Hi, where did u fly your Heli? i have a full carbon trex also

Which trex forum? depending on your budget. my advice is start with trex. although a bit expensive for newbie. There are lots of trex sifu in klang valley. you can fly together with those sifu.

Any recomended LHS  to purchase a T-rex 450?? Or do you mail order them from HK?

Only got one shop in PJ selling trex SE but with cut throat price.
all my stuff i order from HK or taiwan

Well i started with the stock plastic frame..lasted me alot of crashes! so no complaints. But obviously it's not going to be as strong as a carbon fibre frame, but in terms of flight performance, as a beginner you would never tell the difference!
Buying a brand new 450SE migth be slightly over the top for a first heli, and wasted money because again you will not tell the difference from a standad 450x until you start to get into high power 3D flying. When you crash (you WILL crash) you can choose to replace parts with CNC metal or carbon fibre upgrades if you want, and that way as you learn and your flying gets better, so does your heli to match it 
If you crash alot, you could end up with a full metal/carbon trex SE anyway

About the sim, reflex xtr is about the best you will find for helicopters. You can get it with a dummy transmitter for your computer, but very expensive and hard to find.. Or you can buy your real transmitter and if it's not a cheap one you will be able to use it for variouse flights sims: reflex, FMS, real flight G2/G3, Aerofly to name a few once you get a connector to your computer
Im using one of these:
http://private-aircraft.biz/forum/viewtopi...der=asc&start=0

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