I am sorry if you feel offended. I have come across this type of behaviour many times and sometimes I wonder if the person who did this will ever do the same thing to their own human kids?? Owning a pet is a lifelong responsibility & similiar like having our human kids.
Your first mistake was, not sending him for neuter. He will become less agressive,more tame & won't roaming around aimless after neuter even though he is an outdoor cat.
If you are a student, don't ever think of owning a pet. You are still depending on your parents especially when comes to money. Feeding them is ok but owning them, are totally different world.

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QUOTE(Rev (

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Calling someone irresponsible is quite rude, I must say. What you know anyway? Unless my cat was an indoor cat and we left him alone, you can call us irresponsible. He was a fierce cat, he ate everything he found outside. He's not really ours. He just come home to eat and sometimes never came home, that's all.
We usually only leave the house not more than 2 days maximum, which sometimes even the cat didn't even come home for a week, making us sure that he was an independent cat.
I do admit that I'm not really that responsible for leaving him unattended, but my problem is that my family is not that fond of cats. I know you keep your cats oh so well but you cannot compare your family and mine. It's huge difference. But AT LEAST we give stray cats outside some foods. Just think of it this way, my dad don't really like cats but I love cats a lot and because of kesian, he gave me a chance to feed the cat and play with him, nothing more than that.
I really hate it either, what I want is we keep more cats inside and make them happier, but that's just impossible because of my family. I don't have any rights to say anything since I'm the youngest one and feeding outdoor cats is considered more than enough already, for them.
C'mon, I just lost a cat. I'm not happy at all. I'm sorry but your words have offended me. I'm in TEARS when writing this. I love him a lot, even when our times together was too short. It's just too painful knowing he's gone. At least you should be more sensitive.
I do hope I can be more responsible when I get older. I realize I'm just a hopeless kid now.
Just saying. Different people different opinion. Here hoping other cat lovers here don't attack me. No need to add my sadness and guilt.

Added on June 11, 2012, 12:17 pmSince Friday?? What are you waiting for?? Send her to the vet. We can't tell you what is wrong with her witihout checking her.
QUOTE(mfak0511 @ Jun 11 2012, 11:25 AM)
Help,
my cat is very ill
feed her BARF and shes sick, vomitting and diarrhea
will throw up 1 hour ~ 4 hours after eating anything
right now i have to feed her plain water only
went to the vet and she gave me clavamox and activated charcoal which is costed me RM25
right now I'm broke only left RM 3 coins i can't go to the vet with empty pocket
bought RM250++ of quality vegetables and meat just to make BARF for her, because she so thin, i thought giving her pure uncooked meat will make her fluffy like she used to be T.T
no fate.......
i'm a student and used all my practical training allowance
help me, what can i do to make her better?
she is sick since Friday
This post has been edited by Listiani: Jun 11 2012, 12:17 PM