My long whistanding girl that I truly love (and I'm convinced that she is the one) left me and I'm in the total gutters about it. So I seriously need some recommendation for a few good break-up songs, both to play and to listen to..... anything will suit my palette now..... sigh....... thought it could last AT LEAST until my birthday or xmas.... oh well..... that's what you get for being a Black Label Society member for life....... Here's what I'm playing and listening to at the moment:

Black Label Society - Spoke In The Wheel
Black Label Society - In This River
Black Label Society - I Never Dreamed
Zakk Wylde - Too Numb To Cry
Zakk Wylde - Way Beyond Empty
Ozzy - Goodbye to Romance
Ozzy - No More Tears
Pride & Glory - Fadin' Away
Ray Charles - You Don't Know Me
BB King & Eric Clapton - Three O Clock Blues

On a related note.... I REALLY need to form a band soon man... let all this hate, anger, frustration, sadness and grief to come out.

heh. I can imagine if I ever met Zakk right now, he'd just punch me the the jaw and say "F*** that B****. Get over it boy! Have a beer and stop being a ***** about it! Take this F****** Bullseye and get out there and PLAY jacka**!!"

sorry to hear bout ur breakup. but ive been listening to Hoobastank's The Reason for ages since my last breakup. the lyrics in that song, really like it was happening to me. or maybe Korn's All Alone I Break is a good breakup song too.

There's alot of fish in the sea blacktrix

anyway, try Swing swing from All American Rejects .... it's about the lead singer's break-up with this prom queen ...something something la

Metallica's Fade to Black is a nice song for me.

Wanna jam that song?

Oh yeah..... Swing Swing is an excellent song.... Too much Korn makes me muchos loco.....

hey blactrix, come on man...it;s not the end of the world....anyway u still got ur guitar rite? (me always think that guitar is always the better companion:P) ..... anyway here's my Top 5 break up songs for u (in no particular order): -

1. This Love - Pantera
2. November Rain - Guns n Roses
3. Die Die My Darling - Metallica (this is mean )
4. I Remember You - Skid Row
5. Blues - Yngwie J. Malmsteen (i know u need this dude) ...

How ironic is this, the death of the relationship is also around the same anniv of the death of Dimebag......

I Will Always Love You - The Cure

Vince - Mengapa Harus Cinta

DEFINATELY NOT I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU......

I do.... but that song is just...... urgh... too depressing man.

I was listening to Thin Lizzy's Still In Love With You... not the ideal breakup song, but an emotional one...

U2 - With or Without You
John Mayer - Come Back To Bed
Gary Moore - Need Your love So Bad

And blues song that starts with "Woke up this morning......"

"gary moore - still got the blues" is a must

steve vai - for the love of god
satriani - always with you, always with me + flying in a blue dream
interpol (turn off the bright lights) - untitled
here it goes
"Surprise, sometimes, will come around
Surprise, sometimes, will come around
I will surprise you sometime.
I'll come around
Oh, I will surprise you sometime.
I'll come around when you're down..."

But don't listen to the full album, you might shoot yourself in the head at the 3rd song in a row

Write your own song. From your own expression.

Hey man, sorry to hear the news.
Here some selection for you.

Kiss - God Gave Rock n Roll To You
"...You don't feel right, you can't find a cure
And you're gettin' less than what you're lookin' for...

..And you're tired of wishin' on a falling star
You gotta put your faith in a loud guitar..."

Crank it up brother. Wail away.

Other selection :-
Jimi Hendrix - Red House -
"I have a bad bad feeling
that my baby don't live here no more.

That's all right, I still got my guitar
Look out now . . ."

Maroon 5 - Not Coming Home
Maroon 5 - Rag Doll
Maroon 5 - Take What You Want (unreleased material - downloadble here)
Butterfingers - Cuai
Dreaming To Sleep - When Lying Is The Next Best Thing (http://www.myspace.com/dreamingtosleep - yah, it's my band )

Wow. Thanks for the overwhelming support.....
Feeling a LITTLE bit better now.... Also due to the fact that I'm getting a new Les Paul......

Would like to hear more song suggestions....... Trying to "obtain" every one on the list.

i'm so sorry to hear that....take it easy...

erm.....how about.....Metallica-Nothing else matters

i luv this song so much......enjoy....

sad to hear dude....
try
ozzy - road to nowhere
ozzy - old LA tonight
ozzy - see you on the other side
steve vai - for the love of god


This post has been edited by sean392: Dec 12 2005, 06:13 PM

Heard this song called "Moon on the Water" from an Anime called BECK (anime about rock bands and stuff). Song sounded sad... but when I read the lyrics... not sure if it is a sad song or a song about love... Lyrics below:

Moon on the Water (BECK OST)

Full moon sways
Gently in the night of one fine day

On my way
Looking for a moment with my dear

Full moon waves
Slowly on the surface of the lake

You were there
Smiling in my arms for all those years

What a fool
I don't know 'bout tomorrow
What it's like to be
Ah...

