My fiance is exactly like you. Is it everytime after you finished crying you felt much stronger emotionally?

Well I'll tell you the same words as what I've usually told my fiance. If by crying, it will give you strenght to move on. Then there's nothing wrong. You are a soft hearted girl. IMO, that's special.

EX 1, EX2, EX3, EX4 seems normal to me.. FYI, my fiance went through the same experience as you.

Well I guess so... lol I'm such an inferiority complex

How's my fiance now? Same old same old. Since the start, she kept telling me same thing.. that she's not perfect enough and scared that she won't be a good wife for me and advise me to leave her so that I wont regret it in the future.. in fact I just finished a call with her just now and she just mentioned the same thing LOL.. so for me.. what I've learn is I need to be strong for her and just be patient.. i've tried several things to help her such as advise her, give motivational book for her to read.. still the same outcome LOL.. she's really negative towards herself.. but still I love her so much.. I accept her for what she is.. so I promised myself to always be there for her.. although she want otherwise.. but I know she didnt meant it.. it's just she suffered inferiority complex thats why.. i guess so.. hehehe..

Sorry to ask this.. but are you a malay?

This post has been edited by SoFarSoFail: Jul 24 2013, 06:37 PM