I slept with my daughter’s boyfriend. Should I tell?

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Dear Bossy: This is something that has been heavy on my mind for a couple of weeks now. I’m a 44 year old single mother (divorced) and I have two daughters. One is living with me still.

She has been dating a boy for 18 months now and he has been coming over regularly more recently. I have enforced strict rules with my daughter that there is to be no sex while under my roof and so far they have been good kids in that respect. The problem isn’t with the daughter so much as the boyfriend.



I was taken aback by this, of course, because this is my daughter’s boyfriend, not someone I had thought was available for me to look at and even consider let alone think of things like that.

To make a long story short we then had sex. I won’t go into details of course but he made me feel amazing. I envy my daughter for having such romps with him!


My dilemma now is that I don’t know whether to tell my daughter or not. I expected her boyfriend to confess, but it seems to be a matter of keeping her in the dark as far as he’s concerned. He told me he doesn’t regret what we did that day, but he loves my daughter and doesn’t want to break her heart. She sees him as her perfect partner and he adores her.



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