I was fool
Couldn't let myself to go
Even though I feel
The end

Old love affair
Floating like a bird resting her wings

You were there
Smiling in my arms for all those years

try these:

poison - alice cooper
don't go away mad (just go away) - motley crue
as i die - paradise lost
a tout le monde (sp) - megadeth
it must've have been love - roxette

aikz why for the love of god? that song sad meh?

pearl jam - last kiss

Urgh.... Last Kiss..... one of the songs "we" were talking about.....
I have and will forver hate that song.....

I just can't stand eddy vedder.

yo blacktrix.. sorry to hear about it man...
here is a few songs taht i have...
the jelly jam - you don't need me anymore
eric johnson - sad legacy
cake - i will survive
SRV - l'm leaving you baby
srv - you're gonna miss me baby

Beyond is good!

Those sad and angry song! cool!!!

Btw, Sry to hear that.

This post has been edited by wern-yuan: Dec 12 2005, 08:09 PM

a good break up song for me would be 'You Don't Love Me Anymore'. by Weird Al Yankovic. seriously.... if you listen to the lyrics ull understand why... ull laugh ur head off but u know all that its true. depending on ur level of gloominess... it can make u happy and sad at the same time...

personally...that song has NEVER made me sad

sorry to hear about that man,

u should listen to some song that can cheer u up instead of sad song,

anyway ... got one good song, one of my fav song

Goo goo dolls - name

or

Verve pipe - freshman

sorry blacktrix! didn't mean to..

http://www.geocities.com/merrystar3/allyso...pIsHardToDo.htm

Written by N. Sedaka and H. Greenfield
Recorded by Neil Sedaka
Also recorded by The Carpenters, The Partridge Family, and Lenny Welch

hehe. talk about catchy breakup tunes.

Well, I've been putting Black Label Society's Spoke In The Wheel non stop the whole day..... there's basically 4 stages of the break-up process.....

Sadness, Denial, Anger and Resolution.

I'm halfway between Denial and Anger...... So Sadness has pass already...... My music tempo also increased....... I'm loving Pantera's This Love now!!!

black....ur not alone man...same shit just happen to me

Welcome to the club tytons........We'll go out boozing for chicks next day!

Hello ... here is making music ....

If you want to cry a river .... cry at the Cupid's corner

Oh yea, nickelback's photograph ... it's also about the lead singer's breakup

If you want pop .. then cry me a river by justin kayu-sungai (timberlake)

This post has been edited by TheWhacker: Dec 12 2005, 10:16 PM

HAHA I kena whackerized...anyways..was listening to this

eternal flame...(duno y)
fixing a broken heart (wishing for something like tat)
haha no rock type of break up songs la

oh not fogeting some jap song called mirai e (no idea whos the lady singer)
solatary shells - dream theater..
n lastly ...some old beyond...the famous 1..not sure wats the title as im banana

This post has been edited by tytons: Dec 12 2005, 10:21 PM

Meh...... Moving into anger, so lots of Black Label Society and Ozzy......

But I got a feeling depression and sadness slowly creeping up on me.

Mirai e singer name is Kiroro. Love here voice in that song.
Nickelback's Photograph also kinda nice...

Awww tytons...it's ok, you two. Let the music heal your soul. Put your faith (as NOT in religiously) in the loud guitar.

Some addition to my earlier list
Jimi Hendrix - Foxy Lady
The Wreckers - The Good Kind
Audioslave - Be Yourself
Alicia Keys (feat. Adam Levine) - Wild Horses
My Chemical Romance - Helena

and of course...

Cake - I Will Survive...play and sing it out loud. It works for me 3 years back.

guess I'm in the same league as blacktrix and tytons now.. just today..

listening to mama i'm coming home now

"selfish love yeah we're both alone"

This post has been edited by nerd: Dec 13 2005, 01:18 AM

OMG! 3 of you...

Hi Blacktrix, Sorry to hear about the whole thing man - gotta pick urself up eh?

Here are some of my recommendation (you'll probably hate all of em given your taste in music lol) but they're really saaadddd songs:

The Streets - Dry your eyes
John Mayer - Comfortable
Counting Crows - Long December (for a fresh start next year)




Good Luck!!

p/s: There has to be a better break up song than 'I will survive' !!! OMG!! Discotheque all over again!

yoo . got another sad song for u,

its from sum41, called "Pieces"

http://s20.yousendit.com/d.aspx?id=1ZKMQ8T...YH19VC94807PU0U

enjoy, dont be sad and rock and roll forever !

