Wonder how come no ppl posted this topic here? it is now the hottest topic in singapore!

"My friend once taught me... In order to check if your husband has been unfaithful, check his number of condoms. Sounds a little "aunty", but I went ahead and counted anyway.
A while ago I counted 12, now there is only 2 left."

Poor Pontian Girl Yuki.... I couldn't help but tear upon reading this so called diary entries..it makes me wonder too..why sometimes love can be so vulnerable..Yuki be brave..he's just not worth it as he doesnt know how to treat you right..you definitely deserve someone better!

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Episode 1- The episode where I end my life.

05.07.2011
After 2 years of courtship and pakto, I was lucky to have you as my boyfriend. We have no problem blending into each other life. Have a very good relationship with your family, the day has come. The most important of my life. You have chosen this important day to propose to me. I remember this date very well as it is the Singapore election date. You have invited my family, close friends to witness the wedding proposal. What a surprise and this day is the day I will not forget such a sweet memories.

20.08.2011
I promise myself this year is going to be the my last day as a single lady. We went to Desaru for a romantic night looking at the firefly around us. Thank you Alvin for arranging such night.

10.09.2011
First time introducing our parent to each other official. The parents agreed our wedding date on the 16.06.2012.

11.2011
Road trip to Melaka. Made a Kebaya for our wedding because your comes from mother peranakan family. Looking forward for my long awaited wedding.

29.01.2012
I really enjoy the process of preparing our wedding although there are some arguments along the way. But i believe we can always learn to compromise and compliment each others. You told me previously that you will be very busy after you transferred into a new department. You asked me whether can you transfer to Hongkong after marriage, as a wife I will fully support you career advancement.

01.02.2012
Chinese new year season. You cleaned your room so that I can move in my things to your house anytime. I am so excited as the day I become Mrs Yang is coming very soon

10.02.2012
You brought your parents family to my hometown Pontian to officially propose to my mother.

17.02.2012
Attended the church pre-wedding camp for three days. Looking forward for this camp as the day we started our relationship is on Christmas. I always think you are the gift from God. We further confirmed our decision to get married after attended this camp and will cherish our love more each day

27.02.2012
My friend Alston proposed for a join honeymoon together. Happily I shared his idea to you. but without asking my opinion you rejected harshly unlike other time where we always discuss. I realize you are losing your patience and losing your temper on me easily these days. Perhaps due to your work stress?

11.03.2012
This is the day the girl officially appeared in our relationship between Yuki and Alvin. You are the best man of your good friend Denson’s wedding. ZR is the brides maid

18.03.2012
We are arranging for our wedding schedule as the wedding is less than 3 months away. You told me any arrangement is fine except 07.04.2012 as you are busy. Why busy? You gave me a lame reason saying that your good friend Denson’s mother in law ask you to organize a surprise birthday party for Denson. Of all people, Denson’s mother in law ask you…. hmmph…..
I asked why Denson mother in law ask you to organize such party while you should be busy about your wedding. You kept quiet.
I asked can I go to the party. You kept quiet.
I knew something wrong, went up and cried. I knew you are hiding something. From this day onwards you have been giving lies to me such as telling me you are working late, busy etc.

01.04.2012
I am trying different wedding gown in the bridal house for our pre-wedding photo shoot. During the pre-wedding photoshoot I can see you playing with SMS/Whatsapp all the time which is unlike the normal you
We have a Salsa dancing shot in the pre wedding video. However you scolded me very harshly because I could not remember the steps. Felt extremely down because I only learnt less than 2 months and lack of practice. We are lack of practice because you are too busy to practice with me and you knew it.
I have learnt compromise each other and said ”Dear, on our wedding day, if I dance badly, can you please don’t scold me so harshly?”

10.04.2012
My friend asked me to share how we met and our wedding preparation process. I told them with joy but broke down into tears in the toilet. My instinct told me that there is something not right. You said your boss told you to think twice before getting married as we may have changed. To my surprise after your boss told you this you asked me to reconsider whether should we get married

11.04.2012
My sister and future brother in law Dobby and Shaun and myself are having lunch with you near your office. You broke your temper to me suddenly. Broking down to tears, Dobby and Shaun comfort me that perhaps you are too stressed up with work

12.04.2012 – this is the day
After so many days of quarrel you called me to date me for dinner. Bought flower and chocolate to your room for a little surprise. As I need to do some work, I on your computer and found a love letter from ZR to you.

<<Love letter from ZR>>
From: ZR
Sent: 05 April 2012 23:23
To: Yang, Alvin: Operations (SGP)
Subject: Baby love
Hi Baby,
Thank you for the wonderful day. Just 14 hours ago, you were at my place. picking me for a start of a wonderful day.
Ive been to so many theme parks. With so many people. I've never bought a thing cause I never felt it was worth it.
But today I wanted something so badly that I walked into practically every shop which I usually wont either, in search for something anything that I could bring home and be reminded of you.
I wanted the drawing of us badly. Very badly that I turned back and look at the spot even after we walked away.
I never held a hand so tightly before, wishing and hoping that I never had to let go. Never had I been so emotional, I scared myself.
I guess you are different.
Love,
Darling
>>>>>>
14 Mar 2012

I was stunned looking at the love letter. Not knowing what to do and is only 1 hour away from our date, I forget about this love letter and proceed to enjoy the dinner with you.

After the dinner I proposed to have a walk by the beach. I learnt in the pre wedding camp that we should always forgive each other and cherish our love together. I apologize to you as I may have lose some temper on you. you kept quiet.

