erm, i'd respect freedom of speech, but i'd also understand the way you feel about that other forum, but afterall a forum is targeted towards a clear group of audience, and clearly doxob has its own audience on its own and doesnt really matter if they have high traffics or inviting new users.
Of course, at first glance, and my impression towards the forum aren't that positive, as a fresh new designer, i'd find myself neglected from the 'elite' group they formed, but, there are still bunch and millions forum out there that you can be with, and start a positive group and built a potentially helpful designers that are friendly on your own!
doesn't matter if there is rotten flower ,as long you willing to do it, and repair it, or renew it, there's still hope,
look at others, though it's not much difference from the situation you felt from doxob,
www.sifoo.com
www.webmastermalaysia.com
anymore?
Well, it's normal if you get pissed from how the way you're being mistreated. But well, enjoy your stay here in lyn if you feel warmer (of course for me, it does

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trust your instinct, do what you feel is comfortable and welcoming, you never know that it might end up lyn is the one that promotes and creates designers portal in the end.
no one's at fault, it's the matter who's going to improve the current situation. and who's joining. i'm in

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