You might want to consider AKG K451 then, it comes with the Apple ControlTalk.

I own AKG K450 and auditioned grado series (similar to ms1i) before. AKG K450 has too much bass and often veils the vocals. grado sounds good but then are you sure you can live with a open headphones when you walk around? ms1i also has a long and thick cable which can be troublesome for portable use (i use the m50 and hell, the cable is heavy and i always have to stuck it inside my pocket, thus troublesome when i keep taking phone in and out from my pocket)

what's your budget?

wow, that is a lot of headphones to recommend. any particular sound signature you like? personally i recommend m50 but the problem is the bulky cable.

imho, iem protects your hearing more than headphones because iem isolate more outside noise therefore you can turn down the volume remarkably.

i just bought harman kardon cl last week at GBP80 approx RM430, i don't know the price in malaysia but in ebay it is around rm500. it is stylish (for me) and comfortable. the sound is enjoyable and fits any music genre. it also comes with apple controltalk and mic. other than that, sennheiser momentum on ear is also very nice and comfortable. the only thing i hate my momentum on ear is that the mid (vocal) is recessed. but overall the sound signature is still very enjoyable.