Suddenly you broke the silence by saying that you want to break up and cancel our wedding which is 2 months from now.
I cried and beg you not to make such decision. I even forgot all about the love letter in your computer.

You rejected me harshly and firmly. You told me that love and marriage is not your main priority. You want to focus on career. You forgotten how you have proposed to me.

I could not stand anymore and mentally collapse. I lost control and jumped into the sea without any hesitate. After jumping I realize that there is no water where I jumped and injured myself by rocks by the sea.

You did not comfort me but scolded me harshly AGAIN that I threaten you by committing suicide. Can you imagine how I felt that time? I lose all hope in life.

I cried and beg you to understand my feeling. You said this and I could never forget this.

“I knew my parents will be very sad and very disappointed with my decision. I still insist on this, it is impossible for me to consider about your feeling”

You have completely ignore me….
Alvin Yang, you are too selfish and cruel. I am completely collapse and disappointed. Words could not express my feeling that time. I do not know how to face you, face the world. The only thing that comes to my mind is death…..

I swam to the sea and do not intend to come back anymore. You did not come chase me back.
You thought I threaten you again.

After sometime you finally swam and wants to catch me back. However our distance is very far away. You cried and beg me to come back by I really lose hope in life at that particular moment. You shouted that it is so deep and you could not feel the base of the sea, I soft hearted and concern about your safety I swam back.

I was so calm that time. You were very panicked. You even hit me hard at my neck as I am trying to pull you back to the shore. So hard that I almost got choked by you.

We are back at the shore and we agree to have 2 weeks to think clearly on our decision. Not long later my family came by.
I promise you that I will not tell them what happened until you gave me answer. I was badly injured physically and mentally. you do not even dare to look at me when my family come to pick me up.

You has forgotten about your promise and vow when you proposed to me. You said I am the one you love, your fiancé.

2nd Episode - I met with 'Small 3', 'Small 3' hit my sister. We shall see you in court.

< 13.04.2012 >
The day after I jumped into the sea, a friend of mine sent me a SMS, showing you with a skinny girl talking & laughing at Dempsey Dome Cafe, sharing a dessert.
You clearly had no intention of coming to see how were my injuries, instead, you felt time was better spent on that girl.
I immediately rushed out to the living room, and realized that all the windows were shut tight by my family because they know I've been out of control recently and had suicidal thoughts.
They told me that they had already sneaked a peek at my phone and love letters during the morning. Being so worried to the point that they were unable to sleep, constantly checking up on me, afraid that I would do anything silly.

< 15.04.2012 >
For fear of my emotional instability, my family dare not leave me alone at home, and brought me out for breakfast.
At one point, my sister parked the car and got off for a moment, strangely, I started to feel an overwhelming sense of fear, I could hear a hysterical roar telling me there were demons surrounding me in the car.
I frantically banged on the window, wanting my sister to save me. My family freaked out, and immediately brought me to the nearby Holy Trinity church to see the pastor.
He gave me a cross necklace, and then took me to the prayer room to pray.
After I finally calmed down, all of a sudden, I heard a whisper by my ear saying, "Jesus is lying to you, He isn't listening to you".
In a moment of fury, I threw the cross necklace towards (the image/statue of) Jesus, pointed at Him and scolded, "You're lying to me!" before breaking down & crying for a very long time until I got pacified eventually.

< 18.04.2012 >
You reminded me that we are to go to China Club together to celebrate your sister Alicia's birthday (it was supposed to be the tasting day for our wedding banquet at the hotel), where I would be eating with your family.
My sister Dobby assured me that it'll be fine.
When your father asked me about my injuries, I simply said I got injured while chasing after a little girl who almost fell into the sea.
That night, you put your arms gently around me, was it to put on a show for your family? Or was it because you truly cared for me?
I saw a half-finished can of herbal tea left in your car. I know you don't drink that kind of herbal tea, and it took a while for me to realize that it was deliberately left behind by her.

< 23.04.2012 >
You took ZR to work this morning, around 12PM she came over to your office's vicinity to have lunch. You asked me out for dinner during the afternoon.
(You sure are quick to act, calling me out for a date just after having lunch with her. Is it because you've finished discussing (with her) on how to deal with me, and is now anxious to treat me to one last extravagant dinner in order to bid me farewell?)
I'm afraid to see you, so afraid that I'm shivering all over, I need Dobby to bring me to church immediately for me to pray to God to give me the wisdom and courage to face you.
Once I got into the car, I saw another remnant of hers, a half-finished can of fruit juice which you've never bought before.
We went to my favorite Japanese restaurant for dinner and fetched me home after that. Just before we were about to reach my house, you finally broke the silence saying; you will notify your parents about our decision to cancel the wedding, which is also tantamount to a break up (no room for negotiation).
I insisted on meeting your parents for a discussion together.
After reaching home, you told your parents; because of many disagreements while planning for the wedding, as well as the many quarrels we had, you do not wish to marry me anymore.
(But in actual fact, didn't we only had small arguments every now and then which passed quickly? Didn't you praise me in front of your friends saying that I'm an independent bride who knows how to handle matters by herself?)
Your father felt it was natural for a couple to have small arguments while planning for weddings, and that it isn't reason enough for such a serious decision of cancelling the wedding itself.
After you and your father had your discussion privately in a room, he came out saying, "My son is no longer the same"...
He said that whatever problems between us doesn't matter, what's really important is whether there is any love left between the both of us.
Even if the outcome isn't perfect, we must deal with it as thoroughly as possible. (No regrets/lingering affections)
Your father wants us to accept counselling and continue trying our best to reconcile, not just giving up so easily.

