from what i heard, epilating hair really hurts. but it takes longer to grow back. so its worth it if you are willing to go through the pain.
about your question on hair around your anus, i think its pretty normal. i have a hairy anus too! lol! i didn't bother trimming or shaving it as i never allow my boyfriend to go there that's just me. probably some other girls who has a anus hair can help you there good luck
Epilating Pubic Hair, has anyone done this?