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> Reducing High Sexual Desire.... (Serious), no funny comments pls

khelben
post Feb 22 2012, 03:17 PM


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QUOTE(kp_ncstg @ Feb 17 2012, 01:00 PM)
The problem is, I will felt arouse when bf get to the right spot to trigger my desire despite knowing that i should not have it and i dont think we should do that,
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But, why do you think that you shouldn't have it and you shouldn't do it?
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post Feb 22 2012, 04:15 PM


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its normal.. everyone will be triggered to have sex during kissing and touching process
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post Feb 22 2012, 11:00 PM


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QUOTE(Hidan @ Feb 22 2012, 02:57 PM)
If TS easy to orgasm, what is the issue? many wimmin are frustrated they cannot orgasm.
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well gifted oredi.....btw last time me high sch paktoh hold hands oso stim sumtime....
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post Feb 23 2012, 12:15 PM


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http://www.11points.com/Food-Drink/11_Food..._Your_Sex_Drive

Try mint sweet, mint tea, or smoker choose mint flavor.
I was a smoker and i love mint, really turn me down untill nearly broke up, really bad for health so maybe mint tea helps the same. Just my 2 cents...
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post Feb 23 2012, 12:27 PM


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may know how old you are??
could try take a cold shower when you feel horny. Avoid any alcohol drinks or any other situation will make you feeling in mood. smile.gif

other way, having sex is just normal. Dont think too much about it, just to bare in mind to protect yourself always.


Added on February 23, 2012, 12:29 pmAvoid some foods which help you in mood like alcohol chocolate, oyster, banana, and cucumber (if this remind you of sex) too.

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post Feb 23 2012, 01:47 PM


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hi, its ok let the past with the past u have enjoyed it and experienced it. but now u wanna change and control urself. so u reminded me about a movie,so may i suggest u watch the movie Eat,Pray,Love. Julia Roberts starred in the film and she was having problem with sex and relationships, and pretty much can't control her sexual urges. Until she finally decided to really change, she actually prayed for the first time it went like this, "God, if u there plz help me". Suddenly she was put through a journey to FIND herself. Went to Indonesia, India, she learned how to meditate. It was then that she found herself she was so happy to be in CONTROL and in CHARGE of herself. Till the time the right guy came into her life she was afraid to fall in love again lol bcoz she was already happy lol. Watch the film, it was on astro recently, i myself now learning yoga(2 parts of yoga one the postures(asanas) and one more the 'meditation' part, sitting cross legged and relaxing,clearing ur mind which is called mindfullness.u can probably get a teacher or try do the 'meditation' yoga, not all the yoga postures are doable. Yoga for you tv series on zee variasi astro is also good for beginners everyday at 8am. many americans and people around the world have learned yoga to get in touch with themselves. Or u can try other meditations from other religion. meditation helps us reconnect with our higher self and discover our purpose in life. Good luck sister.

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post Feb 24 2012, 12:32 AM


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its okie.. we re human and this is what the flesh wants and feels. Pray and God will help you out of it smile.gif jia you jia you

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post Feb 24 2012, 01:03 AM


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You are perfectly normal, certain humans have higher sexual desire, it is part of human's cognitive development. In the hierarchy of needs proposed by American Psychologist Maslow, sex was considered the lowest status of physiological needs on par with eat, sleep, water, excretion and so on(although it was been criticized in Asian country due to our culture and value of sex on the pyramid).

Alternatively you have options of marrying the guy.

If you are feeling guilty or dirty(even if its masturbation) due to past experiences, you might wanna consult a Psychologist.

p/s: you wouldn't be here without sex.

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post Feb 24 2012, 04:04 PM


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QUOTE(khelben @ Feb 22 2012, 03:17 PM)
But, why do you think that you shouldn't have it and you shouldn't do it?
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Her problem is not high sex desire, her problem is not feeling comfortable doing it with her bf (maybe she thinks that he's not the one). Many girls have high sex drive, but you don't see them complaining about it.


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QUOTE(kuntilanak @ Feb 17 2012, 01:10 PM)
Have you consider seeing a legit specialist in gyneacology? I don't know if that will help... Just a suggestion...
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There's nothing wrong with her reproductive system.