That night, ZR posted on Twitter; "I can finally sleep well. Because Alvin has finally told his parents about his decision of cancelling the wedding."
My good friends have also helped me find some evidence of your secret rendevous with her:

04.04.2012 - You went to Abaccus Toastbox near ZR's office to have lunch together.
07.04.2012 - You drove your father's car to fetch ZR and went to the eastern holiday bungalow to celebrate Denson's birthday.
08.04.2012 - You drove your father's car again in the morning to fetch ZR for breakfast, and then fetched me to Momo & Moomoo's Easter family lunch
gathering.
11.04.2012 - You brought her to Raffles Starbucks @ Liat Towers early in the morning for breakfast, you even gave her a bouquet of sunflowers which
you've never liked from the start. Flower Man : Ginger Bread Man. (?)
Alvin... 11.04.2012 is the day you started to become her Ginger Bread Man!!!
19.04.2012 - You took her to Paradise Dynasty @ Ion for dinner.
21.04.2012 - Both of you had steak at Taka's Angus Steak House.
22.04.2012 - You deliberately did not mention to me about cousin Hui Han's afternoon birthday party, yet had the heart to send ZR photos of the dishes your mom cooked.
30.04.2012 - Your parents already know about 'Small 3', everyone has decided not to openly accuse/point fingers at you. That is why you haven't the slightest clue that I've been keeping quiet about it by your side for more than three months; trying hard to restore your heart, while enduring the days you've been cheating on me.

< 04.05.2012 >
You told me you wanted to meet me and talk things over, I said to meet at your place. I deliberately dressed myself up a little and cooked dinner, awaiting your return.

Yuki: I hope you will cherish our 2 years plus relationship, is it because a third party caused our feelings to run aground? (I boldly asked, so that I could forgive you after you confess.)
Alvin: No. Our feelings started to become unstable 3 months ago, I then realized that I could lead a very happy life even without you.
Yuki: Maybe you don't like the wedding, not because you don't love me?
Alvin: I agree that might be the case. I'm a soft-hearted person that is why I didn't say it was my fault back then. (?)
Even now, I am still soft-hearted, why don't we try giving ourselves a "trial period" of 1 month? Treat it as me being selfish, to free myself from any possible regrets.
Yuki: I do not wish to lose myself in order to appease you, if I do not perform well enough for you within this 1 month period, I risk getting thrown away by you at any time, it's as if you're forcing me onto a tight rope where I could slip and fall at any moment, causing my heart to be shattered into tiny fragments.
Would you be afraid of losing me?
Alvin: I wouldn't! (My heart already shattered upon hearing this, if that's the case, what more do you want to "try"?)
Yuki: Instead of making you unhappy, I decided to give up on that "1 month trial period", I want you to be free and happy... I hope you will be happier than me.
Alvin: *Hearing this, he actually jumped out of bed, kneeled down in front of me, held my hands tightly with tears on his face and said;
You really don't even want the "1 month trial period" I'm giving you? Are you sure? (I am very disappointed that you actually gave me this kind of answer.)
Yuki: If after breaking up, will you easily fall in love with another woman?
Alvin: *Shakes his head and in a serious manner, said;
No. (My heart is crying, because you're still lying, fool, I already know of her existence.)

We then continued chatting til dawn, you hugged me tightly and cried with sadness & pain while we reminisce on our past.
At this point, we had actually returned to our former affectionate selves, you just didn't realize it.

< 05.05.2012 >
All this while, I've always gave you 200% of my trust, this is the first time I couldn't help but check your alternate phone.
I was shocked to see you have saved ZR's birthday on 06.06, and also a text from her that read: "Just nice one month!".
I came to a sudden realization, so both of you were only trying to use the "1 month trial period" to get rid of me.
So you were only trying to create the false impression that: "We've tried to reconcile for a month, but it still didn't work out.", so that you have a good reason to break up with me as well as an excuse to tell your family & friends.
Is this the birthday present you're preparing in advance for her?
I am requesting for a trial period extending til my birthday at the end of August, even if you go to work they would give you a trial of 3 months. I don't think I'm asking for too much.
Last year, I announced on my birthday that 2011 would be the last birthday I would be single on, do you want me to spend my birthday this year alone?
In the end, ZR sent you a text at 3:44PM during the afternoon, calling you a big fat liar.

In just 1 week of my absence in your car, my seat has been adjusted, and the car is filled of different kinds of snacks you don't usually eat, but what shocked me the most was finding a dress in the boot that belonged to neither me, nor your mother, nor your sister!
Is ZR trying to declare war in my territory? Why must she deliberately leave evidence to let me know of her presence?
Your father revealed to me that on 03.05.12, your parents actually went to ZR's office demanding to see both of you.
They questioned the both of you about the couple tables (?) you two have, and also reminded ZR that we are engaged and to be married in 2 months' time, hoping the both of you would keep a distance.
ZR's reply was: "Uncle, Aunty, I already have a very good boyfriend, the watch was given to me by him from Boston as a gift. I cherish our relationship a lot. I know Alvin is getting married, I have also gotten his wedding invitation. We are only good friends.".

< 06.05.2012 >
Today is our proposal anniversary, while I'm silently counting down, I really wanted to remind you... but at the stroke of midnight, I was interrupted by a phone call from ZR.
You panicked in front of me, and quickly tried to shoo her off by telling her you were with your girlfriend, then hung up the phone.
I got very disappointed, but still told you: "My love, happy anniversary. I hope you still remember that we're still in love, that you'll remember why you wanted to marry me in the first place. I love you."
Just before getting off the bus, I held back my tears to tell you: "I am your fiancee, not your girlfriend. Do take care."