Sorry to hear nerd..... I guess it's the festive season where loneliness dwells the best. And I can't believe this happened less then 1 week to my birthday.

Well, if you want to know the sorrid details, you can always check my blog at http://blacktrix.tblog.com

I DO name the girl's name AND the ******* who asked her out.... so if you ever know the guy..... do the Black Label proud and beat the living crap out of him.

Yes..... as you can see, it's 2:38am in the morning, unable to sleep and right smack in the Anger phase.....

Here's a few more songs I added to my playlist:

A Perfect Circle - Passive
A Perfect Circle - Judith
A Perfect Circle - The Hollow
A Perfect Circle - The Outsider (Apocalypse Mix)
Slipknot - Before I Forget
Slipknot - Vermillion (Part 1)
Black Label Society - Rust
Black Label Society - 13 Years Of Grief
Black Label Society - Life Birth Blood Doom
Black Label Society - Phony Smiles & Fake Hellos
Cold - No One
Cold - Stupid Girl
Sentenced - No More Beating As One
Sentenced - Killing You Killing Me
Sentenced - Noose

dude.. how u holding up ?
what u need is a nice dose of jam

Very bad. It's 3:56 am and I still can't sleep..... just thinking about her..... Listening to Zakk.... Slowly creeping into Acceptance.

can i join the club?
i got nothing to do anyways

You can join the club by listing break up songs that you know...

ur posting...
does this mean u didnt sleep the whole night?
hope ur still doing well anyways

I only slept for a total of 1 hour. And no..... I'm not doing alright... I have to go to class in like an hours time.

And for the love of god..... this thread is for posting songs.... NOT how I feel....

Here's more I started listening to:

Marilyn Manson - Tainted Love
Seether - Fine Again
Static X - Not Meant For Me

wanna know the saddest thing...its was this gal who motivated my guitar to sing again....sigh..im moving on to techno stuff...where i dun hav to hear a string instrument..or atleast think its not a string instrument.

songs to add to ur list...
dream theater - autumn...its just nice..

"Can't sleep at night, and must go to school", by Black Leathery Trix (it's hip hop)

"One girl goes around, guitars comes around", by SuperSized 110% (texan country / grindcore)

try listening to American Hi-Fi - Breakup Song then

Awwwww. sorry to hear that Tyton. I'm sure your love for guitar will come back soon....

I'm still in my Anger phase and blasting Metal the whole day. To make things worse, the shock of the news was so bad, I caught a flu. So I'm sick, lack of sleep and severly heart broken.

now she wants me back after a mutual agreement last night. i don't know.

listening to GnR-november rain

Yeah tytons...let the guitar legacy go on...let the guitar shows to you who's the faithful one.

I add somemore to the list :-

Shelley Leong - Slip Away
Shelley Leong - Carry On
Diana Krall - Cry Me A River
Too Phat - Jeezebelle
Deftones - Change (In The House of Flies)

nerd, if it's the girl you want and KNOW that you will love forever.... play Zakk Wylde's Sold My Soul..... If you decided that it's best if you end it off...... Black Label Society's Refuse To Bow Down.

"Music ain't no substitute for love" - Dr. Love and the Nuts

"Women can't stand metal axers" - Zikk Walde & BullLickersSickos

speakin of shelley leong...i msg her on friendster..somehow i found her connected to some of my fren..forgot who..she didnt reply hhaha...so expected...must be gettin lots of ppl wooing her...

heres a song to add

disagree-suicide note

adds
any damn song from opeth
dragon red - fade away

This post has been edited by tytons: Dec 13 2005, 11:12 AM

Dude.... suicide ain't fun. Trust me one this one.......
Except for Suicide Messiah..... THAT is an awsome riff.

and Zikk Walde & BullLickersSickos
WTF???

This post has been edited by blacktrix: Dec 13 2005, 11:13 AM

suicide? no la..not gonna do tat..just the song title

woot...heres a song tat has a same line my ex told me

too phat - just a fren

"hes just a fren" YEA RITE!!!!

bloody @#@(*#(@# ill get u when im bck in kl

This post has been edited by tytons: Dec 13 2005, 11:17 AM

listening to don't cry by GnR..

still hanging in the air on what decision to make..

"You fjooked me up real deep, honey" - The Big Bad Rectums

"The girl's gotta go, the guitar's gonna stay" - Panterica (sp. guest : Azel Roze)

BLS - in this river

i find that audioslave-be yourself is pretty comforting too.

it's hard when both of us can't let go..

