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post Feb 28 2012, 10:37 AM

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QUOTE(azarimy @ Feb 28 2012, 10:23 AM)
actually, mak bapak dia yg kena tukar nama, pasal ni dosa mak bapak dia. bukan dosa dia (bayi tu).

apsal pulak budak tu kena live with dosa mak bapak dia sampai umur dia 70-80 tahun?
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sokong. tu la pasal. mak bapak yang tak gune. anak tu suci je. den pernah dgr pendapat pasal ni yang den sokong; depa kate knp nak perlu heboh2 pasal name anak sumer ni; ending yg akan malu bila besar nnt anak yg takde ape2 dosa tu gak.. padahal yg buat dosa ni mak bapak diorang. so gunekan je lah name bapak dia. dosa bapak dia dgn Tuhan bukan bole padam pun kalau dia letak name anak dia bukan bin kan dia.
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post Feb 28 2012, 10:39 AM

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QUOTE(ps3 fanboy @ Feb 28 2012, 10:35 AM)
dosa besar macam tu boleh hilang ke? ni aku nak tanya ko sikit..budak tu of coz tak berdosa, ni tujuan untuk memalukan parents jer.

itu sebab Federal Constitution x boleh campur syariah law
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anak tu lagi malu. parents kalau dah perangai setan camtu nak malu ape. tgk la sekarnag brp ramai org melayu islam tak malu peluk2 depan public.
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post Feb 28 2012, 11:08 AM

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QUOTE(PetomJL @ Feb 28 2012, 11:05 AM)
If the parents want to cover up, just say that the child is adopted, I don't see any harm in having 'Abdullah' as binti. If do not want want Abdullah then can use any other Allah's names ~ Abdul Rahman, Abdul Karim, there are 99 other variants.

The reason why biological father's name is not allowed because according to religious rules, the child is not considered his lineage. They are not mahram, any rule of father-child do not apply to them. Unless if the mother breastfeed the child, then only they are related because of foster relationship. And Islam do not allow attaching adopted/foster fathers name to a child. So there.

Btw... many people said illegitimate children are normally very beautiful ~ in a way it is how the 'nature' privileges them.

The child is innocent, no doubt. There is no reason the fact that he/she is illegitimate need to be disclosed. Just consider them adopted.
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somehow i'd agree with your suggestion. but if say adopted child, means the mom also can't claim she born the child. so I think just consider the father is dead/kia biggrin.gif

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