QUOTE(dbkaz @ Dec 12 2012, 10:17 AM)
Ya.. I think somehow, I should love her more than myself..
Letting her go means much more than having her by myside.. She will be much happier..
Anyway.. action speaks louder than words..
Thanks bro and sis..
Shall try the best to letting go.. and I learnt something.. Loving someone is not necessarily to have her..
It's hard.. just damn hard..
Bullsh*t, that's one of the cheesiest norm that love story maker ever invented. You love her, you fight for her until the door is really closed to you *now that parameter is different between people*
I can't relate much my view with your case since I haven't got to know all the necessary part. But there are two things that I believe now about relationahip that I wasn't keen on. First, I gotta say if she cheats on someone for you, it doesn't necessarily mean she'll do the same when she's with you, it might depend on how much you actually mean to her rather than the other person.
Second, there may not be much harms in getting back together with ex, well if it's against somebody's principle then case closed, but if it's not then you might consider. With this experience, couple may already know each other's weaknesses and have dealt with it, they may know how they don't wanna be separated again that in fact the people she/he actually love is one she/he left behind.
Well, at least that's based on mostly my experience and some of my closest friends'. This post has no intention to lift ur expectation up. Just I found while there are such a black and white unwritten laws about relationship, those aren't necessarily true. Relationships may be unique and made up of such specific meaningful details that you can't treat them all with common set of procedures. People makes mistakes and they learn.This post has been edited by alowie: Dec 26 2012, 07:44 AM