Oh come on guys Don't cry la, we're here to make music not tears. There's alot more girls out there ... so you just need to keep looking

one more break-up song .... The Freshman by The Verve Pipe, using guitar kapok

EDIT: and Scars by Papa Roach .. simple, easy song to play

This post has been edited by TheWhacker: Dec 13 2005, 11:59 AM

Jimmy Eat World - 23 (letting go and know she will always be the one)
Green Day - Whatsername (if u aredi forget her name)
Jet - Look What you've done
Marilyn Manson - Coma White (if u're surpass requirements and she's high class gal)
Korn - K@#$& (if u hate her)
The Offspring - Denial, revisited (if u both argue all the time)
Sugar Ray - When it's over (when u get over her and get a new gf)
The Verve - The Drugs don't work

sorrie keep editing cuz i jes have too many nice slow songs to sooth the beast..

This post has been edited by chenster: Dec 13 2005, 12:09 PM

Music helps the tears man......that's how we get over crap like this. I'm now making a decision to leave her for good, due the fact that I can't stand being "just a friend" and nothing more, or be back to just "being friends" and suck up to the pain and her boyfriend.

And you know what's fueling this decision now? Music man..... All your suggestions, all my collection..... they are playing on and raging on till I finally make the decision that will ultimately decide my outlook of my love life. So basically, the only thing that is holding this pathethic thread of existance that I call a "life", is the music which flows through my soul.

And to help ease your suffering Tytons and Nerd..... here's some advice from Tyler Durden that I'm now living my life by.........

"It is only after we have lost everything, till we're free to do anything"

This post has been edited by blacktrix: Dec 13 2005, 12:27 PM

Man, you guys are not alone, add me into the sad-song-club.

Bon Jovi - Always
Bon Jovi - Bed of Roses
Jeff Buckley - Lover, You Should've Come Over
Savage Garden - I Knew I Love You

Hmm...since Blacktrix's in metal stage, how about some happier songs like Van Halen, The Darkness, Queen?
Eruption + Air Guitar = Might help you to get over with the pain.

Skid Row - In A Darkened Room

Poison - Every Rose Has Its Thorns

yeah... i'm all about 80s Hair Bands!

also,

Roxette - Fading Like a Flower

if you were a Malay dude, i could suggest anything from the 80s - early 90s Malay rock songs... almost all of them are about breakups hahahah... seems that we don't get much lovin huh...

This post has been edited by modD: Dec 13 2005, 12:37 PM

Uhhhhhhhhhh Noone mentioned this.

Dream Theater - Hollow Years

Avenged Sevenfold - I Won't See You Tonight (Part 1) *Very sad song*

If you wanna blast it out =p

Slayer - Epidemic WAHAHH

britney spears, hillary duff, beyonce, avril lavigne, shakira
... the music is not that good, but the video clips will help you forget other girls

blacktrix, i'm not sure you can choose in 2 days whether you are going to forget her or not. It takes a while to heal, and really forget her... (and otherwise, you were not in love )

This post has been edited by Pix: Dec 13 2005, 01:07 PM

Trust me dude.... This is the purest love that I have ever felt...... Between spending a night with her and sharing a stage with Zakk Wylde, i'd pick her.... it's THAT bad.....

So unfortunately, the only way that I can get on back with my life.... is to totally severe all communications with her, cut her out and be free once again...... although I will always have a special place for her in my heart.....

Forgot who said this....
"If you truly love something, you must let it free".

It's love suicide man...... and I'm the Suicide Messiah!!!

blacktrix > i'm glad you'd chose a night with your girl rather than an evening with ZW. Finally, you're seeing the light, dude !!! heyheyhey, just kidding.
I can imagine the amount of sadness, and distress, and all the pain... but you won't ask us to stop teasing you about your insane attraction to big american men, do you ?

blacktrix:
Alamak.. sorry to hear that. He..he.. maybe U can hear my solo in 'AnimeSan' song call Crawling the Heaven. Will upload tommorow.

Definately no...... You always need humor in life...... and besides...... only Big Burley American men are good huggers!

Before i started to get touch with guitar.....i felt that my life is lack of something.....i was finding a GF to make up the deficiency...but..it was failed.....after my guitar playing was kicked off......i've succeed to find the right thing to make up the dificieny.....i never think about love now....just concentrate to my study and guitar......i just want to know that whether u all got the same feeling with me or not.....


blacktrix, take it easy......we'll still be there with you....

angeling, i had my "autistic" period on the guitar, but then it all faded away after a while. I still love to play guitar, but it doesn't stand against my wife. Hopefully, she never asked me to make a choice and accepted the fact that I could spend a full sunday playing guitar...

