lol if ur in inferno u should know ur character by now
anyway its all trial n error based on ur character's need
go out and hit some mobs..if u die fast basically u need the the armour + vit (B)
but if not u can go with a for the extra dps

mine is lvl 56, playing inferno, all EQ got strenght + vita + gold find. 2handed mace with 3++dps (mouse over the weapon and this figure will pop out) with 1 socket (ruby add damage, cant recall the stats).

strength : 1028 (something like cat, cant recall)
vitality : 27k
armour : 4000 (somewhere around there)
damage : 3500 (somewhere around there). will increase to 5+++ when battle rage activated

ok, my weapon show 3++ DPS..while my raw DAMAGE is 3+++k.

did u guys mean DPS is total 'DAMAGE' on your stats screen? or is it the weapon DPS itself (when u hover your mouse to your weapon?

im a person who like to help tanking for my friends in lesser act, so yeah. I will spawn to lesser difficulties to help them, when they need me. that's y I not yet reach lvl 60 I guess.