Always thinking wanna sex with other women, Just wanna be a good husband
Always thinking wanna sex with other women, Just wanna be a good husband
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Oct 20 2011, 12:53 PM, updated 6y ago
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Hi all,just wanna share feeling in my heart for long time already... Actually i am married 9 years ago n have 2 small girl.When i was young i really a shy guy n have no girl fren at all.Untill i reach 26 i meet my first girl fren n after 2 year we get married.After married we run a small business together untill now.I can said almost every second we been together.After married around 3 year i always thinking of having sex with other girl n i know this is a bad thinking but always appeared in my mind. Sometimes really hate my self for being bad thinking coz my wife treated me well,but after married untill now still haven done anything that hurt my wife,but always imagine only .Is that majority married man will think like this or just me?? If u guys have this experience before please share how to make it to the right way coz worry maybe i will hurt my wife if one day i loose control.TQ |
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Oct 20 2011, 12:57 PM
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firstly, i am not married. secondly, there are a few threads here talking about similar issues like this.
do you and your wife still have sex frequently? |
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Oct 20 2011, 12:58 PM
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go find...hooker? olol
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Oct 20 2011, 01:00 PM
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Really sorry that i donno have same thread like this before.About having sex just like normal 1 to 2 times per week.
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Oct 20 2011, 01:01 PM
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72 posts Joined: Aug 2008 From: Klang, Selangor |
Ask your wife if she would be ok for threesome.
Thinking normal but every second thinking, something wrong bro |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:05 PM
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Oct 20 2011, 01:07 PM
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i can tell you are a very good man that you can last this stage, if u lose it you'll lose it forever and the guilt will be in your heart.
human nature is like that these thoughts "from media especially" will always give us tempting suggestions. may i know you have any religious belief? |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:07 PM
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Oct 20 2011, 01:08 PM
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Oct 20 2011, 01:11 PM
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yeah don't go to find hooker, imagine your wife go sleep with some random unker, and u find out? how? think not only between you two, think for your daughters also.
QUOTE(sfl @ Oct 20 2011, 01:08 PM) |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:13 PM
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Oct 20 2011, 01:14 PM
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QUOTE(paogiv3r @ Oct 20 2011, 01:07 PM) i can tell you are a very good man that you can last this stage, if u lose it you'll lose it forever and the guilt will be in your heart. Actually i'm buddha but sometimes go pray at temple only human nature is like that these thoughts "from media especially" will always give us tempting suggestions. may i know you have any religious belief? |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:19 PM
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sfl
Well you are not the only man having this problem. Its just pretty natural in my opinion. This actually also has to do with your wife also. We men always enjoy that girlfriend boyfriend relation rather than a wife who is always around. I have realized this when i had a girlfriend who i use to see couple times a week and also have sex. Life was good for both of us. We also use to miss each other cause we don't see each other. There was also excitement every time we see each other. But then i had another girl friend who after sometimes moved in. Now every thing changed. She is always around, always watching me. Not like i am doing something wrong or cheating on her but we all have to agree that we men do certain things that girls don't like and girls will let you know when they don't like something in 100 different ways. That we the first time i felt my freedom is being killed cause my girlfriend is always around. To help you, be open with your wife about sex. Buy her clothes which turns you on. Hope i helped |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:20 PM
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QUOTE(sfl @ Oct 20 2011, 12:53 PM) Hi all,just wanna share feeling in my heart for long time already... u sex with others you need to remember these facts: you have no idea other person sex history, maybe they infected and have STD also you don't know or maybe they know but won't tell you cause they themselves don't care infect you or not since not serious relationship. secondly sex with others even with wear domdom, STD still is transferable and you can still get infected. thirdly even sex already, they can cause u problem from blackmail or your friends or relatives find out through other associations with this other girl. very very messy and many big risk to take.Actually i am married 9 years ago n have 2 small girl.When i was young i really a shy guy n have no girl fren at all.Untill i reach 26 i meet my first girl fren n after 2 year we get married.After married we run a small business together untill now.I can said almost every second we been together.After married around 3 year i always thinking of having sex with other girl n i know this is a bad thinking but always appeared in my mind. Sometimes really hate my self for being bad thinking coz my wife treated me well,but after married untill now still haven done anything that hurt my wife,but always imagine only .Is that majority married man will think like this or just me?? If u guys have this experience before please share how to make it to the right way coz worry maybe i will hurt my wife if one day i loose control.TQ |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:20 PM
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Oct 20 2011, 01:20 PM
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try to keep ur mind clear by reading some books about healthy marriage.
Dont keep on thinking or running around this thoughts... Maybe u nvr have sex with other girls other than ur wife...most of the guys will feel gatal...and wonder how it tastes when have it with other girls... But wat i can tell u is...all girls are same...but only ONE is love who u r...and be with u for the rest of ur life. Think about the days when u from nothing to something...from pokkai till got lil bit of $$....think of ur two daughters...Imagine ur wife put her beautiful body into something else... carry 1 basketball size of 20KG for months...and suffer the pain... after give birth, her body out of shape..skin not elastic, gt cellulite, gt strech marks... U think for urself...how could possibly u do think of ways to hurt her? She doesnt born to being hurt or deserve to do things for u as ur wife or a mother of ur 2 kids...= = THINK TWICE |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:22 PM
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QUOTE(MaryWong @ Oct 20 2011, 01:20 PM) try to keep ur mind clear by reading some books about healthy marriage. THIS. Dont keep on thinking or running around this thoughts... Maybe u nvr have sex with other girls other than ur wife...most of the guys will feel gatal...and wonder how it tastes when have it with other girls... But wat i can tell u is...all girls are same...but only ONE is love who u r...and be with u for the rest of ur life. Think about the days when u from nothing to something...from pokkai till got lil bit of $$....think of ur two daughters...Imagine ur wife put her beautiful body into something else... carry 1 basketball size of 20KG for months...and suffer the pain... after give birth, her body out of shape..skin not elastic, gt cellulite, gt strech marks... U think for urself...how could possibly u do think of ways to hurt her? She doesnt born to being hurt or deserve to do things for u as ur wife or a mother of ur 2 kids...= = THINK TWICE |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:24 PM
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Better don't do it. Are you too free and rich?
So find some new hobby. |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:24 PM
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dude....since u have wife u why not let go ur feelings to her...why find hooker? u dont satisty with ur wife is it..? its a sin to betrayed ur wife, kids, & GOD.
before marriage sex different story. think wisely...parents sin will lead to youe children when their adult...u wanna see ur kids with your kind of behavior? if yes..pls go ahead. |
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Oct 20 2011, 01:31 PM
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QUOTE(MaryWong @ Oct 20 2011, 01:20 PM) try to keep ur mind clear by reading some books about healthy marriage. What u are saying really right,actually i have 2 best fren also find other women outside after married for few years,but 2 of then really regret what they done before.They told me the feeling really exciting but in the end feeling really not worth Dont keep on thinking or running around this thoughts... Maybe u nvr have sex with other girls other than ur wife...most of the guys will feel gatal...and wonder how it tastes when have it with other girls... But wat i can tell u is...all girls are same...but only ONE is love who u r...and be with u for the rest of ur life. Think about the days when u from nothing to something...from pokkai till got lil bit of $$....think of ur two daughters...Imagine ur wife put her beautiful body into something else... carry 1 basketball size of 20KG for months...and suffer the pain... after give birth, her body out of shape..skin not elastic, gt cellulite, gt strech marks... U think for urself...how could possibly u do think of ways to hurt her? She doesnt born to being hurt or deserve to do things for u as ur wife or a mother of ur 2 kids...= = THINK TWICE |
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