what is ur bf doin bout dis prob??

sorry out of topic..how girls figure that they're pregnant anyway??b4 using pregnancy test or b4 the tummy get bigger..

that's what i'm saying.. it's like she's handling it alone u know...
that's not a good way to handle or solve problems..

or try to get attention?

i looking 4 solution and bf do so.sure is after pregnancy test ler, if not y i said is early pregnancy ...

i know melaka can do it, and i think it is illegal, but that place is famous and a lot of young girl go there to abort too. I know this place about few years back, and not really sure now still can do it or not. The price is depends on how long your pregnancy is, for 2 weeks i think the price is about rm200~300 or maybe they got the medicine method (who knows..) I got a friend who aborted for about 3~4 times. It dont need parents but it need a guardian for the document and procedure, you can ask one of your friend or bf and claim them to be your relative or father of the child to avoid your parents to know from this.

But i must warn you, the abortion is very very bad to your body, and the more you do it, the less chances for your next pregnancy as your uterus wall will getting thinner and thinner if you do the surgery.

I'm kind of a person who support abortion, if you are not in good condition or situation, you better dont give birth to this child. Or else you only bring more suffer to this world and you not happy, you partner not happy, and the most important is the child not happy too. So what is the point to have this baby? You only consider killing a child if the fetus for about 3 months long (i think that is the correct time), which is the time the baby's heart start bumping. Other than that it is nothing but flesh.

Where is your location? If in kl, i'm sure got place to do it. But you need to prepare some money for these, maybe about rm500~1000.

This post has been edited by iDk: Jun 19 2006, 06:12 PM

dun mind, pm me the details. thx

what details?

u said in malaka got this kind of doc?

This post has been edited by omgomg: Jun 19 2006, 06:48 PM

Hey, the baby is innocent. Your own flesh and blood. Don't kill it. Even if you're too dumb to bring up the child, there's such a thing as adoption by infertile couples.

Pandan muka!!! screw summore all become papa mama!!! Damn u both dono how to take responsible at all!!! why u all bother this couple? why u all helping them? Let them deal with it, they even want to hide from their parent which is stupid act!!!

Premarital pregnancy...OMG..!!..
why no take prevention before making...
see..this is the result...

nice..i like it

why are you so worry about this pregnancy? u dont think bout the consequences back when you were having sex, do u? if u were thinking about not-to-have a baby, i'm sure ur guy would were protection..

I think we can't blame her also..nobody wants pre pregnancy also right...sometimes ppl just make mistakes....oh well..if you really can't support the baby the best solution is to abort the baby...althought the baby is a life..but than its better to abort it than let the baby suffer in the future....but i do hope you can really talk to your parents about this as abortion is a very serouis thing...can cause your life as well if anything goes wrong....Hope you really think twice before doing any decesion...may god be with you...

ARE U NUTZ?!? this kind of thing can easily prevent is just the matter how gatal u r! Dont even think about trying to do abortion, is bad for health. Abortion is not consider as responsible!!

the best way is to talk to ur parents..that's the very best although there must be some blaming, scolding, kicking and what so ever but from there, it is a start for everything for ur decision for ur to-keep or not-to-keep the baby..i dont know what to say anymore, i think this one would be a 'pengajaran' for everyone out there who had escape the same situation..

When I saw the title my first reaction is want to congratulate you . The baby must be very cute

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oh, back to reality, why you don't dare to involve your bf? let me guess, you date rape him is it? or you are the one who make hole in his condom.

what would be the name for ur baby ?

Nothing much I can advise further, just be responsible whatever decisions you made.

Many of them advise you to go for abortion, if you are rich then fine. I know a guy who got married at the age of 20, accident case, his appearance, any of you here, when you see him, you would think he's only 14. He's small and short and look like a small kiddo innocent looking type. But he got teased quite often like 'Naturally Aspirated enough lare, wanna Turbo somemore, see what happen now?' I just keep quiet, i don't find anything funny, because all of us will get married someday and have babies, just a matter of time. Trust me, sooner later people will forget about this.

If you choose to born this baby, then all you have to do is study hard and graduate, look for a permanent job and support this child. I hope you are the type who is serious into studies, i've seen many girls (not just girls) wasting their parents money for fcuks sake, i hope you are not one of them.

Trust me, before you make any final decisions you better think twice again, don't just think abortion is the easiest way of solving problems.

I don't know about your past, sometimes we tend to think back of our past, right? Just don't want you to regret later.

If you go for abortion, are you gonna 110% sure the next time you would be more CAREFUL? Think about that.

Abortion is not like playing arcade games, where you put in coins and play you know. More than 3 times is GAME OVER!

Why many of them here advise you to go for abortion, is to avoid those unwanted things to happen in future. That's why we have the so called 'Pariah' peoples.

No money = Big Burden = More pressure = Couple Quarell

You didn't ask, whether is it dangerous to undergo abortion. I can see that, you take abortion very lightly.

This post has been edited by zeist: Jun 19 2006, 10:08 PM

whoa!! such a good advice u giv her..

or if u even think about abortion is the best way, then fall yourself down the stairs until it broke..i'm sure it will hurt a lot and ur baby will 'gugur' if that what u want