Share with you and all the world - when I was at the same situation as you, I couldnt take it too - went out a lot - didnt care for my pregnant wife - went to all of my vices outside.

Then the baby came out - ill in hospital for 2 months - eventually costs a total of RM30000.00 - like a price of half a car.

Regret? You bet!

Fast forward 10 years to today - one more kid came - my wife and I are like strangers - sleep apart - eat apart - all because kids take all the attention.

Regret? No sir. You just adapt and be the best you can be.

Life - you get borned - you work like a slave for some company - you get kids - you get sick - then you die