I would like to get some advice on reducing high sexual desire, please do not talk about masturbation or finding guys/bf to release the desire, bcoz i wish i can deal with it without actually doing that
The problem is, I will felt arouse when bf get to the right spot to trigger my desire despite knowing that i should not have it and i dont think we should do that,
but my body is taking control over my mind and its really hard to deal with.
More importantly, i will feel really regret after the sexual desire reduced and felt really ashame eventhough i know its my body that causes it.
He know the problem too and he trying to help me out as much as he could.
Wat we could do is just avoiding the triggers and avoid being over intimate that could arouse our desire again, but i have to admit that when we being intimate through hugging and kissing only will somehow lead to sexual arousal.
And to be honest.... i done it b4 with my ex and we broke up in a bad way,
so it is really painful for me whenever i think of it and my mind tell me i really dun wan to repeat the sad thing again, because i was being naive and too easy to giving him last time, therefore it is a really painful experience for me
but my body just couldnt cope with my mind to avoid the sexual desire with my current one
U really need to get this sorted out, else i will affect ur relationship in many ways.
Its not an easy road ahead but u just have to divert ur mind when the moment comes.
think of smth else, mind is more powerful then ur body.