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fadlul79
post Nov 11 2012, 01:28 PM


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I be honest to you guys. I join LYN in hope that i might get lucky and get the women that i can fall in love with. I'm in my late 30s. I'm the eldest of 7 siblings, but all my bro and sis except the youngest already married. I'm socialy inept. My social circle is rather small and this limit my chance of getting someone. It's not that there's no girls who like me. But i don,t like any of them and those who i like was already taken or is beyond my reach. So you think it,s okay if i make a try here?

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post Nov 11 2012, 01:30 PM


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post Nov 11 2012, 02:47 PM


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Dated and met a few here. No harm trying but social skills can be learned if you put yourself back into the real world.



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post Nov 11 2012, 03:50 PM


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post Nov 11 2012, 04:42 PM


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post Nov 12 2012, 12:51 AM


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Try Love Classifieds. I previously met a few guys from LYN too (although I'm still ForeverAlone). All the best! smile.gif
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post Nov 12 2012, 08:16 AM


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QUOTE(fadlul79 @ Nov 11 2012, 01:28 PM)
I be honest to you guys. I join LYN in hope that i might get lucky and get the women that i can fall in love with. I'm  in my late 30s. I'm the eldest of 7 siblings, but all my bro and sis except the youngest already married. I'm socialy inept. My social circle is rather small and this limit my chance of getting someone. It's not that there's no girls who like me. But i don,t like any of them  and those who i like was already taken or is beyond my reach. So you think it,s okay if i make a try here?
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PM achik at /k mau? Lelaki who like you mau?


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post Nov 12 2012, 08:57 AM


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QUOTE(fadlul79 @ Nov 11 2012, 02:28 PM)
I be honest to you guys. I join LYN in hope that i might get lucky and get the women that i can fall in love with. I'm  in my late 30s. I'm the eldest of 7 siblings, but all my bro and sis except the youngest already married. I'm socialy inept. My social circle is rather small and this limit my chance of getting someone. It's not that there's no girls who like me. But i don,t like any of them  and those who i like was already taken or is beyond my reach. So you think it,s okay if i make a try here?
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Correct me if I am wrong, I think its due to strong religion and culture that malays emphasis importance of marriage (which is a good one), that makes it easier to find a wife. Unlike most chinese and indians, in contrast, concentrate on making money and establishing their career postpone marriage to later age. This is why chinese and indians, sigh, are struggling with family creation.

I even know a malay guy who is 39, recently divorced, remarry again. Another malay I know, he divorced in his 40s, remarry again. Then on average, most of my malay friends in their 20s are married or attached.

So I don't understand. Why is it so hard for you to find a wife?



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post Nov 12 2012, 09:39 AM


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QUOTE(Alvin330000421 @ Nov 12 2012, 08:57 AM)
Correct me if I am wrong, I think its due to strong religion and culture that malays emphasis importance of marriage (which is a good one), that makes it easier to find a wife. Unlike most chinese and indians, in contrast, concentrate on making money and establishing their career postpone marriage to later age. This is why chinese and indians, sigh, are struggling with family creation.

I even know a malay guy who is 39, recently divorced, remarry again. Another malay I know, he divorced in his 40s, remarry again. Then on average, most of my malay friends in their 20s are married or attached.

So I don't understand. Why is it so hard for you to find a wife?
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my mother introduce me to some girls. But all of them is the "tak laku" type. Though i do feel inclined to just accept them, but i also feel as though they insulted me with this offering. My Sister in law was introduced to my brother by my mother. She's quite a beauty, 2 years younger then my bro. But when it's my turn, she introduce me to some "less then attractive" girls who already pass the age (andartu). all of them older then me. I feel insulted.
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post Nov 12 2012, 09:46 AM


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to get more girls, you need to promote yourself like sales.

