if my bf no use condom when we ml (make love) after my period..danger or not ?and da..when should i use the pregnant test after ml?

wow...should ask the expert .... if me i seriously i will wear rather than take high risk ...

not danger you wont die from that. hhe, j/k. Why take the risk. Wear condom pls.

This post has been edited by silllver: Jun 15 2006, 09:47 PM

check with your gynae lol.

when should you use the home pregnancy test... hmmm maybe 12hours - a week after? you're not going to know if you're pregnant 10 minutes after doin it.

This post has been edited by malaysianPotato: Jun 15 2006, 09:56 PM

rumour said that this is the safest way, however you may pregant of it too.

Slightly dangerous but the chances should be lowest...

however best practice is either wear it or have him.....shXXt first ....then only continue .... slightly lower chance ....

usually is 2 weeks after ml then only the sign will shown ......but hopefully such incident does not occur....

anyway play safe to play happy

The safe period is within a week after your LMP. After that, the danger period starts.

7 days grace period after period.


TIP: Please take into account that sperm lives for 3 days on average. So tat brings us to 3 days grace. LOL.

pls don't do that...its a BIG no no!!!! i suggest you to practice safe sex since you don't have much knowledge bout sex & pregnancy.. always ask your boyfriend to wear "seat belt" when going for test drive


if you want low risk...but REMEMBER it is not RISK FREE..*click da spoiler*



hope we lytian won't see a new thread " My BF just open a fixed deposit on me..what can i do now??

ALWAY PRACTICE SAFE SEX BOYS AND GALS!!!

also remember that the safe period isnt always a 100% safe. safe sex = safe sex when it actually is safe sex.

totally agreed..always wear helmet before dive into the cave.. if he doesn't want to..!!! ask him to self service..

if u make love 7 days before and after ur period without condom, it is consider still safe... but there will still be risk of getting pregnant. the chance is lower because ur ovum is not mature at that moment yet. if u take bio in form 4/5, you sure know bout period cycle. and if wan to reduce risk to get pregnant, ask ur bf dun ejaculate inside your vagina... anyhow, the safest will be put the rubber on.. for pregnancy test, no need so rush... check if ur next period not come on time...

the first 7 days of after period is the best time for couple , do it as much as you can. After this 7 days, you will bare your own risk .

girl,

please..... dun ever involve into such risky activity again.... as u know, the menstrual cycle is not a fixed thingy... and there is possibility where by your ovary produces 2 ovums in a month....

so, if...if... and if u really want to have sex... please protect yourself.... condom is a good way and the effectiveness is >90% ( provided u wear it the right way).

fyi, there's little amount of sperm in pre-ejaculatory fluid...

in order to perform pregnancy test, it is only accurate if you perform after 21 days u had unprotected sex....

take care.

heh.. the percentage is really high... that depends.... go and have a pregnancy test..

I support jimberly...yes to pre-ejaculatory fluid...
guys cant control that one
will direct come out before the real big one
:S
happen certain times

no doubt having sex without condom is more enjoyable than sex with condom.
but there're always "what if....." questions after that.

still not very safe thou, not that if ur bf shoot outside or any how, as long as it is not protected, the lubricant from ur bf's bro contents some amount of sperms so... any ""wat if" like muiche said, then happy mother's day. Seriously without protection indeed better sensation hehe. i cant deny this

Agree agree

esther, if mum saw this topic u post. u sure cham d ....

Better wear if not sure regret later

pre-marital sex is rampant. i like it.

if wan don wear,then ask your bf when wan shoot his sperm tht time take out his gun...hha...

so what technique you're going to do? missionary, 69, spoon, doggie?

err... i think u can test after 2 weeks ^^

so, this is your first time u lose ur virginity?

man! it seems people are damn ignorant of the risks involved for each kind of prevention method.

only condom offers 'safe' protection. outside ejaculation is pointless. u might as well shoot inside!

if condom a hassle, try backdoor but be warned of risks of diseases!

backdoor huh
i have no doubt tht, having sex without condom is more fun~
it feels like.. uhhhh... come on.. more more... ahhh... lol

you're asking for this?

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=303213

i hope you won't get pregnant when the first time you lost your virginity.

but the condom is tested by electrostatic woo, i think is quite reliable GUA

Condom also prevent from other kind of diseases that can be transmitted thru blood like hepatitis and others.

Not only pregnancy.

If ur not planning to have a baby, it's advisable to wear a condom to prevent urself from getting diseases / baby.

btw, tumpang sekejap. can condom be recycled?

what as in wear once wash wear again? its not adviced.

lol recycle.. by da time u finish making love its lubricant already dry up laa..
anyway there's no safe sex..in my opinion laa.. safe = abstinence
heck, even condoms break at time.. this is when u need EC (emergency contraception)

Double layer protection? Should it be better?

Double layer protection? u mean wearing 2 condoms at the same time, it will break easily!.

1 or 2 days when u just finish ur having ur period, if u ML on that 1 or 2 days u won't get pregnant.

Safer sex is ALWAYS better. Use the condom properly. Sex is fun and it could be more fun if you know that you and your partner are safe. I know your partner may hate wearing protection, but you have to urge him to use one. STD and other illness transmitted while having sex is not the thing that both of you want to regret in later time.

