yes this is quite impossible but what happen is happened, i ask Ling Er for confirmation and she tell me the reason actually.
"I hate to see man who throw away a women when she cant give birth or lost his child, both of my aunt (father side) is married with some men who is rich, and trying to conceive, 1 aunt cant give birth, so husband hit her daily and bring girl home and force her to sleep together, while another aunt finally get a baby, but her husband never touch her anymore, because he just need that child. and yes, some of this treatment actually still practiced in china, unfortunately. So when i see you with penny, i can accept that my man is an UN-ordinary man".
Added on November 20, 2012, 1:54 ami think i will stop after this, because no longer see any demands, plus my story is not in single post, but mixed with others stuff.
Chapter 5 ~ Action? no, not the time for this yet.
So when we decided to book some ticket as well get some documents for her, we finally decided to visit Macau. Including Penny together, we form a party of 3 person and walk around, holding hands and trying to grab plenty of pictures. Food there was normal, nothing special as both of them just wanted a simple walk and visiting, especially the wall that they heard about (forget what name d).
after getting stuffed in Macau for 3day and 2night, we leave the place and headed to Hong Kong, because Penny says there is plenty thing to eat over there. lets cut story a little short, we visited alot of place, like Tsim Sha Sui, Mongkok, Yau ma tei, Was thinking to go shenzhen but they both warn me and make me forget the idea.
Heard bout lan kwai fong, but never really go because i have 2 princess around that lost easily and dunno how to read maps or road signs.
Totally 7day 8 night of holiday, we return to Malaysia and went back for a rest. Both princess is staying with me, for 2 days before they move back home. on the third day after we return, Aunt YAYA called me through Ling Er's Phone and request to see me personally. So i fetch Ling Er home and speak to her mom in their study room.
As usual, a mother will ask about her daughter, and every serious matter, like sex, protection, her daily schedule with me, what do i expect from her daughter, and we joke a little about her attitude and everything. Her mother is seriously a very professional lady. She manage to understand what i wanted to say and mean during our conversation, and in between, it was some thing like..
YY: What do you thing about Ling Ling ?
ME: Its basically "I am in love with her".
YY: I got eyes to see, but you means, she is everything now ?
ME: Aunt, i have a true things to tell you, but i let Ling Ling tell you personally, its about my relationship.
YY: I don't mind about this as my daughter choose you, not me, but do you know..
Me: About her scar ?
YY: Clever, Can you touch her ?
ME: I guess, but i never initiate, i don't wish her to find me as a rapist instead of a lover. we men turn to animal easily.
YY: But Ling Ling says that, you are afraid of her hitting you, so that is why you still left her un-touch.
ME: I respect her, so hopefully she understand that i want to touch, but with compassionate feelings.
YY: You know my daughter is damn stupid right ?
ME: SWT....betul....
YY: I know my daughter well, so please do what you think its right, you wont angry on me for teasing you for using condom each time right ?
ME: No, i just thinking that i not even touch her, how to get some condom to use ?
YY: I still mean that, don't make my princess pregnant, i don't wish to be a grandma so soon.
Me: No worry, i will control myself.
we end our conversation like this, but actually there is a reason for her mother to check me up. she wanted to see how clear is her daughter when with me, because she might be temporary attracted, and because i am very loving like her mother as well father. Soon, Ling Er come down from her stuff unpacking, and chatting with ming er, quite embarrassed when ming er say im a coward for still not touching her sister, but she get a little slap from Ling er, says my man is better than hers.
That night, i show off my culinary skills again. All of them is impressed, and praise me for being such a great cook, and we have a funny yet good discussion on the table. after everything is done, i look at ling er focusing from her hair, to back, to her leg, and back to her body and lastly face. i tell myself, i never choose a wrong girl. right ?
Of course, its not a wrong one, that night me and Ling Er had our most important conversation in life, Can she become my Fiancee ?
she agreed, and tears falling from her eyes. Ling er says that she is waiting me to say thing thing when we are overseas, she even
blame me that why penny had it and not her, i tell her me and penny had go through alot, but she never bothered and want me to listen.
seriously, what a girl, u want to talk everything always.
The next day, i invite penny to my place and as well a lady who worked as a creative wedding planner. never to know that She is somebody both Penny and also Ling Er know, Her name is LILIAN. Lilian is my 3rd gf later on, but thats not currently the focus on this story right ? So, she give a little ideas on how the wedding and everything, as well what should we follow and not, she is not shocked for your info, because she saw a malay who have his 5th wife before, and she is specially fly to vegas to plan them a wedding there, challenging yet thrilling.
We plan for a simple marriage, which consist of a wedding reception ,a normal church wedding, but without any notice and idea, i feel have a little afraid for all this thing to happen, i did something most stupid in my life, which is i run to langkawi for a couple of days.
looking for relaxing moments, i was able to see that, there is a plenty of stress, grieve, as well greed that residue in my heart. i should never treat both girl like this, and since it happen, i have to choose one of them, and i decided to make Ling Er, my official wife, but our stuff is not that soon because she is not a malaysian. there is many procedures to do before she is totally my wife.
what is so stupid about this runaway ?
I saw Lilian at Langkawi, she is running a wedding ceremony over here, and i accidently bump into her (actually she rampas my carpark, thats where we know that, y r u here ?) we chatted and have a dinner together, since Ling er is Lilian Senior, as well she is Penny's Friend who know before. we talked and had a few drinks before we return to our hotel room.
The next morning, Lilian is sleeping beside me, with her phone (21 call, 5 messages) and mine (shutted down).
I'm dead, i have a shit happen with my wedding planner!!!!, we even have 2 used condom in the dustbin.
Found out next is, her room is cancelled and she move into my room, so its means, she come herself and eat me!
oh My God, everyone going to kill me now...