QUOTE(WilsonCheah @ Aug 13 2012, 02:08 PM)
yup like bro fulat said ,
dont stress yourself with all these. got a car and start rolling from there. for house and wedding, you are 23, take it easy first. established ur foothold on your career first. after 2yrs then you can start preparing wedding.
this is what i do. im taking my sweet time. proposed to my gf 080811, ROM 21022012 and house readdy end of 2013 and wedding photo session JUne July 2013 and Chinese wedding somewhere in 2014.
u mentioned you want to spent time together , spent it now. after your wedding / ROM , u will be pressured to start "production". trust me . i kena already and whoever start that " production" topic, all kena fucuk by me till the extend i fucuk when my grandma raised this topic when she was admitted to hospital, right in the ward!! that time u mmg no time for travel etc.
now got the car edi, go travel laaaa.. drive 12 hours - Ipoh - KL - Gambang - KTN - Cherating - Terengganu - Redang( car park at jetty) - Terengganu - KL - IPOH. mwahahahahah
dont rush everything in the same time UNLESS U R RICH la. seriously.
breakdown :
1. house cheapest in ipoh goes around 200k ( 180k for 18 x 60 Botani if im not mistaken)
assuming you buy car first and your loan go through, ur house loan might not go through cz u jsut start work.
2. renovation ( basic + furniture ( basic) : set aside another 40k
3. wedding : sigh chinese wedding can kills la wei! kns! set aside another 80k
you do the calculation how much u will need to bump out if u want to settle all soon.
Mine is under Mulia Pesona

Car now awaits collection in this few days. wmwahhahhaahaha
just realized my NCD is... 55%!!!
Agreed on your advise. When i was 23rd, i was just driving a SAGA BLM only, not so burden and save more $$$$$$ and 8 years finally over and i bought 2 properties, 1 rent out and 1 own stay and now prepare for my wedding end of this year.
My wife agreed to married to me bcoz she know i am realistic. In Malaysia, $$$$ is very important....without $$$$ to maintain your life, your future will be shits...
Even this year i am going to married, i still feel that my $$$$ not really enough, only enough to cover only. I plan to buy Civic, Forte or Elantra earlier. End up i calculate, was not worth for me to waste or spend too mch on this type of car. I bought Preve can save RM30K++, this 30K+++ i can spend to invest in another property or invest in share market to make my money growth...
Let say if you tell me, you want to drive a luxury car to chase a pretty girl or to show off, i totally not agreed on and you wont get a good girl at the end. And you will be very stress at the end and you got nothing...unless you are very rich...
You drive Kanciu or Viva, nobody will going to look down on you, if you have financial probs or stress... no body will care on you and end up you stress yourself.