I am 3 months married now. Lately im getting worried coz my wife is still not showing any signs of pregnancy. I envy some of my friends coz their wife had signs already.

Would be helpful if you guys can share which Clinic or Hospital around KL area which can perform a sperm count check. Which doctor is responsible would be an added info.
How is the procedure? or you can just barge in the hospital and ask for a sperm check?

Im new to this married life and pregnancy stuff. Really need serious help and tips here. Thanks very much.




p/s: My cholesterol level is quite high (5.98)......i heard higher cholesterol level can affect sperm count. Is it true??

Hi,
Not so worry.
You and your wife need at least 3 - 6 months to prepare for the that.
This is give you/your wife a good and healthy period to do so, healthy baby and family
Trust me, i did that

If you need more advise , PM me.

Thanks for the info.

good luck bro~!

No need so nervous lah....relax relax... just 3 months only....

Thanks bro. need every moral support i can get

but i scared if something's wrong with me.....what happen if im not fertile, then ppl start to blame me im weak la, this la, that la.....psychology really makes me stressful liao

Stress can affect your sex life in ways you can't imagine.

Are you doing it the right way too? Is your wife aware of her fertile periods?

I always keep track of my wife's fertile period (but who knows if its not accurate maybe?).....but just the normal way. Havent consult with a specialist yet.

There are a few ways to 'test' when the fertile period is. There are ovulation test kits sold, maybe can give it a try.
Normally fertile period is 12-14th day but different people different, so might not be accurate also.

One of the signs of ovulation is that her discharge will be different (more slimy) than usual. She may be able to spot the changes. For me, I sometimes get ovulation cramp on one side of the lower stomach in the middle of my cycle, combined with the fact that the discharge is way more than usual, I know I'm ovulating. Some women also basal body temperature, I have no experience in that so don't know how it works.

Hi,

No worries, bro...
You just tried for 3 months, quite a short period.

I've tried for a year but still no sign yet.
I'm going to have a sperm check as well.
Google search a Sunfert International Fertility Centre in Sunway Medical Centre. Not sure good or not...

V tried for 6 months baru get our princess, so pls be patient ya....

Getting yourself stressed up is definitely not going to be helpful. I think the first thing you need to do is to put away all the society & peers' expectations that your wife needs to get pregnant right away after wedding.

I've seen a lot of people getting a baby when they least expect themselves to so you just gotta enjoy your married life for now.

My 2 cents here...

Enjoy your married life first and have kids after a few years later. No need to rush. Once you have kids, that will change your life, restrict things you can do, less flexible with your time etc. So, enjoy time with your new partner first.

Cheerio.

U must relax. Try goin for a full month exercise. Physical and mental health is greatly important. For the one month, go for routine joggings and gyms. Build ur body stamina. It is proven that a healthy person will produce high sperm count and healthier sperms. Healthy as in a fit body that can jog 2 hours non-stop. Take more vitamins to build up your body too. Try stopping any intercourse for 2 weeks prior to your wife's fertile season. It is proven to work.

thanks for the positive feedback guys....

and yea....i guess im too stressed up with society peers which they expect your wife to get pregnant instantly after married life.

and to be honest.....my wife too is depressed and she blames herself coz still not being able to conceive yet.

Ouch... to be honest, both you & your spouse have a long way to go when it comes to fulfilling others' expectations. When your baby is out, expect a lot of people to give you their piece of mind & expecting you to follow their advices.

Get yourself destressed. You won't be able to help your spouse much unless you free yourself from these invisible chains.

There is one government clinic in oug(near citrus park) specually offering advise on fertility. You might want to check it out.

What about in JB? anyone knows a reliable/good clinic/pte hospital me and my spouse can consider a semen analysis too?

I heard my friend say RM120? I think im gonna try too.. hehe

Yes you can do it Pantai Hospital,

at Pantai Hospital Klang they will ask you to ejaculate in the toilet as they dont have special room for that purpose (toilets are clean fresh) or they ask you to go home and do it but you need to submit the sample in less than 45min -1hr. new price has been revised it will cost RM35. Latest price as of today. Report will be ready withing 3-4days.

at Metro IVF Klang it will cost RM120 and the report can be collected the very next day.