< 08.05.2012 >
We agreed on celebrating our anniversary. I suggested going to Mount Fable JewelBox for dinner, but in the end you took me to the Katong Shopping Center nearby my house for Shabu-Shabu.
I knew you weren't being sincere about it, but I'm very content with just being able to celebrate together.
We took some photos which you forbid me from posting to Facebook. You then fetched me home at 10PM.

< 11.05.2012 >
We went to the hotel with your father to delay the wedding until the end of the year: 07.12.2012.
We decided to use your aunt's illness as an excuse, and notified all who were invited.
I felt bad to use your aunt's illness as an excuse, what if we really won't get married, wouldn't all responsibilites fall on her then? Why let your dear aunt carry your responsibilities?

< 12.05.2012 >
Suddenly received a SMS from a friend, telling me she & her boyfriend saw you & ZR having dinner at Mount Fable JewelBox. She didn't want to tell me this initially, because she knew our wedding was just one month away.
I was flabbergasted, wasn't that the place I suggested going for our anniversary celebration that day?
I couldn't take it anymore and asked you at night: "Is there really no third party?" You said: "No." I asked: "Do you really have the intention to save our relationship?" You told me: "Yes, I still want to try... but on one condition - you are not to spend the night at my place anymore." (You have the nerves to tell me this condition, even an idiot can tell this is a condition you & ZR came up with.)

< 13.05.2012 >
We celebrated Mothers' Day for your mother at Momo & Moomoo.

< 17.05.2012 >
My ex-boyfriend Joe asked me out for a cup of coffee, he asked whether there were any problems on our relationship because you sent him an email asking him to introduce the Toyota marketing job to a girl named 'Zonia Raymond'.
You actually asked my ex-boyfriend to help find a job for your new lover's sister?
Joe scolded me for being foolish and not telling anyone about this matter, suffering silently. I cried in front of him. I felt you've made me so ashamed of myself, so full of grief.
To think Joe once blessed me: "I feel very relieved and happy for you for being able to meet such a man who knows how to cherish you!"
He tried to console me, saying that you might just be momentarily infatuated with her. Cheering me on.

< 18.05.2012 >
I disregarded our initial agreed time of 10PM, and waited for you at your house.
You went to have dinner with ZR who has just returned from Thailand. You had a shock when you saw me in your room. I said I wanted to have a drink with you. You flustered and impatiently told me to go home quickly after drinking.
I said I'll be spending the night here since tomorrow morning we'll be going to Pontian (Malaysia) to visit my mother.
All of a sudden, you shouted at me: "Didn't I warn you that you're not to spend the night at my house? I want my privacy, leave immediately or I shall sleep downstairs." (Are you telling your fiancee that she is forbidden to take one step inside the house you once said would bring her fortune & happiness?)
Words cannot possibly describe my emotions at that time, my self-esteem has been completely crushed under your feet. My mind went blank. I bitterly uttered to you, "This is your room, I should be the one to sleep downstairs.".

Feeling extremely lost & helpless, I called up my sister Dobby who was in Vietnam. She got very worried and immediately informed your parents to take care of me.
Just when your father was in the middle of consoling me, you changed your clothes and rushed out of the house.
Your father tried to stop you, but not only did you ignore him, you even scolded him not to intervene in your business!
I chased after you and asked if you hated me. You said no, you only wanted freedom & privacy, you wanted your personal space! (Which is what I'm trying to ask, are you hating me for standing in-between you and ZR?)

I'm tired, both my body & mind are already critically injured.
I also can't bear to tell your father about the incident where I jumped into the sea, as well as all the cruel words you've said to me.

< 19.05.2012 >
I ignored you in the morning, went to the car dealership to sell my car, because I fell apart several times while driving which nearly caused me to have accidents, and this worried my family.
After selling the car and reaching back to your house, I saw an unforgettable scene.
Your mother's eyes were red and swollen, it was apparent that she had been crying all night. I felt heart-broken. While I was consoling her, she told me your father needs to be consoled more than she does. I really couldn't stand watching this happening.
When I went to meet your father, he was in a melancholic mood, writing a letter to his son. He hopes to rekindle the father-son relationship you both once had, and hopes his kind & lovely son would regain consciousness.

< 21.05.2012 >
You dad handed the letter to you, in order to express his dissatisfaction towards your behaviour he has refused to talk to you.
It pains me to know that our marriage is breaking your family bonds apart.

< 26.05.2012 >
You came to my house early in the morning to fetch me to Pontian, and you suddenly changed your mind, telling me that you will tell my mother that the wedding delay is due to problems in our relationship instead of using your aunt as an excuse.
In fact, you are actually quite afraid to face my mother.

Strangely, after entering my house, you changed your mind yet again and used your aunt as an excuse afterall.
But it went well, and my family were quite supportive of the decision to delay the wedding until 07.12.2012.
Although my mother was disappointed, she had no choice but to understand and accept your decision.
All of a sudden, mom broke into tears and said to you:
"I'm old with heart disease, I have no idea how much longer I have left. If I'm not fortunate enough to see both my daughters' marriage, I just want you to remember you once said you would take care of her (Yuki), love her, and give her happiness.".

That night, Dobby sent me a SMS, telling me that mother had long knew about everything.
Just that, the rest of the family told her not to lecture you because we are still in the midst of restoring our feelings. So as to avoid giving us unnecessary pressure and increasing the rift between us.
Mother was constantly calling up my sisters to check on my status, she longed to come to Singapore in order to see me but was stopped by my sisters because they wanted me to concentrate on restoring our love.
Upon hearing this, my heart felt sour. To think my efforts... caused so much grief in the family, especially my elderly mother. I feel very guilty.