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post Nov 12 2012, 11:10 AM


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QUOTE(HappyCrazyFreak @ Nov 12 2012, 12:51 AM)
Try Love Classifieds. I previously met a few guys from LYN too (although I'm still ForeverAlone). All the best! smile.gif
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But it says that you joined November 2012. Who's dupe are you?
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post Nov 12 2012, 11:54 AM


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QUOTE(RS42 @ Nov 12 2012, 11:10 AM)
But it says that you joined November 2012. Who's dupe are you?
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Someone lah. Haha. I don't think you and I ever had any contact before though...
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post Nov 12 2012, 12:04 PM


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u should blame urself bro, u r too choosy, u only will choose those outer beauty than inner beauty..

serve u right bro...
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post Nov 12 2012, 12:13 PM


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QUOTE(fadlul79 @ Nov 12 2012, 10:39 AM)
my mother introduce me to some girls. But all of them is the "tak laku" type. Though i do feel inclined to just accept them, but i also feel as though they insulted me with this offering. My Sister in law was introduced to my brother by my mother. She's quite a beauty, 2 years younger then my bro. But when it's my turn, she introduce me to some "less then attractive" girls who already pass the age (andartu). all of them older then me. I feel insulted.
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You already say tak laku. So maybe you are very choosy. Look if you want laku ones then you gotta go out there and make the effort to find lah.

Aiyoh, why don't you join the dating website? I see there got so many young and pretty malay ladies. Even I want, but cannot because me not muslim.


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post Nov 12 2012, 01:14 PM


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QUOTE(fadlul79 @ Nov 12 2012, 09:39 AM)
my mother introduce me to some girls. But all of them is the "tak laku" type. I feel insulted.
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Now ain't this a case of the pot calling the kettle black. laugh.gif
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post Nov 12 2012, 04:34 PM


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QUOTE(fadlul79 @ Nov 11 2012, 01:28 PM)
I be honest to you guys. I join LYN in hope that i might get lucky and get the women that i can fall in love with. I'm  in my late 30s. I'm the eldest of 7 siblings, but all my bro and sis except the youngest already married. I'm socialy inept. My social circle is rather small and this limit my chance of getting someone. It's not that there's no girls who like me. But i don,t like any of them  and those who i like was already taken or is beyond my reach. So you think it,s okay if i make a try here?
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There's no wrong in trying every channel possible to find that special someone. But building a communication channel is just one thing, whether anyone will bite is another matter. Go out and meet more people, build up your social skills, get an interesting hobby etc.

At the end of the day, you can have all the contact numbers of all the women out there, but if you are just not an attractive or interesting person, you'll won't find anyone who will return your calls.

Oh, some social lessons *hint* humility *hint* will come a long way in MAINTAINING a succesfull relationship.


Good luck.
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post Nov 12 2012, 05:16 PM


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post Nov 12 2012, 06:30 PM


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you can try and see bro. i used to date a girl whom i met here, so there is definitely the possibility
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post Nov 13 2012, 03:55 PM


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QUOTE(HappyCrazyFreak @ Nov 12 2012, 11:54 AM)
Someone lah. Haha. I don't think you and I ever had any contact before though...
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Maybe we could try contacting now then brows.gif
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post Nov 13 2012, 04:33 PM


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QUOTE(HappyCrazyFreak @ Nov 12 2012, 12:51 AM)
Try Love Classifieds. I previously met a few guys from LYN too (although I'm still ForeverAlone). All the best! smile.gif
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This. November. Met a few guys. Whats the story? tongue.gif
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post Nov 13 2012, 09:18 PM


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QUOTE(RS42 @ Nov 13 2012, 03:55 PM)
Maybe we could try contacting now then  brows.gif
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QUOTE(digitalz @ Nov 13 2012, 04:33 PM)
This. November. Met a few guys. Whats the story? tongue.gif
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post Nov 14 2012, 08:04 PM


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QUOTE(fadlul79 @ Nov 11 2012, 02:28 PM)
I be honest to you guys. I join LYN in hope that i might get lucky and get the women that i can fall in love with. I'm  in my late 30s. I'm the eldest of 7 siblings, but all my bro and sis except the youngest already married. I'm socialy inept. My social circle is rather small and this limit my chance of getting someone. It's not that there's no girls who like me. But i don,t like any of them  and those who i like was already taken or is beyond my reach. So you think it,s okay if i make a try here?
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Go hit the club lahh bro !
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