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tobezai
post Jan 9 2013, 12:11 AM

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4樓悲劇 o(︶︿︶)o

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post Jan 9 2013, 12:13 AM

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QUOTE(Crys_Crys @ Jan 9 2013, 12:12 AM)
I keep burpppp
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What did you Just ate?
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:16 AM

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QUOTE(-BadCuteAngel- @ Jan 9 2013, 12:14 AM)
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Hey, new comer! You ok ?
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:17 AM

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QUOTE(ascot @ Jan 9 2013, 12:14 AM)
what? u mean me?
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YES xD laugh.gif
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:22 AM

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QUOTE(-BadCuteAngel- @ Jan 9 2013, 12:18 AM)
Boring of guys d.. now looking for gals..
Oh..
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Lame excuse xD so many good guys out there.

Or in this thread.

Ascot is a great guy
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:24 AM

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QUOTE(Jakk @ Jan 9 2013, 12:21 AM)
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maybe u didnt meet the right 1...

my lesbian friend told me, once girl and girl are together.

they hardly break.
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WELL you have not seen the world yet. Many lesbians couple break very fast, complaining some Tom boy even worst than guys.
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:26 AM

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QUOTE(-BadCuteAngel- @ Jan 9 2013, 12:24 AM)
Is indeed.. guy cant b trust..
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That is not true. Try to think Why you are in this world, and why your parents raise you up...

Sure guys can be trust. Pick the one that is trust worthy.
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:30 AM

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QUOTE(ascot @ Jan 9 2013, 12:25 AM)
toto, i wanna ask u, after gathering u send hehe home to shah alam, is that a burden to u?
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It's not, In fact if want me to send all home also can (assuming Just 5 include myself ) But for that we need to meet after 8.30pm for dinner....

Will it too late?
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:34 AM

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QUOTE(-BadCuteAngel- @ Jan 9 2013, 12:20 AM)
Nah... guys only hurt gal.. but gal wont hurt gal..
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Then you are very wrong. A lot of human hurt each other. despite what sex they are in.

Including you also hurted someone else, being it consciously or unconsciously.
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:37 AM

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QUOTE(ascot @ Jan 9 2013, 12:35 AM)
hehe, pls read above.
ok, 5 including me stay in putra heights. Thanks in advance.
8.30 very starving d liao wo...why so late?
because gal said i always break their heart
u been stay in /l for quite long d, right?
u heard about got wang got amoi?

now u know why....
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Assuming crys, meow, happy, you, hehe, me, is 6 wor...

Sorry I'm not driving advanza... >_<
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:41 AM

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QUOTE(-BadCuteAngel- @ Jan 9 2013, 12:36 AM)
Wont so soon.. healing time..
Sigh..
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But.there are still people try to change the world, try to make it up of their wrong doing, try to love the other person.

For that, is the human capacity for hope and keeping the faith.

You should not Just lose your faith and decide to simply try anything like be a lesbian or bisexual or etc, Just because some jerk Let you down.


Let the good and kind person stay in your heart and change your life, not keep holding to the grudge and waste this precious life your parents gave to you.

From What I see? You still in debt to your parents. Before you repay them, you better not mess up your life.
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post Jan 9 2013, 12:56 AM

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QUOTE(-BadCuteAngel- @ Jan 9 2013, 12:43 AM)
Gal and gal btg 1 ma hv kiss..
Try change taste and see.. been hurt too much ler.. cant get hurt anymore..
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I already said What I want to say to advice... so..I won't wish you good luck lah because that is bad luck for me.

If you didnt born to be a lesbian and not because of trauma, don't make decision like that.

It hurts people.
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post Jan 9 2013, 01:04 AM

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QUOTE(toda_III @ Jan 9 2013, 12:45 AM)
toda become goda >.<
no i'm not here to goda u. real foreveralone don't even know how to goda/buaya  laugh.gif
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Good thing. Dont buaya.

Just live your life up to the max you can do xD
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post Jan 9 2013, 01:05 AM

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QUOTE(Crys_Crys @ Jan 9 2013, 12:50 AM)
going .. felt emo..

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yeah..go rest. good night !
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post Jan 9 2013, 01:07 AM

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QUOTE(ascot @ Jan 9 2013, 01:02 AM)
good night pipu.

headache d. need to catch up some sleep probably.
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yo , good night.


I guess I'll off from here too. Wanna sleep earlier, as tomorrow has a good movie waiting for me biggrin.gif

And the delicious hakka mee as breakfast xD


Hehe, dont so fast make decision, next week when we announce more details you then only let us know lah k ?
Good night loh


Good night everyone !
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post Jan 9 2013, 01:08 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jan 9 2013, 01:06 AM)
lesbian is not a choice

i been hurted >9000

but i never think about lesbian yet.

maybe u should think another way round

u haven't met mr right yet
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Exactly Nicole. Being Lesbian should not be a choice, but naturally you know you are one.