< 23.05.2012 (?) >
We stayed home to celebrate your mother's birthday.

< 27.05.2012 >
Your father and I had a chat in his study. He told me he already treats me as his future daughter-in-law.
Sometimes, even if it's his own son who has done wrong, he will not be biased in favor of him. Your grandfather is also the same.
He wishes for us to try our best to maintain our relationship. I feel very touched to know that your father has already wholly accepted me as part of the family. But what about you?

My friend once taught me... In order to check if your husband has been unfaithful, check his number of condoms. Sounds a little "aunty", but I went ahead and counted anyway.
A while ago I counted 12, now there is only 2 left.

< 04.06.2012 >
Early in the morning, some foreign friends called to ask why the marriage event on Facebook got suddenly cancelled. Wasn't it only a delay? Aren't the both of you still in the midst of restoration? Why were there no news of this? Why were the invitation pages deleted?
I've completely overlooked my friends.
Is this the best birthday present for ZR you can come up with through actions?

< 05.06.2012 >
Your father originally wanted to have a talk with ZR again, but the more he thought about it, the angrier he got. He feels she isn't fit to talk to your parents, and it'd feel demeaning.
He said it's okay to let Dobby & Shaun be their representatives.
When I asked if it was okay to confront ZR myself, as the fiancee, they assured me I definitely have every rights to do that, but reminded me not to take any physical actions no matter what in order to avoid any possible lawsuits.

I was sent home around 11PM.They did not know I've actually took several sleeping pills with red wine, my family got shocked once again.

Shaun & Dobby knew I was very saddened by the fact that you're going to celebrate ZR's birthday with her, they angrily decided to go down to ZR's house to tell her parents that she is destroying our marriage.
They only managed to relay the message through the intercom in the hall to ZR's parents, they said they will look into the matter by clarifying with their daughter.

06.06.2012－ZR的生日〉你先是对我说昨晚你在朋友家喝酒很醉了所以没回家。过了一会应该是你收到Shaun和Dobby上门找人的事而大发脾气。你不断地传了很多辱骂我和我家人的简讯。我读着你骂我的每一句话，我的心真的伤透了。为什么做错事的是你，被辱骂的是我？最后一句：我没欠你任何解释，我们到此为止！ Bye！（一个Bye就解决我了？） 你在FB把你的Engaged status拿掉。因为是ZR的生日吧。
07.06.2012〉早上，Shaun他们联络上了ZR的男友VS让我和他交谈。他一开口就一直和我道歉，说对不起没提早知会我关于你的出轨。他从没买过那支手表给ZR。他发现ZR在他们三年的感情里“又再次”背叛他，而且这次是即将结婚的男人。是他提出分手的。可能我们两个都是受害者，只说了几句话我就聊不下去，哭得无法再说话了。

ZR的母亲与shaun的电话.
ZR 母亲：（很激动的口气）你不要诬赖我的女儿，我的家教很严的。我已经问过她。他们是通过Denson和Jing认识的。他们现在只是朋友。Alvin告诉我女儿，他和未婚妻YUKI的感情在去年十二月就出现问题了。Alvin已经和我通过电话，他说他会摆平叫我不用担心。
Shaun：Alvin 和Yuki本来16.06.2012要结婚了你们知道吗？
ZR母亲：Hmm..不知道，现在听你说才知道。
Shaun：那么说你们见过Alvin 了？
ZR母亲：hmm...erh...没有。
Shaun: 现在Alvin那样对Yuki，你们还能接受他？
ZR母亲：现在当然不行，hmm...但是半年后就很难说了，将来的事谁能担保？
Shaun: VS现在还和ZR在一起吗？
ZR母亲：hmm...我不知道。但我对V很失望，为什么他会和你们这种人交谈来往？

