Well Coming form a guys point of view,
Personally i know a lot of my friends who are like this.
Men are simple minded creatures, once they set their goal on something that is it.
I would consider myself a gamer, but i guess it is more of self control and discipline.
Talk to him about your concern, but never give him an ultimatum.

games are a passion to some people, like how i know girls can't go to bed if they don't finish their episode of their drama
Maybe you can both pick up a hobby together i.e sport, gym etc and then he will spend less time in front of the computer screen.
However saying that, sometimes it is a habit that is formed from a long time where they have to play a game before they sleep kinda thing.

With that said Communication is the best thing in any relationship, talk it out and get to know the game. You may even pick it up
I am not asking all the girls to convert to becoming a gamer,
but more so to communicate to their bf as he may not know how serious things are until shit hits the fan.

remember, the only way we cheat, is in the game

sorry for the long post, just wanted to share this out

This post has been edited by agentpj: Jun 2 2013, 03:39 AM