Loosen or not, she will try to take it off. Best way to make her get used to it is by putting on the collar for a while and take it off. then the next time do it again for a longer period and goes on. It'll help.

I think what the breeder meant was you can choose the name for the dog and she'll include it right after the kennel name. And that is a special case for you for what she do for you.

You can ask her to put Hugo Boss for you. for example MyKennel Hugo Boss. that's the best she can do for you. Nothing more.

My Kennel name is Nairud of course. No one came to view the pups except to book only. That why i name them to my own liking.
Nairud LanFear
Nairud Asmodean
etc.