QUOTE(oneeleven @ Feb 13 2007, 08:14 PM)
Oi, Clem, how did you get such a bad impression? Surprising, since Toyota-shi is such a rich and suburban like place.
The problem is mostly the parents. Don't you think you could be a better parent than those workaholics? You aren't Japanese, so no need to be like them.
And dear Mahou (magic), you can't just move to Japan. I pass through often and visit close friends, sometimes for months. Hope you got a skill in high demand and a job offer before you go. You might be able to just HIDE there, but then what kind of life can you expect? Prepare first, don't rush and make hasty mistakes!
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cos i'm staying/studying here at the moment. tends to open your eyes
it's not a bad impression,it's reality here.often foreigners have the impression that japan is a mystical place with hot chicks,anime and what not but the living standard has been getting worse. poor getting poorer, rich getting richer( but it's a problem in any country as well). toyota-shi and most places in aichi-ken are exceptions.
bullying goes beyond parents, the education system is to be blamed and japanese perception of taking responsibility=suicide. a kid commits suicide because of bullying. the headmaster commits suicide cos he said he's responsible for it. what sorta example is that.
being a foreigner here is another problem. i don't like the term gaijin, almost the same as calling japanese 'japs'. and us aliens ( as started in our alien cards) are hardly accepted into society.
of course it's not all bad here. i do enjoy life here and i do have some japanese friends, albeit not close(friendship takes time , so i cant blame them) traveling is a blast, cost aside. and some japanese are just so friendly(friendly and accepting into society are 2 diff things)
i notice u people wanted topics about japan, there are abundant, the pacifist constitution and mr.abe , declining birth rate, the future of japan? the health minister calling women 'baby making machines'

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QUOTE(magic-addict @ Feb 14 2007, 12:39 PM)
I'm actually more of an academic. I'm planning to do my masters there, but I don't know if they teach in Japanese or English. Have to find out. So yeah probably after that I should be living there or something. But first have to try to get myself studying there.
Anyway how long do you think should one wait before starting the next writing system? lets say from Hiragana to Katagana?
most unis offer courses in english for masters up. basic japanese is required for communication and stuff like that. u should start hiragana and katakana right away!