Hair. U all...
What so hard? Just goto ROM 1st lor.
Later then goto buy house. Then slowly have wedding dinner, photo, etc.
My friend ROM 1st get house. After 5yrs then have big big wedding ceremony, Henry moon, etc..
So just swap your idea of get house 1st to ROM 1st. As simple as it..
And ROM won't cost much. Can get a gold ring with current low gold price value.