deathbringer i hear ur worries buddy... this is wat i can suggest...
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1) trusting a middleman to conclude a deal is still risky, and IMHO, no better than just settling everything via the good 'ol "bank-in and poslaju" method.
wit a trusted focal point, the risk is reduced!

and yes, there'll always be risk too, but in the real business, everything is a risk... no pain no gain, right?
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2) how much do u think the middleman would charge for his/her services?? too little and it wouldn't be worth the effort. too much and he wouldn't be much of a use. how much would u pay??
how much? well... i wuld say its a mutual agreement. if seller willing to meet at the focal point's preference (meaning, focal point no need to waste much petrol / toll / parking), exp : workplace, home, etc. i wuld say RM10? if focal point need to travel meet in the mid point convenient to seller, i wuld say RM20? and this focal point charges is a mutual agreement between the seller & buyer, whomever agrees to pay.
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3) this method is too troublesome, especially for the middleman. Eg. wat if there r 10 persons who can't meet on the same day @ the same place? or wat if the middleman can't make it on certain days??
well... this focal point aka middleman knows his / her responsibility. u wanna earn side income u gotta take initiative even if cant meet @ same day or same place. basically, weekend sounds good

, or maybe during office hour whereby focal point dont have to go out at all, or maybe night time at any nearby mamaks?
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4) who is gonna volunteer for the post? the mods most probably have their hands full at it is. plus we all have day jobs, ya know?
no volunteer pls...

later con-man volunteers and cheats how? this spoils the main purpose of having focal points... i wuld say the moderator chooses the best candidate from the trade zone and from various states. moderators themselves can be involved if they wan, coz this is an extra side income. and yes we all have day jobs... so do i...

but i do trades a lot during office hour or after office hour whichever is convenient... this is just my suggestion.
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that's why LYN would never become the next "eBay" in the near future.
YES but it serves as an alternative portal to lelong / ebay.