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Tiger I
post Mar 29 2012, 01:03 PM

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QUOTE(seanwc101 @ Mar 27 2012, 09:15 PM)
Masters/ PhD candidates out there, how's your life going on as a graduate student?

Do you feel your graduate study is a lonely journey?

Sometimes I kinda feel left out. While most of my friends are busy with their own working life, career, planning to buy properties and getting married, I'm still conducting research and writing my thesis and there's uncertainty I got to face after grad school. It can be overwhelming sometimes.
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Personally for me, I don't feel so lonely. Maybe because I have friends that continue their study in the same batch as me, or maybe I live near them, so I can always see them. Regarding about working friends, yeah they do talk about their working life, but not all the time. I guess I have some sort of understanding friends laugh.gif

Regarding life planning, yes I do feel that as well. But it is the path we already took, and it is a different one for us. Instead of being left out, why don't we think that at least we can contribute to society in our own way. Their lifestyle and planning might differ, but this is just a journey, not the destination yet. Until we reach that place, never give up.

And hey, wearing lab coat and getting my name cited always float my boat biggrin.gif
Tiger I
post Mar 29 2012, 02:37 PM

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QUOTE(seanwc101 @ Mar 29 2012, 02:15 PM)
I have friends who pursue post grad as well but some of them left their study halfway. I guess they didn't have the real interested to further study at the 1st place. I also know some of post grad students but we never bring the friendship outside of the uni.

No doubt that making a contribution makes me feel good. But living in a society that measure success in terms of tangible stuff such as properties and monies, I can't help but to feel I don't really achieve anything so far as compared to my other friends. I know we can't compare but as a normal individual, sometimes we might do so. Though, I never regret going to grad school - it's an experience that not all people willing to take.

My field doesn't require me to wear a lab coat or working in a lab  tongue.gif
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Who knows, some of newly found friends are gold smile.gif
Nevermind, at least, in years to come, long after we're gone, people still gonna cite our name (depending on studies laugh.gif )

And some things aren't meant to be compared. Just be happy with what you have, and give your best in everything. BTW I'm just started my master last sem, this is my second one. Hopefully I will have the strength to make it through biggrin.gif
Tiger I
post Mar 29 2012, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(seanwc101 @ Mar 29 2012, 03:15 PM)
The strength to get through is from your own motivation and a little bit of support from others as well.
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Yes I do agree. But now kinda lazy to dissect my sample laugh.gif
Tiger I
post Mar 29 2012, 04:45 PM

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QUOTE(seanwc101 @ Mar 29 2012, 04:38 PM)
Just do it for the sake of "contribution to the society"  biggrin.gif
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too late packing stuffs now laugh.gif
achieve my limit for today. lab is super cold sad.gif
Tiger I
post Mar 29 2012, 06:20 PM

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QUOTE(seanwc101 @ Mar 29 2012, 05:46 PM)
At least you got a lab to go.
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ur doing research or just study eh? curious laugh.gif
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post Mar 29 2012, 06:44 PM

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QUOTE(seanwc101 @ Mar 29 2012, 06:36 PM)
full research that only need to go to the field to collect data
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You're doing population dynamics izit?

 

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