Beware of generational sin, coz it runs in the family...just saying...

Mana dapat weed?

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Yeah, I wanna know as well. Pm me.

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Smoke weed can get a in exam

Diamlah polis

Jangan sibuk2

U see harold n kumar smoke weed like boss.

I thought you smoke weed to laugh at the questions.

he know u will die soon. so u choose lah what u want

Yo, who called 5-0?

lets try meth

they all started with weed. it is considered 'entrance' level.

If you are living in their house, don't smoke in their house.

insaplah TS

ayokk tak tahu polis datang

A massage from Jesus to TS :

Fuh,luckily the scale is calibrated frequently

Why weed??? You 2" and foreveralone??? Then go 14th floor please

If you are not addicted, just quit it and find other stuff for guilty pleasures.

If you cant quit, it means you are addicted.

Kids nowadays.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hJiYQSdIBc8

Currently at 420 views. Help a playa out playa

smoking is bad, why would you even want to start it?

so u think you cool la cause smoke weed?

much want

so wow

Weed, smoking, shisha, etc - nothing good comes from 'em

what the weed is better than cigarette?