13.06.2012〉我在家人的鼓励和陪同下，决定和ZR谈谈。他约我们在咖啡厅见面。她带了一位同事随行。才发现这同事Melvin是和Dobby认识多年的好朋友。他直接说：我也是男人，如果是我偷吃弄到这种局面我就应该在这里解决问题。今天在这里的男人应该不是我。（我非常同意Melvin的说法。）
我们和ZR的谈话内容：
Dobby：为什么Alvin 没来？
ZR：我叫他一起来的，但他说他来了会更乱。叫我和你们谈就行了。（没有种的男人）
Dobby：你为什么要破坏别人的感情？
ZR：我没有。
Dobby： 你不准看（指着ZR），她把情书交给了Melvin看，Melvin读了直摇头。
Dobby把我们的婚照放在ZR面前，她低着头不敢看。
Dobby：我很期待Alvin下来保护你的，就好像以前他保护我姐姐一样。可惜他没有。
Yuki：为什么缠着我未婚夫不放？
ZR：都说了好多遍，我们只是好朋友.而且在你的家人找上门后我们就没见面了。Yuki对你自己有点自信好吗？
Yuki：朋友为什么买情侣表？
ZR：（眼睛不断打转）哦。。。这其实不是情侣表，是我,Alvin 和Jing三人一起买的。
Yuki：那为什么骗Alvin 父母是你男友VS送的？
ZR: Oh...是Alvin要我这么说的。是他要我说谎的。
Yuki：你确定是三人买三支吗？还要再编谎话吗？我有证据证明真相你知道吗？
ZR：担心。。。不敢答。
Yuki：为什么经常坐我未婚夫的车？
ZR： 他只是载我去Studio拍照而已。（你是谁？）
Yuki：你为什么明知道他要结婚了，还一直和他约会？
ZR：是他一直来找我的。（你不自动他是订婚的男人吗？）
Yuki：为什么那么阴险要放东西在他车上给我看？
ZR： Oh。。。我们很多朋友都有坐过他的车，东西不是我一个人的。
Yuki：你以为我现在才知道你的存在吗？你不是第一天就想要我找到你吗？你不知道我是你的粉丝有在FOLLOW你吗？
ZR：哑口无言。。。
Yuki：小妹妹，你最好学会保护你自己当我以为Alvin会敢敢在这里保护你，但证明他没胆，我问什么你最好老实的回答我。我在这里不是陪你玩的。
ZR：静静。。。眼珠打转。
Yuki：我一早就可以找你对峙，但我没这么做是因为我希望Alvin自己可以反省，觉悟，让他做出自己的选择。（还不公平吗？）大家都是成年人所以我想用文明的方式来处理。 但你为什么一直缠着他不放？
ZR：我们真的只是朋友，见面吃饭而已。
Yuki：你还在演戏？这么会演为什么当Blogger干脆去当演员你一定红。你要自己老实说还是要我把这事公开在网络你才一一对网民解释？
ZR：她的表情有点担心了。
Yuki：你知道我们的婚期延迟到年底吗？
ZR：我知道，Alvin有告诉我。（你们还真要好，我想Alvin很多好朋友都不知道吧）
Yuki：我明白他可能会犯错。那为什么当他已回头答应修补我们的感情的时候，你还是不肯放手？一直拉着他？
ZR：我没有，我不知道你们在修补。 （你很废话，知道我们延迟婚礼不知道我们在修补?)
Dobby：Alvin对我姐姐是一见钟情。他带你约会的地方都带我姐姐和我家人去过。所以我们知道你们去哪里。
ZR马上不打自招的澄清：我的新床单是我自己买的，我有做工我付得起，Ok?（我们有问你床单吗？）
Dobby: By the way想告诉你Incase你不知道 ，不要一直抱着那姜饼人Ginger Bread Man拍那么多照向Alvin示爱，很丑很恶心。乖，那玩具收起来好吗？（说真的，我同意，我听了在偷笑）
ZR一脸的尴尬。
Yuki：是不是你主动先勾引Alvin?
ZR: 你需要说到那么难听吗？你应该去问Alvin.
Yuki：我再一次问你,是你先主动吗？
ZR: 我们有必要解释这个问题吗？
Yuki：当然有必要，因为这问题是代Alvin父母和我自己问的，因为Alvin在我们心目中不会是这样的人。她一向来很乖，但在认识你之后整个人一夜间就变了。他的父母无法接受，我也一样！这全都是因为你介入而引起的！你们第一次的犯错我能原谅，但我不能明白，你明知道这个女人在受到打击自杀了，过后努力挽救她的婚姻，你为什么还是要抢？
ZR：我不知道你自杀！
Yuki：你敢说你不知道！！！你有良心吗？这样的你在他旁边都安心的睡得下？
ZR静着不敢反驳了。我说着就着流泪了。。。
Yuki：你认为身为他的未婚妻（出式我的钻戒），我现在不能一巴掌打你吗？肯定没人敢拉住我，因为你本来就该打！而且我YUKI如果要打人，我会MAKE SURE我把你打到趴在地上爬。为什么我没这么做？就因为我们都是女人。女人不打女人，女人不伤女人。你明白吗? 你不觉得自己歉我一个对不起吗？
ZR: 对不起咯。（没歉疚的口气）
Yuki：今天你遇到的是我，你在这样下去总有一天会遇到比我疯狂，比我狠的女人来收拾你。你要做第三者你就要做好准备随时走在街上让人打骂．
ZR: （她很不爽了）我相信如果你们的感情够牢固，没人可以动摇你们呀。
Dobby受不了的回答：我想你还是听不懂我姐姐在教你什么，要你明白什么。
我：Ok, 你等着瞧，这些证据我会收着，今天你说你们之间没什么，那我就等到你们正式在一起的那天我才帮你们公布你的丑事。（这样你们就不用躲了）
ZR：有需要这样吗？我说对不起，OK?
我：静而不答
ZR：Ok, Ok该说的都说了，还有什么要说吗？ 没有我就走了。
当ZR走开时，姐姐们问我为什么就这样放过她？我只能无奈的说她都已经默认了，我还能怎样？如果我打她我的品格和行为就会像她一样很低级。我打她她就可以在Alvin面前扮可怜再捅我一刀，何必呢？
说完我就和Dobby, Shaun走向停车场。当时我脑子已一片空白，过后在停车场哭泣得不能自我。直问自己连ＺＲ都敢认了，我该接受事实你已背叛我了吗？
姐姐JN不服气的去追ZR责问她, 而大肚子的妹妹因为担心姐姐JN冲动做错事而追了上去。姐姐JN骂ZR什么不好做，做第三者，破坏别人婚姻。
相信ZR已被激怒了,说时快那时快，当她转身的时候我大肚子妹妹手中的咖啡失手泼在ZR 的身上。而ZR已伸手愤怒的打了姐姐JN一巴掌。JN整个人被突如其来的一巴掌打得愣住了。反而ZR还想再冲上前再打我姐姐。幸亏Melvin拉着ZR，有个路人经过劝说拉住了我姐姐。不然她们一定会打起来的。
我接到电话赶到现场才知道被打的是我姐姐而不是小三。身心灵都已疲备的我还要亲眼看着姐姐的脸被打得脸颊红肿发烫,在大庭广众下当众被小三羞辱。我好心疼的抚住姐姐的脸。我们都好心酸的忍不住相拥而泣。后来姐姐去看医生，也报警备了案。

For ending, pls refer to the fb link above. True story altot it is very dramatic. ZR never come out defend herself. Heard that the guy work as analyst in Barclays, richfag...