Making choices are just - wrong choices people make in life.
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post Jan 9 2013, 01:14 AM

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QUOTE(HappyCrazyFreak @ Jan 9 2013, 01:06 AM)
So far leh... Can I rain check ah? tongue.gif
tobezai, as much as I agree with you, I also think that we should just let Angel decide for herself... There is nothing wrong with being gay or les actually. It's just a matter of acceptance. If that's what makes them happy, so be it. It's not like they are committing a murder or something, right? I wrote an article about this matter before. Anyway, this is coming from someone who used to be a homophobe, okay? But as time goes by, I've learnt to know more about the LGBT community. They do not have a disease, they just want to be loved just like anyone else.

My friends did a documentary on homosexuals once, and they interviewed this man with a deep voice (and according to them, he is very manly also) who is a closet gay, he has a successful career and a family (wife and kids *gasp*), yet he can only hang out at gay bars in order to set himself free. He still got married and had kids because he couldn't come out from the closet as he also felt that the society is not ready for people like him yet. Do you not pity the wife and kids who are also living in a denial/lie?

Well, not to say this is serious talk, but you've had your 2 cents, so here is mine. Angel is not the only one who has such thinking. When I got hurt really bad a few years ago, in my mind I also thought of swinging the other way, but I couldn't make myself do it, as at the end of the day, I'm still way too straight for that. Yet, I have nothing but admiration and respect for the LGBT community as what they go through is far more and sometimes worse, than the heterosexuals/"normal" people.
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i'm not go to that extend of claiming homosexual is wrong - i'm saying making decision to be ONE , on a simple reason - is not right.

Many lesbians I know of are naturally becoming one - not by choice. There was a girl that become lesbian for some time about the similar reason - being hurt too much , lost trust in guys ... after couple years - she gave up and want to be NORMAL again , like she use to be - ends up this hurt the other person.


I have quite some lesbian and gay friends too - they are all - naturally become homosexual , not due to lust not due to desire.

i'm not trying to interfere her life , i'm trying to point out what I said above.

and.

Trying to give some advice not to make decision like this.
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post Jan 9 2013, 01:17 AM

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QUOTE(HappyCrazyFreak @ Jan 9 2013, 01:15 AM)
Well, if she really wants to experiment with that, why not? It's not like it's going to be a crime, unless she kills someone... I dunno how to say this, but, I believe in the freedom of expression - freedom to choose and freedom to be who you want to be.

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experience that is like saying nothing wrong to try drugs like heroin , try to be slut or play boy for fun --- it is just not right to simply TRY.


Life and the world has so many of things could try , but not things like these lah.....
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post Jan 9 2013, 01:18 AM

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QUOTE(Jakk @ Jan 9 2013, 01:15 AM)
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ok i'll try to avoid that... = P
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post Jan 9 2013, 01:32 AM

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QUOTE(HappyCrazyFreak @ Jan 9 2013, 01:22 AM)
Ohh... You didn't know too, since you are new... I was a Writer... tongue.gif
I know... But what I'm saying is, you do not impose what you think on her. Your principles don't mean that they have to be hers also. If she wants to do that, you can just give her your best advice if you disagree. But if she insists, then you can just give her the support needed. No point in telling her the same thing again and again. Why not just let her go ahead and probably make a mistake or two along the way, and learn from it then? We will never know the outcome so why stop/prevent someone from doing something just because of the worry that things may not work out, or that things will go wrong? People are the ones who usually told me not to worry too much. So in this case, I'm saying, just let her be. Sometimes, there is no point for you to try to protect some people as the best way to learn is to actually fall and pick themselves up again, learn their lesson and not to repeat the same thing. Even if she chooses to remain straight, are you sure that she won't hurt someone else, or be hurt again? Get what I mean here? I protected someone my whole life, but in the end, she has hurt me so bad that I've decided that I do not want someone like her in my life anymore. I can only blame myself as I've spoilt her too much. I like how the Westerners raise and educate their children, unlike typical Asian parents who have a more uptight mentality. Okay, maybe I've a totally different outlook on life, so... yeah...
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I'm not using the brutal force from stop her from fall down and learn, i'm giving a few last tips or raise a sign board with some keywords on her way to there. Definitely when she is keep going that way nothing could stop her , not these few words I put up here nor what we discussed in this thread.

but - if she isnt sure or not heading to that way on a strong or distinctive reason - i hope my words does give her a second to think it through again.


Just like if someone really want to kill themselves by jumping off from a 10 floor high roof top - there will never be chances for ppl trying to nego and talk to the person.
There are situation like this because - the person not really want to die but probably just feel like to do so.

so i am not imposing my thoughts on her. And YES - I am giving my best advice cause I disagree. I didnt do anything else than just advice = )


And to Jakk , yeah , I know - i wrote essay again. xD

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