QUOTE(aranny2001 @ Dec 6 2015, 09:36 PM)
jz now i try to make another try and error, found out that i grind the coffee too fine, over extract and strain my machine which is not good

. I would like to ask normally how fine/coarse do you guys grind the coffee? i just realised that very fine coffee is only suitable for depressurized portafilter..

That's the exact problem with pressurized baskets. You want the coffee to be the restrictor to generate the pressure but instead you have this quirky spring thingy in the portafilter that's doing this. So if you try to grind finer, the coffee grounds will resist the incoming pressure and the resulting output from the bottom end is a lower pressure liquid (but exactly the coffee you want!) which is unable to push thru the spring to exit to your cup and so you end up with a choked machine
Without the coffee being the restrictor however (grinding coarser) you're not going to be able to generate real sweet flavorful crema unfortunately
Again, you want the 9bar pressure pushing through your COFEE to generate ~60ml of coffee within 25-30sec for a double shot and not instead to push against a spring in the portafilter
Latte art however can be done without proper crema. You could get away with nescafe and a few shakes of cocoa powder on top before the milk too