I was a little bored, so i started this thread. All the while, I've been wondering how to know if u've been friendzoned by the girl/boy since alot of my friends asked me about this but at time i'm not quite sure??? Sometimes 2 ppl can be so close and and able to 'click' well but in the end, kena friendzoned. Is there any hint/sign???

Normally you ask the other party out a few times alone then can tell already

what if they're still going out as usual only when the guy/girl confessed, only they know they have been friendzoned...lol..juz saying the case scenario

then you lean in abit, if the other side leans in too then ok la, if not then friendzoned lo

I believe you can tell from the distance when you and the guy are together if going out. The closer between you and him, the closer you and him will stick together. If one of you keep another party at certain distance, probably one of you is friendzoning another person.

Listen to what the other person says.

The more the other person talking about 'we', the more he\she is friendzoning you.

wat?more 'we' means friendzoned one ahhh?

just ask the partner whether she prefer to stay friends or advance.

one of them confess but the other one reply as just friend

Need to physically match also. If too far different; one party a lot more goodlooking than the other, then most probably friendzoned (face problem friendzoned by hottie)

It's the same reason where to more the person talk about sex, the less likely he\she is going to sex you.

A good way to gauge is not looking to the words they say, and judge their behavior via their actions.

This post has been edited by DavalPrestor: Oct 31 2012, 09:27 AM

You have one weird logic there. So if I say I love someone, does that mean I dun love that person?

What I mean is that.

Words are just words, it's the actions that counts.

Very very not true.

U confess with serious face, if she friendzoned u, then change to joking manner, and say..

Ha! Gotcha, u think I really want u as my gf/bf? Nahhh just joking. BFF forever!

Just to avoid awkward moment.

Desire isn't negotiable.

Guys, all this talk about friendzone is really about a very basic principle - Personal Boundaries.

Being friendzoned means the personal boundary on love/sex has been hardened or closed off to you. It does not mean you stay in the friend zone forever, it does though if you do not understand the personal boundaries of the person you desire. If you are not allowed to cross the love/sex boundary, then you will need to cross some other boundary, and then work your way to the love/sex zone. You cannot force yourself through to someone's personal boundary (actually you can, but that's a separate topic), you had to be let in by softening them up.

wow, agreed on what u've said.. but how do we know if we're friendzoned before decided to chase the girl/boy desired so that we would not waste time, energy, money on them?? hahaa

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Added on October 31, 2012, 6:21 pmWow that's very catchy, nice idea~~ hahaha

This post has been edited by charmhy18: Oct 31 2012, 06:21 PM

Hint: Chemistry between each others. But, normally it will be very hard to verify unless either one confess.
Sign: No sign i guess.

Either 1 get friendzone, move on... nothing to lose. Remind yourself that "Fate" or "Time" wasn't right at that moment.
Banyak lagi fish out there... sure someone will appear.

Umm... be straightforward. E.g. Just ask the girl "Hey how would you like to have dinner with me this weekend?" and if the response is like "Is anyone else coming?" Then you're probably friend zoned.