I was a little bored, so i started this thread. All the while, I've been wondering how to know if u've been friendzoned by the girl/boy since alot of my friends asked me about this but at time i'm not quite sure??? Sometimes 2 ppl can be so close and and able to 'click' well but in the end, kena friendzoned. Is there any hint/sign???

Normally you ask the other party out a few times alone then can tell already

what if they're still going out as usual only when the guy/girl confessed, only they know they have been friendzoned...lol..juz saying the case scenario

then you lean in abit, if the other side leans in too then ok la, if not then friendzoned lo

I believe you can tell from the distance when you and the guy are together if going out. The closer between you and him, the closer you and him will stick together. If one of you keep another party at certain distance, probably one of you is friendzoning another person.

Listen to what the other person says.

The more the other person talking about 'we', the more he\she is friendzoning you.

wat?more 'we' means friendzoned one ahhh?

just ask the partner whether she prefer to stay friends or advance.

one of them confess but the other one reply as just friend

Need to physically match also. If too far different; one party a lot more goodlooking than the other, then most probably friendzoned (face problem friendzoned by hottie)

It's the same reason where to more the person talk about sex, the less likely he\she is going to sex you.

A good way to gauge is not looking to the words they say, and judge their behavior via their actions.

This post has been edited by DavalPrestor: Oct 31 2012, 09:27 AM

You have one weird logic there. So if I say I love someone, does that mean I dun love that person?

What I mean is that.

Words are just words, it's the actions that counts.

Very very not true.

U confess with serious face, if she friendzoned u, then change to joking manner, and say..

Ha! Gotcha, u think I really want u as my gf/bf? Nahhh just joking. BFF forever!

Just to avoid awkward moment.

Desire isn't negotiable.

Guys, all this talk about friendzone is really about a very basic principle - Personal Boundaries.

Being friendzoned means the personal boundary on love/sex has been hardened or closed off to you. It does not mean you stay in the friend zone forever, it does though if you do not understand the personal boundaries of the person you desire. If you are not allowed to cross the love/sex boundary, then you will need to cross some other boundary, and then work your way to the love/sex zone. You cannot force yourself through to someone's personal boundary (actually you can, but that's a separate topic), you had to be let in by softening them up.

wow, agreed on what u've said.. but how do we know if we're friendzoned before decided to chase the girl/boy desired so that we would not waste time, energy, money on them?? hahaa

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Added on October 31, 2012, 6:21 pmWow that's very catchy, nice idea~~ hahaha

This post has been edited by charmhy18: Oct 31 2012, 06:21 PM

Hint: Chemistry between each others. But, normally it will be very hard to verify unless either one confess.
Sign: No sign i guess.

Either 1 get friendzone, move on... nothing to lose. Remind yourself that "Fate" or "Time" wasn't right at that moment.
Banyak lagi fish out there... sure someone will appear.

Umm... be straightforward. E.g. Just ask the girl "Hey how would you like to have dinner with me this weekend?" and if the response is like "Is anyone else coming?" Then you're probably friend zoned.

depends really. if ure bad in acting, some girls are clever enough to notice. that will just make things more awkward.

juz curious, usually boys do friendzoned girls??? coz from i see mostly girls friendzoned guys

i've frenzoned alot of porkchop dy, so yeah is happen everyday

boys also can frendzoned what. when he take tooooooo loooooooooong to even reply one of your texts u know u have been frenzoned.

Adande explains being friendzoned. Give a moment of silence for our brothers. *silence*

This post has been edited by brightjoey: Nov 22 2012, 12:59 AM

what really shows that a girl is interested to a boy?

well, if a girl is interested in a boy, the girl would love to go out/hang out with the boy, texts him everyday/ call, when out she will dress up nicely and most importantly, happy being around the boy....

Sounds familiar. I just had a friend who dressed nicely with a blue watch and great looking hair who went out with her guy friend XD

eh, u sounds like u know me???? and yeah, nothing to do with this topic....lol

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Added on December 18, 2012, 2:47 ameh! i know who u r!!! caught u!!