7 days B4 and after period are 100% safe..
7 days in between that period are most dangerous.
Didnt u guys study SCIENCE in class?

LOL if u are so STINGY better DONT MAKE LOVE.

Btw there shouldnt be pre-marital sex...didnt your parents teach u?

not 100% accurate, she can still get pregnant as "safe periods" are never actually 100% safe.

Using two condoms is good to reduce sensitivity but not really useful because most condoms are latex-based and clinically proven to protect if use properly. Once again, technique wins over stupidity. Btw, if your partner use two condoms, you might feel uncomfortable. you know what rubber feels like.

This post has been edited by dopodplaya: Jun 24 2006, 01:02 PM

okay, let say yesterday already finish period, if today ML.. can get pregnant?

if period finish, where got eggs to form?

you have to take sperm life span into consideration and such. there is a reason why doctors still say its not safe during the safe period.

buy from supermarket. go for omega-3 enriched one.

normally egg will be released between 7-14 days after period finish (your 'subur' period). Sperm can tahan up to 5 days. Meaning, if you just finish ur period yesterday, just ask your bf to shoot inside. no problem.

or go to any pharmacy, ask for the ovulation kit. if the test is positive, then you can expect to conceive between the next 24-48 hours. In other word, DONT SHOOT IF POSITIVE.

you can check this website, http://www.ezpregnancytest.com/ots.php?osC...1efdc6c35137590

ai wear condom la.....safety first.....

according to here it says

Q: What is the 'safe' period for having sex? Can I practice the rhythmic method of birth control?

Prithi (Shanghai, China)


A: Safe time is one week before and one week after period starts.

source: http://www.indiaparenting.com/faqs/not_pla...fe_period.shtml

backdoor is always safe period. u nvr heard ppl giving birth thru a$$hole$ rite?

Sometimes, you can even get pregnant even if its safe period. I dont know where i read from, but sometimes there's 2 ovum and after period, there's another 1. There's always cahnce to get pregnant. Even if the girl is a virgin, bcoz sperms can live up to 5 days as mention. You dont need to get the whole thing in just to get pregnant. Besides, pre-ejaculation have higher sperms count compare to ejaculation. you can try healtboards.com/boards for more information.

using 2 condoms is way more dangerous than using a single condom. dont ever use two..

seriously, u're the one who dont study sc here? or u dont pay attention? no such thing as 100%, u could even get pregnant when u're haveing menstruate, dude

and i notice that u always mention other ppl's parent.. is there even a need for that?

This post has been edited by Chester: Jun 26 2006, 12:34 AM

got 2 ovums? where did u read that? i don't think so.

anyway safe period 7 days all IF only the girl's health is tip top and her periods are accurate as in every 28 days. if period irregular and due to other health problems ovulation could vary. so just use the bloody rubber

this is the link


http://healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=85853

it did says u can get pregnant while u're having period but im sure i read from somewhere else u could have 2 ovums at 1 time. Or could it be the thing that makes 2 un-identical twins? anyone can clarify? I'll try to find it out.

this might not be very accurate, but there is absolutely no such thing as 100% safe..

This post has been edited by Chester: Jun 26 2006, 01:08 AM

two ovums at one time is possible
though rare
never study bio ar?

the floormaster seem to be missing for quite some time ago

got already?

keke, we should congrats him then

I've also read before that even if your period comes it does not guarantee that u are not pregnant. but i don't know how that happens..no explanation @@

2 condoms = geseran bersama getah... rubber rubs rubber starts fire. Not like you're burn another hole inside her but the rubber will give way so it's best if you just use one and make sure she is wet, horny and begging for it.

Rubber rubbing on a dry surface starts fire too. Dont forget that.

If I remember my what my science teacher said correctly...

Female has a set of ovaries, which mean 2 ovaries that could release an egg every month. Usually, an egg is released per month, but there could be times where both ovaries released an egg simultaneously or the other ovary released an egg a few day after the first one did. Normally, only one egg will travel into the uterus at a time and trigger the menstrual process if it's not mated with a sperm. When there's 2 egg present at the same time, there's a possibility that either one egg will travel into the uterus first and then the 2nd one follows suit after a few day/right after the completion of the menstrual OR both egg travel into the uterus at the same time. If the earlier case happens, you can get pregnant during your safe periods due to the egg presence. If the second case happens, then you'll get a pair of un-identical twins if both egg are mated.

Where u learn that from?
AFAIK it can only survive for 24hours max.

You've got weak sperm, man. I bet that goes with a limp deek too. Hee.

Superman never die?
Somebody go Google for the actual time they can live.

http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/sperm-survive.html

There ya go.

http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/sperm-survive.html

There ya go.

If you are sexually active, the best way is to get on the pill. Have him use a condom while you're on the pill would give you much better protection. Don't take the risk of doing it without any form of contraception.

nothing beats vasectomy

This is called 'double dutch', and I'd concur with avantgardeo, better safe than sorry.

except maybe cutting your peepee off...

aiyohh darling... have safe sex laa... use condom laaa very dangerous if dont use condom....condom not only can prevent pregnancy but also can prevent urself from any std...but if no feel using condom.. why not try consult a doctor bout using birth control pill..

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