whats the different if you're teleporting into plague and molten fire trail? or worse arcane lasers in the way going through your target and you're teleporting TO that target
you're still going to be a corpse no different than your barb.
with deadly reach i can at least do better positioning, hit through walls and shit. which i find it WAY better until i get better gears to use FoT
other barbs (like my friends) farm act 3 (who farms act 4? lol) and clear inferno diablo with 20-40k dps, and armor/AR around what you mentioned, if they can do it, you cant, what does that say? if other monks are facing issues with that stats while you're not, what does that say then?
barbarians are clearly the most gear dependent class in this game, there is no denying that. and monk DOES have an edge over barb when both are in "non-kickass" gear. however in BOTH tanking AND DPS, once both gears up, barb WILL out perform the monk no matter what because of how barb scales better with gear.
i dont even want to begin with dps because of how frenzy/revenge/WoTB works. lets just go with tanking. my friend can EASILY facetank most elites with similar/lesser stats (resist, i got more because i can double stack with OwE, another misconception on stacking resist being cheaper on monk. true, but its a PITA to stack armor on monk compared to barb hence it somewhat evens out)
reason being i have to WAIT on my cooldowns for heals, else i rely on LoH (which id try not to hence i dont gear up for LoH specifically) which isnt enough for most face tanking situations; while my barb friends just use his marathon, revenge, ignore pain that ALL HEALS him, CONSISTENTLY. the biggest difference to the barb/monk healing is barbs can do it on COMMAND AND WITH CONSISTENCY while we have to rely on shitty cooldowns. gears CANNOT SCALE with cooldowns and static heal, while they CAN with barb's % based healing.
and AGAIN like i said, your perception of barb gear being expensive, is due to your monk gear being depreciated. hence cheaper gear. a 800 dps weapon today is almost worthless compared to a 800 dps weapon on May 15.
What's the difference? The difference is you have better chance to survive.
I completed A3 and A4 with less than 10 repairs with my monk.
With my Barb, I spent at least 500K on repairs in A4 alone.
It is difficult to explain to you in every detail.
I have played both and I know how both can do in real game play.
P/S I still keep checking the price of weapon and gears at AH for my Barb. I want a Barb with 100K DPS or go whirlwind with high LOH.
The price is still very high. I can't use 1.2 weapon because it is really slow for Barb.