i don't understand why you took so long to realize it's a scam. You should have posted it 1 month after you trade with him cause it would have avoided other victims from falling into his trap. You might have the patience but if a trade take 1 month and still not complete yet definitely there is something wrong. No need to be nice and give seller so many chances. Posting here doesn't means he is 100% scammer. This thread is for sellers and buyers to talk it out and clear things up. Having being able to tag a suspicious seller could avoid a lot of other victims and this is the most important reason to post about a dispute here. Getting your money back is secondary. At least this is what I see.