This post has been edited by fon: Dec 19 2012, 10:20 PM

things happen, and it's normal for this gen, suxky gen it is

TDL;DR

Why so kecoh?? So many fish in the sea. Why get so upset on unfaithful boyfriend?? You should be lukcy you didn't marry him.

damn tl;dr

most TL:DR in k\ history, no?

the power of love

Wtf so whats the ending u madafakka ts

If got drillz of the chick's pic then diff story

TLDFR

take your wall of text and go dai

aiyo, that kind of man, just beat the crap out of him la...so indecisive, mcb

summary pls

drama queen. nothing to die over.

Take a look at her photos. Probably bf had long thoughts about his life before commuting to her.

You guys should really see her blog. The facial expression is .

Alamak... It's Zoey... I know her ... creepy gal in real life.... one of my work contact clients...


Kinda bimbo, they bring her to meeting as a vase/decoration only.

I don't understan. He is not gonna make u happy, yuki. How can u believe he won't cheat at your back. Do dump him and find a guy will take care of you.

i was like WTFFFFFF

same expression every DAMN picture wei

summary

want to cheong.. dont use home stock condom.. buy new one at 7 11

http://zoniaraymond.blogspot.com/

i can't believe i read the wall of text

TFL;DFR

lulz, i read all. sad for her

Zonia Raymond her sister.. they both have damn unique name, type in google, come out first page first post

summary pls

TL;DR
ctrl+F, search for condoms

> Singaporean
;DR

why the wedding ws cancel ???? TS come up with summary lar

GOD HELP ME. I literally terperanjat when saw this pic. OMG!

Reminds me of the "smiley" horror movie.

too long didnt read

*lol* looks like the ZR and the Alvin Yang dude are colleagues.


I know exactly where they work... *lmfao*

I think this ZR girl holds a position of influence in his workplace that could help elevate his career in that company.. Hmmm..

Looks like she just removed her braces...

dammit cant believe i read through it all. fcuk u TS

anyway, i feel sorry for her but at d same time i think she's really got to come to grips with the fact that he doesnt love her no more. she needs to find the courage to walk away.

quote for future reference

some kind soul farking summarise this shitty tldr pls.

sometime yuki, you need to ask yourself, why your husband cant satisfy with you only. Does he deserve being shame like this? you are ruining a man career and life! You post all in the web just because he is unfaithful. Do you expect he will faithful to you forever if you cant satisfy him. Like I said b4, men love women more than women love men. Men can love many women, but women wont love any men. We are genetic to wanna piap women...you wanna change men genetic, ask God 1st..

Guys, becareful of choosing gf, later anything wrong, she blame you for anything although you give more than take.

This post has been edited by maple_leaf: Dec 19 2012, 10:29 PM

actually i wanna read more of zr blog, but i cannot bear the look of her smile. god damn.

Such a sad sad story

The one who causes so much pain and suffering to a girl is always some lelaki jahanam.

http://www.lukeyishandsome.com/2012/12/of-...affair.html?m=1

1. couple engage
2. guy cheat on her
3. she found out who d 3rd party
4. she tahan his attitude knowingly he cheat on her
5. try commit suicide few times
6. his family side her (own father dont want talk to son)
7. to be continued...

wait, the jantan hensem o not?? since we know what the chick looks like.

June 23 is long gone man, did they get married??

One week ago I saw on Facebook, 7 or 8 relationship, a police married another girl(policewomen), which the night before his and another policewomen wedding, he still slept at the victim house .. happening in HongKong

tldr

hot topic for gossip aunty like ts.

hmmm.....cutie looks,slant eyes, paleskin

mana gambarnya pondan??

Y u sooooooooo.......


hmmmmm click th fb link derrr

This post has been edited by nikita zuleica: Dec 19 2012, 10:38 PM

singapore : macam macam ada

why everybody focus their anger to Zoe and not Alvin instead?

what is it so interesting about this btch? not even pretty
breakup pun nak kecoh sampai luar negara?

go fck yourself

Kinda funny to see how typical /k/tards would react by just listening to a story from 1 side.

Remember the Amanda Fong case? At first so many /k/tards are bashing her husband and ended up finding out the real story on both sides. Then /k/tards decides to bash Amanda back.

Typical /k/ is typical.

Oh yea btw, Amanda Fong do admit all of that was just a lie in the end. And she continue to live her life as if nothing happens.

This post has been edited by AceKendy: Dec 19 2012, 10:40 PM

we juz follow the flow

wow, somehow yer description of the guy are spot-on.. congrats.

damn this zoe family like very rich oni dinner place all highclass..damn why i poor

I saw she wrote a diary. For me, it so hypocrite,
how come a girl, with a kinda tolerant, pure heart, sympathy will post all her things in website?
She can wrote manipulate diary, everyone can do that..
then post in the web. See...what is the real motive?
Is she want to educate people, she no need to post his ex bf photo, wedding, diary etc..if she really want educate, just create a fb for men dont cheat....we accept that, any agenda behind, then baru private tell people. No need to public tell others. I guess his husband go everywhere in Singapore, everyone also know him.
This is the real motive of her.
Guys, women are scary, I advise you all choose gf wisely. Else just go piap prostitute than wasting thousand of dollar just to get her heart, ending up being scold and atm machine.
If you want children, go get one in Orphanage home.
I think in the future, there is a service for orphange adoption.
Where girl will help born baby simply for sell? Will this. LOL, I know is cruel but might happen.

she was going to get married.

wedding cancelled.

this is fact.

nothing new but lucky guy get to piap piap with 2 leng loois

cheers

apa ini taik?

my GOD! LONG TEXT!

