Hello ladies, I hope this is the right forum to ask you all regarding a very annoying thing ladies do when I am talking to them.

When I am talking to a lady, be it in the office or elsewhere, they will usually adjust their shirts or cover up their chest with a jacket they are wearing.

It's like they are worried that I will take a peek at their cleavage or something like that while I am talking to them.

I am not a pervert, and my eyes do not stray to their chests when I am talking to them. In the office, I am talking to them professionally befitting of my position in the company.

Therefore, I am annoyed of their actions. It makes me feel like a pervert, or that they are afraid of me. I am not a strict guy in the company or outside, and I am very friendly and approachable.

Any opinions from the ladies here are much appreciated.

You may not be a pervert but do you look like one?

face prob?

this is normal la...tuhan dah bagi, tengok je la tp jgn sentuh..hahaha

It's a habit.

There was me reading the list of rules at the very top of the page stating men can't start a topic.
Re the women (not ladies) covering their chests up. You clearly make them uncomfortable.
As long as you aren't a breast surgeon that's OK.

Are you standing too close to them?

in my case, it's a habit. i do that almost all the time. lol

yes, for me its a habit as well.

esp if i wear low cut blouses.

i also have the habit of adjusting my bra strap in public

I don't get ladies who do that. If you are so concerned about people looking down your cleavage, then why expose it to begin with? There's nothing to pull up if you don't show some part of your chest at all.

This post has been edited by minerva.L: May 2 2013, 05:03 PM

Perhaps they don't feel secure but I don't thk that's your problem, just ignore it, the ladies are just taking care of themselves cz geez you hv no idea the amount of pervert out there.

You think too much, maybe they are just trying to respect you.

This post has been edited by Vortexx22: May 3 2013, 05:32 PM

u got girlfriend already? if got, they still do that...maybe it's face problem
if you don't have, means either they perasan or you think too much

The girls are just being protective.

i think it's a way of respect. sometimes some ppl find that too "provocative" is being rude to a man.. as in not respecting them. hence, they put on a jacket or button up their shirt for that matter.

maybe they caught you staring a few times? hmm???

^ that's probably it. sometimes, you get caught looking at it by other girl so they are being careful?

Doesn't mean we think you're a pervert, more like we're just shy.

Don't think too much =.="

Thank you ladies, for the inputs. I try not to think too much into this matter.

FYI, I really don't think I have "face" problems. But maybe some people may feel intimidated by me because of my body size (am not fat, just..big)

maybe you don't realise it but your eyes may glance everywhere while you are having conversation with the ladies, including her chest area.

its subconcious although you may not realise it.