There is so much that could be going on here that its difficult to knw what advice to give without more information, according to your post everything seems fine at the start of the relationship, however after a year things turned out for the worst in the sex department. Now your girl could be sexually frigid or have a low sex drive, maybe she was abused before and has issues with sex, maybe she used sex a a way to win you over and once that happened she shutdown and lost interest in you...its really up to you to sit down and talk with her and find out what the problem is.

There are a few things you should knw, if your woman is emotionally comfortable and satisfied with you, and you give her great earth shattering sex she will want to be intimate with you all the time. the problem with a lot of men out there is that they become codependent and stuck in bad relationships...if she keeps on like this you gotta man up grow some balls and leave her....if she cannot satisfy your needs she is not worth it....go out there and find a better woman who will treat u the way u desire

i cant believe some of the advice and comments from people in this forum, truly pathetic....just goes to show most people in this forum know nothing about getting and keeping a woman....

WAIT, U are in a 8 year relationship and you seldom get sex and on some rare occasion she gives sex as a treat, even though u treat her like a princess is that what u saying?

'i 8 years relationship get nothing about sex'..... what the hell does that mean, thats not proper english...iam not local so i dont understand malaysian english thats why i ask 2 explain

This post has been edited by trellva: Feb 16 2012, 11:49 AM

WoW 8 years no sex, LOL damn, i can only imagine u must be having a serious case of blue balls i personally could never do that ever....no sex no point in even having a relationship...better off we just be friends with such a chick. let me ask this...so you guys had no sex, but did u guys do anything else like kissing etc? u must be young couple i suppose or religous since u mentioned the waiting for marriage thing...

cutiesbaby312 are you a prude? do you not like good sex? and no sex is not the only thing that guys think about, it is however extremely important, just as important as having good communication, or having trust or a deep emotional bond in your partner etc...all these traits combined together create a great relationship....you act as if its only the guys who receive pleasure from the act of sex, with the right partner sex can be way more pleasurable to a woman than anything a man can ever experience.

alexlim85 your relationship is on its way out....its only a matter of time before she dumps your ass....u seem like a very needy clingy fella, total turn off. if i were you i would go out and live my life, get a hobby, go out with friends, meet new people, if your woman doesn't make you happy and she is unwilling to change its time to move on.