Socializing doesn't go against playing guitar, that's an important thing to remember. It gives you materials to develop feelings in your music, rather than exploring only the technical side of music. Plus, it opens up your mind to new cultures !

Meh.... I probably won't need a new woman in my life now....... But I DO want to forget about "her" and the pain.... Thankfully, you guys are making that process much simpler.....

thanks again.

blacktrix, did you miss out the part where one of us suggested suicide ??? what kind of friends are we ?!

but i'd like to point out a good idea written a bit earlier : use your feelings to make a song, instrumental or vocal...

Yeah.....came up with one already.... Will probably record it during the week or something

Damn...are those really exist?

It definately take time to heal, been there done that. It's tough life.

"Open fire..." - Ana's Song, Silverchair
"Free...as a bird..." - Free As A Bird, The Beatles

eRr... Is You're Beatiful from James Blunt counted ?

akon - mr. lonely

BLS / lynyrd skynyrd - i never dreamed

This post has been edited by sean392: Dec 13 2005, 08:41 PM

I noticed we have a very diverse range of break-up songs..... metal, blues, pop, rock, country, rap..... super stuff man.... keep it up. I'm sure there's a hundred million broken hearts out there just waiting to be soothed by music.

ozzy osbourne - dreamer

Green Day - Time Of Your Life

Starting to move towards the Acceptance stage already.

btrix, i'm fearing you didn't notice : i made up the country and the rap and all other songs i proposed...

*gasp* you mean Zikk Walde & BullLickersSickos arn't a real band??!!!

Oh... my fragile little mind....

the darkness - love is only a feeling
pink floyd - wish you were here
aerosmith - cryin

some of the songs that i can think of especially aerosmith's

music is like one of the best ways to cure stuff like these.... without music i wonder what i would have done when i was experiencing something similar to blacktrix.. music has kept me company... wonder how can i pay it back.. oh yea.. BUY MORE AND PLAY MORE

ain't you like a cute little girl in a late summer, running in a golden wheat field and laughing at the warm wind messing up her hair.

blacktrx sooo does not look like that.. ahaha...
dude, u look weird in my imagination.. hahahahaha...
imagine blacktrix as a girl in a skirt, doing what pix said.. haahaha

Wake Me Up When September End - Green Day (change September to December, by then Christmas and New Year Celebration will divert all your attention) and NFB (Nice Fvking Ballad) - Anthrax (damn nice and syiok)
ok enuf of the sad songs...it's now time to wake up and face the world .... let's start with: -

Hallowed Be Thy Name - Cradle of Filth (you'll start headbangin when u hear this song, i swear, more aggresive than Iron Maiden )
Roots Bloody Roots - Sepultura
Everything Ends - Slipknot
Silent Night, Bodom Night - Children of Bodom (something for the Christmas, perhaps )
Welcome to the Jungle - Guns N Roses

welcome to the jungle? What does that have to do with break-ups man? I only play that song before I go to Job interviews.

On the plus side...... Because of my flu, I gotta take lots of medication..... sure fire way to fall asleep!!!

WTF ROFL! Haha... yea you're right, it's much more aggresive than Iron Maiden's, I love this song too haha.

oh yeah i forgot...

when my ex-GF left for OZ a few years ago, i drowned my sorrow by listening to Alice In Chains. 2 songs repeated over and over...

Nutshell & Down In A Hole.

try listening to em man, the unplugged version.

OT: why does it seem that Australia causes a lot of heartaches to people in Malaysia huh... too much to be considered a coincidence

This song was played on that awful moment..

Smashing Pumpkins - Disarm

I like this song but it also remind me of that.. huhuhu

Well, I haven't had the misfortune of a aussie girlfriend.....
And i think it's all the beer there that causes so much heartache...

EDIT:

If you're experiencing a breakup... best movie to watch to go freakin bat S**t, Fight Club.....
Perfect for the anger phase in you.

and Fariz.... your Avatar just makes me think I should get back on the clubbing circuit again man........

This post has been edited by blacktrix: Dec 14 2005, 12:12 PM

"AWWWWWW...welcome to the jungle! mmmeeh mmeehhh..." some of axl singing sounded damn ghey.

OT reply: Now you mention it, i encounter several cases too...

You should man...

How about Jimmy Eat World - Pain? Suitable for the broken heart?

I hate the clubbing scene. I can't freakin' stand techno music. Makes me even more depressed. I wonder why they don't open up like a metal/rock club here.