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post Feb 25 2012, 11:41 AM


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QUOTE(aKiSuSu @ Feb 24 2012, 01:03 AM)
If you are feeling guilty or dirty(even if its masturbation) due to past experiences, you might wanna consult a Psychologist.
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THIS.

But TS doesn't seem to see it that way.
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post Feb 27 2012, 02:18 PM


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TS, you have stated that you have a problem with sexual intimacy because of your painful experiences with your ex boyfriend (which is perfectly understandable), but what are your thoughts on masturbation?

If you have a high sex drive but have issues with sex with your current boyfriend, then perhaps you could consider masturbation as a form of relief?
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post Feb 28 2012, 07:53 PM


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Girls I think mine is worst, I hate sex, I hate it when my bf touch my body and I even scold him :| ...
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post Feb 28 2012, 08:09 PM


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QUOTE(caren91 @ Feb 28 2012, 08:53 PM)
Girls I think mine is worst, I hate sex, I hate it when my bf touch my body and I even scold him :| ...
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poor guy sad.gif
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QUOTE(caren91 @ Feb 28 2012, 07:53 PM)
Girls I think mine is worst, I hate sex, I hate it when my bf touch my body and I even scold him :| ...
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That is sad.

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haha this sucks then laugh.gif rclxub.gif

QUOTE(lowyatter @ Feb 27 2012, 02:18 PM)
TS, you have stated that you have a problem with sexual intimacy because of your painful experiences with your ex boyfriend (which is perfectly understandable), but what are your thoughts on masturbation?

If you have a high sex drive but have issues with sex with your current boyfriend, then perhaps you could consider masturbation as a form of relief?
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haha i was thinking the same also laugh.gif rclxms.gif
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post Mar 4 2012, 09:09 AM


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QUOTE(kp_ncstg @ Feb 17 2012, 01:00 PM)
Hi,

I would like to get some advice on reducing high sexual desire, please do not talk about masturbation or finding guys/bf to release the desire, bcoz i wish i can deal with it without actually doing that

The problem is, I will felt arouse when bf get to the right spot to trigger my desire despite knowing that i should not have it and i dont think we should do that,
but my body is taking control over my mind and its really hard to deal with.
More importantly, i will feel really regret after the sexual desire reduced and felt really ashame eventhough i know its my body that causes it.

He know the problem too and he trying to help me out as much as he could.
Wat we could do is just avoiding the triggers and avoid being over intimate that could arouse our desire again, but i have to admit that when we being intimate through hugging and kissing only will somehow lead to sexual arousal.

And to be honest.... i done it b4 with my ex and we broke up in a bad way,
so it is really painful for me whenever i think of it and my mind tell me i really dun wan to repeat the sad thing again, because i was being naive and too easy to giving him last time, therefore it is a really painful experience for me
but my body just couldnt cope with my mind to avoid the sexual desire with my current one
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U really need to get this sorted out, else i will affect ur relationship in many ways.
Its not an easy road ahead but u just have to divert ur mind when the moment comes.
think of smth else, mind is more powerful then ur body.
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post Mar 4 2012, 02:26 PM


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There's a psychological method that would help. For example, if you want to stop yourself from the habit of biting your nails, u can apply nail polish or go for manicure. If you are very self conscious. You can wear very childish and ugly undergarments that you definitely don't want ur bf to see. Or u can try going to the washroom when you are high and wash ur v with cold water? That cools me off the desire. However, I never have problem controlling myself through discipline

Hope it helps?
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post Mar 8 2012, 11:21 AM


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QUOTE(caren91 @ Feb 28 2012, 07:53 PM)
Girls I think mine is worst, I hate sex, I hate it when my bf touch my body and I even scold him :| ...
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Kesian.. How unlucky...
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post Mar 8 2012, 11:54 AM


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QUOTE(caren91 @ Feb 28 2012, 07:53 PM)
Girls I think mine is worst, I hate sex, I hate it when my bf touch my body and I even scold him :| ...
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you shouldnt get a bf then .. get a pet.
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Good Sex Life = Happy Relationship & Happy Married Life
Bad Sex Life = Not so happy relationship and the man might find other entertainment life outside.
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