This post has been edited by charmhy18: Dec 18 2012, 03:04 AM

well how about no hangout coz of distance?
well theres this girl, she's actually have a bf but, somehow she text/call me telling some of her happy/sad stories?
quite confusing me.

haiya, it doesnt mean anything, she juz want ppl to talk to, probably a guy friend so that she can understand what guys think??? not so sure, call her out la then u can see and find the answer

Ini sudah jadi doc love

haha, apa doc love??? juz telling in my opinion lor, not applied in all situations, pandai pandai~~

wondering the same thing. easiest to see is when friends say d, only will stay as friends. like me and my best friends, is mutual friendzone. If not, i think nid observe loo, give abit signs, if ada response maa not friendzone baa, if no respond and he say u gila aa like tat, then FRIENDZONED!

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Added on December 18, 2012, 2:46 pmFRIENDZONED!!

This post has been edited by jacktay94: Dec 18 2012, 02:46 PM

haha, the word FRIENDZONE sends shivers down the spine fo rmost guys...even i myself had friendzoned some guys in the past

This post has been edited by charmhy18: Dec 28 2012, 11:37 AM

can i ask opinion for my case at here ? i also wondering i being friendzone or not
recently, i take the chance to date a girl ( she is my old friend) because she said she want me to teach her to take photo. and i fall for her before this.
so, we able to go out just both of us. yesterday was our second time of so call 'dating'.
in between, we do joking and chit chat. but in that day, she ask for go back early around 4pm. i not sure is she parents not allow or she tired.
how ?

This post has been edited by missyou: Dec 28 2012, 02:18 PM

oh, okay, does she reject u when u asked her out?if not, then u got a chance. well, about going back earlier, mayb she's tired or mayb her parents also la....

see how things go, go out with her more often then u'll be able to know ady. btw, dun rush to things/ tell her u like her straight coz u might scare her off, saying from apst experience when guys told me this also

nope. actually she ask me to teach her take picture. then i suggest go for walk and teach her there.
thanks bro, i thought to confess to her that day, but dont have the right time and place also. looks like it is kinda lucky that i i didn't.
but, sometimes i find her chat on facebook, she didnt reply. that's why i worrying...

yes guys do friendzone girls too..... it works both ways

I hate friendzone

lol,good luck, let us know the update here

P.S. I am a girl la

yeah... me too. haih...

opps.... sorry sorry.
ok... thanks !

Easy
a. Hi bro *gives you brofist* when you are a girl
b. I love this girl *not your name*, she is *the other girl's good traits*. How can I date her?
c. Invites you to play video games like WoW, DoTA L4D
d. Relies on you to pay his bills, give him a ride to *insert place* or to *insert casual activity like dining watch movie watch social performances auto exhibitions* with him.

confirm kena friendzone already... ....depends on your relationship experience oso la...n your composure to maintain your emotion n skill.....if not enough experience, skill n emotion self control...almost impossible for you to overturn this friendzone case...

So this means if you get friendzoned, there's still a chance that you can get out of the friendzone?

my exp on friendzone: find u when in deep trouble and requires ur assistance, other time, treat u like an acquaintance

usually it's hard to come out from friendzone, but well, i've heard stories guys got friendzoned, after that they're attached with the girl that friendzoned them

i think that is quite rare, unless the guy is die hard persistent

is it really that hard ?

it is hard, i'm a girl myself and i've friendzoned some guys in the past...pretty hard to come out from the zone...lol

There are 2 types of zones.
1) frenzone
2) phobiazone

frenzone is b4 you make your move. Phobiazone is after you make your move.

Phobiazone is when the girl avoids you and treats you like a pain in the neck.

I've been friendzoned recently.
but no surprise la, the girl had a bf d.

She's really fun, and has a great smile.
Its sad that she is taken

i friendzone everybody

lol

kidding

friendzone is better than strangerzone

strangerzone?means?

is like after you confess, she feel akward and cut all contacts with you from facebook till call.

that is call strangerzone d.

