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Geneveive
post Oct 26 2012, 08:19 PM

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QUOTE(vuetnam @ Oct 26 2012, 03:18 PM)
yes.. its true.... all must marry in the end also.... I support it..
Unmarried women: Leftover food... suck
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why do u say MUST get married? what kind of sexist comment is that.. if a guy doesn't get married, why society are not calling them
leftover food too?
it is the woman's choice.. if she have a career,can support herself, and is happy, there is nothing wrong with that..
this is common in western countries..
Geneveive
post Oct 27 2012, 01:18 AM

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QUOTE(vuetnam @ Oct 26 2012, 09:19 PM)
but this is Asia... smile.gif we are now too much into Western culture... West culture does not  really suit us..
sorry for my sexist comments but its true story...
this is asian culture... married  is a must. but anyway... is a choice.....smile.gif
Marriage is not a social status but for the traditional China.... marriage is a must which is still applied till now ... so yeah. hmm.gif .
# inb4 this issue still happening in China
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Indeed we are an Asian country, as u mentioned it is one of the Asian culture.. there were several other culture that was practiced during 50's like girls have to get married at such a young age, killing baby girls when they were born because they were just labeled as
burden etc.. why are all these not being practice anymore? because it doesn't make sense in this era..
Yes, some of the western culture doesn't suits us, but their positive values should be taken as lessons.. western women have their own stand..
They are bold enough to stand by their own decisions.. But some Asian women are not bold enough.. all their life, they just followed someone else(family,husband) decisions despite being unhappy.. Even career oriented women before marriage, have to leave everything after getting married just because it is husband's choice.. it is really wrong..

Another thing that surprised me in that article is that, it says women cannot be choosy.. Then what rights do men have to be choosy?
why all of them are running after beautiful girls,with good values etc to be as their wife? Women have the rights to choose a guy from a good
background too and from a well educated background, if she is well educated too..

But heck, it depends on one's belief..
World are much more advanced now,but some of the mind sets are really still shallow.. What spunkberry mentioned is absolutely true..
Anyways vuetnam, appreciate ur insights..
cheers.. icon_rolleyes.gif


 

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