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oi yew sao sao baby fat chew perfect ar wei!!!! 

is this thread for hakka people?

what is gang hair? dun understand

gao tet duh suh hao siao???

jinhe sai nga sihgarn loi bun advise nyi~

oh okay..sorry i'm not chinese. that's why i dun understand. okay, i have a question for u all here

i have a friend @ office. a sarawakian hakka..age 30's, salary around 4k. problem is..he is too damn stingy

-dun want to spent for anything. 
-dun wan bur car/motorcyle. so everyday hitch ride a friend motorcycle. rarely give petrol money. he have car & motor licence, borrow other's motorcycle sometimes, but never want to buy one.
-dun wan belanje that fren he hitch ride everyday
-dun want buy food when go to pasaraya with friends, he just buy maggi for his own.
-frens he is staying have much less income compared to him.
-he eat bread when hungry.
-he dun buy anything with his money. that's fine, but he always trouble others for transport. ask people here there to sent him to home after work. and did't belanje or give money for petrol.
-when he need something, always ask others to buy for him n pay later. always reluctant to use his money 1st.
-not much commitment..he is not 1st son of his family
-have no girlfriend.
-have lot of savings.

so we keep asking WHY?-and he never tell. just seems very kedekut. this situation has last for more than 2 years

so what is he actually? is there other Hakka like that, sorry if my question sounds inappropriate.

er..dun understand..if only u write in english    ..sorry

so u telling me to GTFO?

its really an individual itself that is so kiamsiap lar~~

hakka people is well known for being generous one lar... hakka means "hak hei yan" means well mannered.
jinhe thuk!
leave him lar, he's the emo kind~

wow...why? - i'm asking here for thoughts. and instead getting the language i dun understand and then GTFO. what would u think/preception if u were in my place?

nevermind..i know u dun even care. before this, i think it maybe just one. now it's two of you. and maybe more. u know what? i dun care anymore. n i know u dun care as well

i know there'll be more will quote this and bla2 writing something i dun understand cursing me or what..- but again, thanks for replying. now i know how two hakka people really is. gud luck in your life. this one and after. chow

heh la, det la

most people in this hakka thread is nice~


thaigor yew chigar suh char hih jor gung geh~
thats why people ask lo~~

oh now u writing in english.~ too late..i already quite lost interest. but i'll play a little bit

1st you come here with a perception that hakka ppl is like so. - wrong. sincerely, i do not
A lot of criticize on your friend and assume all hakka ppl are born to be stingy people - now u r assuming me so. i do not. seriously
Or maybe because due to his childhood, he is poor hence he feel insecure without money? - this is the kind of answer i'm looking for
People are different from one to another, and who the heck you are to judge people? As long as he don't hurt anyone...how he behave is none of your Fcuking business.  If you don't like, just leave him alone there got bunch of fella out there that can be your friend. - fyi, for almost a year he is staying with me. i'm the one who bring him to work. now that i'm married, he staying with other fren. u said he don't hurt other's? well he is. not physically, but mentally and financially. he even reluctantly pay fir his own food. other's have to pay for his part when they going out makan2. yes, it's not my f**king business anymore. but a bunch of my fella friend is being hurt by him. and that's why i'm asking here

now, i'm not looking for trouble. i believed it's just misunderstanding. i did not say GTFO to u.

yes, i just leave him alone. now and then, people and i already advice him(several time), to buy transport, motorcyle/car for his own good. not for others.

my choice is to ask here to hakka people. not to bash him like hell with others and being over +9999 racist.

big BRO mailbox? i dun see it as one. honestly. i see most threads as place to express tots, to ask question, fooling/trolling around and posting pic of hot chick. i dun ask u or anyone here to solve my problem. again, not my problem actually. i'm just asking for possible 'reasons' of why is he like that. more head more idea. now i quite get it. -  Be mercy to other ppl means you are no mercy to yourself - thanks for ur answer.