- Kepong Thread v17 -, New Year New Thread!! 
Feb 5 2012, 01:19 AM
QUOTE(thinkthink @ Feb 3 2012, 10:53 PM)
yeah..but i just tell her that i need space for a while..and she should have it too..see new guy, and maybe can make comparison..see if we got fate to be together later..then continue the relationship...she is supposed to come here the end of this month..she bought ticket on oct last year..and i didnt allowed her to come here..
must be tough for her..damn im bad..T_T
Dun feel too bad for urself. i think u've done the right thing. It's only ur girl has not fully understand yet, but hopefully time shall tell her that u've made a decision that's right for both sides.must be tough for her..damn im bad..T_T
Both of u are still in early 20s ?
If u are, then u both need much time to properly experience the real meaning of "life" during ur younger years b4 u both wan to consider settle down seriously. There are fail cases of LDR, but there're also success cases of it.
So just let the nature take its course.
Have u watched the re-make local malay movie "AZURA" ? That's a very meaningful movie of telling a story similar, although not entirely same, as ur scenario.
The point is that, both of u have to really be sure that both side are *prepared* for a more serious relationship, because for a more serious relationship to really work out for long term, romantic kind of love feeling is not the only ingredient.
u need another ingredient : Responsibilities.
And this responsibility things is beyond the usual tangible responsibilities; because both of u would need to support each other mentally & spiritually, besides those life-sharing kind of things.
That u've stopped being a relationship partner to ur girl, doesn't mean u've stopped being a friend to her. Does it ?
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