Uh-oh. That mean I did strangerzone someone before... Intentionally of coz

Friendzone mean just friend, cannot become more than friends. Been there, done that

this is much more hurts than friendzone.

lol!

Sometime some drastic action have to be taken to strangerzone someone.
It is not a simple decision.

Take example my experience below.

and that is your reason to put her into strangerzone?

Not really, there are many factors.

lol

scary

she confess to you or what? sorry, i has a laugh here.

Is alright, I have a laugh too. She confess to me, but I no accept. Cos I feel she very paranoid of everyone around her, stalking type. Saying she lost her motorcycle helmet, then later she found in washroom. I feel she forget where she put her helmet got lah. Then she gives more story until so many holes aldy. At first, I may sympathize with her, but as time grew on, all these stories sound so unreal. Some straight away from tv drama, who she took me for~~

Is she pretty or not?

If pretty you should have put her in Farkzone.

Fark only, no talk.

u know when girls trying to impress themselves to their crush one

usually have a big failed.

like me

well

of course not similar situation u stated above

and auto become strangerzone

wah, ur situation is very scaryy, STALKER~~ lol, how did u know her one?

That girl sounds like a Cluster B personality disordered person. I used to feel angry at these people because they just don't know how to treat people properly. But after a while, what I really feel for them is pity, they just don't know how to grow out of their infantile emotions, they're basically a small child in a grown up body. Normal people will avoid them because they can't stand being around a Cluster B, but the truth is the Cluster B's are some of the loneliest people on the planet. I will be friends with them, but I will never ever allow myself to be part of the games they play.

This post has been edited by s2peMocls: Jan 3 2013, 05:17 PM

If she plan impress me, I think she failed lol
If impress me with so many sad stories, it wont work.

When she had assignment problem and exam revision, my fren and I used to help her one

Yes, first feel pity for her. Her so many sad stories... After that 1am phone call me, I never ever set my phone to receive anymore call from friends. Especially when she called me not for urgent request

You know ah, I understand she lonely, I even invite her to my group gathering. Afterwards, my friends all tell me privately that dont invite her lo. Cos everytime I meet her or my fren meet her, we alwiz hear sad stories nia from her. Even if my fren and I pump her with positive, happy energy also no use

harsh word, quite dramatic queen

wah, she's very emo in person? like quite moody,etc? i used to have a friend like that, except that he's a guy and he's very pessimistic about things. he used to talk to me but once in a while okla, not everytime (i mean everyday also he's emo) and once when talked he took alot of time (2-3hrs sitting down juz to listen to him). after that cried in front of me too, i was like =.=. sooner or later, he developed feelings for me coz i'm always there to listen to him, no else does

This post has been edited by charmhy18: Jan 3 2013, 06:19 PM

Friendzoned bcos don't know she got bf d..then her bf stop her frm contacting me..oh my gawd, why girls like immature boys? They like those Diam Diam Antisocial boy?

A true doctor indeed

wahhhh, u found my thread

friendzone ==> stranger zone.

I know someone who friendzoned (or strangezoned?) me a few months back.
I still do intentionally message her once in a while (once in two? months). and funny enough, she will never fail to reply. altho the converstations are always kept short and to a minimum.

frenzone ====> phobiazone

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Added on January 5, 2013, 5:26 pmIf Cluster B girl has hot body, I don't mind one night stand. After that is bye bye birdie.

This post has been edited by Alvin330000421: Jan 5 2013, 05:26 PM

cannot agree more

if u are in friendzone, reply will always be short and simple. thats true

oh, got like that one ah?my msges to ppl sometimes long one worr (to the person i friendzoned)

quite horrible feeling to be in phobiazone

am in the zone right now tbh

I feel you pain, bro.

and it's almost 2 years lol
dunno when can get out from this crap

time to move on buddy~

yeah I always tell that to myself
but whenever I saw or hear something related, the trauma started to dominate me
without that, I'm perfectly fine

if u do not plan to develop a relationship with a guy, its always better to keep msg short and simple. if u dont, he might misunderstood upon ur kindness. that is why most girls prefer to keep it short and simple.

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