I completed Inferno with about 30K DPS with 600LOH.
I changed some gears and my DPS increased to 50K DPS.
I kept my LOH at 600. I didn't find great improvement on "survival" (in co-op. I play co-op most of the time)
So, I went to AH and grabbed 2 cheap weapon with high LOH (both weapons cost me less than 5m in total).
My DPS dropped to 20-23K (I can't remember the exact number).
But surprisingly I was very comfortable in A3/A4.
I was quite surprise I didn't need to kite during elite/champion/Ghom/Azmodan/Diablo fights.
I needed to kite with 50K DPS (with 600 LOH).
I didn't need to kite with 20K DPS (with high LOH).
So, LOH is the answer for me.
I am very comfortable in both solo & co-op games.
P/S With your current high DPS, you should be quite comfortable in solo. Simply because you can kill fast.
But if you play co-op, you will face some issues because elites/champions/bosses have more HP and difficult to kill.
This is why I advised you if you can keep your current level of DPS + high LOH, you will be extremely comfortable in A3/A4.
Added on September 5, 2012, 10:02 amTo be exact, it is 2490 LOH + 3% lifesteal.
You are spot on coop mobs HP bonus, maybe that why i cant survived well when in 3 player coop
Temp solution for now, I will try to get a high LoH offhand since I can't upgrade the accesories since that require more gold, left with 1m plus now