Like Long cat.

Punyaaaaaaaaaaaaa panjang..

i thout xiaxue

Triangle love story >> Twilight story

AMARAN: TEMBOK PERKATAAN

tl:dr version

guy found a better girl, the gf rage and open blog

fuh cant belip i read the whole wall of text

i thought zonia is better looking than zoey. wanna ditch also ditch for zonia la.

i memang from the start bash that slut amanda. just that people here keep calling me masochist lol. but this case, i memang side the poor girl. woman is always the source of all trouble one. this one also not excluded.

then i must be faithful.

zero condoms worn.

ohwai.....

tell her forum member saport her.

I know how it felt..broken into pieces and start to mend ur own. How many chances and times given..yeah..tough love yo..

Hot topic because someone got emotionally stressed? Last I remember, it happens everyday. Jesus, get moving people, nothing to see here.

if dun want get cheated go find one foreveralone in /k and marry

with that kind of prospect. that foreveralone guy will be so overjoy he will never cheat on u

tl;dr la.

consider herself lucky, she didn't marry. those married with children lagi kesian.

so this is what happen to Alvivian. oh wait, wrong couple.
doubt it. they would still find pros.

This post has been edited by LamboSama: Dec 19 2012, 11:37 PM

too effing long mang

imagine if you know the marriage is going to suck but you soldier through anyway because calling it off is too much work.

If she tell the stories here by herself.. she'll get Padan Muka, STFU, drillz mana pondan, so u banggala etc etc

ALVIN?

So how it ends?
Any suicide?

junky man at its best

Aiyah ... I pity her, but she should just accept it and move on. No point hanging on such lousy guy ...

In return,
a) pretend to wanting to get back with him, keep clinging onto him and don't let go;
b) do your best to destroy their relationship. Ex, get a used condom with cum in it put in his car, in his house, then arrange such that ZR will see it; pretend to love him a lot in front of ZR; keep sending love messages; leave evidence that you're still together to piss ZR off;
c) when they break up, then you can dump Alvin for good. Leave him high and dry. Seduce him but don't satisfy him. On your final attempt when he's high, kick his balls!!
d) when everything is done, shame them publicly and humiliate them on 9gag, internet, newspapers, blogs, facebook, myspace, tumblr and even google+. Destroy them thoroughly, their lives and their career;
e) if you can't break them up, then sabotage their wedding. Put your wedding photos and videos up during the reception instead of their own. Keep spies among their friends. Take pictures of their "illegal" activities and shame them!!

Hell hath no fury like a woman's wrath!!

1st off, thank you to TS, fon for bringing this topic to our attention.

From what i've on the topics so far, thanks to the translation by one of Yuki's friend [correction needed here], i'm prolly able to understand a litte of what Ms.Yuki is going through [been there too].

This blogger, whose name is Zoe Raymond, and her sister, another blogger too, Zonia Raymond.

Here's a picture on Miss Yuki, taken from facebook itself, at here



Miss Zoe actually also had a boyfriend named VS, and haven't actually broke up [as said in the story written] and yet she's attaching herself to Mr.Alvin or vice versa and becoz of this, they're tormenting Miss Yuki's feelings.

Oh well, i'm gonna give my support for Miss Yuki in this part, hopefully she's able to overcome through this stage in her life.

女人不打女人，女人不伤女人 --> it means "Women don't hit/attacked/slap/physically abused women [other women], Women don't hurt women [other women]" .. [direct translation from chinese]

This post has been edited by St3ph: Dec 20 2012, 12:06 AM

I rather scroll through long cat than read this.

wah ... the guy really not bad looking oh ..

i actually read everything

same opinion, but has been since criticized by everyone at facebook ..

he has great parents too, understanding and supportive, till to the extend where the parents cried becoz of him, becoz his sudden change. Yet Miss Yuki doesn't blamed the parents for one bit but trying her best to be supportive and understanding. such a great fiance, yet Mr.Alvin .. his perangai macam "tak tau" . .

Hah? I was about to say the opposite. The guy is just so so from my opinion.

The girl attractiveness > the guy. Definitely the girl should level up her preference more.

Now that I saw his pictures on this album, I change my verdict liao ..
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Alvin-Yuki/2...k=photos_stream

He's ok ok lah ... just average.

But yeah, the girl is quite pretty.

That cat story was more moving.

lol at ZR blog, all the photos same smiley face, like cut and paste

Anti Zoe Raymond

The facebook to anti Miss Zoe.



Alvin's the guy with spectacles [middle]

This post has been edited by St3ph: Dec 20 2012, 12:21 AM

any update ? or go where to see the conversation ?

Verdict :Guy is a fckface for not being man enough to just tell the truth to her and ask her to let him go. Siap play behind her. Girl: Also a fckface. Rather be bullied like this and losing her sanity and her life for a fckface like him. Oh wait...its only 2 yrs.

Life goes on like Amanda's story. After all, 21st should be the day we face death, unless He ffk.

i can only say this
he will regret this

the girl so so only lar
n she rally on FB n blog abt her one sided story is bad
bad bad kuda girl