please la, be more considerate when making suggestion.

As for TS, i recommend you sony's rx100 or a mirrorless with pancake if you don't plan to get really serious into photography really soon. Buying a dslr would easily leave you into 2 most common situation. 1) Keep buying more and more gears at the end. 2) The camera end up growing dust at home due to the bulkiness. If you plan to learn deeper into photography, then getting a DSLR is a good choice.

This is very important if you going to use the camera oftenly, nothing beats the comfort of holding the camera. If you don't like how the camera feels in your hand, even if it has the top notch features and quality, you still don't feel good using it. This happened to me before, people suggested me to get a camera that feels good in my hand, I didn't really take note of it since I am a newbie that time. I then purchased a canon 550D, after a year of usage, I regretted for not buying a 60D that time since I really hate the small grip of the 550D now although it's a great camera.

yeah, ergonomics are important. It's the same when you choose a keyboard/ mouse/ handphone, you don't just look at the specs, you will test it and hold it before buying.

I am still using my 550D for 1 year already. haha I think so, loved the bigger grip and extra controls everytime I use my friend's 60D. Hmm... I can't really answer you about that, but DSLR nowadays can record high quality video easily at full HD, some even can get "hack" to achieve 4K recording (cinema resolution).