QUOTE(Madonna Britney @ May 10 2013, 12:25 PM)
I am currently a Masters student in a university. I don't need to name the university because this will later on put a shame on it. So I've been studying here for almost 8 months already. I am still waiting for a research grant to pursue my research. My supervisor informed me that there'll be no research grant to further my research so I need to use my money. That's insane because I'm self-sponsored.
Thus I decided to go to other universities to further my postgraduate studies. Thank God I finally got PhD offers from 2 universities-UKM and UPM. However, I am so confused which university to choose. Both of them have pros and cons.
Occasionally, it happens. But I am wondering, What were you doing in that 8-month period while waiting for a research grant? Have you ever chased after your supervisor about the research grant?
QUOTE(Madonna Britney @ May 10 2013, 12:25 PM)
So for UKM, the pros are:
1. I will work as an RA to the project I will do for PhD on June-August so I can earn some money and pay my first semester fee.
2. The supervisor was very nice.
You like the research relationship. Naturally, you tend to be
moving towards the positive relationship.
QUOTE(Madonna Britney @ May 10 2013, 12:25 PM)
However the con is I have to write a thesis in Malay and publish my research paper in English. That gave me goosebumps.
True because UKM mission is to promote Bahasa Melayu (Malay language) as the language of knowledge at the pinnacle of the national education system. You can ask
work_tgr.
QUOTE(Madonna Britney @ May 10 2013, 12:25 PM)
For UPM, the pros are:
1. The research I'll be conducting is very interesting...
You like the research environment. What kind of research is that interesting research?
QUOTE(Madonna Britney @ May 10 2013, 12:25 PM)
... but I don't like the supervisor. She seems very stringent.
You said you don't like her. Was that probably your first impression? And you mentioned she is very stringent. Stringent in what aspect? The quality of the research, or the need to micromanage your work? More importantly, how long have you known her and in what capacity? Similarly, you tend to be
moving away from the negative impression (is that a fact?).
QUOTE(Madonna Britney @ May 10 2013, 12:25 PM)
Which one should I choose?
If your research advisor is a natural mentor and is willing to take on that role in your life, and if that relationship works for you,
then count yourself lucky. Because not every graduate student is fortunate to have such readily available guidance and counsel from a more senior person.
I wonder if you've ever noticed that life is filled with ups and downs and this is no less true than in your life as a research student. Experienced students know that research can be frustrating at times and not always go according to your well-made plans. Inexperienced students have a harder time managing their expectations and frustrations.
Therefore, one of the first things you can become aware of is expecting to go through periods of stress and anxiety, whether due to work, study, or personal matters. Taking a little time off to relieve stress when the pressure gets too high
is always a good idea. Rest assured about having to take a break from time to time because you’ll come back refreshed and ready to get on with your work.