erm...r u big in size?

d enticing part for female is vry near outside, if not mistaken called clatoris (like a butang). technically speaking 5" or less wont hav any problem to stimulate female BUT some female do prefer to feel deep prenetration.

u can start off wit DATY. then move direct intercourse. no BJ. they wont hav chance to look at ur penis..lol