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> UTAR student suicides due to friendship problem, Source: China Press

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andrewhtf
post Jul 20 2013, 01:15 PM

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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Jul 19 2013, 08:26 PM)
I pernah study utar, I know how it feels and I still remember it. Not wanna be racist, but it's not easy adapt to this kind of environment. People are quite pikcky when making friends there. Those with cars, even u face problem perangai mcam babi also can get friends. I regret masuk utar, honestly speaking.
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Wat environment? I studied utar both in pj and sg long campus. I dont have car. And i grad out unscathed just like everyone else. Yet i have no problem mixing with the "in" crowd and the regular ahbeng ah lian crowd and also the book smart crowd. It is all in yourself and how you handle and carry yourself.
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post Jul 20 2013, 02:16 PM

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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Jul 20 2013, 02:11 PM)
Different people have different ways of doing things. Just because it turns out well for you doesn't mean it does for others, vice versa. Mixing in and finding a friend is not the same, just because you are mr. popular doesn't really means that you have a lot of friends. I do have friends and mixed well there, but I didn't meet many real friends, they're just schoolmates. But I do stay in contact and hangout casually with the real friends I met there.
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Looking for "real friends"? It's the same everywhere, not just in utar. This is life. Stop whining.
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post Jul 20 2013, 09:26 PM

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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Jul 20 2013, 02:35 PM)
I can see that you're one of them, no wonder you are mixing well.

I can whine all I want, even if I ever did. You can just ignore it if you don't like about that, stop being a busy body. This is a public forum, not yours. Anyone can express their thoughts.
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Yeah i could say the same too.

I'm one of "them"? Seriously u really need to refrain from ASSUME.
Making An @SS out of U and ME.
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post Jul 20 2013, 09:47 PM

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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Jul 20 2013, 09:31 PM)
oh, you feel like an ass now? that's great. you should be..

and you should refrain from becoming a busy body, mind your own business and stop butthurting coz I ain't whining at you..

I don't even know why you get butthurt over the posts I made, I would ASSUME that you are offended because I'm right, am I?
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I quoted your post in the first place as it serve to highlight my own personal take. If you have to take it personally, then there is nothing i can say or do otherwise. Taking offense over some random posts online is a sign of social ineptitude and eventually traits of an outcast. Take it easy buddy, winning arguments, name calling and insults over internet wont gain you any material of value nor help you win friends. Chill lah.

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